Family › Re: After Yrs Of Marriage,she And Her Ex-boyfriend Still Secretly Communicate.advice by montezz(f): 8:42am On Oct 10, 2015 |
ryut: I have asked her after the marriage and on many other occasions when i started observing such communications if she and the man made any 'covenant'. she said no.What actually annoyed me most since two days ago till now was first,i can recall vividly after the marriage i started noticing such to the extent that i have to call the man on phone then and explain to him the need to stop these communications since she is now married,the man was sounding harsh and said that 'i will still see',till today i don't know what he mean by that statement,when i then changed her sim card.I sat my wife down severally times that ex boy or girl communication in marriage destroys marriage,that there is no gain on it and that the very time we got married,i and my ex cut off permanently that till date neither she nor i didnt call each other and dont even know where any of us are,not that if she or i want to trace the contact of each other that we wont find it,but it does more harm than good in marriage.Recently when i saw their whatspp chat and what they are chatting there and phone communication,i cautioned her that i have been warning her about this her ex and she still keep on communicating him,that i dont want to see such again unless she will pack her things and go and stay with the man,or go back to his family house.The irony of it is that she is even the one that initiates communications-both on chat and phone call.I deleted the man number from her phone.But,I was shocked still seeing her calling the man few days ago and the man also calls her.That means they have still been communicating since then in my absence only that i happen by chance see this one. Secondly,last time,there is one man still from their side as well,(pls i dont want to mention what happened),but i have to pick her phone and told her in my presence to send an sms to this man and told him"that she is cutting off the communication between them and whatever whatever",she text it and sent and i deleted the man number.Surprisingly,after like two weeks,i noticed that she called the man.She has to go the extent of sourcing for the man number again and give him a call.That day,not knowing that i knew that she called him,i asked her,since that time i told you to cut off the communication with that man,have you ever for one day called him again,She said "NOOOO,how can she do that,somebody she stopped communicating since then even the number was deleted that day and she doesnt have his number again".She lied and lied.I was so upset and nearly ran mad,when i then brought her phone and asked her who has this number and this call-the number was not saved with any name,she kept quiet and say,eeehmm,it was the man that called her,i told her that she is a liar and i opened the call log and showed her the outgoing call log she first made to the man,before the man later called her back.i was so annoyed,yet i let it go. So the two above made me to even as i am typing this text,i am still very angry since day before yesterday,that after all my caution and warning to her having caught her by chance,she still ignore my warning and secretly communicating and thats what pained me most and i cant bear this again. I can't stop wondering what on earth it is some women wants. can u imagine,maintaining close relationship with ex and and some oda random guys while married? op are you sure all is well? was she forced to marry you?didn't you take your time before jumping into marriage?y is she so weak to make decisions dat'll benefit her family? dia is more to this than meets the eye o. stop being too soft on her...i will suggest you report her to her parents without leaving a stone unturned. tell them to talk to her else you quit the marriage. give yourself some space,enjoy life and think less about her-when she sees you no longer gv a hoot abt her,she'll do everything possible to save her marriage*if she still want u* only the heavens knows what the wife of her so called ex wud be going thru too. |
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Romance › Re: 10 Things Ladies Do On Social Media That Shows They Are Ugly by montezz(f): 1:02am On Oct 10, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: 10 Things Ladies Do On Social Media That Shows They Are Ugly by montezz(f): 12:50am On Oct 10, 2015 |
vizkiz: [b]like what I updated few days ago
Some people people will start typing the obvious memory verse "no girl is ugly" but let me tell you the fact. NOT ALL WOMEN ARE PRETTY just wait, you will start seeing them on this thread. And most of them no even get profile picture
So here goes my own list...
