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ElBenny:
Hi guys. I need your comment and advice on this matte.

I got to know this girl from a friend back in July.
She's a 23 year old final year LLB student and I'm 27 years old Lab Scientist.

We got talking at first and I began to develop interest in her.
She's calm, cool headed and has never even bothered me with any financial needs (which I'm still stunned about, very unlikely of Port Harcourt girls).

I'm very selective of girls but found this one to be very decent and maybe different.
I have plans of taking things serious with her.

We've gone out in a date at a bar once and it was all shades of amazing, there we shared our first kiss.

Just recently, on Sunday, a friend celebrated his birthday at a night club here in PH (411). I thought to invite this babe, she was pleased and accepted the invite.

We got there, ate, drank and it was dancing time with the DJ and hypeman.
We danced and she was wild on the dance floor with me. I was quite surprised but kept my cool because of the atmosphere.

The next shock happened, one of the big boys began throwing money up in the air, minted ₦100 & 200 notes and this babe legit left me and began picking money on the ground.

I brought her close, but she would let go and kept fighting with the crowd for the cash, she was almost trampled on.
For more than 15 minutes, I watched her picking.
I was quite embarrassed.

Shortly after, we left and I dropped her off.

I've not been the same again since then, I've struggled with myself to communicate with her unlike before.

I know money is important, but is that a bad sign?
Is this a red flag?
Should I ignore her actions and forge ahead?
I'm really confused.

Lexusgs430:
So when he is sick, he can stroll in (since he would no longer have access to the presidential jet and vault).......

Naijalarry:
Source- https://gazettengr.com/in-new-story-tinubu-claims-he-made-his-wealth-from-inheritance/

obynzo:
You don't have sense. It is human capital investment that drives growth

mrvitalis:
Let me give you a very simple illustration

Between akwa ibom and abia which have more infrastructure ? Which is more economically viable

I rest my case

mrvitalis:
Has obi not been proven right now ? After osibanjo and buhari investment in infrastructure how is the economy ?

Remember this debate between obi and osibanjo ... osibanjo said infrastructural development is the key way to drive economic growth

Obi argued that human capital investment and development is the first thing you need to tackle first that infrastructure can come later

4 years down the line after billions in phantom Infrastructural projects that can't even break even in 500 years ..Nigerians are poorer today than they were 4 years ago

I know as an Urchin you can never understand what I wrote up there it wasn't for you tho

addasjohnsona:
Ask Peter Obi same question and see wisdom in another dimension. Those supporting Tinubu are part of the problem of this country.

BigYash:
Politicians alone want to be enjoying the country. And those limit shit won't affect them.. Once they get to the bank and talk with bank manager.. Give him small %tage,they will still do what they want to do . CBN is just out to put more hardship on poor masses.. Useless CBN Governor ,useless Apshit ,useless finance minister ,useless buhari

SocialJustice:
Everyone in APC are being forced to support Tinubu by default, including those who have no interest in doing so. Serious milking is also going on by party leaders, giving Tinubu false hope.

I'm in the system and have first hand information from other party followers and leaders. Even some leaders are doing it just to save face and collect money. I know one in my state that just got a brand new car courtesy of Tinubu campaign.

Tinubu will receive the shock of his life when results start pouring in.

Nigerians are not fools.

Golan007:
Why the infinity symbols on their hats?

Kwanza:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.sunnewsonline.com/imo-lp-state-assembly-aspirant-slumps-die/%3famp

Fujiyama:
^^^
It wouldn't be fair, wise or realistic to expect Mr. Tinubu to have all the attributes of a good leader. He wouldn't be human if he did. But I do not believe he has enough of those attributes to do the job he is seeking.

Your question about 'who decides what quality is to be had or not' is a fair one. You have also provided the answer. Voters decide in the end. I am a voter and I presume you are one too. I have just one vote though. If in the end enough voters decide to elect Mr. Tinubu, then so be it. But I still maintain he is not the right man for the job.

Fujiyama:
^^^
Ok. Now we are stepping things up a gear or two.

Great point you made about institutions. But strong institutions go far beyond the LASTMAs and LAWMAs (important as they are) of this world. My favourite example is freedom of information legislation. Despite Goodluck Jonathan's failings (and they are many), his administration signed freedom of information legislation into law at the federal level. What did the then ACN governor in Lagos do? What did the the then ACN dominated LASG lawmakers do? Absolutely nothing. Then governor Babatunde Raji Fashola made the terrible, unbelievably cynical claim that this legislation cannot be domesticated at the state level (whatever the hell that means). To this day, as far as I'm aware LASG has not passed any FOI legislation.

If Bola Tinubu was the institution builder you claim he is then we would have seen his impact in things of this nature. But that is not the case. And no, it isn't because he is no longer in government. Was he in government when LASG lawmakers attempted to pass a law enthroning Alphabeta consulting as a revenue/tax collector in Lagos state for eternity?

Tinubu is not the right man for the job.

Aufbauh:
Tinubu leadership style as demonstrated in Chatham house has endeared him to me the more.

He shows high sense of capacity & dexterity to delegate competent hands & a top notch team player.

I've always believed that the President must not be the know-it- all candidate but the one who has the capacity & managerial experience to spot competent hands, delegate, and coordinate to ensure the job is done.

babajero:
Buhari has completely abandoned government to people around him while he jamboree around the world, and that is exactly what tinubu is planning to do, but this time it will be worst because tinubu is completely gone.

Fujiyama:
There are several - too many to mention. No human being has all of them.

Integrity. Qualifications (Formal & informal). Experience. Empathy. Patience. Vision. And so on.

obyno82:
Taa!!!!! keep quiet there let God not strike you dead with these your lies. In the US election did you see Biden delegate anyone to answer questions on security, foreign policy or US economy to anyone?

clevybrown:
It's clear and understandable that all APC and Tinubu supporters don't need brain to operate... But Please remember to get ur brain back when all this political madness is over... Ur mental health is at stake and U are sounding demented already....

Fujiyama:
^^^
The man is not qualified to lead.

You know this.

ZKOSOSO:
Everyone knows but wahala for naija no le people see am

SteveDGreat:
Babachir Lawal has urged the North East Stakeholders to ensure they do everything possible to make Peter OBI Win the next election.
He said it's a must.
If Peter Obi fail to win this election, we are finished.

Watch his full speech at the North East Stakeholders Interactive Session


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2ClLJc_JGWY

mrvitalis:
This can only make sense to urchins

because what can be more insulting than this

obyno82:
Oga your IQ is poor. There is no where in this world that a candidate delegates questions meant for him to give us his Thoughts to not his running mate but someone who is not contesting. hmmmm Fear God oooo and have conscience.

obyno82:
Oga your IQ is poor. There is no where in this world that a candidate delegates questions meant for him to give us his Thoughts to not his running mate but someone who is not contesting. hmmmm Fear God oooo and have conscience.

obyno82:
Chai you are a nutcase honestly

clevybrown:
shut up.... U are saying nonsense!!

Mrtaye:
It's not about hatred I am actually from Abeokuta and I see many activities proceeding presidential elecrions world over like USA,Canada, Australia, France etc I always look forward to their presidential debates which is norm ....but it amazes me when I look forward to that of my country and my expectations are dashed

Digriz:
onye eriri eri

obyno82:
The worst thing that can happen is for someone to keep fooling himself trying to defend the indefensible. That is what you are

Lightorder:
you are a hopeless IDIOT!!!!!!

kk2027:
Right thing?
I was about to reply, then i saw the bold. No need

HBB1:
God will punish you!

Don't you have a conscience?