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What is her reason for having an affair with another man? Did u ask her?

Michael Jackson- Beat it

Wande coal/Dbanj- Be close to you.

I often thought about it too especially the christians and muslims, christians to other christians and there is still one God, not two, three, five but ONE GOD.

sley4life:
just givin an example y its a norm in 9ja where guys go for younger ladies, if u are 30yrs older than any1 u can get married to the person as long as but of u find love in urself

No one said it is impossible but be realistic here. If it is a woman, that is different but a man?? 25 yrs older when he's 30 hmm

chukatony:
i have known this girl for about three years now, she is naturally intelligent, she is good to an extent that i have never cought her. she told me she likes keeping male friends instead of her female counterparts as friends academically she is not wise and she can't read even sms not to talk of writen and she speaks good english to an extent. any time she is been asked out by those her male friends, she does tells me after. i like this girl and she wants me to mary her. the one that borders me much is the fact that academically she is not ok. we are at the same age bracket. she is a beautician and works in a beauty pa lour. please your advice will see me through.

Is it possible to speak english and not read english? Just a thought.

sley4life:
common. what do u understand by african factor? Kip ur mouth shut if u dont understand that part. Go to the US and u will see a 1000001 men younger than their wife with a huge age diffr. If that happens here in 9ja u will b scold because we are fllw the foot steps of our fore fathers.

It is very lame to compare Africa with the western world here. That is why they are allowed to marry themselves, men-to-men, women-women nd they would not be scolded, that is why the divorce rate is soo high compared to Africans nd most especially, it would be a different thing if it was the opposite, if it was the guy that was 49years and the woman 25 yrs younger. Don't you know women mature and age much much faster than men? Did you talk about fertilty, alot, be realistic here.




@ Eva2009, pls the age difference is too much for marriage, sooner or later it would break, we know everything, anything is possible with God but umm this one is very shaky. He is just 24 yrs, what does he know?5-10yrs from now, what would he be thinking?

rhufffryda:
Abandon the thought of having a guy in your life. Give yourself sometime to just look, observe and think, have fun, do not take anyone serious. I'd say between 6-12months.

After this period, you should have healed. You may still think about the EX but the pain will not be there anymore. Even if u see him with another woman, u wont feel anything.

Save yourself stress. The guys is humping some other chiks now. I can assure you of that.

I had sex with a lady friend a day after breaking up with my gf of nearly 2 years. I forgot about the pain immediately.
lol. thats the way it is. Life is not fair.

Sex is not everything. It means u did not love her enough.

190:
monicaaa
u again

what now? lol. 190, yes me again nd I'm still here. If u still remember me nd my name, u should remember my picture now

davidylan:
this monicaa sef . . . when will you stop crying?

Would you help me stop crying , im not crying pls

topup:
[color=#008855]It takes different amounts of time for different people. I for one just want to say the longer you keep trying to convince yourself that you're over him, the longer it'll take. Forget the opinions of people pressuring you to salvage your ego and "move on already", and try and find out why you haven't.

It seems the main reason is that you are scared that he's the best you'll ever have - but unless you really don't expect much from your life, that couldn't be further from the truth.
I'm not saying that there is a perfect guy but there is a better guy, it's not much to ask for is it? Don't sell yourself short, you want a guy to genuinely care for you and be loyal to you, love you and NEVER cheat - why have you convinced yourself that you're asking too much. .

*shakes head*
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That's why I like you with your write ups but it is well.

igbele:
@ monicaa.

What else gladens our hearts than to be in love with some one who loves u in return? in this case you love the guy but he alwas hurt u. How are u sure if u go back to him he will not do the samething? Is he ready 2 take u back?Any way you knw him very well so follow your heart. Gud luck.

I am or have already accepted the difficult truth that I won't get back together with him. Thanks.

Ogaga4Luv:
:Can any cross worshipper explain to me why their god was manipulated by satan?

Jesus was led by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted by the devil. The Spirit was responsible for the encounter. In his short life the Lord seemed to attempt to experience as much of humanity as possible. As a Christan if he could be tempted and he overcame it then so can you, if he could fast(suffer) for the sake of God then so can you, When it comes to the end of it and one gets judged you can't argue your way, 'life is hard', he has lived it.

The Biblical concept of "tempting" is a testing to demonstrate genuiness, faithfulness nd character. These temptations confirmed His qualification to be our Messiah nd Redeemer,

Hope this helps.

umm, to be honest, it happens to me sometimes, more like attraction at first sight, then I'll start deceiving myself i'm in love lol but I know a relationship, love is much more than that.

agabaI23:
copy the portion of the embed that starts with " and ends with &". In between you will see the url of the video plus other stuff.

Click on 'insert flash on NL and] change the 200s to 400,344. Insertwhat you copied in the in the middle of the eclosure.
You are ready to go!

I still couldn't get it , don't know what I'm doing wrong.

Okwutex:
we no say na hell him dey go.

Watch ur mouth nd wat u say, judge okwutex

sexyLeamon:
how I wish I knew them only God knows what would have happend

I feel you, with this pain I'm feeling, they are lucky I can't see them lol

omg

I wonder where those ones that accused him of the molestation. The little boy and his family. Where are they now?  That was the beginning of his broken heart.

wow!!!

platinumnk:
Will we ever be blessed with another person like Michael?


its so unfair he had to die.

aigh, i thought i had no more tears left, its like fresh pain again.


