₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: Register • Login • With Google • Trending • Recent • New

Stats: 3,345,170 members, 8,515,875 topics. Date: Monday, 09 November 2026 at 05:30 PM

Toggle theme

MissJoy29's Posts

Nairaland Forum › MissJoy29's Profile › MissJoy29's Posts

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 (of 110 pages)

Travel › Re: Air Peace Women Pilots Lead All Female Crew On Flights To Abuja, Owerri. Photos by MissJoy29(f): 7:47pm On Jul 07, 2018
[quote author= post=69172905]We....all men for themselves.
We are only few men.
So dont get it confused sis.
We are talking for ourselves .
All men can't support or agreed on the same thing.
We guess it's the same with all women too.
Have a nice weekend ma.[/quote]Hmmmm....

You too.
Travel › Re: Air Peace Women Pilots Lead All Female Crew On Flights To Abuja, Owerri. Photos by MissJoy29(f): 7:40pm On Jul 07, 2018
[quote author= post=69172292]We mean they can fly a plane and we cannot.[/quote]When you say "we", do you mean you or men generally?
Travel › Re: Visa Denial: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Denial? by MissJoy29(f):
Mine should be in 2014 or so. I was to go to Maryland on a tourist visa.

But things started going wrong from the beginning for that day. In fact from the day before.
The journey from Owerri to Lagos was sooooo turbulent. I don't know how I didn't die of fear that day coupled with the fact that I have acute phobia for flying. Everyone was busy singing and Praying. And there were two Nollywood celebrities with us that day. I even took pics with them(me that I no dey take eye see reasonable celebrities). Eventually, when we landed, everyone was clapping. It was that bad.

My interview time was to be 9am on that day but I got to the embassy around 11. I was so angry at the person that drove me, the rains, the traffic. When I got there, they allowed me in. I was vetted and led into the hall. In there, I was so nervous. I kept monitoring the officers that were rejecting people more and Prayed never to be interviewed by them. Meanwhile, I had this faith in the preparations I did before then. You see, I have a lot of people around that have travelled. So I got first hand advice from them. I had all the right papers. I have travelling experience. What more? But how wrong I was.

I was the very last person to be interviewed for that day. In fact, by the time the guy was interviewing me, the other ones were already packing up to go. You could see from my interviewer that he was disinterested and probably tired. Because of that, he wasn't asking the right questions. He didn't even look at my papers. I was filled with dread when I sensed what was going to happen. I almost started begging him to look at my papers. I was supplying information he didn't even ask but were relevant. Chai. It didn't move him.

At last, he gave me my passport back with that white paper in it that contains information about your denial. I was dead inside. I held myself. How I even relayed the information to the people over there waiting for the news I will never know. I felt cheated cos I wasn't interviewed properly. I wasn't given a fair chance. That made the sadness unbearable. Till this day, I still feel that guy & Barack Obama owe me an apology. I'm still waiting for them.

I got home & put on my thinking cap. I started wondering what would have happened if I had got there at my right time. I also started remembering everything I planned doing when I get there. Devastation is an understatement for how I felt. The tears just burst out from where I locked them and flowed freely.
Travel › Re: Visa Denial: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Denial? by MissJoy29(f):
goggleit:
does travelling experience matters?
I was told it's important. Although it didn't help in my case.

I had travelled to two other countries before my interview. I thought that will help my cause. The lady sitting beside me in the interview hall didn't have any travelling experience at all. But I was denied & she was given.
Education › Re: Professor Grace Otinwa: I Kneel Down To Greet My Husband by MissJoy29(f): 6:11pm On Jul 07, 2018
Thimmoh:
The OP should have summarized it
Lol...like someone above said: it's an interview. It's best left like that.
Travel › Re: Air Peace Women Pilots Lead All Female Crew On Flights To Abuja, Owerri. Photos by MissJoy29(f): 4:02pm On Jul 07, 2018
[quote author= post=69128010]THE REAL BEAUTIFUL SLAY QUEENS........
#RESPECT.

