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Eberechi24:
giving your number to a girl without collecting her meaning FLIRTATION. in Nigeria men chase girls not the way round

Lol, that is not a flirtation. Besides, not every man chase girls around these days, girls do chase some men too.

Women are naturally fulled with ego, therefore, it is in their nature to always wanted to find out why a man act contrary to their expection. If op is a well respected nice guy in their midst ,she will definitely call him within hours or days.

lovediehatelive:
I fear for her... They might report her

Dont ask for her number in the present of other girls or try to use her phone, this will ridicule you and damage your chances. Just write your number on a piece of paper and give it to her. If she didnt call, that mean she doesnt feel anything for you.

Guys, the best way to know if a girl like you or will eventually agree to date you is by giving her your card or number without collecting hers. If she bother to call or text, then the work is 80% done.

EdoBoy90:
Good points OP to reduce unemployment...

Engineering, Science ( Medicine, Mathematics, Physics, Chemistry) , ICT, Innovation, and Design Develop A Nation More. These are the top priorities for national development and to reduce unemploment in any nation. Israel, South Korea, japan, china etc are industrialised because they give topnotch priorities to the above.

Any Serious Nation Must Give Priority To the Above.

Nigeria Is Lagging Behind Because The Goverment Failed To Give Topnotch Priority To The Above.

We Will Get It Right When We Do The Right Thing.

History Is Silver While Science Is Gold. Engineering Is The Transformation of The World While Technology Is The Advancement Of Life.

No Engineering, No Development. No Science, No Progress. Science and engineering rule the world right from the days of Sir. Isaac Newton, Michael Faradays, Euclid of Alexandria, Galileo Galilei, Nikola Tesla, Charles Darwin, Aristotle, Archimedes, Marie Curie,Albert Einstein, Thomas Edison( General Electric has created Jobs for many across the globe), Pythagoras up till now science and enginering are still ruling and will continue to rule the world, Elon Musk, Mark Zuckerberg, Bill Gates etc.


Those who are into science and engineering are given top priority in Israel, US, South Korea, Japan, China, North Korea etc...

God bless you sir.

Industrialisation is the only key to economic development. But here in Nigeria we are talking about youths going into farming, CBN loan etc.

Priotize science and technology and give us 24 hours uninterrupted power supply and see the meaningful ecomonic development.

I've read alot of thread especially from this section about how guys suffered in the hands of girls in the name of toasting or whatever. Wooing a woman these days is no longer a rocket science, they are simply moved by what they see and sometimes your personality. I felt so sad whenever i see some young guys chasing girls up and down wasting the little cash they should've used to develop or educate themselves. Therefore, if you dont find yourself in this category, it means you need to develop yourself and stop lamenting women only want money or rich guys.

Giving attention by women- 10/10

Getting their contact details - 9/10

Get a date or meet up - 9/10

Getting a 2nd date or home visit - 8/10

Killing themselves over you - 7/10.

Want to marry you - 8/10

Spend on you or never ask for money or favour -6/10

In addition, you must have numrous number of friendzoned women or ones you dont pick their calls or reply their chats anymore.

If you are not in this category, you need to review your life and upgrade yourself, not only for the women but for yourself and everyone around you.

For the women, if you are an outgoing type, and you dont get wooed at least once in 2 months, my sister you need to check yourself very well.

BigSarah:
It's Been 3months Since We Last Did It, And He's The Hot Type.
His Reasons Are
-He Gets Acne Each Time We Do it
-He's Not Putting On Any Weight

How Do I Stop The Facial Acne and Weight Loss It's Ruining Our Sexual Life.

Reasonable Replies Thanks

Kindly check out what is missing in your sexual activities, he may be getting good sex from someone else.

TheCongo2:
Possible but very difficult given that your immigrant file is an indication of the intent to immigrate.

There have been cases where people with immigrant application on file had been given non-immigrant visa

Thank very much for the reply, i really appreciate it. I will apply with faith.

Please sir/ma, i need an individual or expert answer to this issue;

Please can someone whose immigrant visa filed have been approved be able to apply for a visiting visa.

AnonymousIP:
RIP TO HER SOUL ..

