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There is no such thing as boring sex because we can research ways of making it better unless his P is too small. Its other things that can make u bored in a relationship but not sex

it depends on how he carries and presents himself. i have seen 1 pack brothers looking all neat and adorable

as much as i would like to disagree with this thread i am afraid i can't. us ladies are sensitive beings and i don't wana lie , i like that about our selves because as foolish as it sounds a heartbreak ain't nice. just like with guys , a guy would meet 1 wrong lady then he will punish the rest

to me it seems most Africans envy south africans which is the reason why u find so many non south africans there and this thread has jelousy written all over it and without whites south africa would be where nigeria is today

ddn't read the story , just saw the tittle and if thats true then u r stupid and very foolish not forgetting abominable

i think we all have different ideas when it comes to beauty and sexy but for me personally '' she ain't all that''

for me what hurts wasn't included on the thread

Its realising u love someone more than u love yourself > Big mistake = always have room for disapointment n know that nomatter how many ppl u loose , always make it a point that it is u , u find bcoz loosing u would be a tragedy

sister i know u are hurting and i am greatful to all the ppl who r showing u supprt but i am going to talk to you woman to woman and i want to be honest with you and tell you my heart. I know i will probarbly offend a lot of ppl here and they will insult me but i am just gona say it anyway. take it or lv it its your choice.

1- You did a lot for him > i hope you were not doing all that thinking you were buying his love or loyalty because that can never be bought for real. The person might pretend but will never really mean it in his heart. = so i hope u did all you did out of the goodness of your heart without expecting much in return

2- You checked his phone and u found shit > I always avoid going through ppl's phones because i am scared of what i might find out. I know that even if your man might cheat, others might be clever enough to hide it and delete those chats and if he is foolish enough to lv them on his phone then i make a choice not to go through anyone's phone coz blv me honey u will always get some bad results > NB: I am not saying its good to cheat and i am not saying partners should not be honest with each other, i am just saying if u dig u will find the worms , if u dont wana find them just dont dig

3 - He told his ex how he wanted her back > baby other man like having something on the side. I know its bad but i have noticed most guys would lie and say they are single only for the other woman to be disapointed in the end and in your case since u r not married to him , either one of u can be the other woman and he might actually end up marrying someone very far who u and the other girl dont even know. I understand u love him but does he really belong to u? i know u invested so much into him but baby the man aint your huby , he just a boyfriend who can go tomorrow. even if he was your husband he would still disapoint u

4- He is a looser > u mentioned how he uses ppl. i think its in his blood and unless he grows up, he gon make somebody a louzy husband someday

5- Count your blessing > its good that u found out. The question is do u still want him or not. It takes a lot to build a successful marriage and now yours is even just a relationship. I have seen so many woman stay in marriages even if the husbands r shit and i know so many who have self love and who would never tolarate such shit in their marriages. Whether u want this man or not its upto u coz its obvious he just flows with the air. The nice thing is u already know what u r getting yourself into should u choose to forgive his stupid ass or u will wana move on and get a better man but baby i just wana make u aware that men are not GOD and they can always change. So even if u decide to move on just know that the grass isn't always greener on the other side and know that each an every and i mean each an every union has its own ups and downs your part is to just establish wat u want in life and know how u will handle every situation and since this guy is clearly a looser i would say as much as u can expect shit in future relations just make sure u choose a responsible man in your life n not 1 who clearly is useless. If he was mine, one can always be Lenient somtimes when it comes to cheating especially in marriage but if the man has no ambition, a user, looser and a nobody i dont know but i would not want my kids to have such a dad

[quote author=Donalð Genes]Cos you people are suppose to behave like our helper not sucker[/quote]hahahahahah funny o

[quote author=Donalð Genes]I dey vex[/quote]y o?

[quote author=Donalð Genes]so na pride una dey want or love? Smh![/quote]hahahah what a question. Honey i just can't hey. i really can't help him pay my own brideprice. m sorry

Sister all i can say is give Larry sometime to calm down. Even if u give him 2 or 3 more weeks wherever he is. do not disturb him and also take sometime to calm down yourself. after a few weeks you can track him down and sit him down. explain to him how u felt by not being able to give him a babe and remind him of all the desparate moves yols made in an attempt of having a child. Make him aware that u acted out of desparation and how hurtful it was for u to find out that he has been with-holding this truth for u as well because should u have known that he was the one with the problem u would have relaxed. Ask him to accept the baby as his and build your marriage on honesty and transparency going foward. yes u were wrong by sleeping with that other fellow but Larry is not exactly innocent too in this. If yols meant your vows to each other on that wedding day, surely u guys can overcome everything because at the end of the day u acted out of love and love does conquer all

i can help him with a lot of things including our household financial commitments after marriage but as a lady your bride price is your pride so i would help him with that particularly

u should not have made moves on her when u visited her and u guys where maybe supposed to meet at a public place and not private movies , dinner etc. She does like u but she does not want u to see her as cheap as jumpin to bed would be something else

Marthakings: I dnt want him ooo... Jst tot he shud knw.... Ok now m beginning to fink telling him was a bad idea... Dat jackäss!

sorry baby

u can't decide to spend the rest of your life with someone just bcoz u feel sorry for them

babe get well soon okay but plz i hope u learnt a lesson here that nomatter what happens an ex should stay in the past. there is a reason he is an ex after all

babes your current man wants security and u seeing yo ex nomatter the situation sort of threatens that. just stay away from yo ex nomatter what. how wud u feel if it was theother way round

sorry sugar bt most ladies prefer guys who r a bit taller than they r

did she two time u sugar?

Chibuebem: bad belle.

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whatever

Theben: Attention seeker!! You don't own the forum, neither is the forum federal government's property. They have equal right with us here. You should be ashamed of the post you just made.

i am ashamed of nothing. this is not a South African forum. there is a reason its called NAIRALAND and not RANDLAND.

[quote author=ngwana.mobu]
Even you Monica?[/quote]Yeh even me. this is not a forum for South African its a nigerian forum remember. u can't just come and take over/ if u wana create threads like these go to South African forums

its easier to associate with ppl in your OWN league why bother chasing someone who is out of your league .If it happens that u marry someone from another class all together hurrey if it does not happen its still fine. anyway marriage should not be about who is rich or poor it should be about 2 ppl who love each other. u can marry your poor lover and grow rich together. hard work never killed anyone and there is still nothing wrong with the lady being richer than the guy as long as they both know what a human being is ( NOT FINANCE, A HUMAN BEING)

Scun: Look for a South African forum and do this shît.

i agree. is this turning in to Southy Land now? bloody South Africans. always wanting to be seen

lomomike: Ojigbijigbi!!!! oya come 2 my manshun all alone @ 12am lemme upgrade u! (if na winch u be, no kuku come o)

hahhahaha guy u funny o

lomomike: Dancing atilogwu dance and singing beyonce's song mimicing Osuofia's voice *#baby lemme upgrade you switch your neck ties head scarf to purple labels...mama lemme upgrade you..#*

hahahahahah child upgrade me now

guy r u serously considering sending it? nigga plz

bless u child

she goooooooone sugar

bless u child

lol so what should it be replaced with ? '' till divorce to us part?