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iCauseTrouble:
Real men don't pay for sex. Just have focus and see girls open it wide for you.

Oga, no one is talking about hookers here, you spend to spice up your relationship and at least pays for drinks and so on at first date. You dont just grab a lady on the street to open legs for you, face the reality sir.

iCauseTrouble:
Don't spend on any girl that is not your mum or sister. It's not worth it. Also remember to use your PVC wisely.

Agree, but remember you cant have sex with sisters and mother if there is need for it.

Spend wisely and according to your capacity, that is all.

kwenu:
and what is wrong with marrying a [b]repentant [/b]prostitute if shes there to help your destiny, compared to a young virgin who dosent give a Bleep about helping your destiny?

what do you think women are? 90 percent of all women in nigeria have prostituted for one thing or the other, wether for favour, position, money, fame, etc. women can easily bend because of pressure , its thier nature. thats one of the reason why we encourage that they get married to a man who can defend them.

There is wisdom in your post.

Britishcoins:
I am 26 years and I have never had sex, may God continue to help me until I get the good wife.
But nowadays, I don't know why women are chasing men, just last week inside church, this beautiful lady asked me for my whatsapp number, me that hate chatting anyway I gave it to her, maybe it is because of this Xmas,


On a serious note many misfortune men encounters today is the product of what their man hood brought to them during their youthful age.....

Fear women say no to sex......

lol, you are gradually wasting your youthful enjoyment. Fornication is bad agree but you need to date few girls while still young before you finally settle down. Men with this kind of mentality usually end up with package or repentant prostitutes.

Alot of fix matches in the final game of champions league especial Madrid vs Olympiacos.

tamethem:
Op let me tell you a true life story.
I have a friend who grew up in Ile Ife . He is presently a radio presenter. He is an inquisitive person and he grew up like that. Several times when we are less busy and in a jisting mood he tells us his experience from childhood growing up in Ile Ife. Ile Ife is a Yoruba town. Take a trip to such towns if unsure that Juju exists. Meet the elderlies, they will show you some samples. You will surely come back to start another thread and the titled might sound like

"Juju is Real I nearly died"

My guy said there was a night they the children gathered at night as usual when he was like between 16-17 years . He said they were arguing loudly . Some said there is nothing like a dead's spirit walking around, some were saying it exists. They argued till they left for their different homes to sleep.

He said the following morning one elderly man living in the area call them all to his house , the man was a blind man due to age but everyone knows him to be a Juju man. He said the man told them he heard all of them arguing yesternight and he will not tell them if dead spirit exists or not. But he told the eldest among them about 4 or 5 years older than others to come to him when ever someone who is not elderly dies in their area. Several months almost a year a young man who is a public transport driver died in an accident.

My friend said he himself was the one that went to call the guy and reminded him of what baba told them long ago. He said the guy ran to babas house and told baba someone not elderly just died.

Baba entered his room, brought out a small charm and told the guy to put it in his pocket and go and greet them for the loss at the house where the guy died.
He said the guy told him the moment he put the thing in his pocket he felt strange. He was walking as if once in a while walking with legs not touching the ground.
He finally got to the house and saw people crying and wailing with the body of the guy on the ground outside in the compound and strangely the same guy again moving around in the crowd checking ppls faces ,like being surprised to see them crying ,he said he suddenly went to the outside kitchen area picking the bottle of salt and changing the position picking the bottle of oil changing the position. Changing the position of every things in the kitchen. He was acting strangely. It was the guy only seeing the spirit every other ppl were crying and sympatising. He said the guy that put charm in the pocket started shivering and ran back to Baba with fear, told the blind man everything he saw, returned the charm and went back home on getting home, he fell sick instantly and spent weeks on the bed acting strangely. My guy said the paeents went to fight with the blind man for putting the life of their kid in danger. They eventually had to go and call Juju men to come and do rituals before the guy became normal again.

My point here is there are lots and lots of issues in life that humans can't explain. Not the Juju issue alone but Spirit issues, UFOs etc. But the fact that we can't explain it doesn't make them none existing.

There was a time no one knew the earth was a ball, There was a time we didn't know other planets exist but did that stop them from existing, There was a time we believed there were only nine planets, now many others have been discovered, but did that make the new ones none existing? No we only didn't know they existed. So Life is beyond the knowledge of you and me.

Many of you guys funnily attribute such issues to Nollywood . Youve got to know juju is real.

Juju is real.

lol. This sounds like fabricated story.

Headlesschicken:
A colleague of mine once asked me that question,when i wanted to ask her for a favor, like play like play,asked me d second time to give her d location,she wasn't my type though so i jokingly turned her down,she has been married too for a while now, without a child, don't blame her though,d pressure x gradually catching up to her...

Yes, you took a very good decision. it is a simple logic every man should adherence to. There is 95% chance they will kill him sooner or later.

