Lagos na wa. As a Lagos boy, growing up there prepares you for all eventuality you may or might come across in this crazy world. Mine happened many years back. Board a bus with with my lil bro heading to Ikeja from Oshodi very early momo. This conductor announcing no change oh and keep joining people with change wahala. I noticed that on this stop no one was getting down because no one has announced, so I told the conductor that is my stop. He immediately produced change from no way which all along saying no change. When we got to the stop, I told him wrong stop that it's not my stop...I just played him to get my change without being joined. He just smiled with thumb up.
If you live or born in Lagos without getting or learning any sense...then you're f**ked up.
You cheated and you found out that she still loves you vice-versa. Endless love of cheaters...Some people just give themselves chance to be hurt even when they see the hand writing clearly :/!
jbreezy: So the story goes like, my gf and I have been dating for 2 years now. I really love her cos she's so interesting, extremely caring and so good to me. She's a pretty one too. So I finished school ahead of her (We were in same school).
But we couldn't let each other go because we already love each other, so we continued the romance. I loved her after and I really gat plans to marry her even though I'm like 5 years older than her. I was going to wait till she finishes school (She was in 200 level when I left). So I went to visit her in school and out of curiosity, I checked her whatsapp chat...I read her chat with her very close friend (the best place to find the truth) Well well well...There was this gist about her having sex with a friend. Then another was about her trying to date a guy..It really broke me, but till today, I haven't challenged her...
Actually, I would have broken up if I dont love her up to this level cos I hate it when I'm being cheated on... But I don't think I'm ready to lose the girl..
So I met a very pretty lady lately... We've been talking and she's really been giving me all the greenlight a normal guy needs to see... This one is more mature (I felt like my gf is still probably at what y'all call the hoeing stage cos she's 21)... So I've been contemplating on leaving her for this one, by bringing up the cheating part (something like a chess game)...
Seriously, I still think I love her, and would have married her if she didn't do that... So I'm lost between challenging her and giving her another chance (cos she's going to obviously beg) or challenge her to leave her...Thanks and sorry for the long essay
Only thieves are employed in Nigerian Police force. It's one of the criteria for aspiring to be a police officer. In a sane country, will this happen; Definitely NO!!!
The evil men in dis country don't want anybody else to travel abroad except for themselves and family members. That's why, dey will do anything to frustrate your livin dis country. Don't want you to escape this shit hole ***"
travelwaka: My funny experience at Cotonou International Airport It is no more news that for some months, Nigerians can not travel to Dubai directly from Nigeria. This because of the issues between Emirate Airline, the Nigerian and the UAE government.
In the last few months, travelling to Dubai from Nigeria which used to be very easy has all of a sudden become a nightmare. To go on this trip, you will have to go through other countries and one of the easiest being Ghana and the Republic of Benin. This is because the two countries are our closest neighbours.
I have read several stories about different issues people have had in the Republic of Benin and Ghana. One of the popular stories was shared by Derende here https://www.nairaland.com/6544747/30-days-sojourn-through-cotonou Sometimes this month, A client contacted me to help him process a three months Dubai visa and also to plan his itinerary to Dubai via Benin republic. I processed the Dubai visa, booked the flight, then we headed straight to the Republic of Benin. I think he just got a sweet offer in Dubai.
To cut a long story short, on his travel date, we got to Cotonou Cadjehoun Airport. The Benin Airport is less rowdy, less congested and looking well maintained. That was when I got the shocks of my life. Firstly, the majority of the people going to Dubai from the Cotonou Cadjehoun Airport were Nigerians.
As we were driving into the car park, I realize most of the people doing bureau de change are Nigerians. We changed some money and headed straight to the departure. I met lots of Nigerians at the waiting area. You will almost think it is another branch of Murtala Muhammed International airport located in Lagos. Then the worst happened, as we were heading in, we saw 4 Nigerians coming out, at first I thought they were coming back. Only to get to the queue and we were told they were denied boarding. I got more curious, on further investigation, I later got to know that they backdated the date they got in, not knowing that The republic of Benin had changed their stamp. Unfortunate for them, they backdated with the new stamp.
I also saw another Nigerian who was arrested at the airport because he was trying to board with a fake visa. I can not believe someone would try to do that. I think the person he paid gave him a fake visa. He got locked up for some days. This is really painful. Then the last set of Nigerians that were rejected either have damaged passports or International passport with a picture that is not clear. The last sets of Nigerians that got denied were people who got late to the checking point. Here are the major reasons why you could get denied boarding at the Cotonou Airport.
