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IamR:
The title is so annoying; he is subtly putting the blame on his wife. Some men ehn!

Very ridiculous, and he even mentioned family planning which means they both agreed on it.

Now he scored a goal and its the babes fault

Blackmiserable:
Happy married life bro; my own is on the way.

He may be used to people making jibes at him for having one child...maybe he's sensitive about it and didn't grab that you were joking

Honestly you're right that most people feel under pressure to have at least 3 even if they prefer even 1 so your comment didn't seem bad to me..it looks strange in this country if you only have one child by choice or not

meobizy:
My friend, go and do menial labour. You’ll gain weight and eat like an animal.

That's a good point. Maybe he has an office job

ElasticStone:
Yea. Plus I am so picky about the type of food I eat and have poor appetite. Do u know of any treatment for poor appetite? I think this is the beginning of my problems.

Is it that you don't feel hungry or you get irritated if the food is not prepared in a particular way?

What's your best food? And when did the poor appetite start...

ElasticStone:
Thanks
No I am not. Just slightly below average (5ft,65".)

I know, but these things just don't seem to have any effect on me. Its like I always pass out 95% of what I eat

I am from the middle belt, but resident in Lag. They eat amala, fufu, ewedu, rice,...normal nigerian food.

Are there any indoor exercises I could do? Based on my schedule, I will definately not be consistent with gymning in a formal gymn.

Thanks for this. I am not really looking for muscles or anything. Just want to be chubbier so my suits could fit me well.

You're welcome

I understand that your body doesn't seem to accept the protein but are you taking enough of it? You mentioned that you mostly take junk food. Plus you need adequate rest

Lagos...at least you guys have a lot of beans dishes right? You'd try them with enough crayfish, well-seasoned fish and maybe some chicken if you can afford it . Ground crayfish is like natural protein powder

Yeah there's a lot you can do indoors. You can buy special weights and lift them when you have time and you can download weight-bearing exercise videos if you have the data. There's also a type of exercise called "Pilates", have you ever heard of it?

You're welcome, I understand...you want to build some bulk. It may still come naturally with age, but your best bet is diet and exercise

DSHADOWWALKER:
A 20yr old lady is not a young girl sir,at such age you are responsible for all your actions and decusions,maybe you can be deciding and making the decisions for your children throughout their entire lives,leave the Daniels and nwoko families alone!!

If you have failed to acknowledge the active part that Africans play in their children's lives, for better or worse, then we can't help each other

Going to become the 6th wife in this day and age just completely ridiculous and I'll never support it

If I did this my mum wouldn't come on national TV to defend me snatching somebody's husband from a long chain of snatchers

Empiree:
are they not dealing with it in their own way unlike your corruption from citizens to their leaders?.

Is the rest of the country free from this?

lies...dialogue my foot. It took BBC to expose this sexism on campus while nija journalists are themselves are culprits. If BBC didn't expose this shit journalists would not because the dude is a pastor.

now you can say religions have nothing to do with this?. But when your fellow clown (first comment) started talking down on Islam on this thread that is purely political, many of you support his trash. Go and study how CAN or religious Christian group influenced govt in 1974 to borrow 2 billion naira from IMF. That money borrowed is still being paid till this day on interest. The loan contributed to Nigerian economy woes. Also, obj( CHRISTIAN man) lured all Nigerian states to contribute 100 billion naira to build Abuja Central Church bcuz they wanted to compete with Abuja Central mosque which was built by donated money not state money. But the church was built at the expense of Nigeria GDP

Khayr Mubarak

They are not dealing with anything and you know it.. stop being obtuse

Lol, you are not serious. You said that the majority of randy lecturers are Christians; I replied that the north is full of crazy sex stories. Now you're asking me if the rest of the country is free from it; okay let me tell you again that you people are not free from it. Let's keep going around like that until you get tired.

I knew you wouldn't understand my next point but I mistakenly gave you the benefit of the doubt. I clearly said that religion has nothing or is equally culpable for our economic problems...meaning that both Christians and Muslims in government have ruined our economy...that was a neutral point because unlike you I know how to look at issues objectively instead of spewing hate-filled bile.

