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@Poster

If I may ask, what is ur reason for being an atheist, just curious

scottN:
I believe we r in the Romance forum, so i guess we are talking about a Romantic R/ship be it straight,gay or bi. So if there's no sex then obviously one is cheating on d other.

Really?? is that what u think?

well to sum it up, like she said, she just got out of a relationship. Ur spending money or watsoeva u consider a loss isn't. She was genuine when she said if she could force it, she would. She just got out of a relationship so she needs time to clear her head. U should be patient with her or be friends with her, dont force anything or try to create a normal aura, if she wants u or watsoeva, she would at her own time.

Kedu Kwanu Ndi Igbo

@Igwe USA
I agree Ibo people are stingy even though im ibo but I aint stingy

@Outlaws
U need to calm down

idiopathic:
The high cost of wedding in Ibo culture is a leading cause of many men waiting till their late 30's and even early 40's before tying the knot. These "old men" will retire around the age of 60 when their first child will be in their 20's, probably in University with it's attendant expenses.
A lot of the girls are also having to wait longer which doesn't fit in with their time limited biologic cycle.

I am about to get married to girl from Nnewi an was given 3 (three) lists for the traditional wedding:
1) List one would cost over 330 000=00 naira.
2) List two consists of the following:
(a) A bottle of wine and to enclose an unspecified amount of money in envelopes to 51 named individuals.
(b) A piece of cloth and money in envelope to 14 different individuals.
(c) Soft drinks and money in envelope to 12 different named individuals.
3) I am yet to get a list for her bride price and cost of feeding the expected guests.

This is just for the traditional wedding and i am yet to add the cost of the court and church wedding.

A conservative estimate will be over 1.5 million naira.

Is it wise living in penury for years after a marriage ceremony?
I am not against tradition, but it should not be rigid and should be modified in parallel with the prevailing economic climate.

Wow! I'm form Nnewi ooo

This type of post annoys me like it's anyone's business

This type of posts annoy me to the core n cursing like it's anyone's business.

busybein:
do u post wt ur hands,head or anus?

Ha ha, that was good one, but on a more serious note, Kuns, u r talking like someone without sense cos even lil kids wouldnt be talking this way

savanaha:
I took the time out to check your profile. Your 29 years old. Wow whenever you decide to grow up please mark that day as the most important in your calender. Don't let 2009 ring in with your mode of thinking or atleast pretend your not Nigerian because you're a. . .

Thank u, wat sorta stupid post is this like someone is forcing him,

Thanks ya'll

@sea~goddess, he's jealous lol,

skolars feel free 2 join us, as a matter of fact, this is 1 for u


@190
Thanks but n this my bf issue lol, wheren't u guys the same pple telling me it's only a matter of time? n yea time has taken it's course, as a matter of fact, he wants 2 get back with me but man! I'm good

Top-up n da rest, Much love

@Martian aka Dios, Good for you!

At outlaws, poster, Something is really disturbing you. It ain't by force, You have a CHOICE to do what u want, stay single if u want, marry if u want, traditional wedding if u want, white wedding if u want, whatever, it all narrows down to ur CHOICE!

Wishing everyone a wonderful christmas n may God's blessing be abundant on us! Lots of love.

Wishing everyone a wonderful christmas n may God's blessing be abundant on us! Lots of love.

Wishing everyone a wonderful christmas n may God's blessing be abundant on us! Lots of love.

@poster
Seriously just ignore him till u can relocate far from him, but be sumhow friendly when u see him cos trust me, u can be mean n so , n this type of people could end up doing sumthing worse, n it's good u've told ur  boyfriend though i dont know why he cant talk 2 the guy or sumthin

lmao Chamotex, r u sure u just wann help

Muza:
Daphoenix,u look lovely

Muza:
Treetop20,
I can see that u just joined NL to be checking on ppls profile,profiling whos beautiful and whos not?
welll if thats what u ar doin,then u are not utilizing the opportunities available

Now who's guilty Muza lol?

lol I am in the same shoes, infact the more u tell them off, the more they get closer lol n the painful part it's not in my nature to be very aggressive except when necessary
Be friendly 2 him to him cos sometimes u mite be very aggressive n that person mite turn 2 psycho stalker,

@Treetop20
Thanks dear, by the way r u male or female?

@ poster,
i dont think u should ask such question here, lingerie 4 xmas gift?? Lingerie to spice it up is up 2 u n anytime anyday, not xmas gift.

@lawyer
I got my heart broken n didnt wanna talk 2 anybody, that's wat made me resort to nairaland, if not I wouldn't be here. I didnt blame dam Brody cos i know the pains, i know wat it feels like, I was hurt, C'mon spending most of my time getting opinions from people i didnt know, But dam Brody is taking it too far, learn from me the way I'm healing myself not all these

Kuns, wat r u talking bout?

Who said God is white?

Dont mind Adam, I've used myself 4 example n worse still I'm lady n u r a man, u shud handle it much better

@bindex, shut up! , even if u dont wanna believe in God, stop the name calling n stupid words, be careful what u say, it's like joke but u r taking it too far with the insults on God, sorry i meant god cos u cant be talking bout God this way

@tpia, true talk, let him go n stand in d middle of the road n dare God

@Daviddylan, keep it up!

@Busybein
Thanks dear, honestly Moving on hasn't felt much easier but sometimes the pain is still there especilly when u really love sum1, he was a fine man but i wasn't as insecure as he was, he knows i love him thats y he's back now but like u sai, the lies, heartache n those emotional drama aint worth it. Living my life.

@Kuns, since u dont wanna use the dictionary, here's my own definition of an atheist, someone that doesn't believe in God or his existence, finish

and Jesus surely will come again at his own time not Kuns' time

@Busybein

Thanks dear, most men r really confused, It's his insecurity after few years together but he's trying to get back, though I know i can't get back wit him, trying to keep my distance n keep moving on, Not 2 say that there aren't guys but u know love they say is blind,

@poster
U shouldn't generalise because of one girl's actions,

@busybein
That's my girl, tht's wat we talking 'bout, God of the Bible exists, as long as I keep breathing n u atheists r breathing, The same God is responsible for these,

@Frizy
Thank u, It's God n my mama, ha ha, u r welcome 2 join christianity anytime, ne day

@Daviddylan
I like the way u r giving it back to them, the haters n doubters

@Kuns
Show us proof that wat the scientists are saying is true, show us proff on how we came to being, things around us like the air, why we cease to live (death), sound, doesn't that amaze u. Show us proof too that wat u believe in "Nothing" is true n real?? n my dear, Jesus Christ ascended into heaven, as u r full body n soul, where r ur own bones?

@Zoraro, ur name even sounds like an alien, one that isnt of this earth

I am amazed myself, That some people especially Nigerians don't believe in God and are talking like this.