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when we men are having strippers and what not during our bachelor parties, this is just PG rated

KeriBaby:
Women like me? LOL people who believe in love are the ones who are miserable and always end up hurt..lol and i'd never hang with someone doesn't make me happy talk more of settling. Thank u

the catch is that these women, willing to put their heart on the line to find love, "possibly" get hurt after a while BUT the important point is that they get FANTASTIC happiness during the time that the r/ship was great.... while women like you get absolutely nothing because of your fears. yet you believe that these women are more miserable than you?! that must be the joke of the day!

women who are quick to judge a book by its cover, and never give anyone/anything a chance, will ALWAYS be the miserable ones here. life is made of ups and down, and the catch is to make sure there are more ups than downs. dont get it twisted.

may they both rot in jail

KeriBaby:
Love stories make me laugh
My friend just met a guy barely a month now and evry minute she be punishing me with all their love stories... lmao how he is the best thing nd all but before next month the story is gonna be different even tho i wish that she would be happy forever. ... but it doesn't last for more than 3months and trust me its never her fault. I don't know why she keeps giving out her heart regardless (wish i was like that tho)
I pray this one last sha
But Boys ehn the way y'all change suddenly after all the sweet talks is magical
I personally do not believe in love again
I don't want no mediocre at all cuz e go too pain me .

sadly, your friend is RIGHT and since it isnt her fault that the r/ship ends, therefore she isnt doing anything wrong. i'd rather the majority of women would think like her, instead of becoming some negative beings blaming/judging ALL men because of a few ignorant ones.
women like you, who dont believe in love again, will end up being miserable simply because you will ultimately settle for some donkey who probably dont even make you happy.

it all depend on A) the subject of the "issue" and B) how long you guys have been together

there is no need to contact ANYONE as you can simply go to the 100s of sites online, such as:
booking.com
trivago.com
despegar.com
agoda.com

NONSENSE... her age doesnt have anything to do with having an orgasm the 1st time. the fault is solely on the lame men that she was doing it with, or the state of mind that she was in at the time

as if your name and ID will be attached to such photo, bwaaah! so long as there is NOTHING that can identify you, send him the pic, r better yet download one from the many p0rn site on the internet, and send it to him... end of nonsense!

3 pics
the blue one, the red one and the "white" one at the top left

advise her of the dangers she may encounter if/when going there, and if she doesnt want to listen and see reason then let her take whatever path she desires for her own life... as she will be the only one living with the consequences of her actions.

explain to this lady that such journey MUST be made, whether with/without her blessing... its a done deal and refusing to go may end up getting him the UNEMPLOYED status!

here is the photo of the dumbass biatch and her fake aasss

guests paid= 30
hotel room cost= 25
money returned to guest= 3
money kept by bellboy= 2

unless someone is very bad in math, 25+3+2=30... there is NO money missing

Bookiemart01:
I still do not get why you are associating my comments with the guy's. He posted in July 2015 and I did not start using Uchelogistics till October.

Gather your facts and do not jump into wrong conclusions. All I see is someone trying hard to associate the OP with scam which is wrong.

i simply pointed out that this guy made dubious comment about (and is working for) UL, the company "you" asked me to look into... so, this is simply the result/findings of what YOU've asked. why shouldnt i point that out to you?! nobody else but you came here to their defence.

Bookiemart01:
Well, I wouldn't know if the person works for UcheLogistics or not. All I have posted here so far are accounts of my personal experience. You'll see those posts were posted in July of 2015. I obviously haven't started using UcheLogistics' services then.

This handle UcheLogistics is their official moniker has I ship through them regularly.

And you coming on here to way it's only myself and the other guy who have been talking positively of uche logistics is wrong. You apparently only decided to post things that will demean the op.

I guess these pictures will balance the thoughts

as i rightly said, the same 3-4 profiles praising UL again and again on NL... and i am happy that you "now" have seen and confirmed the DUBIOUS acts perpetrated by that poster i've mentionned earlier.

Bookiemart01:
Nice research you have done. People have been receiving answers from me because UcheLogistics just registered on nairaland

What you have failed to put up in your research are the posts that I categorically said I DO NOT TRUST ANY OF THESE SHIPPING COMPANIES as they can disappoint at anytime . You also did not post the parts where other people said they are satisfied with the services rendered to them.by UcheLogistics

All I have done so far is to give a review of my experience with them. I've been with them since October 2015 and I do not have a bad story yet.

So may others have used and still using them.

Again, you claim someone from UcheLogistics did something dubious in the link you posted, you may need to check it again as I cannot see that. All I see is someone advertising CVM but dropping UcheLogistics' phone numbers.

And yes, I keep promoting them because I am still receiving good service from them.

