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Every woman is a cheater. None is faithful. I pity men in relationship.

I can't feel for you, you know why?
It is because condom is cheap.

The bae wants to cripple your life that's why she's keeping that bastard.

Op how are you sure that you are responsible for that pregnancy?

Don't trust evry word that comes out from a being that cannot close legs while urinating oo.

I've never taken African feminists serious.
They are frustrated s€X starved confusionists

generationz:
Dear mimi just read through your posts. Sorry about the death of your dad. It's quite unfortunate that the world is the way it is today. However I want to let you that the issue of betrayal and people using others for their selfish needs isn't really a gender based issue. If you doubt me ,look up the countless stories on google about many men who left their wives and kids for other women ,used their girlfriends for rituals ,impregnated a lady and ran away and so on. You wouldnt tell me that the numerous news headlines we see from day to day about internet love fraud aren't done by 90% guys.
The issue of selfishness and self-centeredness isn't a Nigerian issue either.
The bible says in Mathew 24 vs 12 that Because lawlessness will multiply, the love of many will grow cold.
Also in 2timothy 3 vs 2 ,Paul For people will love only themselves and their money. They will be boastful and proud, scoffing at God, disobedient to their parents, and ungrateful. They will consider nothing sacred.

So you see its a general issue that shows the reign of the evil one is increasing.
The worst thing you can do to yourself is to pit 100% trust in man.
During the time of Adams perfection, man had a very close and intimate love relationship with the most high ,but the fall severed mans commitment to God. Ever since then, man has been looking for a personality to get that unconditional love . however in our imperfection ,we have neither been able to give unconditional love nor receive it from anyone.

The good news my friend is Jesus came into the world to show us the level of love we lost when Adam sinned.
The bible says greater love hath no man than a should laydown his life for his friends john 15vs. 13

Jesus loves you Mimi. You have no idea how much he does and he is right around the corner inviting you to have fellowship with him.

My life turned around the day I began to get acquainted with Jesus through the bible (gods word ) and the Holyspirit . yes the holy spirit is a person,the third person of the trinity and the spirit of God. He is the life giving spirit. When you accept Jesus as your saviour ,he comes to fellowship with you .He. Has the answers to every question you might have .he knows you more than you know yourself and understands the pains you have been through. He is willing to help you get over the pains and have a new life if only you can give him a chance. You can then have a new life in Christ overcoming your past pains and shame.

Jesus loves you and would love to be your best friend. He created you so he understands you and wants to heal you.
Do you know that the more you develop a relationship with him ,he can even tell you who is going to be a good and bad part of your life to avoid hearbreak .


Please for now avoid , relationships ,first build a relationship with your creator before building one with a woman. That is the problem of mankind, the first relationship was first God and Adam before Adam and eve .but we seek to first pour our love on the opposite sex before we do for the creator.
The truth is only God can teach us love because GOD IS LOVE . even the most well intentioned humans dont truly know what love is apart from God .
Love is a great and powerful creator who can do all things ,be all things and is all things continuously and for over 6000 years running after a spec of dust (you and I ) jus to bring us back to fellowship with him and deliver us from the bondage of wickedness.


Mimi, if you are interested ,I can show how you can develop an everlasting fellowship with the holyspirit and be transformed from an ordinary man to a new creature.
Love you.

Thanks a billion for your words of encouragement.

That part you wanna lead me to hmmm!
To be honest I gave up on religions years back.

Don't get me wrong. I believe in God o.

The best is to marry an orphan..

onyekabe:
she claims that her ex is violent and a womanizer

women always playin the victim card since 15BC.

And for the ex to leave the kids with her shows those kids do not belong to her ex.

If she was that good, why was she divorce?

blackaxe78:
Give example, Oprah Winfrey?

Mother Teresa

After 5yrs, come back here and tell us how far!
A true color of a woman is revealed the moment she is married.
Most men said the lady the got married to isn't the same lady they were dating.

franchasng:
I know a lot of guys doing well financially who don't desire to marry but having kids, they so wish they could have their own kids right away, but hearing your own case; u don't want to get married and u don't want to have kids, ah that's not okay.

Bro kids are so lovely; whenever I see cute 2 - 5yr old kids I just wish to have one , so I am shocked u don't feel same.

But then reading through your post, I noticed that why u feel this way is due to financial handicap. Trust me, once u start earning good steady income, your mindset will change especially about having kids.

As for getting married, many guys of today are loosing interest in getting married sha, God will help us.

