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That kind of ur wife is so rare.i think I am lucky to have a good wife too. It is a heavenly gift when God decide to bless you with a good woman. Get a gift she will be so amazed when you give it to her,brace up and tell her you are sorry for all ur words in the past , cherish her,tell her good words and how you are blessed by having her as ur wife. Bro I think u are good to go. I wish u more happiness in ur marriage. What God cannot do does not exist.

gazeup1:
I created this new handle to hide my identity.

I got married 11 years ago. We both started working before we got married, but my salary was way above my wife's own. I was earning 195k while she was on 108k when we got married, after my MSC, I was promoted and started to earn 350k, this got to me and I started to misbehave, I was doing all sorts and would insult the hell outa her. As the cry cry girl, she would cry, and thereafter I would hear her praying. At times she would say she will one day be greater than me. That to me was an impossibility.

I can't even remember ever giving her money for home keep but we never lacked food at home (we delayed before having kids, so I don't see the need for me to give her monthly money and she never asked). I started giving her after we had kids. She agreed when I told her her money was for the home and mine for investment, but I never included her name in my properties. she knows this as well.

After our kids, it became very demanding, coupled with her office not increasing her pay, she resigned, and that was when I felt the impact of her income. Meanwhile, her pay was reduced to about 80k and mine was increased to like 600k as at when she resigned. In one month I started asking her to return back to her work as to me I was not ready to foot her bills, she never even asked for money, she would even say what I gave her is left 5k or more self at the end of the month.

Now her new journey - When I started disturbing about going back to her former office or getting a new job, she said never and asked me to stop giving her money but go to market to buy food myself. In less than 4 months to her resignation she started talking about online job here and there, I thought it was a scam so I warned her. One day, I was in the office when she said she needs me to help her wit the best laptop to buy, I tried to talk her down on buying one but she ended the call on me.

I got home to see her with a new laptop. fast forward, she paid for a training on how work from home without my knowledge, got her first job of about $200, I also washed her down on going that low for such an amount but she said it was better than her former 80k job, before I knew it, she started talking about $1,000, now it's $3,000, to $4,000 monthly. I earn lower than #1M, my wife gets over #2M monthly working from home. She helped me finished my house project, very transparent and would not hide any $ she earns.

I have not been able to forgive myself of all the things I did to her, the insults, talking down on her but in a way I think I pushed her to become who she is now. I remembered when she asked back then to open a joint account with her, I laughed her to scorn, like how would the ratio be. she saved over 6M and credited my account with everything, just for us to complete our home. I can't even produce 1M.

She doesn't seem hurt, but sometimes she reminds me of those words, I have never officially told her sorry neither have I really changed because I am just like that, I don't mean evil. I wanted her to braze up and never stay low.

Married, men, please how do I ask for her forgiveness? I don't think we have up to 2% of her type out there.

My brother,I read everything u wrote,that is the kind of society we find ourselves. If u are rich,u are into fraud,if u are poor u become nothing to them. Please my guy I need ur help to the line of business you are into.life is very hard for me here and my family.may be God can use u to change my life for good.i need a genue thing I can be doing to to take care of my family. I have been mocked by immediate families because of my situation. My whatspp number 09029392070.i beg u in the name of God or to any one who can help me here. Just something I can do to put food on the table for my kids. Thank you

bayo2018:
I don’t know why every successful male (mostly young guys ) who are successful are tagged yahoo boy here in Delta
i schooled in one of the Uni in this state and it hasn’t being easy with me explaining to almost everyone that I’m not into fraud.

Though I experience this from almost all the normal students. I don’t even roll much with girls from this state and sch (most of them will always tag me a yahoo boy at the end of the day ) because it seems everyone here na frauddey help their life and likewise the girls are into legit hook up and they don’t even cover it (the way some of the females here dress ehhn I’ll just nod my head, smile and continue my journey )
I’ve encountered two scenarios where the mum was even the one advising the young male child to go meet their bro at some other part of the state (like oghara)
The other was the mom going to fight for her kid because they didn’t wanna give him his full share from the scam schem omo I just weak dieee

