Mokole2023:


So after all claims and counterclaims, what would you advice?

Ignore that kobojunkie. She probably works for an NGO whose objectives are to increase divorce rates whatever the method used, whether it's in the interest of the woman or not.
Take time out and read all her posts. All she wants is that no woman should stay married to a man.

Given that she's always on this forum without a break, it means she has no other source of livelihood and this is her paid job. To induce divorce.

So listen to her at your own peril.

Only a titled man will do those handshakes. The actors will greet their own traditional ruler the same way. They mean no disrespect.

Infact, their gestures after the handshakes tell a lot about their high regard for the Ooni.

From here too, we're saluting him.

Kabiyesi!!!

The way lala did his job was so mature and professional that I once believed Seun had to be lalasticlala.
His only idiosyncrasy was snakes and in a very funny way...

He will be missed...

Here they are - the bigots that nearly did PYO in. I hope his next few years out of power will open his eyes to see their bile-filled hearts, and keep away from them. Hopefully, his experience would be handy to PO, if and when the PEPT do justice and pronounce their judgement in fairness and with truth.

Offpointng:
It's obvious even to the blind. only Igbos have some unimportant opposing opinion to these claims. meanwhile the most terrible governors in the last 8years are Uzodima, Ikpeazu and Ugwuanyi. Imagine 3 of the 5 governors in SE are Nigeria's most useless governors in Nigeria currently but you'll not see or hear Igbos calling them out

If misplaced priorities are a secret of people it'd definitely be Igbos

We like PYO. He was the only one that appeared sane among the whole of PMB's team.

However, we do not appreciate that his crew chose to run with BAT's crew and in so doing imbibed all the negative traits the BAT gang were known for. I believe they ended up misadvising the VP on the actual state of affairs on the ground. Luckily for him, he escaped the anti-Igbo paintbrush those charlatans used in presenting BAT to Nigerians. (Nigerians bought it well though and showed that bomboklaat that they prefer love to hate).

It is very instructive to note that in the few cases when PYO was apprised of the true situation, he was decisive and his decisions were praiseworthy.

Fare thee well, Prof.

Imagine this commenter and his question!!!

Obi was not rejected. As a matter of fact, his victory shocked you, your likes and your principal to the bones. Reason the election was rigged. Moreover, that explains why it's a party we were made to believe placed third, that's giving APC sleepless nights. A party that could not boast of a councilor before the election.

Lol. Say what you will. You know the truth deep down. Everyone knows

LeoDeKing:
Okay.

Can you now explain why Nigerians rejected Obi?

Though from my side,I rejected him because his incompetence was brought to bear when he was the governor of Anambra state for 8 years.

Even if it's only Igbo youths, they are not Nigerian youths abi?

And all the votes PO got were from only Igbos, abi?

You labelled all Obidients as IPOB before the polls. You lost the polls, when Nigerians from all parts of the country voted their minds. You had to resort to rigging. Yet you're yet to learn your lessons.

Kwantinue...

Lifestone:

Stop saying Nigerian youths , say Igbo youths. Youth from other regions have since been chased away by the igbos

Lol. And then tried to give Obaseki the Ambode treatment. We all saw how that panned out. Or has Edo become Lagos?

Gradually, we will get to a point in Nigeria where no godfather will determine if a governor stays in office or not.

WorldRichest:


Ambode controls more than that, yet we kicked his ass out

Wike betrayed his people that have looked up to him for support, and supported him throughout all the attacks he faced at the hands of APC.

He should have just let their votes on Feb 25 count, but no, he rewrote it.

Flangelo12:


Not a fan of Wike but who exactly did he betray?

Lol. We are not the ones in pain. We are not the ones trying to impersonate Baba Bullion van. We are not planting factional chairmen in APC, neither are we using incumbent power to snoop on opponents' private phone conversations.

More importantly, we are not the ones smarting after taking a beating in our headquarters 🤣🤣🤣.