I WONDER WHAT NAIJA CELEBRITIES GO DO TO THIS MAN #APROKOGIRL Don Talk


INCASE YOU MISSED THE BLOODY PICTURES OF HOW SHE WAS KILLED - CLICK HERE

And where is the said pictures in you blog. Deceptive people dont make it big in life, just take note.

Sugar97:
So we both agree that money doesn't guaranty a peaceful marriage, right? That it may help reduce friction but doesn't guaranty a peaceful marriage?

Seem you dont get my point, money actually guarantee an happy marriage to some greater extents. The fact is that, there are some problems that is quite natural and inevitable to an avarage human being (rich or poor).

Let me give you an example of what money cannot solve in a relationship or marriage. Being diabolical, permanently impotient, jealousy, greed, quarrelling etc. Some of these things can be better managed by rich couples than poor ones.

There is only so much that money can do for you. I believe it gets to that point where money is no longer enough. That's one of the reasons rich couples get divorced.

Dangote has an ex-wife and he is very rich[/quote]Ok, i got your point now. However, problems are natural, something everyone (rich or poor) may encountered someday. Besides, the extent at which rich couples can endure a particular problem, poor ones might not be able to withstand the same for long due to their inadequacy.

Before someone could divorced the like of Dangote, a thousand of poor men must have been left by their wives for the same issue.

Sugar97:
By issues I mean problems

Let me guess the problems you were talking about could be "his time and attention" right? which i think is not a problem to majority women as long as they can get whatever they want with ease to show up their standard.

Sugar97:
Lol. Are you serious? So why are there rich guys who have issues in their relationships?

Issues like what?

@op, will you please stop talking and go straight to the point.

You have every right to get paid for your hard earned knowledges, so why beaten around the bush? This is a public forum with alot of jobless people looking for what to learn to make a living or to keep themselves busy. Just state the materials needed and how much to pay for your training, whoever interested will decide and contact you.

Stupidity is when you carried 3 man's defenders go meet Barca at home

Acidosis:
Please and please, if you're not doing agriculture on a large scale, it is not worth the time and effort.


If what you have in that plate is all you harvested, then I'm SORRY, it is not worth your time.

Dont mind them, many of them shouting "Agriculture" up amd down cant even do a plot of land farming successfully.

Telling an average person to go into agriculture withiout adequate technical orientaion is a wickedness and an attempt to impoverish the person.

lazeal:
He can't get the product. I am the only one that knows where to get it. Thanks for ur other words.

Since he cant get the product to supply the said person, i dont see why you're troubling yourself over this issue.

Just let him be for now, it is possible he is afraid of being sideline just like you( especially since your brother is involve). Except he had got the secrete of where to get the product, no one will hide such information and be successful if you actually have the final says on the product.

Dont spoil your relationship with him now, just relax, ignore and wait for him to ask you about the product. This is where you demand to speak with the buyer and stands on your right.

StarBukola:
wity four hundred k, u cannot open a gas plant, but with 400k u can open at least 3shops depend on your location. If u targeted your location well ,I can assure will see your 400k back within 6months

Damn, 6 whooping months?

@op, even at Red, with your 400k, you can make more than $500 trading cryptocurrency withing two weeks or a month.

Just get a mentor or follow a good telegram group.

sadiq4life:
I won't advise you to take loan from them (Lapo) because you will end up working for them as their interest rate is high.

The first place to look for investment capital is from family & friends (Thank God you already posses half). Be sincere & approach any of your family member(s) or friend(s) that can support. Make it a deal to motivate the other partner(s) i.e by entitling them to a share. Present analysis of your expected income, their share & the time frame you will pay back the debt.

Ride it yourself till its time to go back to school before you may hand it over to a reliable & trustworthy person. Give priority to paying off the debt.

I wish you unimaginable success.

You are an intelligent and a very experienced person. This is exactly what i wanted to advise him.

Just show them your plan and promise to pay them back.

Just listen to yourself, you left everything for him just because you trusted him or you dont have time to do it by yourself?

He has out smart you sir, but in case of next time, if you want to entrust enything in the hands of others even your blood relatives, make sure you hold an important key/secrete that he/she cant bypass without. An written agreement backed by law is not enough when dealing with close friends, relatives or dubious persons.

