₦airaland Forum

Ikomi:
The lizard, the aligator and the crocodile. They all look the same, but the day the lizard looks into the aligators eye, it is by it own hands calling for its death.

So also an aligator would never say it is the equal of a crocodile, not in size nor strength.

Can a lizard mate with an aligator? Can a lion mate with a panther? Can a aligator mate with a wall gecko?

After asnwering this questions then ask yourself about different human beings then you will get your answer?

queenblack:
It was forwarded to me from a yahoo group of which I am a member. I hope all descendants in Africa and the Diaspora will wake up and see what is really happening with us.

Whats happening to us, may I ask?

Udode:
@morpheus24

its ok, i have checked out the oyibo page, but honestly, i think those are mostly people that work in a oyibo company and are not much integrated in the country, u know what i mean. From what i read they are rather negatively minded and have stayed true to their oyibo culture, i would prefer to hear from people that for example speak igbo and made good experiences, not those who just go to nja for work and then come back to wherever they come from!

Unfortunately you are right as far as the website is concerned but it could be quite useful to you in the long run. Once you get there you will come across others that live there as well and can easily make friends but you have to find the type of people who get along with you,

living in Nigeria requires a lot of changes and even though you mentioned visiting other African countries I would suggest a gradual intergration into the culture and the people, once you are used to mannerisms, customs and so on then you will not find situations frustrating.

Which is why you will need a network of people like you who live in the country,

Don't worry you will find them when you get there.

Udode:
No I am not nigerian - which would make me an expatriate if I live in nigeria :-)
and no i do not want to live in a place where expatriates are concentrated, i am very
fine with nigerians themselves, all I wanted was to find out what experiences people
who are not nigerians made when they moved to nigeria,

Don't mind this hostile people, They like to look for trouble too much. The webiste oyibos online is your best bet but most of them are station in lagos, Abuja and Port harcourt.

Becomrrich:
Rape is not good.

ElRazur, homosexuality is not inborn, it is a person desire people make and create in their mind. Homosexuality is like arm robber. Arm robber can not stop themselves from doing it. It is a immoral altitude.

Look God did not make any man a homo, It is based on lust of the heart. We can control lust.

Let Look at God, and I would assume what science call nature. God made man and woman. That tell you a story. The story is that man and women should be together,

Now everything made have a purpose. We have eyes so that we could see, we have legs , so that we could walk, we have hears so that we could hear.
I have, please forgive me everybody for using this word penis so that it could fit in a woman virginal. The anus is for shit , my brother. The man organ was well design to fit the woman sexual organ.

Look even the location of both male and women sexual organ tell you the story. The man organ is located nearly approx about the same position of the female. God could have located the Male organ close to the eyes and the female organ to fit the centre of her back. God did not. He located the penis and the virginal about the same position facing each other. So that they can fit each other.

That tell you the whole story. A man for a woman. To be a partner till the gravel. I am sorry for using some word online. It is to better explain issue.

Daft reasoning. on penis vs vagina positions. Are you serious?

Udode:
@londoner

yes they are igbos, so you think a nice handshake (and maybe a little bending) would do?
thankx for the advice

You don't need to bend down to greet them since they are igbo. A nice hand shake will suffice. Try practicing using two hands to greet and elder. Place one had on your arm and use the other to shaek. Shows a sign of respect. Also you can hug the ladies and gents but use whats called a side hug not a frontal hug. More appropriate.

Moonstone:
With that question, you have started WW3.

Yes oh! You are risking the lives of our brothers in SA oh.

spikedcylinder:
RSA, you have deep rooted information? Whats our business with all the otiose information you post all over the place?

The buffon is lonely cause he can't find a forum of his peers to discuss such matters.

SAD!

hajifaty:
Is the video not decietful and dangerous itself? It shows how desperate and dangerous are the pastors

It must be one of your Islamic brothers that posted the video then

People who view this video should be extremly careful of information like this that is passed on in snipits.

While I am not an advocate of such practices in churches. The people who comeout with these videos may be just as devious as the ones who are participating in it,

in the same vain they are trying to recruit those who are discontent or disillusioned about such practices.

I will not be surprised if this video was prepared by some of these so caledl "black Hebrew Muslim street preachers"

Watch out for their kind . They are just as decietful and dangerous.

Udode:
oh and another questions - -for my future father in law, i want to bring a nice present, i was thinking of a nice suit but i heard he never wears suit at all (apparantley he is rather old, which i think should not matter for that reason). So you guys have any suggestions

A nice wrist watch will do. I remember thats what most of my uncles were asking for last time I went back home.

Udode:
r u serious

You really might need some if you don't want to get your sneakers wet or damaged. really depends on where you are going and what you will be doing.

Frankly I believe staying away from the cities and experiencing the country life is a mcuh more rewarding trip. You get to feel the heart beat of the country and interact with real local people.

Try to blend in by not dressing to flashy so as not to attrct any attention. If you've beento the congo then lagos, Enugu, Aba should e a breeze