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[quote author= post=69172905]We....all men for themselves. We are only few men. So dont get it confused sis. We are talking for ourselves . All men can't support or agreed on the same thing. We guess it's the same with all women too. Have a nice weekend ma.[/quote]Hmmmm.... You too. |
[quote author= post=69172292]We mean they can fly a plane and we cannot.[/quote]When you say "we", do you mean you or men generally? |
Mine should be in 2014 or so. I was to go to Maryland on a tourist visa. But things started going wrong from the beginning for that day. In fact from the day before. The journey from Owerri to Lagos was sooooo turbulent. I don't know how I didn't die of fear that day coupled with the fact that I have acute phobia for flying. Everyone was busy singing and Praying. And there were two Nollywood celebrities with us that day. I even took pics with them(me that I no dey take eye see reasonable celebrities). Eventually, when we landed, everyone was clapping. It was that bad. My interview time was to be 9am on that day but I got to the embassy around 11. I was so angry at the person that drove me, the rains, the traffic. When I got there, they allowed me in. I was vetted and led into the hall. In there, I was so nervous. I kept monitoring the officers that were rejecting people more and Prayed never to be interviewed by them. Meanwhile, I had this faith in the preparations I did before then. You see, I have a lot of people around that have travelled. So I got first hand advice from them. I had all the right papers. I have travelling experience. What more? But how wrong I was. I was the very last person to be interviewed for that day. In fact, by the time the guy was interviewing me, the other ones were already packing up to go. You could see from my interviewer that he was disinterested and probably tired. Because of that, he wasn't asking the right questions. He didn't even look at my papers. I was filled with dread when I sensed what was going to happen. I almost started begging him to look at my papers. I was supplying information he didn't even ask but were relevant. Chai. It didn't move him. At last, he gave me my passport back with that white paper in it that contains information about your denial. I was dead inside. I held myself. How I even relayed the information to the people over there waiting for the news I will never know. I felt cheated cos I wasn't interviewed properly. I wasn't given a fair chance. That made the sadness unbearable. Till this day, I still feel that guy & Barack Obama owe me an apology. I'm still waiting for them. I got home & put on my thinking cap. I started wondering what would have happened if I had got there at my right time. I also started remembering everything I planned doing when I get there. Devastation is an understatement for how I felt. The tears just burst out from where I locked them and flowed freely. |
goggleit:I was told it's important. Although it didn't help in my case. I had travelled to two other countries before my interview. I thought that will help my cause. The lady sitting beside me in the interview hall didn't have any travelling experience at all. But I was denied & she was given. |
Thimmoh:Lol...like someone above said: it's an interview. It's best left like that. |
[quote author= post=69128010]THE REAL BEAUTIFUL SLAY QUEENS........ #RESPECT. First time in a looong while We are Seeing a woman do what we can't do! #RESPECT again![/quote]@bolded, what exactly do you mean? |
mayweather145:With all due respect sir, I don't think it's wise to compare Buhari and Trump or compare Nigeria and The USA. The two are so far apart in terms of development. It's easy to be seen as if you are working when there's nothing much for you to do since everything is in place. Again, Trump doesn't look like a psychopath who is power-driven. He hasn't been in power before, contested three times to come back to that same power decades after, achieved nothing much (which is ironic seeing as his desperation should have translated into workable visions) & is still deluded enough to want to hold on to that same power for another 4 years. Haba!!!! Don't even compare abeg. Yes I know that age could translate to wisdom and vision but not in Nigeria abeg and not in the case of our leaders. These old people that want to hold on to power are not normal. Simple! |
Thimmoh:Before you summarize a paragraph, passag, text/book, won't you need to read it through? Or can you summarize what you don't know? |
ShakurM:God Bless you. |
chiedu7:Thanks. |
eberetos:And that's the sad truth. That's what makes it painful. Lol |