First time in a looong while We are Seeing a woman do what we can't do!

#RESPECT again![/quote]@bolded, what exactly do you mean?
Celebrities › Re: Burna Boy Slams President Buhari, Compares Him With Emmanuel Macron by MissJoy29(f): 3:30pm On Jul 07, 2018
mayweather145:
what about trump, the American president.... he is 72..... to me its not based on age. but on intelligent initiatives to move the state forward !
With all due respect sir, I don't think it's wise to compare Buhari and Trump or compare Nigeria and The USA. The two are so far apart in terms of development.

It's easy to be seen as if you are working when there's nothing much for you to do since everything is in place.

Again, Trump doesn't look like a psychopath who is power-driven. He hasn't been in power before, contested three times to come back to that same power decades after, achieved nothing much (which is ironic seeing as his desperation should have translated into workable visions) & is still deluded enough to want to hold on to that same power for another 4 years.

Haba!!!! Don't even compare abeg.

Yes I know that age could translate to wisdom and vision but not in Nigeria abeg and not in the case of our leaders. These old people that want to hold on to power are not normal. Simple!
Education › Re: Professor Grace Otinwa: I Kneel Down To Greet My Husband by MissJoy29(f): 2:59pm On Jul 07, 2018
Thimmoh:
Why were you taught summary in secondary school??
Before you summarize a paragraph, passag, text/book, won't you need to read it through?

Or can you summarize what you don't know?
Education › Re: Professor Grace Otinwa: I Kneel Down To Greet My Husband by MissJoy29(f): 2:54pm On Jul 07, 2018
ShakurM:
When a reasonable woman is treated right, submission comes naturally            
God Bless you.
Romance › Re: Lady Who Sleeps With Married Men, Gets Heartbroken As Her Dad Cheats On Her Mum by MissJoy29(f): 9:25am On Jul 07, 2018
chiedu7:
spot on
Thanks.
Romance › Re: Lady Who Sleeps With Married Men, Gets Heartbroken As Her Dad Cheats On Her Mum by MissJoy29(f): 8:07am On Jul 07, 2018
eberetos:
Karma engineering.....

Have you noticed that " karma comes mostly when you have changed to be a better person".....You may not see karma when you are in evil
And that's the sad truth. That's what makes it painful. Lol
Romance › Re: Lady Who Sleeps With Married Men, Gets Heartbroken As Her Dad Cheats On Her Mum by MissJoy29(f): 8:02am On Jul 07, 2018
chiedu7:
One thing I noticed is that those who cheat can not handle another cheating on them.
Those who cheat are the most insecure, possessive, untrusting, jealous and unreasonable bunch. They know what they are doing so they think everyone is like them even when all indications point to the opposite.
Romance › Re: Man Leaks Ex's Nudes Saying He Wants To Warn Other Men Against Her by MissJoy29(f): 7:46am On Jul 07, 2018
AsianLoyalist:
Why would any matured and sane lady send her nudes to a man?

To whom brain is given, sense is expected.
The thing tire me o.

Why would a man who claims he's mature ask for nudes? What's so special about that sef?

Some people in long distance relationship send it as consolation. When I say "long distance", I mean cross-country relationship not cross-state or cross-town/city. Anyone in that category asking for it has ulterior motives when it's easy to come down and see for yasef if it's that important to you. Some will even break up with you if you refuse or start giving attitude. Sex! sex!!sex!!! That's what occupies the minds of the so-called leaders of tomorrow these days. Pathetic lipsrsealed

But no matter what, even if it's cross-world/planet relationship, a lady should be wise enough not to send nudes. It almost always doesn't end well cos it works against them more. Especially wth the crop of immature, classless, vindictive, vengeful, wicked & selfish men that abound these days.
Sports › Re: Brazil Vs Belgium: World Cup (1 - 2) On 6th July 2018 by MissJoy29(f): 8:59pm On Jul 06, 2018
The teams I'm supporting are not disappointing me unlike my "ashebi" winners.

