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 Romance › Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by Monicaa: 5:49am On Jan 13, 2009 |
@ Top up Thanks dear, That's what he was missing  when he came back. At first, when he came back to make things work, it was even more difficult for me, whether it was anger or more like remembering the hurt, but yeah afterwards, it became sweet, more like me laying back n watch him beg but too late for him @ least 4 now. Your story then helped encourage me, u know it wasn't easy but we scaled thru. Thank God. |
| Romance › Re: Why Are Ppl So Careless Abt The Way They Use Words Like "love",and "heartbreak"? by Monicaa: 5:42am On Jan 13, 2009 |
I also agree with everyone, especially the word 'Love". You meet someone today n tomorrow, they've fallen in love with you n u begin to wonder, how is that? Not even enough time to get to know the other side, flaws n all. |
| Romance › Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by Monicaa: 12:14am On Jan 13, 2009 |
amebo no.1:Ha ha ha, u must be kidding me, guilty of what? crime online?? lol, my dear, it's not disturbing me, i've got more important issues to deal with rather than staring trouble or being a trouble maniac, i just wanna know why my name was mentioned here. I rest my case. |
| Romance › Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by Monicaa: 12:08am On Jan 13, 2009 |
amebo no.1:U would waste ur time listening to this thing, oops i meant person amebo no.1, This isnt me ok. Since i made a post of boyfriend issue for who knows how long, i didnt know it would bring a stalker, For those who wanna believe this isnt Monicaa. |
| Romance › Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by Monicaa: 12:04am On Jan 13, 2009 |
amebo no.1 u r a waste of time for me, if u like go to the nearest babalawo, heaven or wherever u wanna n get ur answer. It's people like u that this forum useless, directing it off point/topic, Nonsense. |
| Romance › Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by Monicaa: 11:59pm On Jan 12, 2009 |
@ Poster Also please clarify to this obsessed fan of mine amebo no.1, that there are a lot of people out there with similiar issues n not only Monicaa. |
| Romance › Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by Monicaa: 11:48pm On Jan 12, 2009 |
amebo no.1:What is this? I can see u r obsessed with me , Everyone is now Monicaa to you.  @Poster Same thing happened to me, only that mine was only for @ most 2months or so, now he's begging but of cause I cant go back @ least not 4 now not because I dont love him but the issues that surrounded the problem we had so my dear, it's all up to you, what you feel for him, if it's genuine or the other way round. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Are They More Women Than Men In Heaven? by Monicaa: 11:04pm On Jan 11, 2009 |
@poster Ok u dont believe in God fine, when u say u r a satanist, why? What has satan done or is doing for you? |
| Christianity Etc › Re: God Please Come Down And Show Yourself So People Stop Doubting by Monicaa(op): 4:08am On Jan 11, 2009 |
fellow: |
| Romance › Re: Men (married) And Mistress(es) by Monicaa(op): 2:15am On Jan 11, 2009 |
@ Hesperus n JJYOU Cos the topic involves both sections n hoping for more answers I agree it's not all men but most That's why they are whores cos they couldn't care less but how bout the man, that would leave his home n venture for these women |
| Christianity Etc › Re: God Please Come Down And Show Yourself So People Stop Doubting by Monicaa(op): 1:45am On Jan 11, 2009 |
My question for you atheists,duduspace, manmustwac, chrisbengor,martian n others plain n simple "Why do you believe or think that God doesn't exist"? |
| Family › Men (married) And Mistress(es) by Monicaa(op): 1:38am On Jan 11, 2009 |
A friend of mine in his early 30's, married to a young beautiful woman, still goes around sleeping with other women, even trying to hit on me, so one day I asked him, since he's already married, what else is he looking for, even in me, that he can't see in his wife? His wife is in her mid twenties, still looking good. His reply "you are very beautiful n so is my wife but it's just the nature of men"  so I asked him why he got married if he still wanted to be chasing everything in skirts, flirting, he said wives are just for children, that maybe when he gets much older he would stop. He said sometimes those things help in his marriage. I asked him, when he decided to get