₦airaland Forum

@Topic

Why don't you get off your butt and put in some work hours yourself to help him out----that is if you are not working oh!  If you are working too, then I take that back and I think you have some serious issues!  I cannot imagine that I have a man who is married to his work!  Oh girl---------- na trouble be that oh!  Especially with all these telephone numbers of the "ex-boyfriends" who live within and outside city limits or around the block, that make very good counselors he he he he!

@Topic

Na wah oh!  Has it got to this stage?   Internet romance ke!   May God help us! I will jump from one Naija party to another every weekend or attend every Naija wedding every Saturday of my life to catch "man" before I consider internet! Shoooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!

@Topic
Im no be Naija man?  I beg no vex!  Na so God create them!

he he he he he!  Our God is a miracle working God!  singing---He's the alpha and the Omega----He's a miracle working God! he he he he he!  I dey laff! Just keep fastin' and  prayin' like Paul and Silas for Bible!  The Holy Ghost will soon come down for both of you!

@Topic!
scratches head Sex must be great!

What about lots of "bush"?! You guys no like that one?

@Ikomi
Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!   We will not kill you because you have hit the nail on the head!  Most are still looking for--------- "Mr. Right"!  So they have to be in the "romance and sexuality or family " topics!  When thy have crossed that bridge, then they can come over here to mingle!  I hear you bro!

@Topic

Very good write-up! Please with all these given qualities, why do some men still patronize prostitutes? They have all the said qualities at home but will still "waka" outside!

osereka:
macdoe ,
     thank u o jare. but the main fact that your child insult u, means that u the father need some adjustment. u need to train your child about the word of God, about respect to elders and so on. beating the child is never the solution. there are better ways in which u can correct an erring child.

Well said!  Where I live, spanking is out of the question!  I do not believe in that anyway!  When your child starts to insult you, there is some major issues going on that need to be addressed oh!  I believe in communication not spanking!  Violence never solves anything!  The child only becomes an "agbero", fighting in public, becoming a bully or maybe a wife/husband beater in the future!  Just talk to him or her and use rewards and non-coporal purnishment.  Let him or her know how much it hurt you and explain the consequences of such actions and back them up!

Some parents are absent most of the time and their children raised by househelps and babysitters!  What do you expect?  Other parents are so lazy with parental skills that they will reward such behaviours with gifts and all priviledges so the child does not know right from wrong! It all boils down to upbringing!

That will teach you guys to keep your "arses" in one place! Long hissssssssssssssssssssssssss!

@cooljade!

As you can see, most people here are not married, never had any responsibilty in their lives, still live with their parents or roommates--- and they are talking to the left and to the right?  They probably have never even been anywhere near a dentist to extract a tooth not to talk of a maternity room to push out one child! I dey laff! he he he!  I have 3 kids-----my most prized possessions in this world----- like you and I know what it takes to get them ready for various activities during the day and even at night!   You want to consider leaving 3 children with your husband to raise  while you are doing some job in Lagos of all places!---The center and major headquarters of moral decadence!  

I guess with a "housegirl" abi?  Hen hen hen!  I dey laff!   Well, I can never even dream of how that is possible to leave 3 active children with one man and some "househelps"!  When is time for homework, who will do it? when any of the kids are sick? Your poor working husband will be running helter-skelter with the help of houseboys and housegirls abi? Do not be surprised if one of your housegirls turns up pregnant! You want a mate abi?

Please your financial stress is only temporary!  Find something else to do around Abuja to keep an eye on your family! Your may get that job and lose your family!  Which do you prefer?  If the marriage don tire you and you are sick of your husband and kids or perhaps need a break,  please come out and tell us!  I cannot even believe you will even consider leaving your kids for one houseboy ore housemaid to fool with unsupervised!   Please do not listen to these people oh---who may never even smell matrimony, not to talk of raising family!  They will  just wreck your marriage and fragment your family and you will be back here on Niaraland in tears looking for more advice.  Them go laff you well well!   Peace unto you oh! Use your tongue to count your teeth ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh not your fingers!

@Topic!

Even with all the "born agains" the marriages are still tanking! Anyway to answer the question

1) Communication--(sexual)
2) Communication--(spiritual)
3) Communication--(verbal)

No sign language please!

@Topic

When you have people like Bolarge from the hinterlands of Ibadan, who still thinks women's place should remain in the Kitchen or on rafia "mat"! As soon as he does not like what he reads, he lashes out in intimidation!  I say it is your grandmother you will intimidate not me! Do I sound like one of your village babes? Rubbish!

Then you have the "Mckrens"of this web page who think that if you are assertive as a female, you have a "penis" and your sexuality is gone to the dogs!  Campaigning for feminine softness!  Like this is a place to get a husband or wife!  Where were you when your mates were getting married? Una go kill person with laff oh!  Well, if you want to see interesting gals, go to Family, Romance, Sexuality and Religion topics on this web page! Since that is where you will rather have "your" future wives! Only to be heard not seen! What a bunch of local chauvinists!  Thank God I don marry!  Young ladies out there still single----I sorry for una!

@Bolarge!

