₦airaland Forum

mu2sa2:
IMN is not the only shiite organization in nigeria. What set them apart from the others is that they have chosen to be confrontational. In fact, IMN does not recognize the constitution of nigeria; they dont vote, nor even register to vote; and dont recognize nigerian authorities.

Then what are they doing in Nigeria? They should just go and create their own country and live the way they like.

Nigeria, this country, too many problems...

And so we should fry water abi?

sKeetz:
Bad belle

Why are you taking the whole thing personal?

Bro, the thing tire me for the guy oh!

Blackfire:
They knocked them where?

On their black rotten blokoses. Lol...

catwalq:
Whenever you get that suicidal thought, tell yourself that you will live and do good. Even if you have to say it out loud,trust me it works.

Positive reaffirmations are poisons to negativity. I wish you peace sir.

Thank you. I will give this a try

151487made:
Please!!! I beg u in the name of whatever u believe in not to think of suicide.

I am trying not to do that but, like I said, it keeps coming, I can't control it anymore and that is why I opened this thread.

Am scared for myself. Never been this bad.

thorpido:
You say you are an introvert but you need to be 'out' more.Develop friendships with people on your street, neighborhood and around your school.Try to work with other students and even your lecturers to solve your academic challenges.
If you attend a church or mosque,join a group and be active there.

You have a Maker,pray to Him and seek Him.

Not really a student at the moment.

Dear Nairalanders

For those who have been through something like this before, how did u handle it? I will try to summarize it.

Things have not been adding up for me.

My life, academics, finance, friends have not helped matters either.

Of late, suicidal thoughts started crossing my mind.

On several occasions I have felt there is no point living when one cannot just live a simple life without much trauma.

I read news of people committing suicide with sniper and at a point I was contemplating it as an easy route to just be free, after all its very cheap and can be found in virtually all stores in the neighborhood.

The thing is, I am an introvert and I stay alone.

I am a go-getter kind of guy but, things have become so hard with pressures coming from all angles.

I think I am loosing it gradually, because now, I am not scared of just ending it on like before, the boldness and strong heart to do it is increasing by the day.

Everyday I return home alone, and all through the nights several thoughts of just ending it the easy way keeps popping up.

Nairaland is a place where I come to laugh at peoples comments and try to forget all the hassles of life with me whenever I feel I am beginning to have that feelings. So it's the only thing that keeps me company most times.

Today, I need your help and advice on what to do to stay alive for those who loves me. I don't know what next will happen as I seems not to be in control of this thing anymore.

To the mods, if this is not the right place for this, kindly help push to where it will meet the required audience.

Kindly advice.

Generalyemi:
please what is d natural remedy for diabetes,,

If only u won't think its fraud.

Contact me via email.

Let's arrange how I can send a particular leaf for u and advise u on how to use it.

U can check my profile to see from a thread where I posted the pictures.

U will be glad u did.

I know say na preeq go cause this kind serious fight.

hisexcellency34:
That was the same shit fatty Ambode was saying. The rest is history now...

God bless u. Ambode kept on denying until, like u said, its history today.

We are watching...

Honor10:
wait with saraki as SP, how did it better your life? lawan is the SP sha don't kill urself

It is too early to start arguing with e-wariors and nitwits.

Get a life mister, and get the hell out of my mention.

With Lawan as SP I don't know why my mind is telling me that Nigeria as a country is doomed

Him come resemble Neymar for face.

Hungry Holoshos everywhere.

tydi:


Is that thing my eyes are seeing a waist or mountain Everest

My brother, the thing off me too oh!

Nigeria my country

Chai

Serves the NEPA guy right. See how soft he is looking sef.

Correct neighbors, they allow the guy beat am well well.

Those of you saying the guy did wrong by fighting the NEPA man.

E be like say una never pay for wetin una no use before abi?

Okuda:
if you see a man that can have sex with you for 2hrs straight without any enhancer, come il give you 100k. infact 200k. take my word to the bank

Hmmm...

Speak for yourself bro!

Nednwoko:
Which man? Keep ur mouth shut boy

Lol @ your moniker...

Even in a sitting position, she is still bending her leg.

What is it with ladies and bending of leg in photoshoot sef?