But bros money no be all o, loneliness can kill....I am not rich but by Gods grace I am doing okay but I live alone in a somewhat spacious apartment, I have basic things of life every young man dream of but guess what Loneliness wan finish me, kai....all siblings are on their own, no relative to visit or stay with me, most true close friends are either out of the country, married or far away.

Sometimes I sit at my sitting room without putting on any electronics as I keep wondering what life is all about.

I pray God continue to hold me so I don't lose my sanity one day due to loneliness.

Morning - 5pm is usually sweet for me, but once I set my foot into my apartment, everywhere is dry empty, no noise, nobody to talk to, nobody to welcome u, jeez...its scary. If its this scary at my young age, imagine if I was old and approaching say 70yrs and this lonely, mhen no matter how rich u are, u may commit suicide.

So my brother op, think again o....giving birth is very vital and getting married is also good for company and friendship and having steady person to talk to when bored.

Mhen life is vanity; some have money but no friends or company, some have good company but no money while some lack both....and some are sick but have plenty money, others are healthy but so poor, sighs

If not for internet and social media platforms and forums like this eh, we would have been hearing of so many suicide stories for no justifiable reason but loneliness

kids are so cute and lovely.
When they grow up will they still be cute and lovely?

Anybody having kids for fear of old age is making a bigger mistake.
Making kids isn't an assurance dat those kids will look after u at old age.

Recently a naija celeb called out two twins who abandoned their mom to die.
A mom had twins dat are doing so well yet she lived a loner and died like a church rat.

If u plan ur life well, u will be fine at old age.

blackaxe78:
Bro, when you 60years old, come back here and give a testimony

y are most of y'all concern abt old age?

Haven't u seen people u have millions of kids who are well to do yet at old age they look like someone u dosn't have kids?

It is not assurance that all ur kids would look after u at old age.
They will abandon u if they want to or if they have bad wivies and there's noting u will do.

If u plan ur life well, with or without kids u can be fine at old age.

mhd5757:
Hey nairalanders, what do you think? Is this normal? Marriage doesn't appeal to me at all same as having kids, I prefer having dogs even now i have 2 of them and as soon as I get a job and make enough money I plan on getting 3 more making them 5 in number. I know most people, the first thing they want to do as soon as they get a job is to get married and have kids but not me, I'm also not interested in having a girlfriend, though I used to have one back then when I was in the university but we were forced to leave each other being that she had to go back to her country and I had to come back to Nigeria.
After that I got another girl here in Nigeria, but I had to leave her because she was too expensive and she was draining me financially. After that, I just lost interest in relationships and I decided to be single, I decided that even if I feel the need to lay with a woman I can just go to an ashawo hotel or get a steady woman who I can be calling any time I need company. I think this is the lifestyle that suits me especially in this harsh economy, its easier for me. If I get married and have kids imagine all the money I'm going to have to be spending, excess groceries, all kinds of bills, school fees and the list goes on.
At least having a steady woman to call like maybe once a week can't be as expensive as getting married and supporting a wife.
Also having dogs can't be as expensive as raising kids, with dogs all I need to do is to buy their feed, their grooming products and pay for their medical bills and probably training fees too but with kids and a wife imagine all the bills, the lists keep compiling and they never end.
What is your take on this? What do you think?

It is very normal not to marry or have kids. A lot of men are in this boat. I am in the same boat too.

Marriage is an institution programed to favor women.
Kids too are just a bunch of unecessary responsibilities.

I see people have more than two kids and am like wtf is this?

80% of the kids won't even know u when the grow up to become something in life.

That's when their ediotic wivies and girlfriends will tell them their dad is a wizard flee from him..

I came to the world to make a name and not to make kids

Marriage generally not skewed in
women’s favor?

Oh that's a nice lie.


I can list more than 20 tins a woman stands to benefit in marriage but Apart from legit children I can't see what a man benefits from marriage..

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Its all good, she wrote an epistle which I think you should chill and read.

I read. Silence is the best answer not violence. I just got banned from my main moniker. I just reread what she wrote, she gives good brains..

Good afternoon!

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I won't tolerate that kinda talk from a lady.

Don't take it wrong..

What's Nigerian weather like?

So did u her butt raped in prison

Hmmmm to your future plans ....

1. Honestly you aren't stable enough to adopt and raise a child... U will mess him up by imposing your views on him . You will deprive him of a woman's love which is irreplaceable

2. Lol uh u can't legally marry yourself... Just be single

3. Yeah definitely would get degree ...

4. Honestly no such please would run without women... That's sexist and against labour law. Plus women a better caregivers than men ...in most cases

5. Ok... You will loose potential artists... Women are more marketable as artists...

Just face it... You need us women... Like it or not

How old are you?