We beat you before at the polls. We will beat you again at the courts. We are the many. You are the few. 😊

blacknp:
Your pain can be felt by the long epistle you purportedly composed in anguish?

But take Heart, We know for certain, that a sore Loser must always have an excuse

Alaigbo again. Where is that coming from?

Your demi-god assembled a warchest over a period of 22 years, placed members of his mafia in positions of authority, including a President and his VP, Governors of about 20 States, Senate President and Speakers etc. Only for a PO from Anambra State to join a relatively unknown party LP barely a year to the elections, and knock him around like a child in a campaign that kept Nigerians thrilled and hopeful for the future, topping it off by giving the old man a sound beating even in his own home. A very sound beating.

Your demi-god had to resort to rigging in many states to get between 25%-29%. He couldn't rig FCT obviously. All the international observers are quartered there. And he needs to make a show of legitimacy...

Ever since PO gave your demi-god a beating in the campaigns, locally and internationally, gave him an even bigger one in the elections, and is set to give him another in the courts, you have all been writing irrationally.

Obi did not beat your god only in Alaigbo. He beat him in over half of the states of the federation including Lagos

LeoDeKing:

Fixed.

Nigeria does not start and end in Alaigbo.

You have not responded intelligently to the first question I asked you. You have just been raving and insulting yourself.

I believe it is better we address the cause of your depression - PO slaughtering your god at the poll, especially at home . When you finally have a grip on your emotions, you might finally have the presence of mind to think rationally about how possible it is to fit N250m into three suitcases.

Sonyboom:
A loser wailing foolishly
When Obi Pandora n Atiku were beaten did you not wail more than this ?

Why did you jump to this wailing I tot you wanted to convince your soul Obi Pandora wasn't red handed looting ₦250 million with his convey ?

Have you given up on that already because once you admit the Pandora criminal is a diehard criminal that is only when I will be switching topic with you.

All the bulcrap on your demigod Abuja n all other nonsense you have to wail about can take the back seat till we agree Obi Pandora was caught red handed looting ₦250 million monthly from Anambra coffers for good 8 years.

You have been throwing insults about, because clearly you've been triggered. By the mere mention of Obi's name? By the truth? By what exactly?

Your demi-god assembled a warchest over a period of 22 years, placed members of his mafia in positions of authority, including a President and his VP, Governors of about 20 States, Senate President and Speakers etc. Only for a PO from Anambra State to join a relatively unknown party LP barely a year to the elections, and knock him around like a child in a campaign that kept Nigerians thrilled and hopeful for the future, topping it off by giving the old man a sound beating even in his own home. A very sound beating.

Your demi-god had to resort to rigging in many states to get between 25%-29%. He couldn't rig FCT obviously. All the international observers are quartered there. And he needs to make a show of legitimacy...

Ever since PO gave your demi-god a beating in the campaigns, locally and internationally, gave him an even bigger one in the elections, and is set to give him another in the courts, you have all been behaving irrationally. So get a cup of water, drink, and accept the realities. You're just in the second stage of grief. We'll wait for you to come around. We'll need you when we begin rebuilding Nigeria, maybe as a scapegoat. You decide.

Sonyboom:
Look at this idiot an amount that the IGP instructed the whole Lagos state commissioner of police Marvel Akpoyibo to escort Obi Pandora thieving criminal to the bank and ensure it was lodged.

You are definitely doomed, if the curse be on me leave me to it as I have left you shameless soul to be lying to yourself n other ipob clowns that clearly know that Obi Pandora is a die hard criminal that was caught red handed looting ₦250 million monthly for 8 solid years before he was caught yet you think you can sell him as a saint to mumu cos it was obvious that lie wasn't selling to Nigeria no wonder the bastard declared a free n fair election a religious war.

First and foremost, you have to admit to yourself that N250m cannot fit into three suitcases. So the amount of money in those suitcases was clearly blown out of proportion.

Your favorite newspaper house The Nation reached out to the Governor and his aide made it clear that the amount of money involved was less than a tenth of the amount being bandied around. If you cared about the truth, you'd have seen that report too, and that is more in line with what is realistically probable or possible.