Reasons for the rejection 1. Damaged passport: Any passport with stains, a picture that is not clear, damaged on any part of the data page is automatic rejection.
2. Fake visa: Please always try to confirm the validity of your passport. There was a passport that I saw which the user had mark on its left eye, she was rejected. Some one claim they are rejecting it on purpose just to frustrate Nigerians. LOL
3. Fake stamp: Please ensure you always stamp at the border, do not pay touts to stamp for you.
4. Backdated stamp: YOu are supposed to spend two weeks minimum at the Cotonou Airport before you are allowed to travel.
5. Expired covid 19 test: Please ensure you do your Covid 19 test on time so you can get the result on time.
Things to note when visiting Dubai through the Republic of Benin 1. you must spend a minimum of 2 weeks in the Republic of Benin 2. To be on the safe side, Make sure you stamp in Seme border rather than Idiroko border, I heard so many people are having issues at Idiroko when they arrive in Dubai. 3. Confirm your Visa validity online. 4. Get to the airport at least three hours before your flight 5. Do a VIP covid 19 test. You will get your result the same day. 6. If you can get an agent that is familiar with the route to help you out. It will save you lots of money in the long run. 7. Please get familiar with their currency , read more here about their currency here https://www.nairaland.com/6553232/comparing-nigerian-naira-benin-republic
Please ensure you follow all Covid 19 protocols, please try to do the right thing because once you are caught they will ensure you face the law. Have you had a similar experience? Please share below.
Right now, your immediate family and responsibilities is you and your husband expect otherwise. As he has said he doesn't owe your family any financial obligations expect he wants to do so on his own. If you still wants to be in your marriage, my advice is to be by your OWN FAMILY and not your family. 70l is not even enough to maintain one family talkless of adding another in present Nigeria.
Easyincome24: My Husband paid N580K for my Bride price and refused to help my family members ~ Nigerian Lady
A Nigerian Lady Identified as Elohor Okudu narrates how her husband has refused to help her own family members after paying almost N580k bride Price.
The story was shared by a twitter user identified as @SmartAtuadi, the lady is seeking professional advice as the issue bothers her.
She Wrote: “I got married 8months ago, my hubby earns 70k monthly while I am yet to get a job, during our wedding ceremony, hubby spent about 580k on the list given to him for the traditional wedding, I persuaded my parents to reduce the list but they said it is a must and a tradition.”
“He was able to raise the money as I wasnt working and I couldn’t help financially. After marriage I suggested that he should be sending something monthly to my parents as he does send to his parents too, but to my surprise the reply he gave me was that he didn’t owe my parents anything that they have collected all they are entitled to fromHelpNigerianally I was not angry about that until my younger brother wanted to get married and his bride family gave him list of things for the traditional wedding which amounted to 400k.”
“My dad then shared the expenses and told my husband to contribute 120k towards my brother’s wedding but to my surprise, my husband said no and told me that my family has collected all they wanted during our wedding and they shouldn’t come to him for any financial assistance, this got me angry and I told him that he is not responsible.”
“Ever since then we have been living like strangers in the house, he doesn’t talk to me, he has just been keeping to himself, and I have never seen him this way before not even in our 2 years of courting.
“Please our mummies and daddies, kindly advise me on what to do to save the situation, I am in between my husband and my family”.
scoredcard247: - Cameroon vs Nigeria did not produce any goals in their second friendly game played in Austria
- Both sides settled for a 0-0 scoreline and the Indomitable Lions had a game advantage better than the Super Eagles
- Gernot Rohr has won just five out of his 19 friendly matches since he became technical adviser of the national team
Cameroon vs Nigeria ended in a goalless draw as the Indomitable Lions had a best out of two legs, winning one and drawing the other.
On the part of the Super Eagles, it is a time to reflect and go back to the drawing boards to re-strategize the players’ performances.
With the Nation Cup six months away, Nigeria are still lagging behind in terms of blending the whole squad to become strong contenders for the soccer fiesta in January 2022.
Gernot Rohr’s men will begin their 2022 World Cup qualifying campaign against Liberia in September 1, and will take on Cape Verde four years later.
The fact about the three-time African champions is that they have not won in their last nine friendlies and since the appointment of Rohr, he has only managed five wins out of 19 test games.
The Nigeria Football Federation (NFF) should also pay attention to friendly games not only qualifiers and tournaments.
With the quality of foreign stars in Rohr’s possession, the German gaffer has no excuse to lose some crucial test matches even if a few of the players are not present in the team.
Some African and European countries are not blessed with the amount of talents scattered in all the top leagues in Europe, but they still manage to form formidable squad.
