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Did you make sense?

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Change the kind of girls you are attracted to.

If classless girls keep coming to you or storm into your DM carelessly, I am forced to question your reputation.

Girls love to put a stop to sex some months before marriage. We think, so what's going to be new on wedding night or few months into the marriage.

She wants you to miss her body badly.

It's just women thing, blame it on society: She is trying to tell her head that she can still give u something new on wedding night.

Really, you all getting married next year and u want to continue going in there?

She wants u to miss it. Obviously, it is really working.

What women don't understand, a real mean who truly loves and care doesn't care if he sleeps with a woman a night before their wedding. It goes beyond sex but to us girls, it matters.

We have got to adjust for one another.

Look closely, is she nice to in other ways, has her cares reduced? As the attention she gives u reduce?

If all these are still intact and it's just the sex, she just doesn't want u guys hitting it often as u are close to hitting the altar.

Hope u understand, women things!

She been with u for fine years? Now, u want to let it all go?

Is she a good woman? What virtues does she hold dear? Is she committed even to very little things as little as fulfilling her promises? During the course of your relationship, has she helpedin all areas including financially?

Does she have a good heart? No good woman will sit around and wait for her husband to provide to for her children when she can provide as well. Most children prefer to ask mums first.

Asking that question wasn't a smart move. U should know her kind of person by now. Has she been contributing?

Her normal sense should tell her she should bring so much to the table.

What kind of woman is she? What does she stand for? These should answer your questions on whether she will leave u to foot all bills or not.

You didn't have to ask her to know or get your answer. All the moments u had is evidence enough!

You had an option but you chose stupidity

This prove is all.anyone needs to show that men are better gold diggers than women.

Werey dey disguise

I should make a frame of this, it should infact in on a board to be shown to anyone who opens their mouths to say some are gold diggers.

What about men? Worse!

Werey dey disguise

I see you got very wrong advise already!

Don't use drugs! Common! It doesn't take anything away. I do not even know about drugs that reduces your urge for sex. The person who advised you said to get depressant drugs.

These drugs are never permanent solutions. Just temporal. In the end, you would not just get addicted to thinking about sex but also you will get addicted to the drug and you will need it Al the time.

You want your life to be controlled by drugs?

1. Get busy if you are not too busy. There are different Writing platforms where you can write and even earn. Now, you have got motivation; earning and developing your writing skills. What else? Learn a soft skill that may be useful for you now or later. The gist is to limit the time you spend in door.

At night, eat, watch a movie: science, action film etc.

2. In the end, everything boils down to your mind. You can send thoughts that you don't want away

3. You are very normal for thinking about sex. Everyone who made a comment on this thread thought about it today, some maybe few seconds and they brushed it off, some have more time to it. So, there is nothing wrong with that, when it's too frequent, then it shows you are letting your body over power your mind.

4. Yes, you had that issues in the past and it's still affecting you. So, you need to go for counseling.

Rather than drugs or looking for away to kill those thoughts overnight, simply invest that time and energy into visiting a counselor.

It's bad that you really now want to pay to get it.

This will not go overnight. It takes little steps and you will conquer.

Watch your thoughts, watch what you read, Consciously do that

Lastly, even the Bible never asked anyone to fight sexual temptation. It says: FLEE. So avoid everything that would awaken such desires in you.

The gist is those desires would come, the goal is not to give in. Rise above it, you can.

Goodluck.

Big fools: Including the buyers and sellers.

Especially the Buyers. Why do you think you are better? Because you are the one who buys? In this disgusting case, you are the lower animal.

Guys are the cheapest things on earth.

Also, Guess what? They will scream into your face that women are gold diggers, but wawu! They would win a Grammy in this generation and 10 more ones to come when it comes to this issue.

Yikes!

You are numb. No doubt!

As a lady, all my female friends are hustlers. I see females hustling big time. All my friends are independent and have been dating there boyfriends for sometime and believe that the hustle will pay for both of them someday.

Women around me love with their all and hustle big time. Women around me sweat it out. Staring businesses, learning skills, others going for 2nd degrees and matters.

