₦airaland Forum

@all_smiles and Nicer.
Men like you will encourage or drive your wives into other men's arms!  Instead of looking at alternatives for the poster's husband to take care of his family, you want the poster to leave her matrimonial home "temporarily" to go to another state to look for work.  Like that work will take care of the whole family of 5 for that matter.  Have you thought of the cost of living in 2 states? What about transportation of shutttling between Abuja and Lagos?  All the money the poor woman will make will be squandered in living in 2 homes and travelling from Abuja to Lagos.  To make matters worse the family is not together.  Is the wahala worth it?

I may not trust myself or may have a "feeble" sense of reality as you call it, but I know what I want in my life!  God made me a mother first and foremost.  That is my number one job!  So the poster should examine her priorities and she is free to do whatever she wants.  I thought you guys said men are the heads of the household?  Now is the time to prove it and you are talking rubbish here.  Make women go do ashewo for una, so una go fit eat?  Una dey craze! Everybody get where dey pain am!  


@Poster
One month has almost come and gone oh!  Please give us feedback oh!  Did you go to Lagos or did your husband get another job to help his business?

davidylan:
Dont worry, our black boys and girls are doing a good job.

Yes oh! In the welfare and medicaid department wacking all my hard earned money in taxes! I hear you!

More whams to you degoat! Please keep the "reality checks" coming!

davidylan:
If Nigeria were on the US border they would have built a wall to disgrace the great wall of china. Yeye people!

I[b] say deport the illegal immigrants! [/b]

Easy oh! Who will do all the work in the farms and meat factories! Please I am not ready to go back to Wendy's or Burger King oh!

degoat:
I wouldn't blame Umaru at this point because it takes time, honesty and intelligence to cleanup the mess Mr EFCC and his father have created. I still think something special will happen very soon. It is not fair for all these criminals to loot the states treasuries for personal use and still walk around the country freely, they must pay.

Don't blame Nuhu (he did not understand the game) or Umaru (he is still a new kid on the block), blame our former president (he is the root to all corruption that took place between 1999 to 2007).

Amen! It must be my lucky night! Don't have to think or write much tonight! My brother, you said it all! Nothing to add, nothing to subract! GBAM! Right on the money honey!

WesleyanA:
"why do Nagerians girls not participating in politics talks"

look at this sentence and talk about irony.

LOL!   Na wah oh! The grammar in the topic is enough to cripple PHCH world wide!



@WeslayanA
Good Observation! How could we all have missed that till now?

@topic

Don't you watch Nigerian movies?  When big business men like Clem Ohameze and Charles Okafor lose their "big" businesses in "the city",   where do they go to rest for a while till things pick back up?    "THE VILLAGE" of course! He he he he he!  My dear, pack to the village and go and pound some "fufu" for your husband and kids and let go of the ice cream for a while!

Or play visa lottery and pray to win so you can escape that "African Jungle" called Nigeria!  If you have no future in Nigeria, you better plan to bail out like many of us did for this same type of problems!  Nigerian businesses do not always last.  You are a big "businessman" today, then a poor molue driver tomorrow. Nothing is predictable in Nigeria due to many factors beyond our control.  Oh girl, that is why I ran away oh after my youth service.  I like to "shag" but for money oh!--- Na for pleasure only!  

When it gets to the point where you have to step into your husband's shoes, then you are very close to opening up opportunities for some "high tech" ashewo work!  You trust Nigerian male "bosses" now!  NO SHAKING! Most of us must sleep around for "promotion" and "contracts"! Some useless husbands will gladly welcome the money you have made from your "runs" without shame! Nigeria can be a miserable place to live when you are broke and I understand that.  So my dear, before you sell your soul to the devil, sell everthing you have and go to you village to farm!

ryu11:
Haba, is this thread still on

I wonder why this dry thread is still on!  I was curious oh!  But the same dry mess is still on.

@Jenny2007 and Ifeniyi22
Please do not mention my screen name on this dry topic!  I dash una! You both need to take some powerful laxatives so you can purge yourselves of the "BAD BELLE" syndrome caused by[b] MILITIA! [/b]


@Topic
PLEASE GET A LIFE! So you can free these jobless Nairalanders! HABA!

@Celemel and Obong!

I beg leave me oh! I have abandoned this project like your "Misplaced Project" Tinapa! So carry go oh!

So Sowwwwwwwwwwy!  Goodbye Tony  "Ewu" Blairrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!

somebody:
MILITIA does not sound like a married woman of three children, she sounds like a market woman. When your children don't have food to eat or are embarassed at school because of school fees, try sitting down and waiting to find a job in a location that suits you, rubbish!

Thank you oh LADY! !  According to Fela -- singing-----she go say eee, she go say she be lady oh!  ------ she go say market woman na woman!  Market woman no be woman? My dear just advice you fellow woman to go do some "runs" in Lagos, in the guise of getting some "shit " job! Like I said, the poster will be back on Nairaland to get more advice from clowns like you!  See  your mouth!  Working class lady!  Lagos Ashewo in the making!   I go work for bank oh!   

At least I agree I am a market woman! You sound like a retired "RUNS GIRL" without customers!

Igbo guys of course! Wham! Wham! Wham! Lots of smoochies to y'alls way! So much joy you guys have brought into my life!

ono:
And just as we have some bad eggs in other societies in Nigeria - like the agberos and area boys in Lagos, who go about pilfering with impunity and dispossessing people of their belongings, and also the bakassi boys at Onitsha and other Igbo areas, so are these miscreants in the Delta. They are social misfits and should be treated as such. We have even requested that the FG draft their men to the area to quell their activities. What else do you want us to do beside all these. Why should you guys hold us (the entire Niger Delta) to ransome because some of them wants Alams released? It's not an unusual thing to have kingpins amongst thieves.

Because Nigeria is a lawless society!

E don happen!

@tng

Okay oh! No be fight like you say. I don rest since I sleep well well!

Then let them all move to Lagos! Next time the poster will plan better by always working. Anything can happen as in this case. Now she has to explain to her poor sons why they cannot have common "ice cream"! Na wa for Nigeria oh! It is really terrible. Anyway God will show her the way! But like I said, do not be surprised if one housegirl carry belle for ya husband before you come back from Lagos!

JazzyPhizzle:
The pregnant one is a good person too. Can't take that away. If I were to be disloyal to my girlfriend to the end, I would stay with her.

What was that   Please explain the above statement.   Abortion ke?  Please like I said before, please to not attempt to terminate both mother and child oh!   You did not answer my question.  WHOM DO YOU LOVE MORE? Haba!  Simple question!