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Ekakamba:
I love making friends with gorgeous ladies. Of course I can fantasize, have a brief urge but at the end I overcome it (Its just a temptation). So admiring a lady & collecting her number doesn't mean I wanna have a go with her.

so, you think it is RIGHT to make friends with tempting women, aka gorgeous ladies that you fantasize about AND have urges for?!
so you just collect her number and then never call her?! if you dont want to have a go with such women then why take their contacts? what do you even know about this stranger that you would even wanna keep in touch with her (apart from her sexy body)? do you think it is RIGHT by the woman in your life?! is that what they call a "respectful" r/ship where you live? would you feel the same way if your gf took numbers of every guy she fantasizes about and/or who gets her wet/Hot?!

chriskosherbal:
Are you serious?

absolutely

what about going to meet him directly at his office?!
it took you 6yrs to do something about it?!

Ekakamba:

well I must confess her behind got me imagining things I could do with her but since I ain't single & promiscuous I let the thoughts fade away & I said to myself 'wow!

if you do believe and stand by the above in bold then why take her number then?

EmekaBlue:
Na lie...Ive watched d video of these screenshots xcept u show anoda one..Na black americans

Broda09:
That is not in Kenya, trust me I know. The accents sound Southern African but I guess anything Kenyan gets mileage on this forum.......

wrong... thats perfect west indies accent (possibly Jamaican), and yes the lady seems to ask:"i fukced Tayo" while Tayo watches on in the yellow top

btw here is the video with SOUND ahahahaha


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=05lvji5b-4k

fredoooooo:

such death is too easy for these people, just as castration is (since they are sick in their heads)

as usual, every success story on this earth is "god's will" even if that person aint religious, and anything remotely wrong/negative/failure is the work of the devil. utter NONSENSE!!!

to each their own

Arjeeni:
well....
let me try to calculate who is an slowpoke among the, wife and the sister.
The wife is living under the same roof with them this while for good 10 years while the victim was just 5 then and she didnt notice anything wow she must be fool.
The sister, hunnn I know as at the time the husband started the shameful act, she very small and for her to report such might not go well with her but as a girl growing up in Lagos, she shouldnt be so that fool though she might later admire the thing wow.
For the husband, one thing I would prefer to hear from him is successful castrated himself after raping a 15yrs girl for 10 yrs. this is bad and he is the king of all mugu

it obvious this story has holes.... the below quotes are a contradiction, the victim did say that he did it TWICE, last year being the 1st time, so what is the deal with 10yrs sexual abuse reported by these clueless journalists?!
anyway, the demon confessed, claiming "he didnt know what came over him".

olokfor:
"The teenager has been living with him since she was small. He started raping her when she was five-year-old. She lives with him and his wife, who’s her step-sister and he has been defiling her since then.

When interrogated, the victim whose name was not disclosed, said ‎her sister's husband who she refers to as Daddy, raped her last Sunday....
He has slept with me two times. The first time was last year.

chriskosherbal:
Knowing that on a designated day, you will be having sex, is a nice thing for a couple living together to practice.

as much as being spontaneous is better, it also gives you the important clue that your partner is in the right mood... instead of preparing for sex for a few days, only to be disappointed because she isnt in the mood that day, or whatever other instance that would make sex not ideal at that particular moment... talk less of how disappointing it would be if you've really expected it.

you should only have sex whenever both of you are in the mood for it

No one has to face the humiliation of being rejected, or the anguish or guilt of disappointing thier partner.

if turning down sex for the "right" reason is an humiliation to anyone then i am sorry to say that these guys shouldnt be together

i am not gonna reply on the OP's idea that sex has anything to do with religion... thats pointless and a waste of time, but here is a few points i would like to address:

iscbaba:
Singles are finding guilty of this awful act of sex, while so many people are left confuse between love and sex.

the majority of unmarried people having sex are not confused about the reason they DESIRE/REQUIRE sex in their lives, at that particular time. "you" are the one that is confused because you expect everyone to follow YOUR narrow minded doctrines.

Permit me to define the two terms (love and sex). Love is an expression, feeling, and care express toward someone’s with no condition attach or array to it while sex is a form of contact between legally married partner to produce children.

since when the definition of sex has anything to do with marriage OR children?! ARRANT NONSENSE!
the definition of SEX is very simple: the consensual activity between human beings (whether married or not) involving genital contact and/or penetration.
there are many reasons why people wanna have sex, yet do not want children.... aka for PLEASURE, to bond, to show care and affection, to get rid of sexual urges, for stress relief, to sleep better, to explore sexually and learn etc

Why it’s that many of those people visiting prostitute house never intend to marry them?

thats simply because A) they are paying for her short time, not her life and B) having sex with someone has absolutely NOTHING to do with marriage.

Why it’s that when couple wants to get marry the love will be framing in them but after marriage the love will reduce?

simply because A) every smart person knows that love is NOT eternal NOR unconditional and B) many are faking who they are in order to get married, and after marriage they are now tired of faking and become their true self, thus possibly NOT loveable any longer.

