₦airaland Forum

@RuuDie

Oh! Married people do not need space abi? Like husband and wife should be siamese twins! Sorry oh! I have all girls outing and the hubby has his own guys only outing! That is what I call "space"! Come suffocate man pikin in the name of marriage!

Biko nu!  Which job kwanu?

With all the over 200 some parties in Nigeria, what is one more? I say bring em on jare!

Talk to the principal and then demand to schedule a Parent to Parent meeting with the other child's parents to let the principal know that you are serious.  No need for violence!  If it happens again---call the PoPo to file an official complaint against the bully and parents! Thank God this is not Nigeria where "vandalism" and assault are glorified!

Siena:
Not for me. They're no less people than anyone else, just doesn't appeal to me, especially if the marks are the huge noughts and crosses type.

he he he he he he! laff wan finish me! You mean the "Akintola" type?

luxoire:
@Militia
Engaged or not, if he want to leave your ass, he will still do it oh, engagement doesnt hold anything, he will ust say the engagement is off, lol

True! That is why I used it as an example.  It must be an extreme case for me to support co-habitation.  Why would I want to commute myself a longer jail sentence with a guy that I will probably see all my life?  He can't be that cute!  I said I love my space!

RuuDie:
Co-habitation wouldn't be a probs, all it needs to work-out is the right person and you ain't even g'onna be bothered about "your space"!

I feel I am married to the right person and have the right kids! I still need my space!

Please before you say anything on this political section of NL, you must provide evidence! Or it is just gossip!

zignor:
@millitia
how old are you dear? just asking

Much older than you honey!  So do not even go there with your Ribadu!   Like you sound more mature or something? Shio!

zignor:
I didn't see any reason why Ribadu should be removed as EFCC boss, because the man is working hard. those people clarmouring for his removal are those corrupt politicians who will continue to loot our tressurey.

That is your opinion! Can someone else voice his or hers without your "maturity level"?

Oh girl please jump at the chance oh!  Your are not so young at 30 yourself.  This man is stable and has a lot of experience with oyinbo licking and sucking!  Besides the love will come later.  If you feel anything for him, just try oh!  Comot for that Naija I beg you.  By the time your yahoo boyfriend finishes with you in Naija, you will be looking for fertility doctors.  Please concentrate on this guy who is ready to settle down. Use your head please!

Sorry oh!  I thought the bobo lived in Abuja! Same advice applies!  If you are not happy, please free yourselves from the mystery.  Just give him his "papers''  first, then he will be happy to let you go!  I am sure one Naija babe is waiting around Ireland there to inherit him! I am sure you do not have to spend money to go to Abuja to get a divorce. As long as you have you marriage certificate, you can divorce him in Ireland. Please leave before one of you kills the other for feeling trapped!

luxoire:
@ militia, about those people, they sha annoy me, its almost like they have been brainwahsed, and what anoys me most, is i am all but certain that all of those preaching with the banner of GOD have acted in exactly the opposite manner to what they are preaching

Look, I wish it was possible to use rat poison over the cyber airways! These group of people are more irritating than nail fungus! Spits!

luxoire:
@Militia

i can see, but surely before u live with that person u would have been living your life independently before that, wouldnt u?, i mean its more a step of getting to know each other, ok, what about those that realise only after marriage that though they might love each other, they just can not live in same circumstances! e.g an obessively clean guy with a dirty girl, who refuses/can not be changed!

Oh sure!  But we must be engaged for us to live together oh!  In case you break up, you get tired of moving your things in and out of his or your apartment due to contamination and bad memories! I like the sound of my own keys to my house and car as they jingle in my pocket!  I can know the guy from a distance.  We can spend some weekends together or travel together to neutral places.  There are a lot of things you find out after marriage as people grow and change with time.  You just roll with the punches till------------------------something gatta give! Independence is good before marriage! Especially for females--so you do not put up with abuse when it decides to show up!

You mean between an intelligent Ijebu Lagbaja masquerade wife material and a simple-minded Calabar dumbo itibolibo plaything material?!   Abeg I dey joke oh!   Make una no gun me down oh!  I was just using ideas from the topics posted previously from you Nairalanders!   I am only trying to provide some concrete pictures for Nairaland guys to chose from! Just to limit their confusion!