You may want to read through the shipping company thread again and see how I gave reviews on other shipping companies I have u used in the past.

YOU did ask me to search for them on NL in order to assess their reputation, and thats what i did. and as much as you and a few people are the same guys coming back, on and on to UL defence, there are some clear dubious activities from people working for them.

although his posts were removed, sadly he was quoted and we can see/read the post that were written by this dubious person... AND we can clearly understand that he did NOT made an error, he did that on purpose TWICE. 1st he wrote about CVM while giving UL contact details:

If you are sure that, you want to do your shipping without pains, pls use CVM, their rate is friendly, they just changed to $8 kg and #450 clearing for express(24 hrs). While normal shipping is$4.5kg and #350 for clearing, 3 to 7 days.
You can call UC: +8615889959765, +8613202491661.
I use them without stress.

and then, again quoting the wrong company name with the contact details of UL:

Pls I don't know of PIL, I have used CVM severally without stress. It a known shipping company and their office is at the International airport Lagos, call Micheal on 08036563516, 08093679016.

and then, when the guys from CVM discredited him and his fake BS posts, he comes up saying that the "real" name of the company he is advertising is in fact UL, NOT that he made an error (understand the difference), as seen below:

perp:
@Osile2012 and Civilserva, Pls I am very sorry for the mixed-up, the company real name is Uche Logistics Company Ltd ( ULC) not CVM, I regret the inconveniences this might have caused you, once again, I AM VERY SORRY.
I am not working for any shipping company, just sharing my experience and piece of information for the benefit of all.

furthermore, the poster who made that "error" claims that he doesnt work for UL while opening thread simply to advertise for UL, as seen below:

https://www.nairaland.com/2380113/importers-now-smile.

perp:
Shipping goods from China just got better. ULC( Uche Logistics Company Ltd), one of the reliable shipping companies in China just reduced its shipping charges to $8kg and #450 for clearing, express(24hrs) shipping. while normal shipping is now 4.5kg and #350 for clearing(3-7days). call Uc:+8615889959765, +8613202491661.Nigeria No, Michael: 08036563516, 08093679016.

and when people ask about threads and contact/info about UL, he replied:

perp:
you have seen one by me. I opened this, so you can ask your questions here.

or better yet, here are a few posts below about this poster and his willingness to promote UL at all cost:

perp:
Use Uche Logistics. Their charges remain $8 per kg for express and 4.3per kg for normal shipping. Give them a try and you will be glad you did.

perp:
Use Uche Logistics, they are everything you want in a perfect logistics company. Give them a trial and you will never regret it.

perp:
I am a regular user of Uche Logistics Company, and I must confess that their service is superb.

perp:
Use Uche logistics coy, they will certainly deliver, is a promise.

perp:
Use Uche Logistics Company Ltd, You can see that their rate is very friendly. I have used them and they are okay.

perp:
With Uche Logistics Ltd, you don't have anything to worry about. Their services are equal to none. I have used them for over a year and I can testify to the high level of proficiency displayed by the organization.

perp:
I have used Uche Logistics Ltd for over a year now and I must confess that their services is equal to none.

yet, after all the above evidence, you want us to believe that this person doesnt have anything to do with UL?!?!!?

@lebrotin

i think it has to do with a lot more than just than upbringing and that fatherly figure they havent had in their lives, and as much as many want their men to become that "imposing" father figure (that they've never had), many also search for some kind of carbon copy of their father... aka that safety net you can always run to and you'll b safe. because you have to remember that their fathers are one of the only men they look up to (thus wanting their man to be at the same emotional height as their father)

that "father figure" represent that caring man who will always be there to care/protect them, and knowing that you have such a person in your life is VERY important emotionally and for the way you live your life... aka a quasi worries free life. so who are we kidding, who wouldnt want such a life? thats why the sugar daddy culture is out of control today all over the world (coupled with the lazy state of mind of many women/men)

if they were THAT reputable then their "reputation" would precedes them. many who have come to NL to enquire about these guys, have received answers and pricing from you (not uche logistics) about their infos, strange dont you think? and even when people have had issues and talked ill of them, YOU are the only one who came (again) to their defence. as you've asked, i did search on NL and discover that indeed you have been using them since about Oct2015, but here is also some of the stuff i found....:

uche logistics is slowly sinking into the pit to unreliability. They were wonderful till lily left for reasons I don't know. Communication has dropped from about 90% to crappy 30% or maybe non existent. Very soon most of you will see what I'm saying.

I will see to it that uche's office is locked up since he has decided to be plain stupid. He has up to Wednesday. And to think he doesn't have a license permit is absurd.

Uche logistics is just a fraud.