Thai weather is like normal Nig weather na. Not too hot not too cool. Rains!

I'm 28yrs. Am no kid. Am already set in my ways..

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Come I hope you didn't just refer to me as a pain in the ass o

U were. But u aren't no more. We cool.

MrBrownJay1:
NOOOOO, i am saying that anyone can be happy by themselves, but any smart man knows that you will be HAPPIER with a good woman by your side.

here is a clue: a good woman will A) be here to comfort you when you are down B) bring you up when you are down C) be there FOR/WITH you to share your burden and alleviate your sorrow D) put a smile on your face when you have nothing to smile about E) bring warmth in your heart when you are dead cold... now remember, you dont have to be married to this woman, but you sure should have one of this type of womanby your side in life, because guess what? thats the only one that would be able to let you attain the BETTER version of yourself.... because sadly, alone you can NEVER achieve that.

Where can we find this good woman? Because this kind of woman can't be found in Africa.

Even the Devil does not know where women sharpen their knives

gbenyi:
About three decades ago, after having a swell time on a date with someone of opposite gender, it was customary for the server to place the bill directly in front of the man. Today, times have changed as have customs and traditions. The server places the bill in the middle, making a 50 50 chance or an equal probable split. This, however, may lead to the first disagreement of the evening.

Some argue that it is kind of customary for the man to pick up the bill, but this really should be a personal opinion thing and everyone is entitled to one. From the first perspective, lately women have been trying to establish themselves to be equal to men in all spheres of life; especially in pay, the kitchen and the other room. So why not on this one?

I would like to know specifically the opinion of feminists on this one.

WHO SHOULD PAY THE BILL ON A FIRST DATE?

https://chofam.com/2018/06/who-should-pay-the-bill-on-a-first-date-guy-or-lady/

According to Association Of Nigerian Women Mentality..

The man should pay the bill.

No Nigerian girl truly loves a guy.. Relationship now is just a business. There's no love in relationship anymore.

kestolove95:
Wen 7 was killed I was happy...never feel for police, dem wicked

Your future son is definitely going to be a police officer.

Watch what you saying..


S.I.P to the dead

Juliet is not a Nigerian.

Nigerian women are all prostitutes with zero IQs. Always looking for an opportunity to sell their bodies.

This is not patriotism this is stupidity at its peak..

Nigerian ladies always havin reasons to go nak.ed. Very useless set of creatures.

Irunnobo:
Most men from southern part of Nigeria has small dicks and are unable to satisfy ladies. It's a shame northerners parade huge and satisfactory dicks than their counterparts from the south. This is why many women are relying on diildos and becoming lesbians. Shame on you guys from the south who thinks money alone can buy the heart of women. You people should improve your sexual lives or risk loosing out on Nigerian women

All what a Nigerian lady thinks and care about is sex. Very useless beings. You need a big d!ck.

What can you offer the big d!ck aside your smelly borehole?

Ediots called naija babes wont stop amazing me with their dead brains..

BiafranBushBoy:
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Op add prostitution to ur list an average olosho in Nig makes not less dan N30k in a day.

If Messi doesn't recognize this girl. God go punish ham

Ijaya123:
You might as well wonder if fish will continue to live inside water.

Who the F is he? I will chose Musa over CR7 any day any time

PalmchatApp:
Genevieve Nnaji Sends Out Heartfelt Condolence wishes to Dbanj and Family over the loss of their only little boy.

Following the death of Dbanj's 13 months old son, Daniel the third, Many celebrities like Toyin Abraham, Adesua Etomi, BankyW, Wande coal, Dr Sid, Omawunmi, Davido have gone to their Instagram accounts to drop condolence messages.

The little boy drowned in their home swimming pool this weekend while his father was out of the country. It is said that the mother left him with some adults that she expects to be able to take car of him. Unknowingly to her, the little boy already found his way into the pool. By the time he was rushed to the clinic, he was already confirmed dead.

This is really a sad time for Dbanj and his family. I pray God gives them the fortitude to bear the great loss. This is one thing nobody prays to ever experience.

source: http://aftrending.com/genevieve-nnaji-sends-out-heartfelt-condolence-wishes-to-dbanj-and-family/

I will chose Genevieve Nnaji over Linda Ikeji a million time.

What is the wood and the clothe on the wood for? What does it represent?