I loved u so Michael, rest now, because u earned it my love.

i love u so much

I feel u girl, i can't even cry again, im dried out. We can only get comfort knowing he is in a much better place with God.

spikedcylinder:
Such a shame the Michael's death totally over shadowed her own.

RIP.

I guess because we already knew she had cancer and had a period of time to live by the doctor so sooner or later, it was expected. Michael Jackson's death came out of the blues, so sudden, unexpected.

GEW:
very true but like Jesus said it was so in the beginning.  most of us live in error or what i call  wrong relationships yet we expect not to have these shakings.  how do you stay in a house with a wrong foundation and expect your pictures to be still hanging properly after one year?

someone said God only confirms truth not errors.  we want to be able to see johny today and jump into bed with him by weekend and probably marry by september.
lets learn the virtue of waiting.  good things comes to those who wait my dear.  yes it is hard but very good for your health and destiny.

How do u explain, those that wait even almost for a lifetime nd still end up seperating?

@agaba123, do u mind telling me how u put the you tube video in the thread? tried posting something but can't get it

] http://www.bvblackspin.com/2009/07/06/politician-calls-jackson-a-pedophile/


stupid guy

Some more

:d :d :d

Yeah very nice nd interesting movie though I heard the guy "Wylie Draper" that played "Michael Jackson" is dead. Hopefully by the grace of God, they meet themselves whereva they are.

@FL Gators

These hairstyle pictures are beautiful.

C2H5OH:
Of course you won't be "into" the other boys you've been with since you are still deeply "sprung" to the asshole that mistreated you. In short, they were probably rebounds and you hoped they would help you get over him, but they didn't.

I Lol @ you. LOL

sprung?? don't think so. And as for rebounds not really, just tried to get on with my life but I guess it didn't work out and there was a post I wrote before about letting go of a guy I had met, telling him I needed to heal properly so I don't hurt him, but some people criticised me on that and as for Laughing Out Loud, what for??

Hollysmile:
Monicaaaaa! I'm cool, (in luv wif ur name). Dat's by the way!
Really wonderin how hurt u truly are on the inside. But, DID U SAY U GUYS AREN'T ON TALKIN TERMS? Now, dis is de one thin i hate in break-ups. No matter what comes between lovers, it's usually adviceable to stil be in a 'once in a while' talkin terms. A'mean, de world is so small dat u neva know what's gonn' happen in the next few yrs. IT'S A ROTATING GLOBE U KNOW!
My point: Even if u don't make-up, i advice u be in good terms (not necessarily makin up), It's always very good. Dat's how i run mine.
Besta luck, Monicaaaa dearie!

Hollyyy!! Hun, thanksss. Yea no commnication mainly from his side and I don't plan on initiating it at this point with what he did to me. I'm like u in that, why cant we keep in touch even if we r not together but i guess, so be it.

Abuzola:
Hehehe. Full of contradiction

You r laughing??  whether u r a muslim or christian, don't u worship God too? or are there different gods, christian god and muslim god? and u r laughing??  


ogaga4luv i meant ogaga4hate is busy mocking the same God you abuzola worship and u r laughing

mactao:
I know I'll never stop being a Christian, because of my experience.

Me too, but just another thought, u know, what if i was born a muslim, would I be following Islam doctrines? or am I a christian because I was born into it and see other religions as being wrong, but moretheless, i'm glad I was born a christian.

ezinne1212:
What exactly do u love so much about ur ex?

B4 people like amebo no1 start criticising me, anyways, u know how it is when u genuinely care for some1. His personality, him as a person, when talking of the good side, but something inside me tells me, maybe because i'm still yet to find someone like or better than him.

sista-jay:
You'll never know till you're in DEEP!!

True.

lawyer:
@Monicaa

Your worse than Adam Brody

I remember sometime last year when Adam Brody made a thread about him being callous with women because his ex treated him badly and left him and he does these bad things to women so as to make him remind him of his ex.

I also remembered a score of posters advising him against it and for him to move forward including you yourself who advised him to forget the past and move forward and hope for the best because you were in the same position and you would advise him to move on. But this is almost 1 year now since that post and you are still worried about your ex while the Adam Guy has vanished into thin air probably married with a new babe and your worring yourself stiff over your ex.

1. Your a prisoner to a person who doesnt wake up in the morning thinking of you and goes to bed with you as the last thing on his mind

2. He is probably either settled with someone he likes or still behaving like a jerk breaking other girls hearts

3. Your denying yourself the gift of life and happiness by tying your life to someone who never deserved you and will probably never know the difference between whats good and bad for him

4. Your letting your ego get into your way because you fantasize of what would have been and what should still be hereby making you stuck in time while the rest of the world moves forward light years ahead of you.

5. I have seen your picture before, you are a very pretty girl and you would probably meet a hoard of admirers and possible suitors that would appreciate you more than your ex, so why hold that eternal fondness for someone that doesnt care about you

Live your life to the fullness and enjoy the goodness of what life has to offer! Life is too short to brood over one person who doesnt care for you!

U still remember my picture  after all this while? 10ks 4 the compliment though  nd this is what i really nd truly need, the hard/tough truth. i'm trying. i just happened to love him so much, but i believe there r potentials out there just haven't come across any yet.