IyaTola:
Jealousy has absolutely nothing to do with love. nothing whatsoever. it is stifling, oppressive, and potentially abusive. it is a gigantic red flag in a relationship. if you are with a partner who feels jealous of the other people in your life, get out now. don’t expect the jealous behaviour to change. It probably won’t. If you are the jealous party, please seek professional treatment to address whatever underlying issues are fuelling your jealousy. you don’t own your partner. you don't have any right to control what they do, or who they do it with. Even if they are cheating on you. That is their right. The only right you have — the ONLY right you have — is to choose to leave the relationship if you don’t approve of your partners actions. but controlling their behaviour is not an option for you.

word!

But then jealousy is a human inclination just like breathing. I dare say: no human is above jealousy. Learning to control one's feelings and reactions maybe key to suppressing jealousy. The operative word here is "maybe".

FreeStuffsNG:
Afigba ti e ko ba boy yen. Smh.

After his case in Zimbabwe, he will be transferred to Nigeria to face the justice system for his criminal defamations

If he's innocent then he has no problem.

keep reposting the hashtags

FreeStuffsNG:
Afigba ti e ko ba boy yen. Smh.

After his case in Zimbabwe, he will be transferred to Nigeria to face the justice system for his criminal defamations

If he's innocent then he has no problem.

:Dkeep reposting the hashtags

I can confidently say that late marriages in the US is solely attributed to alimony.

A larger one was caught in Indonesia. I don't know if it's still alive now but I know it broke Cassius' record at the time.

Adighi ekwere mgbagbu aghara ogu.
He who has ears let him hear. Be warned!

Why is a lawyer the commissioner of works, what happened to all the engineers in the state?

Pesin wey dey naked no dey put hand for pocket

vanitybutiwanti:
You saw the way he won the elections and you're still expecting the court to remove him? Who or what is fuelling your delusions? APC is not GEJ led PDP, they are very ruthless, it's no coincidence that they instructed their lawyers not to talk to the press. If you as a person was announced as the winner of the presidential election, will you allow the courts to remove you with the resources you have at your disposal? obi doesn't have a case and he knows it, he has to follow through with the process to soothe his teeming supporters. A man like BAT that knows how to use power can never be removed by the court in Nigeria, I can't wait for the judgement to be passed so we can have some sanity on our cyber space.

Cowards die a thousand and more deaths!! Peter Obi is not a coward, he will pursue this thing to its logical end. And logic dictates that a fraud cannot be allowed to continue parading himself as what he is not.

As for people like you who says Obi has no case simply because Obi's valid case is against your brother, you will be put to shame when the judiciary will uphold the tenets of the law.

I was telling a friend recently that I find these useless skits infinitely infuriating. Everybody now wants to be a bloody skitmaker.

Rubbish dry jokes/videos they keep posting.

Bloody nuisance.

Even the advanced American military drone shot down by the Iranians did not cost up to $5bn.

tobechi74:
What’s Wrong With Sex?
Is there anything wrong with two people coming together and just having sex — for fun — without first having an emotionally intimate relationship (assuming safe sex is practiced of course)?

I was raised to believe the answer to this is yes, that there is something wrong with it.

As a sophomore in high school, I had to write a school paper on why premarital sex was wrong. I did the assignment and regurgitated what I needed to get an A.

Privately I had doubts about what I was taught. And of course I went ahead and had premarital sex anyway, which turned out to be a lot of fun with no guilt or regret.

Looking back, I think I would have preferred to get an F on that assignment and had more fun instead.


Your sexual orientation does not define you
Today I see absolutely nothing wrong with having sex just for fun, as long as it’s done safely and consensually. I think those who feel that sex is wrong, dirty, or immoral are terribly repressed. I’ve never met a genuinely happy person that felt this way about sex. Perhaps if such people just got laid more often, they wouldn’t be so grumpy.

Prerequisites for Sex
What prerequisites do we actually need to engage in sex? A willing partner is really all that’s required. If you have a willing partner, you can have sex.

Serious rocket science here, eh?

Just to be clear, let’s assume your body and your partner’s body are physically capable of having sex as well.

All other rules, constraints, and requirements arise from social conditioning and are therefore unnecessary.

You don’t need to be married or in a committed relationship.

You don’t need to be dating.

You don’t need to be in love.

You don’t need an opposite-sex partner.

You don’t need to be exclusive with your partner.

Your partner doesn’t need to be exclusive with you.

You don’t need to be programmed in multiple techniques.

You don’t even need to have met the other person first.

All you need is consent

Definitely not the Tobechi I know; there's no way on earth he'd have acquiesced to this madness by the Swedes.

JoeyNaza:


Monsters you made.

When you malign, assault, denigrate and stifle a people so long and so much.

Every opportunity to prove you wrong and otherwise must be loud and deafening and it must stay that way.

If I accomplish global success, I won't waste time claiming Nigeria first, it's Igbo first because where I come from since the time of Ahmadu Bello, they've always got the hate to say thrash about us so why shouldn't I represent loudly. See the last election and the drama people pulled on Igbos.

Igbo amaka. If e pain you go knack head for wall.

WORD!

abhosts:
I bought dollar @ ₦780 on Friday.

So what magic do you want new President to perform about weak Naira? Does he have a dollar-printing machine?

His only realistic approach would be to convince multinational oil companies to increase their investments in Nigeria to raise our oil production to about 3m barrels per day. But even this option would take a few years to achieve.

Must it always be oil based?

I can name three countries whose per capita income betters Nigeria's yet they're not oil-producing.