If sex is a clue to love why is Adam and Eve denied the privilege?

did adam LOVE eve before they "decided" to get together? or better yet, were they even married?! stop writing rubbish online

Having sex as single is condemned in all beliefs and cultures.

having sex while unmarried is ONLY looked down upon by religion. at least, get your facts right.

1) Do this guy need me as his wife in the nearest future?
Anybody you have sex with will not married you rather respect you because he have tasted the prominent value and respect you have
“Sex reduce love”

do you mean to say that NOT having premarital sex increase love?! bwaaaah!

2) If He have sex with me and this relationship break will I be able to stand in his presence?
The truth is if the relationship breaks you will not be able to talk neither stand in his presence likewise anywhere he stayed your conscience will always restrict you from going there.“Your Virginity is your mouthpieces“.

what kind of low self esteem blind sheep do you take people for?! unmarried people having sex dont give a damn about what you wrote above.

3) Does he love me?
Anyone that tells you that he loves you and still begging you for sex, never love you, he is just full with lust, maybe because of your appearance etc. Because love is an expression of heart and not an expression of flesh (sex). If he truly loves you he will not have sex with you until he is brave to pays your dowry and ready to setup his family around you. “Friendship is the commitment to love not sex”

you must be REALLY confused... 1st you write that sex is not love, which we all agree on, then you write (above) that a man asking for sex doesnt love this woman...
let me try to enlighten you: sex and love are two different things. YOU are the one mixing the two for your selfish agenda, because since sex is not love then people SHOULDNT mistakingly use love as a reason to have sex. you cant say "love is not sex" and then in the same sentence say "no sex without love".... simply because sex isnt love therefore people have the right to have sex whether love is present or not, duh!

4) Will I not destroy my future by having sex now?
Having sex has a single can render your future fruitless, over some decade many case of STDs; unwanted pregnancy etc. has increase rapidly among singles. If you have sex as singles the possibility to contact those deadly diseases like HIV/AIDs, STDs etc.

what you fail to realise is that unmarried people tend to use condoms (at least they should), while married people dont... so as we all know that many married men/women are cheating (and dont use condoms with their wives/husbands neither), the chances of what you wrote above is the same whether unmarried or married.

Recently, it was jetted out on media, that the Governor of Edo State, Adams Oshiomhole married Iara Fortes from Cape Verde. During an interview, Governor Oshiomhole said he met his wife virgin and also uttered that he pay her parent huge amount of money after her dowry for keeping her a virgin and also give bravo and respect to the girl for keeping her virginity to her husband. She has loudly made her parents proud.

any young woman who marries a rich man old enough to be her grandfather, and thus making her parents "proud", is nothing but a goldigging clueless deluded woman, with equally clueless deluded parents. nobody respects such lady because we all know what time it is, and instead they are laughed at (apart from her equally goldigging mates and/or his equally +60yr friends and sugardaddies looking to buy/marry virgins).

there are gazillions of free sites where you can download movies (old and new), but you have to understand that, it can be difficult to get to the download link because to be free and still be profitable to them, these sites have to put a lot of ads on their pages. so when you 1st click on these link (and other pages open), its probably adverts, then you need to close that newly opened page and click again

you forgot the main reason:
- she only accepted your friend's request for "most friends" contest, and actually dont give a damn about you
- she only accepted your friend's request because, having countless of desperate strangers wanting her, is a powerful ego boost (especially to the ugliest out there)

Project400:
On many grounds:
- Arrange marriage.
- My pastor said he's/she's the right one (meanwhile I don't connect personally).
- Age factor (any responsible and available man/woman).
- Social Media pressure: even on Nairaland, male posters advise ladies to marry that kindhearted guy, without asking whether the said lady loves the guy or not. You hear words like: better marry that man before he passes you by

yes many people marry out of DESPERATION and PRESSURE (religious/family/social/peer etc) but lets not fool ourselves thinking that love can ever be present in these marriages. if it happens to be present then that just out of plain "luck"
if you are desperate/pressured to go into marriage, then you are equally desperate/pressured to stay, whether love is present or not.

What happens in most cases is that one partner swims in love, while the other just finds it difficult to connect, though he/she pretends and act as though all is well (because of other factors like: good looks, money, godfearing, good sex).

these people dont respect the institution of marriage and what it entails to "marry" someone... its as crazy as letting a kid drive a car. the person who swims in love has all the rights to want marriage, while the other has no basis whatsoever to do so. sadly their desperate/pressured state of mind is what will push them into going for such marriage.

