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nspodcast1:
Please note that, homosexuality is a valid human sexual orientation, and harms no one. Homosexuals are humans, and they too also have rights that must be respected. These laws are discriminatory, and Nigeria is a secular society, an equal society, meaning that it belongs to everyone, and so everyone must be treated equally, and be allowed to EXPRESS their love to whom ever and however. Majority cannot decide for the minority, in every society their is always a minority, and its the duty of the majority to protect the minority. Thanks.

TrueBorn:
An*l sex is a sexual activity involving penetration of the an*s and in the quest of trying out something new to spice up their sex life, more and more married couples are turning to an*l sex (believe me when I say the statistics are skyrocketing!)

But an*l sex is unnatural and does come with a painful price. I believe God meant sex to be a harmless enjoyment between married couples and an*l sex does not fit into that requirement at all yet many had ana.l sex during biblical days so lets not pretend like its something new. It has health risks. Here are few of them:

-Due to the absence of natural lubrication in the an*s, penetration can perforate the colon or tear the tissue inside the an*s, allowing bacteria and viruses to enter the bloodstream. This can result in the spread of sexually transmitted infections including HIV.
NOBODY should try ana.l sex without lubricant, thats the common BASIC of this act

-It exposes one to HPV (which may also lead to the development of anal warts and anal cancer), hepatitis, herpes and other infections.
you can equally catch HPV from vaginal sex, if the person has indeed HPV?! NOBODY should try ana.l sex (or any other sex) without a condom

-Repetitive an*l sex may lead to weakening of the anal sphincter, making it difficult to hold in feces until you can get to the toilet. It is called anal incontinence.
repetitive vaginal sex may leads to [b]honeymoon cystitis (Google it and educate yourself), therefore should we stop having sex altogether?! HELL NO!!! what you do is that you use a bit of both (vagina & Anu.s, et voila[/b]

So you see adults resorting to wearing diapers because of this problem. In some extreme cases, rectal prolapse (where the rectum protrude out the anus and is visible outside the body)

adult wearing diapers has a lot to do with INCONTINENCE and not ana.l sex

-Because the an*s is full of bacteria, practicing vaginal sex after an*l sex can also lead to vaginal and urinary tract infections.
using a condom during ana.l sex is mandatory, thus what you wrote above is useless

Someone said, "The only way to completely avoid an*l sex risks is to abstain from an*l sex."
something as simple as a condom could solve that... but if thats the way you think we should solve problems then, there are many more diseases that can be caught via the vagina (involving the uterus/bladder etc), should we therefore stop having vaginal sex too?!

MoneypassGod:
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Arthurwinner:
Wasn't thinking straight yesterday cos of stress in the office

Arthurwinner:
It was necessary for my rep

omron:
KEEP YOUR HUSBAND.
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD READ THESE 30 RULES FOR GODLY WOMEN-----------

1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.(Prov 15v1)
Proverbs 15:1 "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."

how did you even come up with the HUSBAND or DISRESPECT part?! such verse is valid for MEN and WOMEN, whether married or not

2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you.You are each other's keeper.(Eph 5v12)
Ephesians 5:12 "For it is shameful even to mention what is done by these disobedient people in secret.

how does such verse relates to a husband OR his weakness OR that it will bounce back?!

3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.(Prov 15v13)
Proverbs 15:13 A happy heart enlightens the face, but a sad heart reflects a broken spirit.

how does such verse relate to gender OR marriage OR communication with your spouse OR defensive women?!

5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.(Prov 11v22)
Proverbs 11:22 Like a gold ring in a pig’s snout is a beautiful woman without discretion.

how is this verse got ANYTHING to do with what was written here?!

7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.(Eph 5v33)
Ephesians 5:33 "But each individual man among you must love his wife as he loves himself; and may the wife fear her husband."

how does such verse got anything to do with giving attention to husband OR responsibility towards the husband?!

. Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.(Deut 3v28)
Deuteronomy 3:28 "Therefore charge Joshua to be doubly strong, because he will lead this people and cause them to inherit the land that you’ll see"

how did this verse change from Joshua needing to be twice as strong as he will his people TO the gibberish written here?!

10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him how he wants it. Sex is very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over theat duty. No man can withstand sex starvation for too long(even the anointed ones) (SS 7v12)
Song of Solomon 7:12 "Let us go early to the vineyards to see if the vines have budded, if their blossoms have opened, and if the pomegranates are in bloom-- there I will give you my love."

how is this verse got ANYTHING to do with the above

11). Never compare your husband to your one time sex mate in bedroom, or an Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.(SS 5v9)
Song of Solomon 5:9 "How is your beloved better than others, most beautiful of women? How is your beloved better than others, that you so charge us?"

how does this verse about men giving value to their women CHANGE TO the opposite?!

13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.(Eph 4v31)
Ephesians 4:31-32 "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, quarreling, and slander be put away from you, along with all hatred. And be kind to one another, compassionate, forgiving one another just as God has forgiven you in the Messiah.

how is this verse about gender OR wise women?!

and the list goes on and on with these FALSE scripture's meaning... ABSOLUTE DISGRACE to the Bible!!!!

Cholls:
my brother i can tell you in all seriousness, i tend to have what i can only describe as little panic attacks at the thought of being faithful to a woman starting at that point for who knows how long. then i remember i can always do it without them knowing and everything is ok again

Cholls:
my brother I've never been married but I'm fairly loyal, in part out of my own moral code, in part because of sheer laziness, in part because of relative contentedness in relationship, and in part because I can hardly tolerate 1 woman, much less 2. The only times I've cheated was when the trust was gone in the relationship anyway.

Cholls:
my brother Lies only hurt if you know about them.If she is pro at keeping it secret then I dont know and I dont care.I would prefer her to cheat on me and be more happy than be faithful and unhappy.
Because if woman is unhappy she will make your life a hell.

Cholls:
my brother MRBrownJ If that's your opinion, which you are entitled to, so do you know the topic of discussion is not on morality, though.

Cholls:
my brother man who never cheats is a man who subdued his natural instinct and natural desire.

It is not healthy and not normal.

Most people sooner or later cheat because monogamy is not normal.If somebody claims he is happy fvcking same person for 10,20,30 .. years lifetime he/she is talking Disney fairytales to appear 'moral'.

To desire multiple people is perfectly normal.You have been brainwashed by religion,media and society to believe if you stick to one vagina at a time you have superior morality.

I would feel more guilty about not throwing away trash from home than about cheating.You just relaxed yourself outside boredom and thats it, not a big deal.