Microwhy:
I dont even know why I get married or why I marry the lady I call my wife today.
Nothing is interesting about women especially the one's who are from trash background.
I am married and I must tell you that, the OP should let that woman go.

We have to commit this brother in prayers. As Christians would say, it's well.

The peanuts given as salaries are the reason refereeing is a part-time job.

To make a happy home, just accept the maid as a second wife since oga is very interested in her. It's just that most Nigerian women are averse to sharing men.

That's exactly how most Nigerian women are, everything is transactional. It's all about who is the highest bidder.

Somebody you weren't convinced with on account of sexual incompatibility, yet you continue to have unprotected sex with her. That means you guys are compatible, just that you haven't seen it. Oga, see it now.

Assuming that all you have written is the truth, the problem you have is not with the intrusive family, but with your husband who has no atom of respect for you. In your husband's family estimation, you are just a little girl who needs direction all the time. Stand your ground; don't give in to them. With time they would realise the error in their approach.

Just look at the western world and how women have used the freedom given to them. We know for a fact that total freedom destroys women.
Please, when next you want to talk to her, it's better you talk to her husband.

Let him wait until he becomes 18 years, then he would be matured enough to state his case. For now, he is under your care, restrict any form of contact he wants to establish with his dad.

If you are tirednof the situationship, why not move out. What will the man you are looking for do for you? Replace your husband? You are very funny.

I wonder why you are even discussing this issue. If not for the entitlement complex of most Nigerian women, common sense would have told her she cannot approbate and disaprobate at the same time. You appear like a simple man, who cherishes dictated peace even when it's downright stupid.

What are you building? Skyscraper?

Continue to maintain the tempo; they will answer you soon. Since you ain't taking the child away after going AWOL, they should at least let you see the child.

Just like EFCC did in 2007.

This one is more deadly than nuclear warhead.

What an unserious fellow! So you haven't approach the family before rushing to poorly defame Igbo online. I have great fear and pity for that lady and her family for knowing who you are.

For this cashless policy? E go hard go.

The husband (that is you) should do investigation to know the extent of his wife's relationship with the dude. Because most guys wouldn't part with their hard-earned money without making an exchange.Thereafter, he should be wary of the woman and monitor her very well.

Who knows if the side chick's mum is interested in being an active player. Maybe she is poised to throw off the toga of mere observer and become a credible participant. The story depicts a weak woman: a woman without power and one that has already given up. Madam, please do something, take back your husband and control the narrative.

LeoDeKing:
There is something Emefiele is looking for ontop this money matter. I'm 100% sure he will get it in no distant time.

You reversed the policy in compliance with Supreme Court ruling, which one be cbn code again? The same banks dispense the cash without cbn code.

If you are destined to chop hot slap in Alaigbo, even if you dey Singapore, you will book a return flight ticket to come collect that slap and go back.

Oga, Emefiele is messing up, because he is doing the biddings of his boss, the president. So channel your anger to the appropriate quarters.

I don't think it's a personal problem. Nigeria's unending problems have made it inevitable that most Nigerians analyse their problems anyway and everywhere. You ain't alone.

Haba Baba! Are we now to change our politics of imposition and godfatherism?

Why can't these people talk to president Buhari directly, on whose table the buck stops? For Pete's sake, the clueless Emefiele is doing the president's bidding.

Why not ask is it a sin to kill person in the church?

This is a turning point. Male can be victims of rape. What remains to be officialize is the punishment of female false victim of rape. Anytime a law court jails a female who falsely accuse a man of rape, then know that natural Justice has started in the western world.

That way these people go about this naira issue, one would be forgiven to believe Nigeria is ruled (or ruined) by group of ministers who are independent.

It's more than enough reason to send his sorry arse packing. What are you waiting for?

From Ogbomosho, Lagos State

There's another way to render the title of this thread: My Wife's Fucv-mate

Sorry for your troublesome mother. What of your dad? Just insist on renovating her place for her since she's very troublesome. Who likes a troublesome fellow?

Why he is explaining these thing now! We are just backward people.

It's slowly but surely moving from coursemate to fuckmate. It's just a matter of time. To say your wife is thoughtless and irresponsible is to state the obvious. Unfortunately for you, you are in a clime where can hardly do wrong.

Arrant nonsense! A useless and irresponsible man is not a man in the right sense of the word. It's not wise to call that spoilt adult in a baby's body and initiate reconciliation that would only bring you pain and sorrow. Just look for a way to connect with your parents and continue to be the good daughter you have been. You are very, very important.