I'm supporting France cos they eliminated Argentina who eliminated us. After all, the enemy of my enemy is my friend.

I'm supporting Belgium cos of my handsome Hazard. cool
Romance › Re: How Weak Are You Emotionally? by MissJoy29(f): 6:50pm On Jul 06, 2018
Ebuka2016:
ok, you probably don't undertand what i said.

I just mean that, assuming i love you in particular and you show me that you love me back and care about me, when i go out there and mingle with pple i dont even know or have never seen before, i start expecting them to give a fvck about me the same way you do and pple don't really give a fvck about pple they don't know but the weird thing is that i used to get depressed because of it.

Sorry but i don't really expect a woman to love me just because of my money alone, but you know in the chase game, a woman falls for a man she considers to be more valuable. Money is not entirely what makes a man to be more valued than other men but its a huge part of it. Am also expect perfection from myself, not only from other pple so i try to work on other aspects of my life aside being rich.

I didn't really see the former mention, i still can't find it. You can resend if you have the time.
Ok. I get you now. Well, all you need do is to come to terms with the fact that everyone will not feel positively about you. That's the fact.

Glad you understand.

Never mind about the mention sir. It's not really relevant.
Romance › Re: How Weak Are You Emotionally? by MissJoy29(f): 6:47am On Jul 06, 2018
Ebuka2016:
well, thanks a lot for your replies dear.

I had been hurt by the persons i loved in the past but i don't think thats the reason why i hate love. Its just that when i love someone and the person loves me back, i get all emotional, start expecting other people to show me the same love, then when i don't get it from pple, i get depressed.

When am not told am loved and cherished, i go out there knowing exactly what to expect so i remain very confident regardless of how cold/bad some pple may treat me.

Then again, am a perfectionist and i kinda have a high taste for everything, not just women. The kinda woman i want to love me, only money will get me that so i stopped wasting my time with women altogether because i don't want a woman i love to be 'managing' me. I want to feel like i really mean something to her so that her chances of cheating with other men is minimum.

So at this point, am deeply engrossed in my hustle, maintaining focus and not wanting to have anything to do with either love or women.

I like the attention you're giving me tho.
You are welcome.

Well, well you described in your second paragraph is same with everyone . I'm not excluded. Tuface's song come to mind....it feels good loving someone when the person loves you back. I also get depressed when I feel I'm the only one doing the livibg in a relationship. It's a gut-wrenching feeling. So it's normal.
But you made two confusing & contradictory statement:
1) When you love someone & the person loves you back, you get all emotional & depressed.
2) When you love someone & the person doesn't love you back or doesn't love you as much as you need, you become all emotional, needy and depressed.
They are contradictory. Which one is your situation? Cos the second one ain't abnormal but the first one is.

I'm also a perfectionist and I have a high taste in men. But I try to make sure the expectations are realistic and obtainable so I won't be building castles in the air.
Who is this kinda woman you want to love you that only money can get? A model? Beauty queen? It's understandable you wanna have money to take care of your woman. But thinking that's ALL you need to "keep" her, is totally wrong. And what happens when the money is no more there? (not your portion though). Cos trust me, if you like, have all the money you can & you don't meet up my expectations, forget it. I found myself in such a situation recently.

It's good to be focused & focused. Continue. When the time comes, the right woman & love will come.

You are welcome again.
I didn't receive feedback from you on the other mention before this one. Check.
Romance › Re: How Weak Are You Emotionally? by MissJoy29(f): 6:44am On Jul 06, 2018
Jagaban880:
u seem to know alot abot cancer sign

all u said abot us s ntin but de truths

i love been indoors
cnt date a chick datz n loyal
i detest lies

Love my Mama can do anything for Her

But i dnt know my talents yet

i need to discover my inner potentials

50 cent,wizkid,yungsix,Mr Eazi, wole Soyinka,late Nelson Mandela,tom cruise,sylvester stallion,burna Boy,olu jacob,nonso diobi ,Messi,rita dominic,nikola Tesla,alexander de great ,
brock lesna,princess Diana,sarkodie

etc


De all discoverd dere inner potentials Expect Me
embarassed
Romance › Re: How Weak Are You Emotionally? by MissJoy29(f): 4:15am On Jul 06, 2018
Ebuka2016:
Love ain't beautiful for me.

