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MeeztaFabulouz:
It is really terrible to feel suicidal all because of marriage. I use use to see different news of how people commit suicide because of relationships and I always felt it was so stupid to think of suicide just because of a fail relationship.

Now I have seen it all clear that depression is really very bad especially when you feel so depressed in a marriage you work so hard and do everything to protect and make your family happy. Its very painful when you know honestly inside your heart that you don't cheat on your wife, provide everything she wants for herself and the kids even when business is quite rough.

She has no conscience and no regard for our union and our home. I am a guy that don't think about looking at wife's phone or suspecting her for anything but then after our first child she changed completely and as of today I don't know were I stand anymore because of my kids. I opened a business for her just so that she won't be like a house wife but she has completely taken the business more important than the family and wake up 4am to start cooking and close 8pm at night. Stressing herself so much but always complaining business is not moving and she is not making any money.

I sponsor everything in the home though am not complaining because that's what a man should do, but she does not have regard for anything or appreciate anything I do. Can you imagine I give her money for feeding weekly even though she is running a food business, she buys few food stuffs in the house which can stay almost two weeks without us eating them because we basically feed from food she cooks in her restaurant. I decided not to bother myself and just give her money to always ensure her business is moving and at least food will not be a problem for us.

One faithful day, I decided to check her phone because I observed a certain strange behavior about her and how she likes to off her phone at night or sometimes when I am around. I saw different chats with some two guys she claimed one was her ex boyfriend that just likes to check on her once in a while, and the other guy was someone I remember like coming to eat in her restaurant but she said they went to school together and he is working with a construction company doing a building project close to her restaurant. She also claimed that when they were in school he was asking her out even till they fished school but she preferred her ex boyfriend to him and when she had issues with her ex that was when I came into her life.

If the story she told me is true or not, I wasn't really bothered anymore because I know its normal for a woman you met at 26 years to have met other guys before you and obviously still has guys that don't respect people's marriage and still do anything to sleep with a married woman. But my paid now is because I feel so respected by many of the things she does and when I think of divorce, I only feel for my kids who will now have to grow up with another man or having to visit their mum and see her with another man.

Recently I have become so depressed that I have been thinking of suicide so that my kids will know their dad is no more rather than knowing that their dad is still alive but can only be with either daddy or mummy and not as a complete family. My depression is getting worse especially when I think about all I have done for her and the kids just to always make them happy but in return, she doest appreciate or even have any regard anymore for what is called "FAMILY"

Over 7 years now and at this point I really feel suicidal. Please I really need help because I make this big mistake.

BENARI:
Ok Mr. Journalist. I'll tell you, I'm coming....

BENARI:
Get a job Brother. This is a product of idleness and next to zero productivity.
But just to add my one cent to your ridiculous question; your tribe is the most honest, especially people from your village. Happy now?

Janosky:
Did 1 John 5:19 say so ?
@ John 12:30-31,Did Jesus Christ say that?

why not copy and paste
John 12:30-31, 1John 5:19 & 1 John 2:15 make we see am for your post?
Sparrow wey know pass Jesus

Janosky:
Did 1 John 5:19 say so ?
@ John 12:30-31,Did Jesus Christ say that?

why not copy and paste
John 12:30-31, 1John 5:19 & 1 John 2:15 make we see am for your post?
Sparrow wey know pass Jesus

Antivirus92:
NONSENSE!
Always typing rubbish,,,,,
have u taken time to learn what we observed about u people too?

Mutemenot:
The Igbos says a stick does not pluck the eye of a sensible child twice. Another saying by the Igbos; it's only a foolish child that cultivates across his father's farm boundary .
So check well if you allowed a stick to pluck u twice or have cultivated beyond your father's farm land.

Janosky:
Continue DECEIVING yourselves with FALSE claims.
1 John 5:19 and John 12:30-31, "the ruler of this world will be cast out"

Sparrow wey know pass Jesus

KwaraRat:
Meanwhile , Abuja to Kaduna which is 300km distance costs 1k.
Lagos to Ibadan is 150km , half the distance but costs three times that of Abuja - Kaduna .

Techcrunchng:
That means being a coward is lucrative

LeeSantos:
I can't imagine myself going to any recreational centre in any northern part. before some suicide bomber come play basketball with us and be smiling. to me I just feel no place in the north is safe if those guy could even penetrate the FCT.

if they chose a particular location, they conquer and dominate before the military even start preparing to subdue.

it can be safe to live there to others but me it's a No No

Preciousgirl:
OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST IS THE ANCIENT OF DAYS!

Daniel 7:9-10

[9]“I watched till thrones were put in place, And the Ancient of Days was seated; His garment was white as snow, And the hair of His head was like pure wool. His throne was a fiery flame, Its wheels a burning fire;

[10]A fiery stream issued And came forth from before Him. A thousand thousands ministered to Him; Ten thousand times ten thousand stood before Him. The court was seated, And the books were opened.

NOTE IN VERSE 9: The Ancient of Days (Almighty God) was seated AND HIS HAIR WAS LIKE PURE WOOL. John the apostle (The One Jesus Loved) saw the Christ with same description (Hair like pure wool):

Revelation 1:13-14

[13]and in the midst of the seven lampstands One like the Son of Man, clothed with a garment down to the feet [/b]and girded about the chest with a golden band.

[14]His head and[b] hair were white like wool, as white as snow, and His eyes like a flame of fire
;

Halleluyah!

TheGiftedOne:
Many Bini women don break this record since. You no for know cos the airline is not commercialised neither is it registered...




Bini Airways

uptimum123:
Congrats to Gov Ganduje

Watch how bad belle people will come out to talk about how he's not worthy of the award forgetting he's better than their potopoto republic Governor's

TheRealProphet:
Happy new month Nlers.

I told my wife that I don't wish to have another baby, because 3 is okay by me, but she insisted that she wants another baby, she has been on my neck for the past few days because of this issue.

We have 3 (three) beautiful babies already - 2 boys and a girl, which is ok for me. I ain't financially strong, and I don't want to bring any child into this world to suffer.

married and matured folks please help me out. Thanks