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Since he is the guy it wont matter now but later when he is getting OLDER and u are getting OLDER too,
when u will need things he can't provide,
I think that's what he is bordered about.
But if u can cope assure him that no matter what u will always be there.
Cos dating an older guy is kind of interesting,

Pls guys don't get me wrong oooooo
I JUST NEED A FRIEND NOTHING ELSE

Am tired of internet friends i need real friends.
Don't get scared, am not, u know the L word.
I don't just want male friends cos i can't visit them and they can't do the same, they will put me in trouble, ok my B.F is the jealous type. He is already complaining about the once i have now.
Am not a freak, i had female friends before but now some are married, working, and doing different things in different places, they are not always there for me when i needed them most - only phone calls.
I like truthful people,
someone with manners
In short the person's good side should out way the bad side
Not that am a saint but i need someone to make me better in the ways am lacking, and i will do the same.
LOCATION (very important) - Within Edo state, Delta state, Bayalsa & Rivers.

Pls contact me at - miona54@gmail.com

U are a Virgin right?

So u wont know the difference,

Cos i can pretend to be a virgin real good
and its quite sometime so its really V without H (that's hymen, just incase u don't know)
And some people really do not come sealed and parked.

Cheating is cheating when u start falling in love with the other party. You can be on top, under, or were ever u desire but dont ever fall in love,

Yes i have but there is dis one guy i wished for & i got he. It was sweet,
Oops its sweet, Cos am still with him.
He's my God given gift!

Getting married to a virgin boy will be fun!
Send ur details. LOL

Though there is no reason to cheat but you have to look into the case well before you can forgive. If the cheater feels sorry for his attitude and promise never to do it again then you have to forgive and forget, cos we are only humans and not perfect. It can be you, you never can tell.

Sweety my prayers are with u.
Just try to understand him and find fun things that will make both of u happy.
Play with him and give him reasons to come home apart from intimacy.
Stay bless and be prayerful.

I will contact you guy but hope its real and not fraud.

Am just a female student trying to make money.

For a better future.

Thanks.

Just get people you ca pay and forget family and friends.
They wont take your orders serious.
Good luck to You

Serious sweating at night is one of the signs of HIV but don't get scared cos u are sweating, the weather is hot. but its nice we all check for our HIV status.

another sign can be obvious decrease of usual weight. for others google it

find out

Some tribe allow it so ask ur father.

I Ask ur self y do girls wear bras?

If their boobs is tight and firm, y do they need bra?

Its already in the position they want it, they just have to find solutions for the nips, make guy no collapse for road! lol

Dear its not even advisable for ur gf to be "in" as in "in" ur business,
When u guys get married that means the busines will suffer so she can go home to prepare dish for u, or she will tell u she can't do laundary on saturday cosboth of u have been working all week. Let her lookfor a job somewhere else.

And what about if u break her heart?Just consider the 500k gone to settle problems cos then she will know your in and out and try to bring u down at all cost.

As for ur brother its not still advisable but if u trust him its better and be very wachful and prayerful.

Then for ur gf not comfortabl with ur bro, thats very bad. she is suppose to be close to them toan extent, if she respects herself they(ur sibling) will always respect her.so i dont know why she is scared abt getting close.

NB - A good girl for marriage should be friends with ur family. She should take them as hers.

@ poster
While i was reading the comments from other NLs, i felt bad for u but when i checked ur previous post, i just have to join them.
I dont have to ask if u are ok, u are actually sick and needs help - pls get one.
U are already part of usand we dont want to loose u to the street

Cheating is very bad mostly if you are married and the guy or gal gives you all the attention needed and try to satisfy u in every way.

Its actually painful, when u try to pls a person and he/she is never satisfied. U go out of ur way to pls the person and he/she still goes behind ur back to cheat.

Thats brings us to this question "Why do we Cheat?"

1) Power/influence
2) Intelligence
3) Confidence/Swagga
4) Wealth/affluence
5) Height
6) Fashion/Dress sense
7) Good Looks

[s][/s]If 1 to 6 is present, 7 will always be there even if he is not actually good looking.

Let me give u a little advice b4 u go in and come back from this one.