You know what? It's actually my weakness. When the person i love loves me back and tries to let me know she does, that's disaster for me. I get all emotional, then boom! Depression happens and continues happening as long as the emotion lasts. During this period, i don't sleep well, i become less confident, my productivity is affected, etc.

I so enjoy being a little bit heartless. Thats when my confidence is at its peak. It feels like i had taken a drug. Its heavenly. I sleep well and am extremely productive. During this time, i feel like i can actually take up anything and win.

When i was younger, i craved for love. Being loved made me confident, the more love i get, the more confident i become. Right now, its just the opposite baby.
Sorry for the late response. I just saw this.

Hmmm....this is serious.
I think something must have happened to bring you to this state. You must have been hurt maybe not necessarily repeatedly but by someone you loved so dearly. I'm saying this cos of the firsthand experience I had with my Cancerian friend. Looking at him, he's on a very far opposite direction with love cos the person he has always loved has birthed a monster in him. So I don't see him loving again in a long while. Not only that, I don't see him loving genuinely again...except a Miracle happens.

@first bolded, that's cos you don't want it to be. Once beaten is twice SHY not twice DESTROYED. You have allowed yourself to be so cold that the prospect of love fills you with so much dread that you don't wanna try again. You brought this upon yourself so only you can fix it as well. It starts from the mind.

@second bolded, surprisingly, my friend was always saying that. Kept complaining about how loving someone will make him weak and powerless and the person having so much influence over him. I see! I understand better now. Honestly, I don't know what to say about this cos it's all in the mind and I can't control your mind.

PS: if all I said up there about you isn't true, please let me know so I won't counsel again. Lol.

I'm still learning.
Romance › Re: How Weak Are You Emotionally? by MissJoy29(f):
Jagaban880:
u seem to know alot abot cancer sign

all u said abot us s ntin but de truths

i love been indoors
cnt date a chick datz nt loyal
i detest lies

Love my Mama can do anything for Her

But i dnt know my talents yet

i need to discover my inner potentials

50 cent,wizkid,yungsix,Mr Eazi, wole Soyinka,late Nelson Mandela,tom cruise,sylvester stallion,burna Boy,olu jacob,nonso diobi ,Messi,rita dominic,nikola Tesla,alexander de great ,
brock lesna,princess Diana,sarkodie

etc


De all discoverd dere inner potentials... except Me.
embarassed
Yes I do. I know a lot about them by God's Grace. A whole lot.

@bolded. You don't give up. Not yet
I don't know how old you are but I have a feeling there's still time for you to do that.
Romance › Re: The Tightness Of A Woman Is Not Related To The Amount Of Dick That Has Entered by MissJoy29(f): 6:44pm On Jul 05, 2018
BabbanBura:
Thanks Ma lady - No point joining issues with a bastard who knows no father, therefore respect no parents.
Some people need to be schooled on how to talk.


Kudos to you again!
Romance › Re: How Weak Are You Emotionally? by MissJoy29(f): 10:57pm On Jul 04, 2018
Mryacks:
Your last paragaph....spot on!
Thanks.
Romance › Re: How Weak Are You Emotionally? by MissJoy29(f): 9:10pm On Jul 04, 2018
sirBLUNT:
To H first then i leave for G by 1pm...
Hey....how did it go? Meet me there?
Romance › Re: "Don't Go To Their House If You Don't Want Sex" - Lady Says On Twitter by MissJoy29(f): 6:19pm On Jul 04, 2018
cassyrooy:
MissJoy29 come and hear o!
I kinda agree with her. Too many perverted people around. Especially nowadays when a guy & a lady can't have normal conversation for even just a day without talking about sex. Remove sex talks from some people's chat routine, you will see chaff. No substance.