These politicians here are quite ingenious at looting the commonwealth but comatose in creating.

The western media are beginning to look stupid with all these their desperate show of shame.

If the law in US says "it is mandatory to have a licence if you own firearms" and a couple falls afoul of that law, they are arrested and their kid taken from them and placed under government custody. The media will report it as is. But when the law in North Korea says "do not own a bible" and a couple falls afoul of that law and are arrested and their child taken from them into government protective custody, the western media will come out to report nonsense all in a bid to paint the Korean government bad.

Make una rest oh! Propaganda no dey tire una? People now know better.

dgmoni123:
Congratulations to Brighton...spures is the most useless team on earth

With a very useless owner, that Daniel Levi

Samantha124:
But I feel for some of you men... I can't imagine what it's like to be financially responsible for the bills, a wife, and kids.

If I was a man, I was probably going to prefer staying single and just do one night stands.

If you were a man you'll prefer to do one-night-stands instead of getting married but as a woman you want to get married to a man and bear his name eh?

Well I hope the man you get married to don't have this kind of mindset you're envisioning for men, else....

I hope a whole lot of people will see this tread and learn a thing or two about the intricacies of dealings in the corporate world.

You must give more details...

I have come to understand that the way most nairalanders see things (which I must say is) from a very myopic and uneducated perspective is the same way most of the politicians in Nigeria see too.

Have you wondered why Nigeria, a commercial-quantity oil-producing country cannot boast of one fully functional crude oil refinery? Have you asked yourself why Nigeria a country that has a coastline spanning over 800km, bordering on seven southern states of the country will congregate their most functional ports in just one of those states, knowing fully well that that state has a very small terrestrial area for the large scale of human presence the ports will invoke?

The politics of hate and tribalism is a major limitation to the growth of Nigeria; it is the reason why we have a sane person loosing all sense of reasoning when it pertains people of his descent against those he sees as outsiders.

The mindset must first be changed then other changes will follow suite.

Hmm... Ok.

ruffDiamond:
Prayers don't always work! it's total bulsh1t!use your brain and apply logic to things regularly, be a realist and find,devise solution to problem . that's what the white do!be proactive,be pragmatic,above all be a free thinker like me problem no dey finish but solution sef no dey ever end

you live because of the whites?

Anyways, you still have time to repent. What no one knows is when that time will elapse.

erad:
From my little understanding of this war and war in general, it's safe to say Putin is baiting USA and NATO...

He can as well end the war tomorrow if he wishes, he's only extending it as long as possible to bait NATO into a direct involvement and give them the impression of a weak Russian army that can't even defeat Ukraine.

Ukraine is just unfortunate enough to be the bait in a much bigger scheme.

Very insightful! Exactly my thoughts too.

Most commenters here don't know that war is 90% strategizing 10% battle.

I strongly feel Putin is goading those backing Ukraine into joining the fray full-time.

Btruth:
Change your thinking, change your life (2)

Sun, 14 May 2023

‘He who walks with wise men will be wise.’ Proverbs 13:20

If you’re surrounded by negativity, look for a better environment. Advertising Executive, Charlie Brower said, ‘A new idea is delicate. It can be killed by a sneer or a yawn; it can be stabbed to death by a quip and worried to death by a frown on the right man’s brow.’ Negative environments kill great ideas every minute. A creative environment, on the other hand, becomes like a greenhouse where ideas are seeded, then sprout and thrive. In order to grow, you must seek out people who are committed to personal growth. Such people: 1) Encourage creativity. When innovation and good thinking are openly encouraged and rewarded, people see they have permission to be creative. Freedom to be creative encourages people to stay engaged in a task, regardless of its challenges. 2) Are willing to risk failure. Even when you have studied and prepared yourself thoroughly, you will have to try several times before you succeed. So, you need to be in an environment where mistakes are viewed as part of the creative process. 3) Believe in the potential of a dream. A creative environment encourages the use of a blank sheet of paper and the question, ‘If you could draw a picture of what you want to accomplish, what would it look like?’ A creative environment allowed Dr Martin Luther King Jr to speak with passion and declare, ‘I have a dream,’ not ‘I have a goal.’ Goals may give focus, but dreams have power. Dreams expand your world. And God is the giver of dreams and visions (see Joel 2:28).

Word!

Peter Obi stands for the emancipation of Nigeria from multi-dimensional poverty.

Anybody who doesn't know that yet is in need of spiritual help.

chatinent:
As you stumble upon a delicate flower, you extend an invitation to dance with fate, or perhaps let destiny's threads weave their way. But to ravage the petals and then offer a courtship? Even a mere child could discern the wolf in sheep's clothing.

Very poetic. Are you a poet?

Staphylococcus:
🤣🤣🤣🤣


With just one tank left in Russia!

Putin should accept defeat and move-on! It’s becoming a show of shame!



Russia is now the first country to parade only one tank in a military parade. History made!


Ukrainian Armed forces have fried all Russia got!

I hear staph affects the brain.

yarimo:
Aisha Yusufu always speaking like a fool

hypocrisy is fighting dirty against Jonathan in 2015 but crying foul about Obi in 2023

ganisucks:
I'm sure Aisha Yesufu doesnt really mean this.

Election no be war

I hope you said this to buhari in 2015?

xxxtedyxxx:
So south Africa sef get weapons...??

No jokes oh, they even have fission devices.
In weapons production they're way ahead of Nigeria

You people should go back and read the Obi speech again. That was not an apology, he simply pointed out the mischievous intent of the opposition hiding behind the obedient movement to forment trouble and constitute nuisance.