Like a saying i always tell people- "If same thing is always happening to you (like this girl issue that they are always leave)
Don't blame them all the time,
Check yourself.
No body is perfect, so check urself.
They all can not be mad at the same time.

Also check yourself, most girls do not like weaklings around them, they need some one to protect them, not possible a bad guy but someone who they can depend on for strenght, not someone that will depend on them for strenght at all times. And most suppose say "good guys"(don't get me wrong) are weaklings, and they tend to attach too much to girls. And when a girl is given too much attention is a problem and if she is not given enough is a problem - so u have to keep it at equillibrum.

GOOD LUCK TO YOU

Don't get scared the weather is actually hot,

Have u ever don't your HIV/AIDS screening?

If not i advice u to do it just for doing sake
cos it's nice you go for it. Go for counseling
people lead a normal life with it now.

Good luck,

Sweet heart, since u are still having admirers, i wld advice u 2 get a back up. Since he loves his ex more 2 stil keep her pics, i tell u she can come for him at anytime anyday. Na dat girl hold he mumu key.
Sometimes we luv people who takes us as spare tyre but no more- lets luv does who luv us.
If he's willing 2 change-fine.
Delete those pics, and he should stop all side things,but girl i stil advice u get a spare until d nut is tied.

@ poster,
See, b4 u put ur mouth in their business find out somethings first,
Did they not date b4 getting married?
If they did i think she liked it and decided to stay.

At times most women want to be treated like children
They want beating to be their means of correction
If u don't beat them - their body no go reach ground

And it can also be as a way of fore play

I think she is matured, if she really likes the guy
she should study him and avoid those things that triggers his anger to that extent
Calm him down and talk to him about the matter and his attitude when he is calm, Mostly just b4 or just after sex.
Marriage is not a bed of roses (so they said), so she has to be wise abt it.

But as a brother, invite him, talk to him one on one as a guy, and make it clear to him never to touch ur sister - u suppose know how them dey do am now (THE GOD FATHER).

Or have u talked to him b4?

Most career women can not make a good wife cos they will be so carried away with their jobs other than caring for the home. I think that's the reason why men run far from them and also, most men would not want to be under a woman for financial assistance.

Which would u prefer to marry?
Schizophrenia (chronic mental illness) or HIV
and u don't have a choice other than to choose one of them.

My course-mate came to me for help,

She told me she is about 4 months late, and the the guy responsibly does not want to hear anything about it.
This girl in question is very secretive, i suspected something like this earlier and she denied that she was not pregnant, i left her to her faith cos pregnancy does not hide forever - it will always come up.
Now she is telling me what does she want me to do?

She said she has no money and the boy refuse to accept his responsibility and help her with cash and this girl in question is not truthful at all times, she coats the truth,
so i went to talk to the boy he said that the girl was just a fling and at the time he was sleeping with her she was also sleeping with other guys- even one in his hostel, and also met her in the hotel with a guy and mentioned alot of instance.
He also said he saw secretions from her breast b4 they had intercourse, asked her and she said its because she just terminated a pregnancy. Then 3 weeks later she told him she was pregnant for him - that's October. At the end of December he followed her to a clinic she claims she wants it done and refuse him entering to see the Dr and told him it 15k. That was when he changed his mind on helping her.

Is it that the pregnancy is not for this guy in question? Which means its far past 5months.
Y did she keep it for this long b4 looking for help? Maybe she wants to have the baby.
I don't really know her but her attitude shows she's from a disturbed home, and she said she is already having problem with her dad and her dad will disown her if he finds out. Right now her dad is not sending her money again,  and no mum no relatives.

What should i do?
What kind of help can i render to this kind of girl? Cos i cant help her with money!

She has really made a mark in ur life. I which i can do that to someone. But come to think of it oooooo
Y did she refuse to be intimate all these while and suddenly change?
Find out and if its nothing serious - Grab her with both hand cos girls like that is difficult to find.
U guys are meant for each other.
cheers

16 is true cos that's the same reason why dogs lick their balls

Am Deltan, so i guess i should register here first.

An urhobo gal,

Urhobo ovorvo!

Alot of urhobos find the language difficult y is it so?

Or is it really difficult?

Wadoooooooooooo