What we have here is clearly a case of imaginations running riot, as all the accounts by different persons quote different amounts.

I am responding to you because you placed a curse on yourself and your generations. Obviously, you couldn't lay a curse on me even if I'm seated by your side. Most probably even, I might be old enough to be your father, or maybe not. So think rationally and hard, and count your teeth with your tongue. Don't go and die for the one caught on camera with bullion vans...

Always apply reason.

Sonyboom:
It is clear you head is completely damaged.
Did Obi Pandora denied he was caught looting ₦250 million monthly from Anambra ?

The police commissioner Marvel Akpoyibo that called the IG to report the case is brain dead like you ?

The vanguard newspaper journalist n editor that carried the paper on their paper are also brain dead like you ba ?

Do you have any idea how long the bastard Pandora criminal Peter Obi was being monitored before he was caught red handed with the money in his warehouse in Orile ?

You have to be mad to discredit a report Obi Pandora dare not deny himself

I bet you have no idea what a devil 😈 is. A daredevil criminal Obi Pandora that was caught red handed with a named commissioner of police in the person of Marvel Akpoyibo who is not even dead n your miserable soul is denying on behalf of the criminal ?!

If Peter Obi governor's convey was ever caught looting ₦250 from Anambra to Peter Obi warehouse in Orile in Lagos state as reported by Vanguard newspaper which he never denied but instead tried sweet talking the IGP Mike Okiro to leave the convoy with IGP insisting the money must be return back to the state account with the police escorting the convoy to the bank where the money was officially lodge into Anambra account may it never be beta for you n your entire household from this generation to your 7th generation but if the report is false this curse should befall me.


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2009/07/alleged-n250m-anambra-money-police-launches-fresh-investigation/

yarimo:
NGEGI NGIGE and OBIANO all did well as governor of Anambra state and now SOLUDO is doing great

Misspelling people's names, especially people whose names are heard of often tells a lot about the writer.
Don't be that writer. Do the needful.

But most importantly, in your assertions, separate politics from good governance. Eg. Tinubu is excellent at politics, but terrible at good governance....

Sonyboom:
Clown why not direct your question to vanguard or the police commissioner Marvel Akpoyibo that caught obi Pandora with the money red handed.

At least it's now clear to all that you know the truth, that N250m can't fit in 3 suitcases, and that the story is false, but you just choose to spread falsehood out of malice.

So get behind me, Satan.

Sonyboom:
Imagine the foolish ipob bastard calling the Labour Party chairman "babalawo".

Some dead brain fools idiots n bastard will not see anything derogatory in such glaringly vivid bigotry but let Yorubas call Obi Pandora who was caught looting state fund into his daughters Gabrielle Pandora account and see the same foolish set of oloriburuku humans will be wailing like lunatic over the obvious truth

NL will not see this one to ban but type Pandora Obi n it will be changing it to Peter Obi. I doubt if seun fit get sense till Jesus return.

@SonyBoom, please tell me, how can N250m cash fit into three suitcases?

TheRareGem1:
Our information Agencies need to do more in enlighten the Nigerian people really.

The people do not need to be enlightened. They are the ones on the frontline, not the VP. Infact, he needs to be enlightened on the actual realities on ground.

Prior to that 7 years, it was easier setting up a business. The only gains made today is that CAC certificates can be gotten online.

In its place, the additional hurdles placed before new businesses are quadruple. Try it yourself. Register a business, get a license for it from the relevant regulatory authority, open an account for it. Then come back and tell us your experience.

Even banks are scared of opening accounts for new businesses now because of the multiple needless regulations.

Well, I believe it depends on the training the officers get. And their outlook on life. Which is shaped by society too.

When the guardian of the law survives by getting handouts from lawbreakers, they can snap too. They're human.

We need to get our leadership right, first and foremost.

