₦airaland Forum

Life has taught me TO SERVE PEOPLE TAKES DIGNITY AND INTELLIGIENCE. but rem, they're only people with money, and although we serve them, WE ARE NOT THEIR SERVANTS.

Life has taught me that Sometimes we are forced in dierections we ought to have found ourselves.

Life has taught me WHAT WE DO, DOES NOT DEFINE WHO WE ARE...what defines us is HOW WELL WE RISE AFTER FALLING.

Life has taught me LIFE IS VANITY.

nicetohave:
the same way you do i guess

And who told u i am coping at all ? Just wanted her idea about it thats all !

Hotstepper:
Nigeria all da way.xmas in diz western world is just boring and like anyotehr day 2 me..maybe get 2geda with familyfriends or so.ah1 mide22222, your b/f is in Nigeria? r we in da same boat or what? lollll

If ur's is in Nigeria too then i guess we r. How do u cope ?

thanks a bunch............

theORAKU:
was just wondering what will happen when u and your BF are longer 2geda?

So, will your naira name change? It cud be any of the following:
mide2b4,
mide1,
1mide,
onlymide,
justmide,
just1mide,
mide2again( if u are lucky again )

heh heh heh. was just fooling around.

kind regards.

I'll keep the name to rem him........but i doubt if we will split cuz we will soon do the ''Till death do us part'' (march 2006). But u succeded in making me laugh my head out......cheers

It's true Nigerian graduates esp those in the field that deals with more practicals can be said to be underbaked........but we have what it takes...i can assure u of that. All we need is get into the right system and a little induction and wow...we are on top. But for the theoretical aspects........we are real,well baked, almost overbacked graduates. I can almost say affirmatively that no Student from the developed world can end up learning what we strive to learn if he is in the same condition. The problem in Nigeria isn't only abt graduates...it starts from lack of common social ammenities and engulfs every other thing u can think of. So don't blame Nigerian graduates......we would have been the best if not for wot our country has turned out to be. ( VOICE OF EXPERIENCE)

AIn''t No Mountain High Enough......by Marvin Gaye I love it

A guy tells me to go for a test b4 agreeing the baby is his........then sorry.....no further r/ship...just father and child r/ship..cos i will collect child support till i tire.......even if he quits job......na trouble.......cos later when the child is one good man...the father comes along claiming....so wots the essence of dying alone for the baby.

They r lucky if they get a contented guy with their weight. If not it's not the end of the world...alot can be done to trim down. I've seen a very good and encouraging example. My aunt(it was like a miracle)

nicetohave:
mide...hmm, na wa o , lawd have mercy on him

I know i sound..hmmm...but...u guys can be funny......they want gurls to always be at their beck and call.......so i'm really out on guys. Guys like their girls to be cute and they don't like girls to dictate how they want their guy to look.

If my partner knows i don't like him getting fat.i'll leave it to him to make decisions to trim down but if he doesn't.....then i'll make him

If he does his work with enthusiasm and obeys his master (i hope you're not trying to infer that men are masters over women) soon, he'll be a master of his own and would be in a position to train other appretices.


Crook on gurl.......i like that esp the part thats says '' He'll be a master of his own''  No one is destined to be an apprentice forever and also no human gender is destined to be domineering or dominated on.

Never say never......anything is possible. I think the question should be( IS IT GOOD OR ADVISABLE TO MARRY A POOR MAN ) defining the term poor. Cuz a poor man to u maynot be at all poor to me. OR maybe IS IT ADVISABLE TO MARRY A GUY THAT U ARE RICHER THAN.

The priority should be universal..i mean both partners should do the priotising. A stay at home dad isn't a bad idea, is it ? so both could priotize who babysits and who works. Cuz both parents shdn't be busy in the interest of their kids

I'm a wife thats right coz i'm the female partner, a mother cuz i have kids (not forgetting they've got a father too) and thet don't have to be rated as pry or sec.......and my career doesn't have to take a backseat. All goes along well. We are 2 in the show anyway (Equal 2 with equal responsibility)

Thank goodness it's a privilege.somepple talk as if once u'r a woman.u can't be what u like to be, except being a wife to someone and mother to kids.it's nice but u can be something else as well...like a bread winner in your family

I believe doing what makes u happy is the best. As for me, staying at home as a full time housewife is out of the option. While family biz is also not my dream. I have loved and will always love BEYONCE for her song INDEPENDENT WOMAN ! nothing can be compared to that. We can handle the house chores together. For crying out loud,It'sn't a crime being a woman..is it ?

SOULMATES are 1 in a million. It ain''t easy to get them. So i guess it's wiser to KEEP your soul within yourself rather than RISK IT and LOSE it.

I can see this forum is probably filled with older folks.so Sam; u'd better look else where before your big mummies and daddies and big sis and bros bury u alive.Cuz the tension your post has raised in the house is really serious. Check out Hi5 and stuffs like that. i'm sure it'll get u started. 

My BF can almost go to the loo and bathroom with his phones. But i don't take any offence because i still get to read most of his txts behind his back.(I'm too smart to kid with). I lock mine and he kinds of nag about it. Some girls txt him and i sometimes allow him see my txts from other guys by purposely leaving my phone lying around him and unlocked. He flirts around, i'll do the same. He keeps himself, i'll do the same. 50-50. Period. He knows the rules and the game isn't over yet. (nice game too, nice dude)