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@Martian n Majaze

I personally don't really believe or involve myself in those conventions, pastor Chris n the rest of 'em, Being a christian has much more to that,

@Majaze

Pls even if u have different beliefs. watch ur tongue n mouth. If u want don't believe in God but watch wat u say n wat comes out from ur mouth, The consequence cn be grave but wait a min! Jesus Christ said "Father forgive them for they know not wat they do" so u r lucky, stand by ur beliefs but please stop the name calling of God

@Majaze

Pls even if u have different beliefs. watch ur tongue n mouth. If u want don't believe in God but watch wat u say n wat comes out from ur mouth, The consequence cn be grave but wait a min! Jesus Christ said "Father forgive them for they know not wat they do" so u r lucky, stand by ur beliefs but please stop the name calling of God

AdamBrody a word is enough for the wise, I'm sure u rnt ugly enuf to find a girl. You arent the only one to get ur heart broken. I got my own HEART broken worse enuf, I don't know what I did to him, we didn't even break up amicably or that I have an idea why? after few years together but hey I was so emotionally hurt I didn't wanna talk 2 any1 not even family but wanted opinions and I found "Nairaland", And I don't think u really were a christian before, becos ur heart got broken, u resorted to being an atheist. Did that bring the girl back? or is ur life much better?

This isn't enuf excuse to live a miserable life, yeah I did doubt God sumtimes but never stopped believing him, I have admirers everyday, everywhere , I'm sure u do, but i would never make them suffer the loss of my ex, He's the one that's missing of cause! Only difference is being c areful with ur heart n xpect the worse anytime so u don't get shocked.

Whether pple r insulting u or not, the decision is urs, choose wisely.

Mr Kuns wat r the facts?

Please una leave DavidDylan alone, He's saying his opinion n what he believes n standing by it

Na wa oo, have nothing against him but c'mon now a private jet?? it's not like one is trying to portray the life of a celebrity but that money could be used more useful, look around with less privileged people, Newayz,

Well this is a case of marrying a rapist but because the lady might fall or fallen in love with him but he happened to be a rapist.

N as 4d Bible, that was in the old testament, Pls look for more verses in the old testamnet like when there was nothing n God came to create the world, r u ignoring those? They r in the old testamnet too.

Wow! im so shocked to see there are much more of u tht doubt the existence of God, It's so sad,

Dios u said u don't know how, why, when n, u were created, Don't u think it's because u r ignorant of the fact n trying to hide the truth, Do u think u just came from nowhere n even if u did, don't u think there was someone, something, somewhere that came about that nowhere

Those scientists that claim all sorts or evolution n people tend to believe them; those apes or wateva, did they just fall from the sky or just appeared from nowhere, n the scientists themselves, have they tried to find the source of the apes or sand or wateva they claim?? Everything still adds up to one thing as they/we keep going back to what source, someone/thing created those. What of life? Why are we breathing? Why is there also death, that we cease to stop breathing n so much more? How on earth cn we deny God?

Adam Brody, I know 4 a fact u r talking out of anger because of ur heart that got broken, i understand the pain and all these is just to cover up the pain but my dear u know the truth, how did u claim u were religious in the first place? what made u believe in God then?

No one is really talking bout a particular religion but we believe there is God, not some sorts of statue(man-made) buddha, hindu,

At the others that believe there is no God n be careful of ur words n how u describe him even if y'all doubt him, don't talk about him anyhow cos u wouldn't even talk bout ur ancestors u never met or seen but still give them respect.
God does not force us to believe in him, though he could. Instead, he has provided sufficient proof of his existence for us to willingly respond to him. The earth's perfect distance from the sun, the unique chemical properties of water, the human brain, DNA, the number of people who attest to knowing God, the gnawing in our hearts and minds to determine if God is there, the willingness for God to be known through Jesus Christ.

Adam Brody, I'm glad with the change of heart or mind but what u need to do is just be careful of ur heart so when u get hurt it won't be as ba, cos that's what I'm doing, being extra careful. I believe love would still come again

Yes oo, in my house

Abeg Dios take am easy, Biko. I'm not judging any1 but have u 4 once sat down 2 think, wait a minute Who made me n if u believe the science shit, who made those things?? I've been in situations like the break up with my boyfriend that i felt so sad that I wud doubt if God was really there n hearing me but man! I've never stopped believing that there is God.