1. They can never upload a picture without using filters Like seriously that shiit is annoying, they deceive us with makeups in real life and still add filters to the already PAINTED face and upload it online. Those mumu boys will now start commenting "Baby, you are so beautiful" awon oloriburuku gbogbo
2. You Have Competed In three Or More Miss Nairaland Competitions Without Ever Making The Top Five. Aunty take heart, you no fine at all  (though thesonofmark discussed the truth behind the competition)
3. 75% of girls with names like "sexy/queen/diva/cute/pretty/sugar/bae/mhiz attached to their moniker on facebook/Nairaland/baddo according to research are usually very awesomly, incredibly ugly on HND level 
4. 70% of girls that support ChelseaFC are usually ugly. FACT!!!! Go and check those girl at sport section supporting chelsea and you will understand me better
5. You always upload pictures with your yansh facing the camera just because you think you have big yansh. I am so sorry aunty, that yansh can not make up for your face! You fugly!
6. Those girls that don't have profile pictures on Nairaland are ugly. #quote me anywhere.
7. They are always happy whenever a moniker(I.E Nneka123, rubey etc...) get BUSTED.... They usually feel relived cuz that girl that use to get all the boys is not real.
8. They will quote me and start typing rubbish as usual
Awon worwor girls oshi [/b] |
Romance › Re: Gorgeous Guys - More Of A Curse Than Gift In Nigeria by montezz(f): 12:47am On Oct 10, 2015 |
debonairprinx: I can't agree with you less OP.....Same situation am in.....My high confidence level even puts me at a disadvantage. Its everywhere bro. abeg make i laf small before i comment....kikikikikikikikikii oluwa ogo o! lmao. hmmm back to d mata,first off,is dat u on ur dp? if yes,d post isn't for u! d op was referring to handsome dudes. you fine too o bt nt so fine. @op m guilty of dat maybe because most fine boys i know r chronic womanizers with girls flocking around dem like ants pouncing on sweets. |
NYSC › Re: NYSC 2015 Batch B House by montezz(f): 11:31pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
wailing: Where are my girls? 
montezz,rmfunky, Faithluv5, Princesszainab, jewelbaby55, quiinnBee, candycrush, maryhaam, dobiee,Fynpatra, zaynab9876, wamenzy, JannahGem
#Enugu/#Abuja loading  right here! |
Romance › Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by montezz(f): 11:29pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
wailing: Come back here baby  u again?*faints* |
Romance › Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by montezz(f): 11:22pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
na guys full here o*crawling out of thread* |
Jokes Etc › Re: Funny Excuse Workers Give In The Office by montezz(f): 10:48pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
hehehehehehe.....lwkmd. |
Politics › Re: Lawal Dan Gashua: The Good Baker Who's The Breadwinner To Refugee Kids by montezz(f): 10:38pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
“If you’re in the luckiest one per cent of humanity, you owe it to the rest of humanity to think about the other 99 per cent.”– Warren Buffett he isn't d luckiest yet he z generously contributing his quota by helping d helpless....infact m touched! |
Celebrities › Re: D’banj Meets Italian Lady With ‘african Yansh’ In Australia by montezz(f): 8:11pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
itumo? |
Politics › Re: El-Rufai Set To Wed Zahra Buhari - Polity Weekly Magazine by montezz(f): 8:07pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
joke of the millenium! lwkmd |
Celebrities › Re: Phyno Celebrates His 29th Birthday Today - Happy Birthday by montezz(f): 11:42am On Oct 09, 2015 |
phyno baba igbo...happy birthday to him! mrs phyno ao e go be? |
Celebrities › Re: Toke Makinwa Balancing On A Hoverbaord by montezz(f): 11:28am On Oct 09, 2015 |
so? wetin pesin no go see for nl front page? i like her outfit sha. |
Romance › Re: He Deletes My Text Messages On His Phone by montezz(f): 11:25am On Oct 09, 2015 |
DeeTus: The obvious reason is simple; when a woman is deeply in love, it's hard to let go. It's hard to quit the relationship.