Thank you oh!  People like you will never know peace!  Because I criticize your "Duke" abi na "Puke", you want to reign all kinds of insults at me abi?  You can go and intimidate your grandmother in your village but not me!   I am free to express my self here ok?  If you do not like what I am saying then keep stepping to the next topic! When your mamas and papas in government have finished looting to their butts' desire, they will all come down with diarrhea afterwards!  Whether you like it or not, so STFU!

9ja4eva:
HAHAHAHHAHA

Una no crios.


@McKren

Thanks but u got d gender part wrong.Na only girls soft?

he he he he he!  McKren! Mckren! Mckren!  This is your second strike in the gender identifying game!  That is how you accused me of being a "transgendered"!  Now you see man, think say na woman--wan climb enter 9ja4eva bed-----for some  'Softness" and 'Sweetness'!   Na wah for you oh!  One thing you may have learned by now is that guys can be "soft" and gals can be "hard"!   Laff wan kill me oh!  Please stay off the transvestites oh, because you will never know the difference at this rate!  Some may be soft or hard oh!

Goodmorning my people!  Una still dey for hia?  Singing[b]-------------"TELL ME SOMTHING GOOOD!"[/b] Please oh!  Fine boy Duke did not do anything to me oh!  He is just any typical Nigerian  with misplaced priorities!  A true representation of all-o-y'all!  Like I said, until you guys think in terms of "we" not "I", Nigeria will know no peace!  Until you do right by the poor and underprivileged that you have deliberately kept subservient, armed robbers and assasins will continue to visit Nigerians!  

Until you decide that your "politics" is not meant only for the "rich" as you profess, all your tithes and offerings will be rejected by God!  Until you decide to stop stealing money meant for contracts,  children of the wealthy will keep dying in plane crashes and auto crashes!  Una think say God dey sleep?  Like one Nigerian movie's title stated "THE RICH ALSO CRY"!
I am not swearing for Nigeria oh!  It is just the reality of how things will continue to be.  E GO REACH EVERY BODY TURN!

I am glad that we have all helped the Northern Ambassador prove his point! As it stands now, practically all tribes in the south and some in the North have been indicted on the basis of corruption! So why are we pointing fingers at each other!

ToToChoper:
Let’s not forget folks TINAPA IS NOT FOR THE COMMON CROSSRIVERIAN.

Typical Nigerian mentality! Congratulations oh! PRIVILEDGED CROSSRIVERIAN! I repeat, when you guys are ready to provide the same amenities for your underprivileged neighbours you will know no peace! Keep up your politics! I know you need your "omodos" in Nigeria so nothing good will ever come their way because you want to stay on your high horse! Then there will be no priviledged or underpriviledged! Poverty will be the only leveller! I say na wah for una oh! May God help Nigeria!

Sneeze! Sneeze! Sneeze! Ahhh-----choooooo! Too much dust for here oh!

@Topic
Only with one account oh! That joint account should be a checking account to pay common house hold bills jointly shared. No joint savings account please oh! THE DEVIL IS A LIAR! There should be 3!  Yours, mine and ours oh!  This is America.  If you have a joint venture---you both go down together  if one of the parties decides to mess up!  It is only wise to keep certain things apart till you have celebrated your 50th year anniversary!

I have 3! My first is a girl ---- thank God!  We are very close!  I like the fact that the girl came first so I do feel like she can help me out a lot!  The guys are all about nintendos and soccer! It is good to have something in common with one of our children--you know, female stuff!  The other 2 na boys! My husband just worships our daughter!  He loves our sons oh!  But that girl he does not play with at all.  I feel like I have a rival sometimes in the house!  I get jealous sometimes too. It is a very funny feeling!

spoilt:
prayer!prayer! and yet more prayer!
in as much as i believe in prayer, i don't think you should sit there while a goat begins to eat the palm fronds on your chieftaincy cap while you do nothing.

LOL!    Marriage na wah oh!  The goat is not only eating the palm fronds on this woman's chieftaincy cap, but the goat has also finished eating her arse!

Why are some women so desperate that they will put up with any "crap"!  If na me, even with my three kids--I don waka go tey tey!  In this short life?  Then with AIDS around the corner too?

@Babyosis
Keep praying oh!  There is nothing our God cannot do sha! Please do not interfere oh! Listen to your husband oh! The next thing the woman will accuse you of wanting to wreck her home while you keep yours! She married the man abi? Only the parties involved can sort out this mess! Sad as it may be!

@Topic

You have a tough decision to make oh! I can see you sacrificing one for the other! So you have to choose between your family and your career! If it was possible to have the job in Abuja I will say go for it so you can be with your family. But a job in Lagos away from your family is a different ballgame! Hey the ball is in your court oh! Personally, I can never sacrifice my family for money. Please find a job in Abuja if you can!

angel101:
@militia
all u do is make me laugh.
anyway seriously, i do understand and appreciate the point u are trying to make. I infact share your sentiments my only grouse however is the way u just rubbish/discount the project. that should not be so now, let us appreciate good things and moreso, the effort of a fine boy.

Okay oh! Let us clap for "fine boy" oh! Please can we have more fine boys all over Nigeria?

@Topic!

Life will never be the same oh! This one is for God to settle! I cannot even touch this topic with a ten foot pole!