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Lastborn0074:
Please I need honest suggestions. My wife has had several male platonic friends ever since we met. She became friends with others through me. I trusted her because she's a very sociable person, so I wasn't bothered because I know a lot of ladies that have male friends too. She's been open to me about them.

Recently, something happened. A close female friend of hers (also married) started keeping her at arm's length. My wife didn't know what the problem was until information got to her that this friend of hers was going about telling people that she could no longer be friends with her because she's sleeping around with men indiscriminately.

My wife confronted her with this information, for which she denied. But the informant, who was also invited, insisted that she actually said it. Before this time, my wife would always complain that each time she visits her friend, she would knock on the door but nobody would respond. This happened repeatedly until her tenant told my wife in confidence that his landlady was always around each time she visits.

Recently, I discovered that my wife was actually having amorous relationship with her male friends. I have access to her messeinger and I have seen those amorous chats. She would delete the ones that could implicate her. A male friend of hers even sent her adult videos and she told him to send more, that she was enjoying it. This man went further to send her his masturbation video.

I confronted my wife with these and what people told me, but she denied. After putting much pressure on her, she said she was about to do it, not that she actually did it. I asked her the reason and she said that it was because of the hardship we were facing. Since her business collapsed, it's been very difficult to survive with our four children. I'm the only one fending for the family. Even after confronting her, I discovered that she's still into the act.

Given the above scenario, what should I do? Please I want only healthy comments that will help me make my decision. Thanks.

There's no such thing as women having platonic male friends. In the words of Chris Rock, every friendly guy around your woman wants to get in her pants. These guys want to do hit and run on your woman.

Totilopussylick:
I live in Germany

The level of racism is alarming

Is only in Europe you'll know you are black

Go back home then.

godofuck231:
Coward

Nigeria is not a country worth dying for. You are free to go and serve your fatherland in Maiduguri.

So they can't install solar panels??

After all the praise and worship, some of those women will go on to suck married mrn's bulala with that same mouth. Bunch of hypocrite plonkers.

'Amodu Omale Salihu' Surely, his parents were having a laugh in his naming ceremony, lol!!

What's the deal with all these lazy young couples and housemaid? Unless you live in a huge mansion you should be able to look after your own home yourself.

Cheap c.um dumpster. They are not a wife material.

This is why Dna tests should be done as early as possible because these h0es ain't loyal.

Most Nigerians especially the Yorubas are very dirty.

Lack of proper City planning is the reason Lagos is a mess. No stable electricity, no sewage system, no fire hydrants, poor public transportation, ugly houses......

Aaronsrod:
This kids are not defenceless.

They are protected by their master Satan. He has sent them to do evil everywhere in Nigeria.

If a strange bird or an animal enters your compound will you not kill it? Talk less of a 'child' you have never seen before!

God punish wizards by my hand today and every day!

What a plonker you are.

This is why Nigeria is a cursed nation. Just look at how you treat defenseless kids....

I can't wait for this cursed nation to divide, let everyone go their own way.

Everything about this country is so depressing.

GreyLaw:
I don't want to believe Gov. Aberdour made this statement. Oga, let the security men do their job. Don't tell us they are from Mali, because we don't care! They are murderes. They should be arrested AND KILLED.

If they are from Mali how did they beat all the security apparatus in the country? Oga, abeg tell us another thing! We dey vex oo make we no turn am on top your head!

Naija no get any security apparatus.

That woman looks like extraterrestrial.

Artiiclebeast:
Abeg make una no listen to all these nonsense oh..

America na God's own country truly truly if you get the right info and know your way.

If na only the gun violence, I go manage am like that dey careful where I dey enter and the kind neighbourhood wey I go stay.

I start one thread for my profile like that to talk about this same issue.

Abeg, anybody wey get legit way to jakpa come America, you better take am oh...

Sweet and blessed country.

I dey come to write more..make I drive reach work first.

America is one cesspit of crazy people running around with guns. You are better off going to Canada or any of the Scandinavian countries. Easiest route is to go there as a student but very expensive. After your studies, you can start your path to citizenship...

You have to be a plonker to pay millions for luxury casing wrapped around a phone.

Religion has destroyed the rational thinking of Africans. The white man brought his religion to you and left with all your resources.

frowland:
@seun

I have shared this thoughts on several occasions. It's so crazy when I see post like this on fp.

Unfortunately, most Nigerians are uncivilised. That's the sad truth!

And you wonder why you guys are catching monkeypox. Na everything una dey chop.

OlamiDC:
That's just the truth.. letz us trying to caution ourselves about saying bad to other people's belief..
Respect individual differences..we all different and unique in our own ways.. without diversity life would be boring

4ck your beliefs if you get easily triggered. People make fun of Jesus all the time and you don't see Christians running around trying to blow them up.

BeeBeeOoh:
https://dailypost.ng/2022/05/17/deborah-samuel-caution-your-children-governor-el-rufai-warns-parents/

Why don't this he goat caution the evil muhammedians? Silly pig 4ckers!!

Yawn!!

Ademola47:
A student of The Polytechnic, Ibadan has died after taking sex enhancement drugs to have 11 rounds of Sex.

His partner is also in coma.

Photo speaks...

Another wasted he goat. His family must be so proud of him.

Opeyemic01:
I didn't cry, but I thought far, my thought was when will our leaders have a beautiful plan for us the citizen like the finland government has done?, just when? I am really sad, people in government will rather send their children there with our money, while they leave the rest of here

Unfortunately, it's not anytime soon. We have too many illiterates and religious zealots that are allowed to vote in Nigeria.

She's probably not enjoying it if you have to go 11 rounds. All these niqqas need to learn the art of a good forep1ay before sex.

TMSMedia:
https://igberetvnews.com/1420113/don-knack-tire-lady-shares-video-tired-boyfriend-marathon-sx-photos/

Look at the he goat.

Y'all praying for husbands after you've clocked up excess mileage.

Honestly, I give up on this sh!thole country with so many wicked vile evil people.

TheSourcerer:
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Never obsolete, lol!