Again, it depends on the people involved. For me, if I want to visit a guy & I know that you are the kind of person who doesn't have self-control, well, I won't even visit. But let's assume I hope that you won't be that heartless to me, we MUST discuss that before I come or he comes.

That being said, I try my best by God's Grace not to fall into "demons" trap. I only visit "sensible" people.
It's actually a huge risk going to someone's house for the first time. Some even spend the night. It's a huge risk I must confess.

The best thing I do is trust my guts. Somehow, if it will end up in stories that touch, something will happen & I will separate from the person before we get to see.

What's your view?
Romance › Re: How Weak Are You Emotionally? by MissJoy29(f): 5:30pm On Jul 04, 2018
Ebuka2016:
it used to be beautiful for me when i was younger. But right now, its the last thing i wanna feel. Being in love makes me too emotional, and when i get too emotional, i get depressed. I hate depression so i hate love.
Lol @getting depressed when you get too emotional.

I understand you though. I feel that way but only when I know that the person I'm feeling this way for doesn't feel same or is not worth it. But other than that, it's love all the way grin grin

Cheer up. Love is a beautiful thing
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Real Madrid vs Liverpool : UCL (3 - 1) On 26th May 2018 by MissJoy29(f): 5:25pm On Jul 04, 2018
cassyrooy:
Shed tears? For Nigeria football? Mba, oma mme!

I was gladly expecting the Germans to school the rest of the world on football but they too, were wasteful and shambolic in extraordinary ways. I was beyond disappointed by those performances.

Portugal was no team at all, they only boast of CR7, which is their biggest threat to any opposition. Crashing out to Uruguay is very bad given the organisation and composure of the South Americans.

France for the first time in this edition of the WC proved themselves when they tore Argentina to shredded pieces. They can progress if they have more to show as well against a very resolute Uruguay side.

After watching Japan pushed Belgium with their speed and techniques, and Aunty Courtois not reacting properly to shots, I have resolved not to support them any further.

Thanks. Will be looking forward to continuing on this path.

Okay, didn't recollect stating it though.
Lol...I thought I was beyond that too. I just found them dropping. Thank God I was alone. Would have been embarrassing. Lol

But that's football for you. So unpredictable and full of suprises. Some days are like that for some teams.

That's the sad and unfortunate truth. CR7 is the only one in Portugal national team. I see his frustration at his team mates during matches. The whole weight is on him. And what exactly can only one man do? I was really just barely hanging on to hope when they were pitched with that formidable team: Uruguay.

I'm seriously rooting for France. I hope they progress to the sem-final & win eventually.

Japan really pressed Belgium. I was really sad when they left. Such determination shoulda be rewarded. They were both great teams anyway.

Well, you did. Cos I remembered.
Romance › Re: How Weak Are You Emotionally? by MissJoy29(f): 5:11pm On Jul 04, 2018
Ebuka2016:
yeah. I hate to be in love or to feel emotional
Oh yeah? Even though love hurts most times, you won't deny it's a beautiful thing, will you?
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Croatia: World Cup - 0 - 2 On 16th June 2018 by MissJoy29(f): 5:09pm On Jul 04, 2018
cassyrooy:
I'm no pessimist but I was expecting a very terrible show in Russia. Though I had hopes against Argentina but I wasn't crushed when Rojo netted the winner.

Everyone was just lauding Nike and Nigeria for the design while neglecting that jerseys don't attract points.
Me too. That's the truth.

I didn't just have high hopes against them. I expected them to loose.

Tell them o. grin
Romance › Re: How Weak Are You Emotionally? by MissJoy29(f): 9:44am On Jul 04, 2018
Luxuryconsult:
Now i understand you better. It's true, some people like forcing others to conform to their will/wish.