But I did not expect myself seeing same mentality from the educated adults

The first experience occurred when I was in yr 2 second semester and my Course adviser told me I’ve changed (he knew me personally because of my good result lols ) due to the cloth I put on during my 100l days and the type of cloth I put on during the yr 2 and after the normal meet up talk baba confidently told me that I’ve started yahoo also because he can see that i now put on vintage shirt unlike the set of clothes I put on in my yr 1 (I’ve got a very bad fashion sense in my yr 1 sha lols. sometimes I even put on Ankara and Jean to lecture hall )
I had to clear my self immediately that I’m not into fraud and I’m a legit Businessman. He asked me scope of the business and I brief him a little and we ended it there by me dashing him some pocket money lols

I am so happy and j pray that God will bless your hustle.please can u DM me.i.want to make enquiry from u on how get a room self-contained there.

Togobroz:
Happy new month to everyone and I wish to thank God for his grace so far.

I have been a hustler for long trying to make ends meet and at a point I was able to save about 1.5million naira to travel to China but unfortunately I was duped and my hard earned money went to voicemail. I kept struggling and saving money to go to Europe but I was denied visa twice to two different countries and then I gave up.

I decided not to travel again but the stress and insecurity in Nigeria has been worrisome especially in my region so I decided to travel to any french speaking African country and just experience a whole new different life outside Nigeria. My initial plan was to go to Burkina Faso or Equitorial Guinea and I did some research that would guide me as I didn't know anyone in both countries and I was just determined to go on this adventure myself.

I saved up some money which got to almost 3 million naira and then I crossed my heart and made my trip. From Nigeria I crossed into Benin Republic and then to Togo where I was supposed to cross to Burkina Faso. On getting to Togo it was quite late so I had to pass the night in a cheap hotel of 2000cfa franc. In the hotel I met some Nigerians going to Ghana with some friends based in Togo. I was hearing their conversations as they drank at the bar while I sat alone with a bottle of their local beer Castle.

Being that in Togo I discovered they hardly speak English, I decided to introduce myself to those Nigerians so that I can make some enquiry from them and that was how we all got talking and gisting till late night. The guys based in Togo told me alot about Togo and how life is cheap if one has some capital to get accommodation and start a small business. I was made to understand there is steady light, water and security in the small country. The next day I was suppose to leave for Burkina Faso I decided to pay for the hotel room for a week and explore Togo a bit. The guys I met that were based in Togo already were really helpful and they took out time to show me around, know the prices of stuffs and where to buy cheap stuffs as well. I began to fall in love with the country except for the fact that most people don't understand English, though some try to understand and speak a little so you have to scatter the English for them to understand.

I decided to find a house and few days was enough for that. I got a room and parlor self contained house for 30,000cfa a month and paid a year which is 360,000cfa. They hold 6 months as deposit and after six months I start paying 30,000cfa monthly or anyhow I wish to stretch it based on my pocket. I just furnished it a little and I am just chilling with steady light on a brief. The house has a prepaid meter so I recharge and use according to my power.

After making some deep enquiry about what business to start at least for now, I bought a tricycle they call Apsonic here in Togo. It cost 1.4million cfa brand new plus the plate number registration and all. Then I found a driver who took it on hire purchase to balance 2.5million cfa at 25,000cfa per week.

My good people, I know I have not reached where I am going but I bless God for where I am coming from. Right now I just relax myself planning my next move while every Saturday I wait to receive my weekly salary. With life here if you are someone that knows how to manage, even 1000cfa can feed you a whole day so I am really doing my best to see how much I can save by the end of this year over here and know my next move.

Please you all pray for me as I also pray for you all. The journey of a thousand miles always start with a footstep.

That ur husband must be stupid. What will ever make a man flog a woman you are married to. He is a shameful man.

fortuneerondu:
You call this a little misunderstanding? Wow. Now I really see what women mean when they protest against these things. There are certain lines you don't cross and one of them is physical harm. Once physical harm becomes the issue, you're safer and better off loving from afar, so pack your bags and leave. You haven't divorced him, you're giving him time to figure out his shit and if he decides to change then you come back and if he does it again then leave for good but most times perpetrators of physical violence never give their victims a chance to leave for good. The next time they beat you may be your last time on earth because they'll beat you to death knowing fully well that you might leave again


Some men can be cowards sha...

Please do help me with those applications, especially one for ielts exam. Life is becoming miserable here.