Then our law enforcement will have to be reoriented to place priority on "keeping citizens safe and secure" over "chasing after criminals".

americanigga:


They should keep arresting him anytime he posts fake news. Fg just got N10m for just one arrest. By the time they arrest him 100 times that would be 1 billion, enough for Tinubu to construct roads in Kaduna.

Lol. Really?

Build road with N1 billion? APC? Money that they'll tell you is not enough for them to feed a classroom of 30 toddlers for a month.

Hafeexla:


You only quoted 5000, quote another one that show full capacity!

A 5000 capacity hall is bigger than a 3000 capacity hall, obviously.

So that should settle the discussion.

...even though I would have preferred that money was spent on developing healthcare capacity and education...

Animegirl:
Was it last week a lady was cursed on Twitter for not sharing 35million naira with her spouse, which was given to her by her Father. Now today, Hakimi is celebrated for putting all is fortune in his mother's name.

Truth be said, I honestly don't know what men want now? If you want to marry, good but also remember the lady left her family to build a home with you. If you must marry, be ready to give your ALL to your wife, since you trusted her enough to tie the knot with her. For it is written, once married you become one.

When old age comes, some of you men will carry your burdens and place it on one small woman to carry for you. Then you start to wonder, why children love there mothers more.

Anyone who applauds what Hakimi did, does not deserve any respect, just bunch of weaklings.

She gave her ALL for just three years. Now she's leaving.
His mother gave her all for ALL of his life. She's never leaving him. Who deserves more?

TemplarLandry:
Answer this question copiously.
Hypothetically, you failed an examination by coming distant third and your livelihood heavily hangs on it, strategize how to steal the first position and subdue those two candidates who outperformed you.
[20 marks]
Your time starts now.

Are you writing about APC's Supreme Court governor?

Kobojunkiee:
1. Marriage is defined by law as an agreement between a man and a woman. Unless he had signed a business agreement between himself and his mother requiring he pays her a certain amount each period, that one no enter at all.

2. I think the average Nigeria is terribly misinformed when it comes to the law and marriage. Mass education is definitely in these major areas.

1. You once argued on another thread (some issue in Ghana, if I'm not mistaken) to the effect that verbal agreements are enforceable in court. I guess we don't have to revisit that, unless you have no principles and change stance on subjective whims.

2. Nigerians are well informed about marriage, especially as it relates to their culture. It's the bigots that believe Western culture is superior that need education.

Kobojunkiee:
Storyland!

Granted, she contributed to his earnings in the three years they were married.

His mother contributed prior to the marriage, and even during the marriage. Just like he presumably owes his wife, he owes his mother too. And he was making those payments religiously.

Just like a man that divorces and remarries. His wife cannot accuse him of marital fraud if he was allocating 80% of his earnings to his ex-wife, as long as he was contributing reasonably to his home.

Drop this issue. Any judgement that convicts him of marital fraud is not justice. It's intimidation and oppression.

Kobojunkie:
1. Then it seems you missed his follow up statement.

Thank you for pointing that out.

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Men, just like women, want more power in relationships too.

Kobojunkie:
1. Direct your questions at the Op as I didn't create the thread. I am simply trying to engage is all.

The op posted about a woman and a man in a polyamorous relationship. The woman made it very clear that "We've always been an equal-partner relationship. Everything is 50/50. What I can do, he can do, so as I date, Dustin dates as well...", so where and how does your question about women's right to power in a relationship arise from, to the exclusion of men's?

Kobojunkie:
The focus here is on women and their relationships, hence there was no attempt made by my person to derail. If you have nothing to add as far as women's right to power in their relationship, it's OK to move along.

So when does a discussion about a polyamorous relationship involving one woman and two men become a discussion about just the woman's right to power in their relationship? Is the woman in the relationship alone?

Kobojunkie:
1. Yes, it is!

Why then did you attempt to derail the thread, and why are you still derailing it?

Kobojunkie:
1. You are free to create your own thread with your own special topic. No need to derail this one or turn it into another garbage us vs them thread.

Is a discussion of the man/woman power dynamic in relationships an attempt to derail a thread on polyamory?