married why didn't he marry the ones he goes around messing with, Why did he marry his wife? You hear most of them saying "How can I get married to this person" " I can f@#@ her but will never marry her but the other one is wife material" so if it's sex you are looking for why didn't you get married to any of them so you don't have to cheat? His reply it's the nature of men.The other day he brought along his cousin. We went out to a baby shower, n I found out his cousin is also flirting around n all n I got to find out this so called cousin is 38. His wife is home, he's out there looking for who to hit. This baffles me  So my question is why get married even if the wife is sexy, everything a man would want in a woman, a man would still go outside even to uglier girls just for sex??It got me thinking, no one forced you to get married, so why do it n still be hustling for other women outside? |
| Romance › Men (married) And Mistress(es) by Monicaa(op): 1:37am On Jan 11, 2009 |
A friend of mine in his early 30's, married to a young beautiful woman, still goes around sleeping with other women, even trying to hit on me, so one day I asked him, since he's already married, what else is he looking for, even in me, that he can't see in his wife? His wife is in her mid twenties, still looking good. His reply "you are very beautiful n so is my wife but it's just the nature of men" so I asked him why he got married if he still wanted to be chasing everything in skirts, flirting, he said wives are just for children, that maybe when he gets much older he would stop. He said sometimes those things help in his marriage. I asked him, when he decided to get married why didn't he marry the ones he goes around messing with, Why did he marry his wife? You hear most of them saying "How can I get married to this person" " I can f@#@ her but will never marry her but the other one is wife material" so if it's sex you are looking for why didn't you get married to any of them so you don't have to cheat? His reply it's the nature of men.The other day he brought along his cousin. We went out to a baby shower, n I found out his cousin is also flirting around n all n I got to find out this so called cousin is 38. His wife is home, he's out there looking for who to hit. This baffles me So my question is why get married even if the wife is sexy, everything a man would want in a woman, a man would still go outside even to uglier girls just for sex??It got me thinking, no one forced you to get married, so why do it n still be hustling for other women outside? |
| Romance › Re: Is This Human Nature? by Monicaa(op): 11:26pm On Jan 09, 2009 |
busybein: |
| Family › Re: Your Husband Or Wife's Best Food? by Monicaa: 11:25pm On Jan 09, 2009 |
Ofe Nsala, That's his favorite. That soup is super |
| Romance › Re: How Do You Heal A Broken Heart? by Monicaa: 11:23pm On Jan 09, 2009 |
Bronx dog wats the deal, ur posts are a lil harsh |
| Romance › Re: Is This Human Nature? by Monicaa(op): 11:21pm On Jan 09, 2009 |
Olanajim That's a good point n it makes sense busybein: |
| Romance › Re: Is This Human Nature? by Monicaa(op): 10:19pm On Jan 09, 2009 |
busybein:No girl is following any1 around or begging to be taken back here, maybe u have another story n like i said read the post before these |
| Romance › Re: Ever Gotten Back Together With Your Ex? Did It Work? by Monicaa: 10:16pm On Jan 09, 2009 |
Ujujoan:I agree with you. Every situation is unique. People have different opinions, some would call you a fool n say it's wrong, others would say it's right but I believe it all narrows down to the individual at the end, sometimes it may be for the best n sometimes for the worst so it could go both ways |
| Romance › Re: Is This Human Nature? by Monicaa(op): 10:13pm On Jan 09, 2009 |
busybein: My dear u all got it wrong n twisted n this doesn't relate to the post/topic, I gave an example |
| Romance › Re: Is This Human Nature? by Monicaa(op): 9:45pm On Jan 09, 2009 |
busybein:What is foolishness? If love is smart n wise, I don't think there would be anything called heart break, lost love n all. No one is saying here that love is foolish? Maybe if u read my post n some other replies, you would understand where I'm coming from |
| Romance › Re: Is This Human Nature? by Monicaa(op): 9:08pm On Jan 09, 2009 |