And that your cancerian friends, i told you, some cancers have grown to become a mature cancer while some are still heavily ruled by the star. Like me for example, i'd say have become a matured cancer buh as you said earlier on alot of factors affect this zodiac something, like experience in life, background e.t.c i might choose to get close to some people buh because of some little backstab have suffered in the past, i'd have to be careful, and no matter how much i love anybody, i always make sure to check if they are worth it first so to achieve that, i bring out the fault in them first, like the flaws are what i first search for in someone i love cuz sometimes i'm tryna get over the love or just to avoid stories that touch. So, when i'm getting over such person, i might in some situations mention/complain to such person about his/her flaws. or like a cancer who has experience heartbreak in life, you know no matter how emotional and caring he is supposed to be, he might choose to limit cuz he wouldn't want to be in same situation he was before. Take a look at page one where a guy was talking about how he doesn't love anything girlfriend and how he doesn't care about them because of past heartbreak buh would go a million miles to save a friend instead. So i guess that's the problem between the two friends you compared.
I just saw this....

You have a point. I'd say he's still being influenced by the sign. He hasn't fully discovered himself yet & convert most of those weaknesses to strengths.

I also look out for weaknesses in friends first before the strengths. I don't focus on them rather I use them to know how to follow them & see if I can complement them. But a lot of people are masyer in deception. They project their fakeness as strengths while hiding their weakness only to bring them out when it is almost too late & you have invested so much emotions. The most foolish thing an adult who claims to be mature can do is to look at himself or herself as someone without weaknesses or that his/her bad character is somehow less than others. Some will make you feel like you are nagging when you tell them something about them you are not comfortable with. They are ALWAYS making excuses for their actions and end up making you feel bad that you even said something in the first place. They NEVER admit they are wrong. I fear those people like Willy-Willy grin

There are obviously lots of things wrong with relationships these days that the thought of entering one feels one with dread.

But I know all will be well at last. smiley
Travel › Re: See The Roofless Aircraft With 96 Passengers That Landed Safely After Explosion by MissJoy29(f): 9:07am On Jul 04, 2018
Kelamma:
The fear those people on board experienced eh,their mouth no go fit talk am finish.
It is better imagined than experienced.
I'm telling you. I can't even imagine it myself.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Real Madrid vs Liverpool : UCL (3 - 1) On 26th May 2018 by MissJoy29(f): 8:49am On Jul 04, 2018
cassyrooy:
Lol! Would you have taken on France in the last 16? Better we dyfunctioned and not qualifying from the group.

My German side tore every fibre of muscle in my body by putting up the most terrible performance in almost 20years.

I've been good, in my own way o.

I don't think you know I'm currently schooling? It has been stressful dear, but survival is certain though.
No na...at least we would have tried. And it would also go on record that we crashed out in the knockout stage and not in the group stage.

Germany surprised even themselves. They were soooo terrible.
But the ones that broke my heart was Portugal. Nigeria and Portugal were the two teams I shed tears for when they left. cry
At this stage now, I have no team I support. Anyone is free to win. Except maybe I will root for France: for beating Argentina who beat us or Belgium: cos of my handsome Hazard.

That's the most important thing to know. Welcome back here smiley

I know. You have said it before now cool
Family › Re: Happy Mothers Day: Share The Funniest Memory Of Your Mum by MissJoy29(f):
cassyrooy:
Hahaha! You don't have problems then.

Hi me
Ok....will do.
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Croatia: World Cup - 0 - 2 On 16th June 2018 by MissJoy29(f): 8:42am On Jul 04, 2018
cassyrooy:
100% grin Would you have staked that Nigeria will get a draw from that game? I wouldn't hence I was the only soul that celebrated when Etebo turned the ball into his own goal.
If they're the gambling types, I'm getting supporters o.


I saw the modelling and fanciful entry into Russia and the Twitter polls on jerseys. I felt somehow when we crashed against Argentina.
Croatia is strong so I wouldn't have staked anything abeg...Football is unpredictable though. I predicted Iceland winning us but we won. I predicted us winning Argentina, they won. At that point, I gave up. Lol

The hype was too much o. It served as a distraction for them I guess.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 (of 110 pages)