If we go back enough we will see how the constitution was rigged to favour you people even though the oil resources are found further south, then we all misused the wealth and that's actually the Genesis of our economic problems so no need to start mentioning CAN in this because northern Muslim oligarchies take the lions share of the blame

Crazy story

That idiot try to scold me yesterday for complaining about awkward pre-marriage pregnancies..now just look at it

You have to call him back and discuss with him, maybe he's getting cold feet

durojaiye105:
Do you think it’s possible to have a s...x with a virgin and you didn’t note any flow of blood or possibly sign if blood? My girlfriend claimed to be one, but unfortunately I couldn’t see a sign of blood after the intimate act with her. I was confused even till now. I asked her and she said she was bothered as well.

Not every virgin has a hymen

Some girls were born without them and some girls broke them accidentally during childhood eg. riding a bicycle on rough ground

So not every girl will bleed on their first time having sex

That bleeding of a thing has caused a lot of new brides around the world to be chased from their marital homes in disgrace...better leave your girlfriend alone

majamajic:
if u live in Enugu city , cheap food stuff, good food at restaurants,

Almost everybody I encounter from another state complains that Enugu people no sabi cook

I enjoyed the food there though but I hear a lot of complaints... wonder what the problem is

Their portion sizes can be a bit stingy sha

Empiree:
I weep for Nigeria with level of education they produce. I am sure you would say you are a graduate too. What a shame

I never said Iran is corruption free. I said it is far better than Nigeria because they PERSECUTE corrupt politicians but Nigeria doesn't. But difference. You citizens are part of the problems in Nigeria. The way you reason says it all.

And most sex addict lecturers are usually Christians. If they are not pastors they are church goers. The next thing citizens would say is corrupt politicians and lecturers should go for stupid deliverance when criminals should be in jail.

CHRISTIANITY wrecked Nigerian economy and moral values and legit scams Bbnaija comes to mind. I am sure engineers of the program are Christians and nonmuslims.

So the scourge of sexual harassment in Iran, you have nothing to say about it??

By the way northern Nigerian Islamic societies are besieged by rape, paedophilia and gender-based violence both at home and at school.

The reason you can open your mouth to boast here is because the Christian south is open to dialogue to expose and solve problems...not like northerners who will cover the whole thing up and pretend it's not happening

I guess you would call yourself a graduate when you can't even bring yourself to confront the facts

Christianity and Islam have nothing to do with or are even both equally culpable for the bad economy in this instance...once again you are showing your bigotry and ignorance...what a shame.... jumaa mubarak ya akhi....

Jakumo:
When I inquired as to the origin of that name

A great read, thank you

subtlemee:
Won't it pose health risk to those doing it manually? Nigerians with always cutting corners,I'm sure they are trying to cut cost

As in see that guy up to his neck in dirty water

ElasticStone:
Lol. I have been staying alone for quite some years now and barely cook. I eat alot of junks with low nutrients like bread, biscuit etc and once in a while i eat sold food from restaurants. Perhaps a partner with very good cooking skills as you've said might help.

This is your main problem.

In fact you're lucky you can maintain this shape with the trash you've been eating

You look good. Are you tall?

Hmm I don't see any reason to complain, you're just a slim-built person

Oh to add muscle mass you have to take more protein

Meat, fish, eggs, nuts, beans, wholemeal cereals, milk/yoghurt

What region of the country do you hail from? What kind of food do they eat there...

You'll increase your protein intake In combination with weight-bearing exercise

Ie lifting weights

On second thoughts You could probably do with some exercises to lift your pecs and make your shoulders a bit bigger. Check google/YouTube

Squats and leg lifts to build your thighs

And you also need to reduce stress and get good sleep. The effort you make won't work if your body is stressed

DSHADOWWALKER:
U are daft, who sells a 19years old(if she wasnt even older)?? The girl is old enough to make life decisions.That aside,is it ur sell?? ,is she your daughter?? Is ur surname Daniels

You are daft yourself if you don't understand that young girls are often manipulated and given bad advice by their elders.

yomeyome:
This is Ned's morrocan wife, isn't she prettier than Regina?