chiedu7:Those who cheat are the most insecure, possessive, untrusting, jealous and unreasonable bunch. They know what they are doing so they think everyone is like them even when all indications point to the opposite. |
AsianLoyalist:The thing tire me o. Why would a man who claims he's mature ask for nudes? What's so special about that sef? Some people in long distance relationship send it as consolation. When I say "long distance", I mean cross-country relationship not cross-state or cross-town/city. Anyone in that category asking for it has ulterior motives when it's easy to come down and see for yasef if it's that important to you. Some will even break up with you if you refuse or start giving attitude. Sex! sex!!sex!!! That's what occupies the minds of the so-called leaders of tomorrow these days. Pathetic ![]() But no matter what, even if it's cross-world/planet relationship, a lady should be wise enough not to send nudes. It almost always doesn't end well cos it works against them more. Especially wth the crop of immature, classless, vindictive, vengeful, wicked & selfish men that abound these days. |
The teams I'm supporting are not disappointing me unlike my "ashebi" winners. I'm supporting France cos they eliminated Argentina who eliminated us. After all, the enemy of my enemy is my friend. I'm supporting Belgium cos of my handsome Hazard. ![]() |
Ebuka2016:Ok. I get you now. Well, all you need do is to come to terms with the fact that everyone will not feel positively about you. That's the fact. Glad you understand. Never mind about the mention sir. It's not really relevant. |
Ebuka2016:You are welcome. Well, well you described in your second paragraph is same with everyone . I'm not excluded. Tuface's song come to mind....it feels good loving someone when the person loves you back. I also get depressed when I feel I'm the only one doing the livibg in a relationship. It's a gut-wrenching feeling. So it's normal. But you made two confusing & contradictory statement: 1) When you love someone & the person loves you back, you get all emotional & depressed. 2) When you love someone & the person doesn't love you back or doesn't love you as much as you need, you become all emotional, needy and depressed. They are contradictory. Which one is your situation? Cos the second one ain't abnormal but the first one is. I'm also a perfectionist and I have a high taste in men. But I try to make sure the expectations are realistic and obtainable so I won't be building castles in the air. Who is this kinda woman you want to love you that only money can get? A model? Beauty queen? It's understandable you wanna have money to take care of your woman. But thinking that's ALL you need to "keep" her, is totally wrong. And what happens when the money is no more there? (not your portion though). Cos trust me, if you like, have all the money you can & you don't meet up my expectations, forget it. I found myself in such a situation recently. It's good to be focused & focused. Continue. When the time comes, the right woman & love will come. You are welcome again. I didn't receive feedback from you on the other mention before this one. Check. |
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Ebuka2016:Sorry for the late response. I just saw this. Hmmm....this is serious. I think something must have happened to bring you to this state. You must have been hurt maybe not necessarily repeatedly but by someone you loved so dearly. I'm saying this cos of the firsthand experience I had with my Cancerian friend. Looking at him, he's on a very far opposite direction with love cos the person he has always loved has birthed a monster in him. So I don't see him loving again in a long while. Not only that, I don't see him loving genuinely again...except a Miracle happens. @first bolded, that's cos you don't want it to be. Once beaten is twice SHY not twice DESTROYED. You have allowed yourself to be so cold that the prospect of love fills you with so much dread that you don't wanna try again. You brought this upon yourself so only you can fix it as well. It starts from the mind. @second bolded, surprisingly, my friend was always saying that. Kept complaining about how loving someone will make him weak and powerless and the person having so much influence over him. I see! I understand better now. Honestly, I don't know what to say about this cos it's all in the mind and I can't control your mind. PS: if all I said up there about you isn't true, please let me know so I won't counsel again. Lol. I'm still learning. |
Jagaban880:Yes I do. I know a lot about them by God's Grace. A whole lot. @bolded. You don't give up. Not yet I don't know how old you are but I have a feeling there's still time for you to do that. |