And most importantly, never trust any human being with your money, ideas and woman.

You channel is cool and very informative, but for that kind of beautiful channel, i suspect you may start asking for money later

Need your expert contributions or opinions here:
https://www.nairaland.com/4384440/stocks-opened-individuals-traders-like#65621735

If possible for NSE to do this, it would creates more awareness, boost the volume of trade and stocks performances.

This will definitely attracts more foreign investors and at the same time strenghten our Naira.

It is just a matter of time that the traditional method of using brokers, holding share certificated or a must CSC account would no longer be applicable to 21st century economy.

This is just a political game just like Chibook girls during Goodluck administration.

Cam down Mr. keenn, you can even offer your wife to your friends or neighbours since you care less of what she is doing with her life who cares.

Mindfulness:
So you have side girls but you see it as an embarrassment to your personality to be a side boy? Karma at its best. Go and repent instead of thinking about revenge.

They are not real/stable girlfriends like her, so dont think any Karma will fall on me.

Already followed someone advise here though.

Innobee99:
How am i sure is not even my babe u're talking about?

lol, this is the kind of embarrassment i was talking about.

I'm glad you said i deserved a loyal girl.

Richy4:
OP u should be given the Award of the most stalking guy ever... Calling her every 2 mins are you kidding me?

She said it was a family meeting, what if it was actually a family meeting and u were busy disturbing her while her parent was few centimeters away from her?..

You accused her of cheating and she was offering and explanation and you feel it was too much explanation.. if she refused to offer any, u will still say she got nothing to say... what do you really want..?

Please kindly Pay her Bride price and lay claim on her man... not trying to be the devil's advocate but enough of your stalking tendencies.. it will not help you in life.. u will only develop high BP..if u have a reason not to trust your spouse, find a way to break things up so that you can have your sanity back .

Stalking? I gat no time stalking a girl bro.

It is like you dont get my initial post, her no. was switched off throughtout that day but she was occassionally login on whatsap during this period. This were one of the reasons i keeps dailling her no. that evening to know if she has something she is hiding by switching off her phone.

madridguy:
Stop hurting yourself guy. Don't conclude yet when you don't have concrete evidence against her. FYI, she is just your girl friend not yet your wife so don't suffocate her.

Lol.

I'm in the same school of thought with your last sentence until she came up with this shit. It hurt me when someone i really like cheat on me, it make me feel as if 'm not good enough or just clueless. aside the fact that she refused to pick her call, she is been acting extra-ordinary nice on phone since morning, the same issue she would've teared me apart for accusing her wrongly. So she is guity.

Just advise me the mature way i can handle the issue like others commenters are doing sir.

I see this as a total embarrassment to my personality. Despite having few girls at my reach, i decided to make her my piority, my precious, someone i cant trade for any other thing.

My girl concelled our Val plan at last minutes, telling me she is travelling with her dad to their home town to discuss a family issue which she much be present. I was shocked and confused but said ok "safe journey" as she appologized she would make it up to me when she come back. Later something quickly comes to my mind that it could be all lies, so i rushed back home yesterday to try my trick on her by dalling her no. every 2 min( for where, it switched off). I keeps dalling and also monitoring her present on whatsap, luckly for me she was quickly put on her phone probably to check messages. I message her immediately, and she replies there was no power supply at her home time, so she couldnt charge her phone. But to my greatest surprise, my girl refused to pick my calls and insisted we can only chat, that she dont want their neighbour to hear she was making call. That was around 9:20pm o. I called her no. tired, she refused to pick but only replies me with message. I told her straight up she was with a guy but she denied it.

Please guys, i just need an appropriate punishement to employ at this junction. She just message me now that she was on her way coming back from the said home town.

There was fear and too much explanation in her messages(very unusual of her),so i'm 100% sure she was with a guy.

The only thing that attract ladies attention on social media are nice pictures and expensive background or probably your intelligent posts or updates. If you like use all the style in this world and get your messages ignored.

@op, most of the ladies you see on forums are probably introverts/indoor babes or not socialise.

Naturally, majority of females dont like anything that will seriously stimulate their brains, hence their avoidance of forums. Women are so much pre-occupied by alot of entertament stuffs than coming to a place where they will only read, read and read.