smooooooth:Love is complicated, It's easy to fall in love in love with someone but staying in it n maintaining it requires hardwork I believe it's natural, I sometimes feel guilty, when those i see really genuine n all, but don't feel the same way or as much as they do esp this particular one that was there during my hurt but i dont feel the same way he does n then a stupid ex shows up, apologises n wants to get back with me though I dont wanna get back with him, my feelings for him hasn't changed. I even feel more for him than the others, so this is human nature? |
| Romance › Is This Human Nature? by Monicaa(op): 1:00pm On Jan 09, 2009 |
Do we really love those who do not love us as much as we do and don't really love those that love more than you do and willing to kiss your feet?? For example, in a relationship- when a partner misbehaves n keeps misbehaving, you still love that person but those that claim the whole world for you and would treat you better, you find out, you don't really love the person(s) |
| Romance › Re: How Do You Heal A Broken Heart? by Monicaa: 1:45am On Jan 09, 2009 |
My dear ur story is just the same as mine, You would love again but don't force yourself to love, let it come on its own, it's only a matter of time, it's because of the way you are feeling, that's why thoughts like these form, Please take heart, if you are a student, put all your energy to your books, if you are working, try to put your best, just take each day, of cause you would cry once in a while but it would be over. |
| Romance › Re: How Do You Heal A Broken Heart? by Monicaa: 1:39am On Jan 09, 2009 |
It's part of the grieving process, the daily, sobbing, crying n so on, infact if u don't do those, u won't be able to heal properly. At the time I wrote here, Im never believed I would heal @ least before I knew he would come back, You would heal. |
| Romance › Re: Why Do Exes Always Seem To Reappear Once You've Moved On With Your Life? by Monicaa: 1:03am On Jan 09, 2009 |
the more painful part is when u've picke up the pieces n decide to move on, they would just show up on ur door @Magz So how 'bout the many partners one is sexually involved in or if the ex's present date is also sexually orientated if i understood what u wrote. |
| Romance › Re: How Do You Heal A Broken Heart? by Monicaa: 12:37am On Jan 09, 2009 |
After reading your story, it really touched me cos I've been there n that's how I came across Nairaland though mine wasn't up to 6yrs. My dear as top up n Aktunde said, no matter the amount of advice u get, different opinions, it all sums down to you n how u will heal urself. God helps a lot n time. Some would say meet other guys n so, that's a lie @ least not immediately cos ur heart would still not be open n hurting. I still didn't believe I would heal myself. I turned to God, u know but I was still crying, talked to every1 that cud listen until one day, i couldn't cry no more, wasn't thinking 'bout him, even when i tried to force myself to cry to know if something was wrong with me, i just couldn't, i then knew I had healed myself. N then he shows up from nowhere lol, to make it work n apologised. I just look back but can't cry again, so my ear, you would scale through. Sistawoman also made a good write up. |
| Romance › Re: Why Men Living Abroad Go Back Home And Get Mary To Ladies Living In Nigeria by Monicaa: 4:21am On Jan 05, 2009 |
It has to do with the culture, Most Nigerians are well and more disciplined than the westerners but it has very little to do with the place. Though some Nigerians go abroad n forget their culture n start acting like the westerners but in all, it all comes down to the Nigerian, wherever but still maintaining the culture and well behaved. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Trusting The Enemy by Monicaa: 3:45am On Jan 05, 2009 |
lol@ duduspace do u have nything else 2 offer than trying to convince people that God doesn't exist ? |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Should I Pretend? by Monicaa: 9:59am On Jan 02, 2009 |
@poster Pls im really curious, I really wanna know |
| Romance › Re: Advice Needed On A Broken Relationship by Monicaa: 7:51am On Jan 02, 2009 |
I assume the definite thing u asked her was "sex", well 7 months is quite a long time but not necessarily to start loving someone, we all differ. She may have dated you as they say rebound, to see if she could actually fall in love agin but it didnt happen in that case. I wouldn't advise you to wait but if u genuinely love her, it may be worthwhile waiting n did she make it clear she doesn't love "you" or just not ready to love anyone or go into another relationship?? |