CriticMaestro:
So my girlfriend wanted to use my phone to call her mom last week during the brief black out, While going through the phone she saw apps that were to prepare someone to migrate as a skilled worker into some european countries.

She immediately got pissed and was just shouting that i was planning on leaving her without informing her. The truth is i downloaded those apps to see if i could get a better opportunity abroad but have never opened any of them.

It took some explaining before i was able to convince her that i wasnt planning to leave or atleast anytime soon. I deleted those apps and will just browse stuff about it on my PC when i'm free, if i get the chance to go i will maybe help her to work her way when i am comfortable.

May be you were still a kid during his reign.why do you hate a man who achieved what u may not achieved in ur life at a tender age. Counting years since his death,his music still rain like the heavenly dew. Get some sense before writing trash.

Iyaebe:
I hate him,even all his gra gra no hit song

God knows how much I love this man,A man better than all this useless politicians who have brought nothing but sorrow in our hearts. May you continue to live in God's strength and love.

God bless u for this advice ,this is what I have in mind to tell him. A dollar account will be good. because I don't see dollar crashing any day any time in this country.

adeprof18:
I don't have much to say about you and your 8mill, but my advice is you open a dollar account for your bro and save his 6mil there for him, when he is sure of any investment in future, he can do whatever he likes with the money

Why are you having headech on people's matter.

Anigreat:



So shameless a king

Marrying girls that are even younger than his grand daughters and using wrinkles filled and slacking/wane balls dicccck to joke around those young pussiees.


I haven't seen a king that bleaches like this...spent all his money on bleaching cream

They are still learning.

kettykings:
Some people who try to create an inexistent enemity between Igbos and Fulani will be disappointed someday.
People from a certain part of Nigeria are already cashing out of this inexistent enemity between Igbo and Fulani all because igbo didn't vote Buhari

Legends do not die,the live in our hearts. U were truly a legend and may God forgives all ur shortcomings and welcome u in his paradise. U are really a role model

You will never get peace oga Rochas,the cry of imo lite has reached God. You messed imo people up with your family, stealing from our pus. It is time for you to pay for ur sin.

Lies from the pit of hell.

And a president is in Turkey celebrating his birthday. We are all doom

Oga kindly leave all those ur English and face the fact.why can't she hv the postpartum depression since her own mother has come.

Mariangeles:
Have you considered the fact that your wife might be going or might've gone through postpartum depression, which might've led to that behaviour?

Were she and your mum having problems before your wife got pregnant and had a baby?

N.B. Postpartum depression is not an excuse for bad behaviour, it is real.

You are nothing but brainless for writing this trash and also believing the Nigerian army. Soon the wickedness pepertrated and done to this dead guy by this govt and the Nigerian army will visit you,with tears from my eyes.you don't come here and write trash because u are opportune to have a phone and a data..Soon u will cry in the hands of this pple u try to protect. I am burying my uncle on 23rd of this month who was a security man in a skul.killed and labelled an Esn by this monster u try to protect/ defend. Remember the guy we are talking about is someones child.my uncle's was someone's child too and you are here writing trash.

Ndimkpurummiri:
God bless our Gallant officers
UGM destabilising South east must be seriously .......

He is being papmpered because he is a Fulani. If he was from South,he would have been transported to USA since.

NaijaMutant:
A country that pampers corruption and fraud

God I have asked you for twins and I know you will do it for me.i need two baby boy twins and I tap from this legend blessing

And I see it coming soon. None of them will will escape it.

Prosperous111:
When the Revolution starts. Every creatures in Nigeria would be fearless. Even cockroach self go fight federal government

A president who cannot even sit his Ass in the country he claims to be the president and find solutions to all the happenings in the country. What a useless president.

The most useless woman.i pity her children

May God bless you for this. You are right on this.

SSpeter:
Dear Guys

I am writing to formally inform you to ensure you painstakingly and meticulously examine the type of guys your girlfriend has dated in the past. Please and please don't fall for the scam of " my past stays in the past". Dig the past, scrutinize all you have unearthed before you finally propose.