Na wao

Abeg, nah Diesel give am this kind thing say make him wear, abi nah him wear am by himself

Na skirt be that abi na bente sef

ivandragon:
the problem rests with the police & other security agencies.


they are heavily complicit in the kidnapping matter. some connive with the kidnappers & get their share of the ransom & some are complicit by negligence.


just last week, from Abuja to Ekiti, I counted over 50 security checkpoints... for a journey that is about 400km, that's equates to a security stop every 8km...

yet, kidnappers are having a field day. it's not coincidence that as soon as security officers leave a checkpoint, kidnappers & robbers strike.


& what happened to air surveillance?

is our SAT for just political bragging noise?

for me, before even 'destructuring' to state police, there is need for a massive reorientation of our security apparatus...

Every 8km, security checkpoint along the Abuja Ekiti route? That is good nah. Have u traveled between Okene and Auchi before? U will be in a checkpoint and be looking at another checkpoint in front of u, all they do is just collect money from motorists, especially commercial vehicles, and God help u ur papers have any issue, then u are doomed. A journey that is just 45min drive, u will spend more than 3hrs with the numerous checkpoints both of the police, Military as well as vigilante group on that road yet, robbery still goes on on that road. They don't care about security, just there to make money. As for that SAT, yes, it's for political bragging. I still do not know its usefulness up till today.

stagger:
Sensationalist story. Abuja is the safest place in Nigeria. The only issue is the "one-chance" robbers in the FCT, and here we must place the blame where it squarely lies: the populace.

For years, the FCT administration and the DRTS (VIO office) has cracked down on unlicensed and unpainted vehicles known as "kabu kabu". But yet, people love to patronize them. On any typical day, you will see people just flagging down vehicles...any vehicle, even at night. It is like the culture here. Growing up in parts of Nigeria where such practice is frowned on because of safety concerns, this for me was one of the huge culture shocks I witnessed coming to the FCT.

Why would a sane person in today's Nigeria be flagging down a vehicle that is not a painted cab, with unknown occupants, just to be carried and dropped at a location in the name of saving money or for convenience? A woman had once walked to my car with her child and was asking if I was going in a particular direction early on a Saturday morning as I was heading to the mechanic. I asked her plainly whether she knew me before and I was like: what if I am a kidnapper? She just looked at me like a statue as I drove off.

So clearly, the govt here is doing its part by trying to sanitize the transport system. But the attitude of the people is clearly a problem. Use only painted cabs please.

You have made ur point but, this is not the only problem right now.
Just last week my neighbor was trailed from her place of work (Bank) to the front of our gate at home, two guys on a bike pointed gun to her face and went away with her valuables.
That was not the first time it is happening in that area(Gwagwalada). In broad day light.
So its not just one chance my brother. Places outside the main Abuja town are now hotbeds for criminals. It wasn't this bad before.

Like someone rightfully said up there, what they know how to do is to arrest pole dancers, ban alcohol, yahoo boys and sports betting.

Nigeria is just like a speeding vehicle without brakes, and we are all inside this vehicle, very soon, I mean very, very soon, it will crash and not everyone will come out alive

DissTroy:
And who do we have here, ladies and gentlemen? It's the pseudo-feminist Cococandy whose parents sold her in the name of brideprice and whose husband's people haggled the final price they paid to buy her like a rottening paw paw at Oshodi Market.

You who go around throwing it in people's faces that your husband married you well? Meaning he paid well for you. ...Like a choice goat.

Scurry back from whence you came, you being with an eternal sore between your legs!

You are wicked! What?!!!

So she wants to be allowed to continue selling a poisonous pomo till August?

Some people's conscience is long dead sha.

Imported from Senegal, by Lebanese.

This is really annoying aswear!!!

Luciferkoran...

No let them catch u oh!

@preciousgirl, u want to cause war abi?

Don't worry, they are coming.

MoriahMills:
Stop posting that ugly picture on Nigeria Cyber space

Sorry ma'am are u allergic to the picture? Oya take am again...Lol

The people that did the face of a policeman like this...

Pls, is he crying blood in that picture?

Fifa should make a rule that when the goal difference in a match is 5 and its 70 minutes already, the referee should just end the game.

Livecamp09:
May all wicked police officers die a very painful death in Jesus name. Amen

Amen!!!

crackhouse:
can somebody ban this guy please.

Honestly, something needs to be done about not just him alone but, on all the scammers here.

One can't just open any thread without seeing all those long rubbish they post.