These things happen all the time, and I wish to know the outcome of such marriage.

isnt the outcome OBVIOUS?! you have A) people who stick to these loveless marriages at all cost, since the reason they went into marriage wasnt remotely based on love, B) they realise they made a big mistake and quickly accept defeat and DIVORCE (thus 1 of the reason why there are so many divorces lately) or C) they actually nurture love for one another, out of sheer luck (like playing the lottery)

love later?!
- which kind of irresponsible person takes such a gamble with something as important as marriage?!
- what if love never appears and wifey is already pregnant?
- on what valuable basis would you want to marry someone (if not love)?

another pedo priest!!!

so fine kenyan babes dont fight for Nigerians over there, its only these two baby whales that they thought it was ok to publish?!?!!?!?

what happened to that other demon that took her to the hotel? so everybody wanna rape that poor girl?!

oyetgirl:
Mr brown what do U mean... ...... women's tears dont have value

a man cannot use a woman's tears to assess a situation, he must always disregard her tears as they have NO value, and are used all the time for no damn reason.

as much as how he dresses is uncommon to Nigerians, being a crossdresser doesnt mean he is automatically gay... that would be as crazy as saying that anyone wearing a skirt is also gay (while many are doing it for fashion these days).

furthermore, the more outrageous he dresses, the MORE deals/shows/reality TV shows he gets to host, the MORE famous he gets, while laughing all the way to the bank.

the total loss is N1000.... here is the issue:
lady buys shoe for 200 with a 1000 note... shopkeeper1 loss 0
shopkeeper1 has no change and get it from shopkeeper2... shopkeeper1 loss still 0
shopkeeper1 keeps 200 from the 1000, and gives 800 to lady... shopkeeper loss 0
they realize the money is fake, shopkeeper1 reimburse shopkeeper2 with 1000 shopkeeper1 loss 1000

the shoes were already paid for by the 200 he kept from the 1000 he borrowed from shopkeeper2, so the shoe cannot be counted as a loss.

we all know that women tears cannot be used to judge anything, as they cry all the time for no obvious reason (joy/sadness/fear/surprise etc)
imho, women tears have absolutely NO value whatsoever

to each their own

no person can be judged by how they act during their sleeps, because it is unintentional.... so, snoring, drooling, farting, grinding of teeth etc should be understood and/or excused. as for masturbation, that doesnt make any sense.

call a cab, and when it arrives, wake that thing up as if there was an emergency, and explaining that "it" has to go right away.... before getting his/her stuff and throwing this thing out.

schumastic:
WHAT IF YOU EVENTUALLY DON'T FIND IT, CAN ONE FINALLY SAY IT DOESN'T EXIST?

if you dont get rich today, would you give up?! if you aint happy today, would you give up?! giving up should NEVER be an option. only cowards and lazy people accept to settle for less

IF YOU DO FIND IT AND ALL OF A SUDDEN IT DIES DOWN, WILL YOU STILL CALL IT TRUE LOVE OR A CONFUSED ONE?

again, true love is a state of mind that happens when certain criterias are met. if they are not present any longer, then love will ultimately dies out.... and you can say, that true love was present but due to unforeseen reason, it died out. but it WAS present when all the RIGHT criteria were there. how can that be viewed as "confused" love?!

FINALLY WHAT IS YOUR OWN DEFINITION OF TRUE LOVE? MAYBE THEN I CAN UNDERSTAND WHERE YOU ARE COMING FROM.

you see the love you have for your parents/family?! well the day you feel the same way about a partner thats when you wont be too far from TRUE love (if you have a fukced r/ship with your family then disregard this)
IMHO, love and true love is mostly the same thing, with slightly different intensity/aim. love has levels, there is the love for a buddy, then love for family/friends, which has the same intensity as the love for a partner... and then there is that extra push where true love finds itself... where your own being as an individual doesnt matter as much as what you guys are sharing. you cant find true love before finding love, and it is simply the obvious result when the LOVE plant has been watered right.
its an emotion where you elevate to a state of mind where that feeling takes over and overlooks some things that love may not. see these old people who 1st loved each other for a certain reason (physical/emotional etc) and then after few decades, they havent got that physical anymore but yet are still deeply loving one another? they've elevated to that true love state of mind state, where you guys are TRULY one.

its easy to love and accept a person because of a few details about them, but finding that person that connects with you, to the point where you can let go of yourself, open up yourself, fully and that everything about them makes sense in your life, isnt easy.

sadly many african brothas cant trust a person fully enough to remotely fall in love with anyone.

thats because they are narrow minded, and only desire a certain type of men as a date/future husband, therefore think only these guys can/should ever think of making them wet. while we guys look at women completely in a different manner. all women are equal, its all down to what their function would be... friend, temporary maid/cook, booty call, cuum dump, possible gf, future wifey.

but no worries, at the end of the day, everyone of these overlooked guys get to fukc someone.

Alusioji:
This is the cynthia morgan range rover. She has posted it on instagram. Bros you deserves a reward

stop writing rubbish online.... Cynthia wrote on insta/twitter that her car was found, and the police claimed that they found her car (while showing the picture of a white RR sport in front of a police station). Cynthia never said that the abandoned car, thats isnt even a RR sport, was hers.