I saw a former colleague recently and he was almost a shadow of himself. He narrated how he is just recuperating from all his loses. He said his Church revealed to him that his wife is a pipe that keeps sucking his wealth and remitting his resources to the yahoo guy that performed the ritual on her. He explained how his logistics company crumbled and I almost cried. He said the court officially dissolved their marriage on a Friday, on Wednesday (the following week), a small reputable company gave him an offer to head their supply chain unit.

Please and please do not touch any lady that a Yahoo boy/man has touched. Fortunately they no longer hide their rituals. Please as an ambitious young man, dig into your potential wife's past. Know her dating history and the type of people she has dated.

Approximately 5 years ago there was this guy that invited us to a treat after his wedding while we were chilling someone asked him how did you meet your spouse he said "we met on a plane". To cut to the chase, the guy met a lady that a sugar Daddy was sponsoring to Dubai and "wifed" her. How can you meet a lady in business class who has no real job and the parents can not afford a 1999 Toyota and you say na she you wan marry? Although him body tell am and he advised himself.

As an ambitious young man the final trap ahead is your partner. Guide your steps towards marriage jealousy. The signs are always there. Your downfall begins when you marry an unfortunate person. I have seen someone who earns 650k monthly dismissed because of cheque issued on an unfunded account (No be juju be that?) He said the pressure from his wife was becoming unbearable. This was same wife that was catered for by a Sugar Daddy before the mumuni "wifed" her.

Finally, I will advise you to take this piece of advice: start digging. Never date a yahoo or sugar Daddy by-product. Your college girlfriend is using a premium iPhone and you know quite well that the parents are poor and she often calls you for bailout funds and you think one magical uncle gave her the phone?

The award to me now is a total Rubish. Cheating to the highest level.

OVB123:
Rubbish award, messi doesn't deserve the award.

The thing that will befall them ,it is only God that will save them.

Authoreety:
Police will never learn.

Bunch of cowards

You said it all, poorly trained and one day this useless guy @bashir will come out for any political position and he will be voted for .The same thing we are suffering @buhari hand,Nigerians never believed it will be this way for them.

Muna4real:
Hahaha
I read everything yesterday. The guy really dragged bashir. I wonder what this Bashir thinks of himself. Instead of him to bring a reasonable argument,he goes about insulting people's mothers. Poorly trained.

Live will always be good to u when u have good friends around you,not those that are everly ready to laugh at ur downfall.,but some useless folks will come here and write vanity. Get the money first before joining vanity crew. After today I have to give myself private tutor on the kind of friends I will have. 90% of people you go out with,all ur so called friends will determine how successful you will be in life.i am so proud of this Guy called Davido

You are right,but some useless folks will come here and write vanity. Get the money first before joining vanity crew. After today I have to give myself private tutor on the kind of friends I will have. 90% of people you go out with,all ur so called friends will determine how successful you will be in life.i am so proud of this Guy called Davido.

Fahdiga:
When you have grace of God anything is possible for you

God bless you for this peace of note.you made my day.

EmzyT:
Good to see these brothers back together. It leaves one with so many Questions with little answers on who the Real Devil could be anyway!

Well, I give it all to LOLA, she's a brave lady. In all those hard times, she never for once said anything on the allegations, cyber bullying and Insults meted out on her by Paul and his Senior Brother Jude! Her level of Maturity and ability to remain silent, unmoved in all those hard times should be a case study at the university. Such a strong woman i must confess!

More so; Love shouldn't be defined or built on Religion, the tribe you came from, etc. Anywhere you find Peace, STAY!!!!

Your family aren't always right afterall.

This world is nothing but vanity,upon all the whole money he has death has choosed him. If Money can buy live,no amount of it that dangote family cannot afford for it.

My brother na ur family e go shock.sometimes I weep and regret sharing a country with some ethinic region . Can you personally tell me what this guy achievements are..

Oluboh:
I have seen pictures and videos, Everywhere across Naija, Yahaya Bello is getting huge support
This guy May shock people come 2023

God bless you,you said everything in my mind. Can the foolish obong tell us Osibanjos achievement since past six years.

LibertyRep:
Osinbajo has been Buhari's vice for the past six years. He is as guilty as his boss for the unprecedented hardship Nigerians have been subjected to.

This rudderless government that have borrowed away the present and is not relenting until the future is put in the bondage of debt should not be allowed to self succeed.

If Osinbajo has the magic wand, he should have wielded it since.