Oh goodness! I didn't expect atheists to respond to this supporting that God doesn't exist, I believe there is God, It's scary that there are actually people esp Nigerians doubting the existence of God n bold n confident about it.

@Dios, who's ass r u going 2 kick out? I hope it aint Baba God n as 4d others even Seun hope u guys have a change of heart through the warming touch of God.

I believe in God and have faith but with the way people (atheists) talk, I wish God could actually come down and talk n put them to shame,  Been reading htis thread n majority of them are about people not believing in God, that's scary,  especially from Nigerians

@Adam Brody, i have seen the level of hatred u have 4 women since u got ur heart broken. I still gat love 4 men. Only God can deliver u.

@poster, She is doing the right thing whether u both get married or not, just make sure ur eyes r open in this relationship n she isnt just deceiving u cos i have seen that sex takes most of the other important things in the relationship n it's easy to drool away.

Chrisbenogor:
@monicaa
How are you these days did you finally get him back? I guess not, hope you are ok sha.

well the last time i heard from him was when he called me last week 2 say hi n said he would call me later, that he was at the studio. I know he is playing games with my mind but im dealing with it. i really didnt know i would be like this, i thut my life was over but im doing much better despite the humilation.

I fully understand his pain. I know how it feels but I never gave up on God. I'm still taking each day. Adam, u think what u r doing is right, u r really wasting ur time n it doesnt lead to anything. The girl tht broke up with u is living life n u r there breaking pple's hearts, It simply means the girl has won. The worst u can do is to be careful of ur heart. U would never heal if u keep behaving this way n as 4 not believing in God, who is the ultimate healer, u r finished. Good luck.

wow I've been following this too. Just changed the channel now to Nancy grace, didnt know they found the body. That's sad.

Adam Brody, Honestly I feel ur pain and fully understand how u feel cos I was in that situation but bro,that didnt make me seek revenge to every guy becos of another man's loss. U treating ladies this way is nothing but a waste of time. It doesn't solve anything, it only makes u worse. And worst of all, u doubting God. My dear, u r making it worse for urself. Success they say is the best revenge. The best u can do is to take ur time and whatev relationship u mite hav, to make it much better than the one who broke up with u. It's ok to protect ur heart while feeling this way, but using n dumping girls, May God help u.

Lol @Kokorunna
It;s odd but it could be the woman looks much older and the man much younger, it could work out.

@whatever90

Thanks

@Anita1
I was in a similiar situation, It hurt but I decided to move on so I think the best thing is to take ur mind off and move on.

@whatever90
u call me a foolish girl?? u r very stupid what the hell is all this about? I'm pissed. so because i came crying here bout my boyfriend, anytime some1 posts problems about relationship or boyfriend, it's me Please don't piss me off, i've decided to move on.


Anita pls u know yourself, help me tell these people

what is all this Monicaa about? Please I don't like this. If I am the one I'm not ashamed to post. Please I am not Anita. Abeg

some of u amaze me with ur answers
@Lil J- abeg wat does ur post mean? read the posts prior 2 urs

Mr crackles, im speechless

@chik98- he didnt dump me

@Chika98

Thanks dear, It was hard but at the same time not so hard just hurts.

@Bettes so u r saying my thread was irritating??

@whatever90, my feeling was more like feeling betrayed n wasted for things I did for this guy n he knows I loved him.

Sorry I meant for real I'm hurt to make this bold decision.

For real, i wont lie, I'm not hurt for me to make this bold decision but I know in Time, it would be better or the best. I believe I was too good for him n he couldn't find any fault despite our ups n downs, that's y he called me 2days ago n started accusing me of having company n other men, that he came to my house n pressed d bell, I didnt answer n so on, But I've made my decision n deserve to be treated right. God help me to pull through cos i know most guys appear so loving @ first but with time, they treat u like s, ! n i dont know why.

Thanks guys, sincerely n truthfully, no matter how it hurts, I've decided to move on, I made up my mind 2days ago. Yeah he called me 2days ago n started talking trash, that I'm doing men he's doing him, that he came to my house n knows that I had company n so on but u know wat, I just answered him no I didnt n hung up. I've deleted his number n actually feel a lil better only that it hurts to lose one u love but hurts more what I went through For him, n he treated me this way.

Bottom line, I have decided to move on.

Wats the prob?

Well i agree she is too insulting but she is still welcome here