Personally, I am the one who even give to my friends that are guy. I believe in humanism.

In one of the neighborhood I lived recently, I see girls coming to do wife duties; advicing the guys, cooking and cleaning and they are the ones that even give them money and what do these guys do; mock them behind.

I am surrounded by females that ground. Even social media is a proof, so many ladies out there selling shoes, bags, wigs, alot into make-up and catering.

More than 50% of these businesses online are directly linked to females.

Now, it baffles me, where do u guys get the crazy girls you all wail about? Then your background and values are shaky as well.

Just like there are senseless guys, there are stupid girls as well who just want your money, there are girls who trade sex and there are senseless boys with no direction in life as well.

So many guys hustling hard! Despite all the bashings, everyday guys still keep proposing to ladies. Isn't it funny?

Why do u keep meeting bad girls? Your own head block?

Open your eyes, there are so many girls really hustling hard for themselves!

I don't even see any reason why a cool, collected, sophisticated guy will come online and start writing stinking words.

Respect your space.

No man pays my bills! I run my stuff and made my first million at 20 There are so many ladies like that out there.

Be human and classy!

So sad the kind of ladies y'all attract.

Lotta women out here grounding for themselves, so many.

Why haven't you found yourself a decent one who believes in being dependent, who works and also sorts the bill whether she is made, hustling or almost there?

There is a diff between a leech and those who are also trying to make ends meet.

Why are u attracting leeches?

Humans! Why didn't u post the whole video about other life issues she spoke about? She dished some real sense in the video.

Even guys who have lost count of the ladies they have slept with are also here spilling trash.

Park well!

First thing to do is to change your perception about your work place.

You are not giving love, so it would likely not be given back.
If you love what you do and where you work, it will be obvious even with the way you relate with the staff in the lowest level.

Give yourself the weekend, next week resume with a new vibe, energy and strength and you will see the changes.

It starts with changing your mind.

Please I am interested.

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Wish you would listen dear....

He may like you but trust me not enough to go into a relationship or get serious with you. Is that what you want as this may never change?

Also, he seems calm, responsible and collected; this, this guy most likely has a girl he is madly in love with. He seems like a deep lover too and is not really into the cheating thing.

If you push further, you will get friend zoned and you may never leave that zone.

Men are hunters, if he wants to love you or even sleep, he will get your number that first day, if not the first day, then the 2nd day but sis u guys met about 3 times or more and he never bothered.

He doesn't want to start anything or raise your hope and u end up getting hurt.

He is saving you, save yourself sis.... Let go

Hello Nairalanders.

He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, claims to want a serious relationship. Can he really be serious about being serious or he is just a play boy?

So I met this guy about two weeks ago close to my street. He calls but I hardly pick. Eventually, I picked and he asked if he could pick me after work and we hangout. I accepted. He picked me up after work last week Friday. He was quite interesting and funny, he talked freely like he had known me for years but he was really so touchy, I had barely spent 5 minutes in the car and he was already touching my shoulder and even when we were inside the bar, he tried tickling me, at a point, he put his hands close to my waist, I removed it. We both discussed if we had someone we are currently seeing, I am not seeing anyone which is the truth, he said there is an Ex but they just have sex and she has her own relationship. When he was dropping me off, he asked for a close hug, I hugged him and he wanted to pull me closer and kiss. I broke free and got down. He said I am not nice.

Well, we met again on Monday, I took just water intentionally. This time I minded the distance between us. He wanted to see again on Tuesday, I declined. Then at work yesterday, he asked to see after closing. I told him he can come briefly to my work and we can talk a bit in the car and part ways. He said he would like to host me at his house instead, I declined.

Anyway, he came, I got in and he started driving and saying, I will know his house today and besides his phone battery his low. My mood changed immediately and he tried to guilt trip me and said okay should we stop on the road and get a place to charge his phone. I then told him to continue driving to his house. He stopped on the way and got snacks. We got into his house. It was nice and neat.