Uche never answers whatsapp message. He hardly picks my calls. When he picks, you start all over like you are talking to a new person for the first time on an issue he already knows. If you don't call like 5 times, he wouldn't act. Now he is not picking. Only message he just sent now is that one out of the 4 have been found in their china office. NB. My name and phone number are on all the packages. He received the last of the 4 packages on 7th of november.

they can't account for 4 packages they called me to inform me they received. They asked how they should be sent, I said normal shipping. This is 16 days. They don't even know where the packages are. They are just clueless about it.

the guy now claims he never received my items for which he called me to ask how he would ship. join me track these numbers and see if it was the ghost in his village that received them.
968311942728- Sto express
710134348491- yuantong

Bookiemart01, come and read complaints about uche logistics. I said it about a month ago that he is losing it. Greed made him sack the very efficient chinese lady working with him. Now he is the Jackie of all trades. He receives, he records, packages, answers whatsapp messages, sends to airline etc. Y won't he misplace people's items. Y won't he ask for same tracking number 10 times. This was exactly how nonniking started going down.

here is another horror story from UL

My experience with Uche logistics.

Since I heard their express shipping makes sense, I decided to give them a trial and to be honest, the express is faster than I thought but lots of manipulation from this Uche guy himself.

Firstly, I sent about 6 different items to his office and waited for him to receive everything. When I told him to send it, I notice instead of packing them altogether, he began sending them one by one and charging me 1kg for 0.3kg, 2kg for1kg goods and so on (he was actually changing the figures himself). in short, a 2.5kg was change to 6kg by Uche though I later paid for 3.5kg after much calling, accusing and clarification. And up till now he haven't send the most important of my package even though tracking number shows he receive it since 3rd of Dec. I've been on his neck since to send that one but still he hasn't.

He did the same to me, very useless company. Its a DO NOT USE COMPANY. He sent them separately and billed me high, told me he will deduct one from the other. Time to deduct he said no that he didnt say such, hes not TRUSTWORTHYat the end of the day he misplaced two of my packages. MCHEEW

2 of my packages are also misplaced too. why is it now difficult to see a good logistics that are above average in their dealings? I missed Nonnykings when they are still top of their game.

Infact the way this logistic people are handling our goods is pathetic. They are making us look as if we are beggers over here. My good is stuck with Uche since Nov, 2015 and anytime I called him, He will keep saying Ok, Ok, Ok... Ive left him jeje and move forward. We need a better logistic that will know the importance of our goods no matter how small the package may look.

and here some more great posts:

Uche logistics, a definition of a very terrible company. Will give my full ranting pretty soon

Pls can I have her contacts.because seems I have made a mistake using this uche person.

uche is unreliable. A 1kg goods I needed sent via express has still not gotten to me since 7th of November.

st Patric is the best I have use ever.
that Uche logistics is another thing I shipped goods to his office for over one week he said not received until I ask those sf logistics guys to go to his office to confirm before he said the truth. now he has misplaced my goods.had I know I would have stay with st Patrick jeje
i wasted my money just because of $1 and #50 difference.now I believe in what a friend of mine always say that "it not all about the cost but how good it is"but he won't go with this one.

lol the guy in china received my stuff on the 9th. I asked for normal shipping today is 19th, nothing still.
Will keep trying them till I get one I can manage. This one didn't work

and finally here is a very strange thread where someone FROM Uche Logistics did something very dubious on NL :
https://www.nairaland.com/2379634/which-shipping-company-r-using

funny enough here is you happily promoting them:

Bookiemart01:
Here is Uche Logistics Updated info.

Note the changes in the price and duration of normal shipping. Also note the changes in the Nigerian number.

He said he has employed a new girl Ngozi for Nigeria. The normal shipping fee and duration has also increased because its christmas period.
Company Name: UCHE LOGISTICS COMPANY LTD
China Address: Room 387, No. 12, Guangyuan Zhong Road, Mingsheng Trading Market, Guanzhou, China.
Phone Number:
NGOZI 08056703323 07039221061
+86-1588 9959 765
+86-1320 2491 661
Warehouse Address: 14/16 Osolo Way, Ajao Estate, Lagos, Nigeria.
E-mail: only.uche@yahoo.com
Shipping Charges:
Express: Express $8 with 450Naira as clearing fee. 24hours
Normal: $5 with 370Naira as clearing fee. 7-14days because its Christmas period already.

Bookiemart01:
Uche swnt me this yesterday:

"EXPRESS
8 dollars & 450naira for clearing each kg
Goods arrive 24 hours

NORMAL SHIPPING:
5 dollars & 370naira for clearing each kg
Goods arrive 7-14days because of airline change price.already entered season".