@Topic
Neither right nor wrong!  But a matter of preference.  I choose to live by alone please because I like my space.  I lived with me husband for 6 months before we got married only because of circumstances beyond our control.  I had to let him to live with me because we had decided to get married and he was going back to school, quit his job and get rid of his apartment---due to limited finances.  If not, I would have waited till we got married first. I do not support living together with just a waka pass "boyfriend" or "girlfriend'!  No respect with that type of arrangement.   Everyone should have some degree of independence before coming together!  So it is a matter of preference!

luxoire:
please, i don't want to hear all those bible studiers/hypocrites, come in here and tell me it is wrong by GOD, i'm sure most in here will agree it is religiously wrong to co-habitate, (now that we have established that), what i want to know is YOUR PERCEPTION/OPINION on the subject!, would u consider it?
if u don't have an opinion, waka je-je

OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOH! Just touch a raw nerve! Thanks for warding off those "grace of God" and ask for "his grace" irritating nitwits! I really wish I could do something about them!

Migosh, she is only 10! I can't imagine it! How? Defininitely not on her own volition! But for response sake---if she turns out to be on that path, all I have to do is explain the consequences to her and let her deal with it! I do not believe in "beating" or "spanking"! Just take her to the maternity ward or Clinic of STDs with pictures to show what might happen to her little arse! If all else fails---some serious birth control implants! By God--I will have to leave her father out of this as long as possible because it means her instant death!

Please save your fingers! The dude is a "warfarian"!

henro2007:
Well, D'u  call the arrest of Former Police Boss, Tafa a noise? Attempt to arrest and prosecute Former Gov. Dariye a noise? Attempt to bring to book Former vice-president Atiku, which was later vindicated by indictment of A US congressman Jefferson a noise?  D'u call attempt to bring to Justice Governors who laundered Nigeria Money abroad and left their state accounts in deficit a Noise?  Brother, I don't think so, Let's support that young man he's doing a great job!|

Thank you very much oh!  I am happy you confessed that there were a lot of attempts  with no serious cases! -----after 8 years you can only mention Tafa!  As for Tafa the Thief, please give me a break!  Like Tafa was the worst thing in Nigeria then!

Please we do not need people with "attempts" on their resume or portfolios!  We need people who can actually[b] perform [/b] and not "attempt" to perform!  Rubbish!  What a waste of resources!

angel101:
Denex i think u are the one who is more interested in intrigues. y don't u also ask us to form our own govt? afterall i provide myself security, power, water, road, education, health etc and still i am expected to pay tenement rate (equal to council tax) income tax and business tax!
and yet people can fret away national resources and u say i am looking for intrigues. did u crirticize IBB for the parties he had for his childrens weddings? closing a whole airport for their use?
I think u have totally lost the plot!

Don't you know that denex is the "Esama" of  Tinapa?  One of those privileged bourgeois in the south south that is sitting pretty with several off shore accounts in Dubai and Saudi!  Our problems as Nigerian masses do not concern him------yet!  But like I always say ---- E GO REACH EVERY BODY TURN!

You know now! According to you, "the time is now"! Otherwise we will lose all current evidence oh! Each day that goes by the evidence gets harder to produce for "lack of memory"!

@Topic

Please leave IBB alone oh! We have bigger problems than him right now. As you all know----"evidence" is everything in Nigeria and to Nairalandaires! No evidence against IBB so leave him alone! Make una wait for evidence oh! Evidence lovers!

Can we skip IBB and focus on how OBJ is squandering the $45-$50 billion dollars in the external reserves? We lost the chance to probe IBB since we do not have "evidence" as most of you like to call for! I say bring in Atiku for more testimony please before his houses and offices are burned down and then we lose all the evidence!

Who cares? What did the hooked nosed wishy-washy Ribadu do anyway? Maybe someone else might take the job more seriously so might not be a bad move afterall! The Mallam Nuhu was all noise and not action! I say good riddance!

Please go to the religious section for "moral undertones"! ---nods head!

2dye4:
the ungodly union of a bastard and a LovePeddler= ralphorb! idiot

2dye4:
Alot of women dey go hell fire o!

Sighs!  That na why i hate to go church!  



@Topic
You are from "Warfi" area abi? Not surprised at all! But you prefer ankara wrapper without dross under? Huh!

For Nairaland ------------------

Please include the prostitutes and give us a total "head" count abeg! RECALCULATE OH!

Mo ti gba gbe sha oh!