@op, i'm so surprised those advising you didnt mention the danger of helping someone you know/ knows you very well to impregnate his wife.

If you dont want to waste your life, just turn than the offer and advise them to go for IVF.

ollah1:
He might have lost the love and trust his children had for him. Perhaps his wife has told the children several negative things about their father which made them evade the country entirely. This thought lead to depression and loneliness and the final straw(suicide).

R.I.P to the man.

You might be right, but i will still call him a weak ignorant man. Even a poor man would've easily find a young woman to marry to keep him out of loneliness. He can adopt two children, hire the househepls(gate man, cook, etc), with this loneliness will run away from him.

authehighness:
you should be concern about your miserable life under the lifeless one,stop taking paracetamol for another man headache,face your front

Why not reason with what he just pointed out from Kanu statement? I read the breakdown of his broadcast, and there was no where he genuinely mentioned/sympathised with lost souls caused by his selfish interest but rather lamenting on his dead dog.

alexistaiwo:
God bless you for this.
Many times that me and my ex fought because she visited while I was doing my laundry and I rejected her offer of helping me out.

There was this underG early twenties female neighbor who usually help me wash whenever she is around in exchange for money.

The day I started getting intimate with her, I cancelled the washing agreement.

I don't want someone to start doing what Yoruba call "iregun" for me incase of breakup.

Maybe you always have alot of free time to do that. Some dont, sometime after an hectic day, some even find it difficult to make tea for themselves.

Ishilove:
I don't blame her. Some of you men abuse the privilges a humble and domesticated woman gives you.

The guy is taking good care of her according to op, so dont think it's bad if she help him once in awhile as a little form of appreciation for his effort on her.

@op, tell your friend to be a man and stop pampering unworthy woman. Of what use is a girlfriend that you're feeding, sponsoring her education, giving her pocket money and the only thing she offer is SEX(something he can get with as little as 2k).

I laughed when i see people saying they cant stop something they were addicted to. True of the matter is that, humans tend to continue doing a particular thing as long as they still have the resources, will or chances to do it.

Nothing can help you until you start having a lot of responsibilities, gone broke and have no other means to borrow or steal.

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2. current semester.

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Thank and God bless!

Dreambeat:
Even Zidane can’t save Man U.Man U need an overhauling of the players not just the coach

The coach is simply terrible and lack good tactics to manage these players. Except "Young and Fellani, every other player can comfortably play in any big team in Europe.

If he refuse to amend his behavious and tactic, Man U might be the last big team to hire Mourinho.

MRSoftapples:
Lol yeah i understand your point but any confirm guy won't complain of 6k if spent on a lady without demanding for sex..

I pity you guy. The only way to financial freedom or wealth is to appreciate every single penny from your income. Never say any amount is too small again even if you have billions in your account.

The rich dont always spend carelessly but for a purpose or to create more wealth.

IamPatriotic:
I love Ooni's social engagements and royalty, he's too majesty to be having marital problems, I think his High Majesty should have settled for a modesty and relatively known Ile-ife breaded diadem, rather than all these classified oloshos.

Perhaps he doesnt have a good adviser. Instead of him to pick a good virgin woman from a decent family from his tribe, he keep looking for high class runs girls as Olori.

Throwback:
You don't even know what surrogacy is.

The child's mother is the one whose egg was used and not the carrier of the pregnancy. So no asking for mother will occur, except an asking for his/her carrier.

The surrogate does a job of carrying a pregnancy that was conceived by the sperm and egg of the client couple. If the surrogate has any contact with the child at all in the future, she only has an emotional connection and not a biological or genetic connection.

And there is no reason not to even inform the child that he was carried as a foetus by a surrogate to begin with. That does not in any way confuse his/her biological ancestry.

Lol, i dont comment on what i know nothing about.

I'm only talking about its repercussion on society in the near future. Human are emotional being even in the faces of laws.

Since anything we say seem illogical or unscientific to you guys, i wish you best of luck then.

pocohantas:
LOL,well said.
The ignorance I am seeing on this thread, is surprising.
Not surprising sha, this is Nigeria

You are the one Ignorant here, .it's very legal and widely accepted in western countries because they're yet to see or think of repercusion this has to bring(on surrogate mother and the child) in the future.

Mark my word or comment today, "Surrogate mother" will eventually be ban or regulates in Western countries.

Some scientific discoveries cannot be totally effective withiout nature, read wide please.

oshe11:
Try it here and end up having a 2nd Wife....

Most Nigerian girls are deceptive

Dont mind him,not only Nigerian women, no woman on earth will see her child after some years and not feel emotionally in the name of surrogacy. Also what child on earth will not ask of his/her mother if he get to know he was born through surrogacy.

Surrogacy will soon be banned even in western countries.