Men lead, women follow. That is how things are really. its really hard to let go bt it hurts less when you orchestrate the break up. @op u v to make up your mind den dump his sorry ass. good guys still exist o,u'l do jux fine widt him. |
Celebrities › Re: Thespian Nozy: What Doctors Removed From The Stomach Of A Nigerian Comedian by montezz(f): 11:19am On Oct 09, 2015 |
ki le leyi? |
Romance › Re: He Deletes My Text Messages On His Phone by montezz(f): 11:09am On Oct 09, 2015 |
i won't advise u to confront him,he'll always v sumtin(lies) to say. the best u can do is to call it quit. u r jux an alternative to the other girl. |
Celebrities › Re: Bishop Umoh’s Beautiful Wife & Daughter [photos] by montezz(f): 1:11am On Oct 09, 2015 |
joseph1832: Howdy. You never replied my pm.  m very well thanks. i'll do dat ryt away. |
Travel › Re: See How Much It Cost To Travel From Lagos To New York In The Good Old Days(pic) by montezz(f): 10:04pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
my grandma jux told me her salary dat time was #4:25k. #17k is a whole lot of money den. nothing has really changed. |
Celebrities › Re: Bishop Umoh’s Beautiful Wife & Daughter [photos] by montezz(f): 9:51pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
ernesty20: look at this LovePeddler smh...get well soon ok! |
Celebrities › Re: Photos: Actress Bukky Ajayi Aging Gracefully by montezz(f): 9:49pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
i jux love this woman. |
Celebrities › Re: Bishop Umoh’s Beautiful Wife & Daughter [photos] by montezz(f): 9:27pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
ernesty20: u must be a yoruba boy.. Fear fear people  u r hopelessly insane! must you display ur stupidity in public? malnourished he-goat! |
Christianity Etc › Re: The Bamiloye Celebrate 27 Years Of Marriage With A Throw Back Pix Of The Wife by montezz(f): 8:34pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
their success story inspires me. she toiled wih him through the stormy weathers. when he had nothing,she stood by him. she saw beyond d single room apartment,a table and chair,with few clothes hanging on his rack...she'd believed he's destined for greatness. who can find a virtuous woman,for she's worth more dan precious stones...aduro tini nigba iponju. she is a rare gem. a role model to many(me too). wishing dem many more years! happy anniversary!!!! |
Politics › Re: Falae: Yoruba Leaders Threaten Secession From Nigeria If… by montezz(f): 8:04pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
gbam! |
Events › Re: What Is The Father-in-law Peeping At? (photo) by montezz(f): 7:58pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
the spirit is willing bt d flesh is weak. he cudnt help but peep at d exposed boobs...baba oni baba! |
Romance › Re: Guys, Reasons Why Break Up Might Be A Blessing In Disguise by montezz(f): 7:56pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
Love is never enough! break up makes u reflect on ur past misdeeds so u can work on it. no word can describe the kind of freedom one experience after ending a traumatic relationship.it gives u an opportunity to accept,love and appreciate yourself. It prepares u for d best to come. it makes you stronger and better. most times,its really a blessing in disguise. |
Politics › Re: Boko Haram Loots Shops, Fuel Stations In Geidam by montezz(f): 7:39pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
shebi NA claim to be winning against dz animals ni(lying liars). its high time buhari led d attack against boko haram. RIP to d dead! |
Health › Re: Ebola Virus Scare In Calabar by montezz(f): 7:27pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
ebola ke! God forbid! |
Politics › Re: Boko Haram Launches Fresh Attack On Geidam, Yobe Governor’s Home Town by montezz(f): 3:20am On Oct 08, 2015 |
anytexy: This clueless Jonathan should resign fast. sir,i know you jux returned from venus. so many things happened while you were away. buhari is now the president of nigeria and year 2015 is almost packing up. m telling u dis so u won't appear stupid next time u address the public. thank u sir! |
Food › Re: 10 Nigerian Foods You Must Eat Before You Die by montezz(f): 10:28pm On Oct 07, 2015 |
joseph1832: Sorry I don't do e-love. Whatever happens here continues in the real world.  muahhh! i love dat response jhur. aminat508 u can be his e-wife yl i hook up with him in d world. abi joseph1832? |