Bookiemart01:
Uche logistics Nairaland thread here

https://www.nairaland.com/3011486/uche-logistics-company

Sookul:
In reality most children can't tell their parents such to their face, especially their fathers

again, children that have an healthy r/ship with their parents would tell whichever parent they are closer.... so girls would certainly tell their mothers. of course, if there aint heathy communication between parents and children then that would be difficult. the important question is:"what kind of deluded parents dont sit down and talk with their kids?"

Sookul:
If you say that fine, but in most cases you won't exactly know when.

the minute a person doesnt feel comfortable any longer then they tell it to their parent, and everyone would be aware. thats also the reason why there needs to be healthy communication between parents and their offsprings

xreal:
Looks like 5 Chinese Yuan Renminbi.
Don't throw it away or destroy it, na approximately 154 naira be dat o.

sadly this is NOT 5 Yuan but it is 5 Jiao, the equivalent to half of a Chinese Yuan, meaning 15/25Nairas!

you should give your all, each and every times you are doing bedroom acrobatics, and make sure you try your hardest to satisfy the woman in front of you. there is no given timeframe for a good performance in the bedroom, some women can be satisfied in 15/30mins of bedroom tango, while others need 3hrs to get to the promise land (remember you can always rest in between sessions).... but the catch is that you cant KILL yourself trying to satisfy someone, and instead you should just do your best and accept defeat, if your best isnt good enough for this woman.

any man taking whatever drugs to satisfy a partner is a damn deluded FOOL!

martinlooter:
Hello Nairalanders,
I am a 34 years old man, I have a friend who I have verbally told that I want to marry her, however, she's 30 years old today. And she's a little on the chubby side and am very thin, very opinionated, sociable and intelligent.
I want to know if she's ideal for me to go ahead and formally propose to her. I am having second thoughts about this, that's why I brought it to you guys, it's serious and I feel a young man like me should be gunning for a girl of 26 - 27 years old.
You can ask me for further details and I will update as the thread progresses.
Thanks
Martin Luther

NONSENSE OF THE HIGHEST ORDER!!!!

A) you dont marry your friends, you 1st get into a r/ship, 2nd see if you even like each other, and 3rd after A FEW MONTHS, you can propose, if the connection/attraction/compatibility (and the desire to spend the rest of your life with her), is there.
B) her age is irrelevant to the above point A
C) just because you are thin and she is chubby, doesnt automatically makes this an "impossible r/ship", the IMPORTANT question is: are you physically attracted to her?!
D) if you aint attracted/comfortable with how she looks physically... then you have no business thinking of marrying her, because from the day you marry her, chances are her look will go from chubby to "baby whale", after just a few kids.
E) how could anyone but YOU know what is ideal to YOU?! such question shows us all that you are immature and not ready to propose/marry this woman. it is OBVIOUS you wanna propose for the wrong reasons
F) second thoughts are a sign that your brain is actually functioning, and understands that what you are trying to do is MADNESS!

LAST BUT NOT LEAST a man of your age should know what he wants, regardless of a person's age. if this lady makes you feel like a trillion bucks and you want to spend the rest of your life with her then i suggest you follow the above point A

sadly many would sign such miserable contract, in their lust and desperation for exposure on TV/media.
so what such contract means is that you could be auditioning for a comedy TV series, and they use the tapes for a show about gays/lesbians in Nigeria... even 20yrs from now. LOL!

boostdom:
How you doing, killa? You used to have a pic on your profile where you sat cross-kneed like a monk on a sort of hill and the horizon of the sky forming a curve in your hand. Where was that?

hey bro, i am doing great, and you? that photo is from Rio de Janeiro (in the background is the beach of Ipanema and Leblon).

GOOD REPUTATION will go from word to mouth, and a very long way, instead of believing any BS written online (possibly by scammers)... also, this person has been in business "supposedly" for many years, yet their website above was created in Jan2016, RED FLAG!!!!!!!!!!!

a simple way to avoid being scammed is to ALWAYS pay these agents when the good have been received and all what you have ordered is in order, and each packages have been opened/signed/confirmed by the agent.

naijamakossa:
guys how do you manage your girlfriend when you are still living with your parents

the same you would if you were living alone

is it right to bring them home?

so long as it is okay with the HOMEOWNER, then yes

must you introduce them to your parent?

- if you are serious about her, and believe this is a serious r/ship, then yes
- if your parents are the HOMEOWNERS, then yes

do your girlfriends feel comfortable when you bring them to your parents home?

if she is a genuine part of your life, and you guys are in a serious r/ship, why shouldnt she feel comfortable?

do your girlfriends force you to rent your own home?

NOBODY should be forced to do anything they are not emotionally/physically/financially ready and willing to do.
if the reasons above is why anyone desire to get their own home, then i suggest they grow up 1st!

the reason why many more r/ship crash today is because the aim/desires/requirements of people TODAY isnt the same as what it was before.

as soon as any of them feel uncomfortable with such act