BabbanBura:Some people need to be schooled on how to talk. Kudos to you again! |
Mryacks:Thanks. |
sirBLUNT:Hey....how did it go? Meet me there? |
cassyrooy:I kinda agree with her. Too many perverted people around. Especially nowadays when a guy & a lady can't have normal conversation for even just a day without talking about sex. Remove sex talks from some people's chat routine, you will see chaff. No substance. Again, it depends on the people involved. For me, if I want to visit a guy & I know that you are the kind of person who doesn't have self-control, well, I won't even visit. But let's assume I hope that you won't be that heartless to me, we MUST discuss that before I come or he comes. That being said, I try my best by God's Grace not to fall into "demons" trap. I only visit "sensible" people. It's actually a huge risk going to someone's house for the first time. Some even spend the night. It's a huge risk I must confess. The best thing I do is trust my guts. Somehow, if it will end up in stories that touch, something will happen & I will separate from the person before we get to see. What's your view? |
Ebuka2016:Lol @getting depressed when you get too emotional. I understand you though. I feel that way but only when I know that the person I'm feeling this way for doesn't feel same or is not worth it. But other than that, it's love all the way ![]() Cheer up. Love is a beautiful thing |
cassyrooy:Lol...I thought I was beyond that too. I just found them dropping. Thank God I was alone. Would have been embarrassing. Lol But that's football for you. So unpredictable and full of suprises. Some days are like that for some teams. That's the sad and unfortunate truth. CR7 is the only one in Portugal national team. I see his frustration at his team mates during matches. The whole weight is on him. And what exactly can only one man do? I was really just barely hanging on to hope when they were pitched with that formidable team: Uruguay. I'm seriously rooting for France. I hope they progress to the sem-final & win eventually. Japan really pressed Belgium. I was really sad when they left. Such determination shoulda be rewarded. They were both great teams anyway. Well, you did. Cos I remembered. |
Ebuka2016:Oh yeah? Even though love hurts most times, you won't deny it's a beautiful thing, will you? |
cassyrooy:Me too. That's the truth. I didn't just have high hopes against them. I expected them to loose. Tell them o. ![]() |
Luxuryconsult:I just saw this.... You have a point. I'd say he's still being influenced by the sign. He hasn't fully discovered himself yet & convert most of those weaknesses to strengths. I also look out for weaknesses in friends first before the strengths. I don't focus on them rather I use them to know how to follow them & see if I can complement them. But a lot of people are masyer in deception. They project their fakeness as strengths while hiding their weakness only to bring them out when it is almost too late & you have invested so much emotions. The most foolish thing an adult who claims to be mature can do is to look at himself or herself as someone without weaknesses or that his/her bad character is somehow less than others. Some will make you feel like you are nagging when you tell them something about them you are not comfortable with. They are ALWAYS making excuses for their actions and end up making you feel bad that you even said something in the first place. They NEVER admit they are wrong. I fear those people like Willy-Willy ![]() There are obviously lots of things wrong with relationships these days that the thought of entering one feels one with dread. But I know all will be well at last. ![]() |
Kelamma:I'm telling you. I can't even imagine it myself. |
cassyrooy:No na...at least we would have tried. And it would also go on record that we crashed out in the knockout stage and not in the group stage. Germany surprised even themselves. They were soooo terrible. But the ones that broke my heart was Portugal. Nigeria and Portugal were the two teams I shed tears for when they left. At this stage now, I have no team I support. Anyone is free to win. Except maybe I will root for France: for beating Argentina who beat us or Belgium: cos of my handsome Hazard. That's the most important thing to know. Welcome back here ![]() I know. You have said it before now ![]() |
cassyrooy:Ok....will do. |
cassyrooy:Croatia is strong so I wouldn't have staked anything abeg...Football is unpredictable though. I predicted Iceland winning us but we won. I predicted us winning Argentina, they won. At that point, I gave up. Lol The hype was too much o. It served as a distraction for them I guess. |
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