Lol Moroccan wife...this nwoko is mad

PoliticalWitch:
In 2011, a young and beautiful woman was killed in the UK. Her landlord fell under suspicion because he 'looked like the kind of person who would do such crimes'...and many newspapers ran with that. Fortunately, the Police eventually caught the real killer (a young , handsome man, who happened to be the victim's neighbour').

Of course, Oga landlord had a field day suing for libel in the courts (and winning handsomely I must add).

That case was too bad...they just ruined the poor man's life because he was introverted/a little strange

Meanwhile it was the PhD engineering candidate that committed the murder... nawa. People still don't even want to believe that he was the one

Pr0cter:
Let me school you. Not all asthma is hereditary. A severe cough in a child that is untreated properly during childhood can lead to a more severe case of asthma. Even exposure to dust, cold and extreme environments can lead to asthma. It all depends on the body mechanism of the individual.

Thank you! I dont know why someone would make such an uninformed and alarmist comment...maybe he was just trying to scare her

CyberEBOLA:
What i am sure about is that asthma is hereditary. Meaning your children are likely to be asthmatic.

They are not "likely" to be asthmatic. They have a higher chance of developing it, but its also determined by environmental factors

But we all know what that guy is trying to say na...some lawyers are bottomfeeders...that's just a fact

GoldHorse:
"This attitude of mine..." stuff is where the Africans are superior to the west. RESPECT OF ELDERS (AGE THINGS ).

That "African- age-respect" thing, the sense of community is greater than family, family greater than individuals that will make the Auntie Kemis scold a stranger's child (like we have then) and like she's trying to do now and people like you will say "People dont have the right to abuse you in public just because they are older than you" is a very important part of the African culture.
This is Africa my friend. We do "abuse" and scold "children" with love for the benefit of the whole.

This is what the white have lost but are craving for. Read many articles online in this. This "individualism" mentality is killing them and we are loosing it gradually in Africa too. THAT IS WHY WE HAVE SO MUCH OF THIS RISE IN SUICIDE because that emotional grooming from people like Auntie Kemi is now being attacked by PEOPLE LIKE YOU. Why do you think Nigeria are called the happiest people on earth despite the myriad of problems we have?

Oyinbo have 1 psychologist but Africans have hundreds! Your mom and dad, House helps, gateman, drivers, neighbors, the Auntie Kemis, etc are all our psychologists. If people like you kill that then we are done for because there are tons of things that can kill you here without those "psychologists" to pour your heart to.

Lastly I never said there is something wrong with Kiki speaking up. I was only against the rude way she did it.

God speed!

You have a point but the flipside of this argument is abusive and spiteful behaviour being disguised as "help" or "guidance" by unscrupulous people. Which is what I believe Kemi was doing.

Plus you shouldnt start me on what names and titles Nigerians are called all over the world...that is a different story. Our busybody mentality actually causes people to go against their true feelings and desires and make stupid mistakes just to avoid chastisement, which leads to high levels of hypocrisy. We need more of live and let live

Equally I dont think there's much wrong with cautioning someone but there's no need to do it in an insulting manner

Yeah! this is what we love to see gawa n'iru

Somebody sold their daughter and is using the bbc to salve their conscience...bbc is also using her to shine

Empiree:
when was the last time Nigeria PERSECUTED corrupt politicians?.

Go to Iran you will see politicians in jail. Can you tell us any politicians jailed in Nigeria?. This thread was about politics in iran but a CHRISTIAN idiot turned it into religious bullshit because your CAN has put so much hate and bigotry in your brain

Lol yimmu! even if theyre not in jail there is still corruption in iran so stop trying to ingratiate yourself with some Islamic utopia that doesnt exist

its actually muric that has messed up your own brain thats why you love defending rubbish

crismark:
U re joking baa??
He shuld donate all d wealth he got wen he was in d group to charity na.

i mean that he may have left in spite of the extra money he would have gotten if he was still in the group, just to give himself peace of mind

i said it..every year the same nonsense

megareal:
You know na. They should have left him the way he was. But serves him right sha. Who does astral traveling in a hotel? Especially one that needs you comatose for days?

Where do you people go when you do it?? how do they do it?

crackhouse:
English woman continue until u are served as well then your thinking go change. No be only myopic.

Lol English man, you wouldnt like it if somebody besmirched your name when you were innocent...try to keep an open mind... jumaa mubarak