Being the longest serving coach of the national team, Rohr should not be handled with kids glove when executing matches in any capacity for the Super Eagles.
During the era of indigenous coaches, they were not give much time to groom a team to perfection. In fact they work under intense pressure and criticisms from the footballing body and fans.
Rohr could not qualify Nigeria beyond the first round at the 2018 World Cup while the late Stephen Keshi won the AFCON 2013 and with the same squad qualified into the round of 16 at the 2014 World Cup in Brazil.
Late Shuaibu Amodu won two AFCON bronze with the Super Eagles at the 2002 and 2008 AFCON and qualified the team to the South Africa 2010 World Cup, only to be sacked for Swedish Lars Lagerback before the tournament.
Anything less than winning the next AFCON competition should be the target set for Rohr and the next national coach should be employed at local level.
"...the House of Representatives on Sunday said such demand is not possible at the moment, stating that the 1999 Constitution only made provisions for amendments and not a brand new one..." You can just amend it with that of 1963 constitution. If that's what majority of Nigerians want. Bunch of thieves; they have seen their milk source threatened and are doing everything to KILL it.
Paid bunch of people... I'm in diaspora and I didn't endorsed him. And I know many more that did not. So, these are just few bunch of people speaking for themselves as in the photo. This doesn't represent the diaspora voice.
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Remember this name Nigerians and please don't forget this in a hurry. This are the evil men that has come to kill, destroy and steal from you. Most northerns are so bitter and hold grudge as in forever...is in their DNA.
Notiin seems to surprise or shock us anymore in dis kountry... Negative news na norm in dis kountry 99.99% of time. The only surprise or shocking here na positive news.
Perhaps that's why he's in the senate to get rich again. Stupid people, is not right oh my people my people. Dis peeple tink say we're stupid, sha. Fraud constitution and institutions are to blame in Nigeria, if not so dey all should be serving time in prison or ousted from power.
The face of lies in this government like the likes of Lai Mohammed, Garba Shehu and Femi Adesina will come to debunk this fact that's false. This government can make TRUTH feels bad. It is really sad the way things is going rotten in this country.
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Only if all ex international ( clueless or career winding down) could come back play for at least a season... It will go a long way in developing our league and football.
mamaafrik: Humility is all i see in musa...........
At least she alert you earlier before you begin training someone's else baby. Is either you run 4-4-40 like forest gump or stay. Padi mi, the decision is yours biko.
DSC7: I met this girl last week, we discussed for a while then i let my intentions known to her... She accepted and fell in love with me...
TBH i loved her too unconditionally, after 3days she paid me a visit, we talked, got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because i had no condom at home when she visited....
Yesterday she visited again and i heard the worst news i never expected...
As we were talking she was just staring in space, i noticed and asked her what is bothering her,, she was reluctant to open up but after persuading her she open up to me.....
She told me that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...
Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but i talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday i have been thinking of how to continue with her, I don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact... She looks so disturbed, betrayed and depressed but she told me that anytime she is around me she feels comfortable because i was still showing her love and caring despite her condition...
My brothers and gentle men i need your input because i am confused....
They should ask the bandits or boko haram or the military they all seemed to have same plan or agenda. Who knows, it might be parking somewhere in someone yard.
philanthropic: In the Bible, we saw God's people who were in the government. We have countries whose political system is not as complex as that of Nigeria. Now, can a Genuine Christian be a politician in Nigeria? with this corruption is it possible, and how?
Our Constitution is the biggest scam and one of the biggest problems among others facing and endearing growth and development in Nigeria.
Unless this is changed to reflect and represent Nigerians; we will have no peace, growth and development in this country, no matter who comes to power.
Well, we're technically at war. Don't ask me what I meant by this, you should ask the Nigerian military and the useless people in government. They knows what it means.
The rate of hatred among us, beats me. Tribalism everywhere in all threads and comments. No one thread that praises the country Nigeria without being tribalistic. Walaahi, we shouldn't be one biko, ogbemi...
Westin mi sabi! She might have cheated on you and just be forming for you to make you believe her faithfulness to you.
And moreso, you might have something that makes her still with you...well that is plus sha.
Tizzz78: We started dating last year December, we are cool with each other, we try as much as possible to avoid quarrels.. I noticed something about my girl, everytime she meets a new guy, she tells me about it whenever we chat or talk on phone..
Pls just kind of curious, what could b my girl motive to always tell me about every new guy that meets her and exchange contacts with her..
Any bashing is welcomed, na normal vibes for here as long as I get ur opinions..
PDP = APC with both names interchangeable with each other. If, we want change we should look for a different party with more progressive and aggressive in thinking
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