Then we were watching a movie, he sat down and placed my leg on his, I was cool with this. Then he made moves to kiss and I declined and pulled away. All of a sudden, he started breathing fast, hugged me so tight and kissed me despite I kept pulling away and didn't kiss back. I am weak when it comes to my Bosom, then he got there and gave me the roughest and painful squeezing I have ever experienced. I haven't been with any man in about 7 months now, I am single and It's hard for me to do a little thing as even kissing randomly. So he got me there when he got to my bosom but it took only just few seconds to snap out. He continued panting and begging for me to reciprocate, he is so hard and hasn't felt this way in a while.

I told him I don't want this, he went in frustrated, stamping his feet, I tot he had agreed, only for him to come back naked and saying okay, he has heard no sex and "I don't want to force you", so he asked for a dry hump and wanted me to turn my back. I didn't. He still kept breathing hard, like he wont survive the next minute. Then he started begging for a Mouth Action. I declined and told him I wasn't up for that. I tried pulling, away and getting angry. He became even more aggressive, removed the hands I used to protect my chest and forced his way into my bra. It was a struggle and then back to begging till I made it clear in a thunder voice for him to stop and take me home.

Then he agreed, wore his cloths and kept complaining that I don't know what I have caused and he wont be himself. We left his house and he tried stopping at a Pharmacist and said he needs to get ibuprofen, then he didn't stop again and just continued driving.

This morning, he is apologizing and repeating the things he said when we got to his house that he wants something serious with me and he wants us to start something and want it to work out. He asked to come see me at work today but I declined. With this red flags, is there a possibility that he is truly serious like he said? Or he is just doing the usual lies to get the cookie and go away. He has a nice ride and nice house, I suspect he may have girls around him. My concern isn't all these, I just want to be with a serious man who is in for commitment and not just sex.

He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, can he be sincere about wanting to be serious?

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Zayttoven:
I'm looking for a female who's interested in a relationship which could lead to a marriage this year or next.

No bullshiting please!!!

It would do both of us a lot of good not wasting each others time.

I'm 31 years of age.

Tribe - Idoma.

I stand at 6'3.

Occupation - First Officer at Etihad Airways.

Complexion - Brown Skinned.

Religion - Christianity .

Lives in Abuja.

Interested candidates should possess at least 95% if not all of the characteristics.

Age - 22 - 28.

Preferably not Yoruba (I don't mean to discriminate but I have my reasons).

At least a graduate (Bachelors).

Working and earning (Employee or self employed).

Brown skinned.

Height - 5"8 (Minimum).

Should preferably reside in the F.C.T for meet-ups, dates, hangouts etcetera.

If you possess these characteristics and are interested, please don't hesitate to send a private message.

NB: I'm an avid member of a Nairaland (though I've always been a guest before registering today). So I know the usual bullshit to expect.

To all those who'll come on here with all the bullshit, saying my specs are not realistic or those who'll say I'm discriminating.

I'm not finding a girlfriend for you or better still, no be you wan marry na me.
Hope you get me.

For those who'll eventually say this forum is not the right place for this.
I truly am touched by your concern, but worry not I have everything under control.

Another important thing: I'm a pilot, so if you can't keep up with my regular absence, I'm sorry we can't work.

This has been a challenge but if you're ready to be committed, I promise we'll make a way.

Ciao.

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I always have my Mycoten cream with me. I haven't been with any man in months and sometimes I get itchy. These could be from toilet. Some women who even urinate and dont wipe immediately get itchy. Before and after monthtly periods, itching comes. Poor hygiene from underwear also causes itching.

Every woman will have vagina itching at different point. I always have my mycoten in my wardrobe. I haven't had sex in monthssss. Before periods and after, sanitary pads causes infections, tight jeans, and bad pants cause itching.

Calm down...... A man should know and trust his wife. What is with the cat and rat play? U will kill her? Please create a toxic-free marriage.

These men have no conscious.....

Got my head up and high, these guys deserve acid! Haba, painted a picture of your wife dead just for 10 secs of orgasm. I am sure he is fat and ugly with tribal marks