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RomanceRe: When A Guy Makes Love To You With A Condom by MRBrownJ: 5:01pm On Dec 11, 2015
Toks2008:
This even has nada to do with trust and the reason why im not conspicuously preaching no sex till marriage is becuse i know it will be a waste of time. While i do not support sex before marriage, we have couple who were faithful to each other even while stil courtiung and were making love and let me break the heart of many more ladies....

DO YOU KNOW THAT 90% OF GUYS WHO USE A CONDOM HAS A SPECIAL LADY THEY WILL NEVER USE IT FOR?


Now what is teh difference between you and that special girl?the answer is clear.

So my mesage is to send the red alert to many ladies that guys will be guys and you need to use your head. Don't allow a man use condom on you means abstain from sex till marriage or if you think you are clean and he is clean and both of you are "faithful to each other" well do the sin and bear the consequence.

This write up is crystal clear but its unfortunate we cant ignore the fact that some people are not endowed with intelligence.
tell us all what else you see in that crystal ball of yours... as all you have written is simple BS beliefs that you have about dating.
again, you have the right to your own BS beliefs, to each their own.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Is It Wrong For An Employee To Apply For Leave Period In December? by MRBrownJ: 4:55pm On Dec 11, 2015
sunnychykes:
Complement of the season to Nlanders.my cousin sister applied for leave in the firm she works but her boss refused to grant her leave.but the terms of the appointment letter stated "YOU will be entitled to 14 days leave per annum.The leave may be taken at any time of the year mutually agreed with the company" i just need your advise please
the answer is right there in bold
RomanceRe: Warning!!! by MRBrownJ: 4:51pm On Dec 11, 2015
alwelldinho:
To those old men snatching our ladies and doing stuffs that's way beyond our budget, I just want you to know we are patiently waiting for your daughters ...
instead of accepting that you were dating a goldigging wh0re, you are now focussing on the wrong issues. NONSENSE!
CrimeRe: Man Loses Land, Millions To Trusted Friends (pictured) by MRBrownJ: 4:42pm On Dec 11, 2015
screampete:
His family wouldbe worst.. He can't even arrest his family this wey.. He go just dey on (OYO)
i would sue my family asap, and have them arrested if they didnt pay what the owe me!
RomanceRe: What Value Does A Stingy Boyfriend Have? by MRBrownJ: 4:38pm On Dec 11, 2015
funny how some women who have NOTHING to offer a man, will quickly call a man stingy because he decides not to foolishly pay for golddiggers all around. as if men are now charities!

here is a clue:
- if a man invites you to his place then tell him you have no fare money to get there. if he says he doesnt have any either then you guys are the same (aka broke) and wont meet, end of story!
- if you believe that a man MUST pay your fare, while he doesnt, then obviously you guys have no value to each other, and should quickly part ways, end of story!
CrimeRe: Man Loses Land, Millions To Trusted Friends (pictured) by MRBrownJ:
jasssbabe:
Trust nobody. Y can't he handover d property to his family?
if he entrusted these two knuckleheads with his property, it means that he trusted them more than his own family.
BusinessRe: Does Any Nigerian Bank Card Accept Credit Card Payment? by MRBrownJ: 4:23pm On Dec 11, 2015
there is no such thing as "card to card" transfer... since each cards are connected to a bank account, it is an "account to account" transfer (aka BANK TRANSFER)
RomanceRe: When A Guy Makes Love To You With A Condom by MRBrownJ: 3:47pm On Dec 11, 2015
suzzy16:
with all ur sayings,I aint single,bt just talking about what I've seen frm people,what they do in their relationship life,its better be safe than sorry
- if you aint single but do not trust your partner then you might as well be single.
- we have all seen negative crazy stuff in life, but we certainly shouldnt use that as the sole basis for our future interactions in life.
- yes its better to be safe than sorry, "as soon as you have any signs of concern". if there is NO signs of concern then you have no business poisoning your union with such negatives thoughts.

but hey, if we should all think like you do (and use other people's life as the benchmark for ours) then NOBODY should get married because a few have died in the hands of their husbands/wives.
CelebritiesRe: Davido Reportedly Expecting Second Child With Tanzanian Socialite? by MRBrownJ: 3:13pm On Dec 11, 2015
that twitter account was created a few weeks ago, and i doubt this is real.
RomanceRe: How Many Times In A Month Should A Guy Have Sex? by MRBrownJ: 3:12pm On Dec 11, 2015
as many times as his urges/stamina permits AND his gal(s) can take
CrimeRe: Man Beats Pregnant Wife To Death In Lagos For Calling Him ‘fool’ by MRBrownJ: 3:06pm On Dec 11, 2015
as much as what this man did is wrong, some women need to understand that there are some sensitive things you dont say (especially in public) to a man that you know beats you at every chances he gets.... any mention (in a negative way) of his manhood, sexual prowess, father/husband abilities or insults of any kind, is a sure way to bring the WORST out of him.
CelebritiesRe: Thai Man Arrested For 'liking' A Doctored Photo Of Thai King, Faces Up To 32 Yrs by MRBrownJ: 2:58pm On Dec 11, 2015
here is what the full article is about:
[b]A Thai man has been arrested for “liking” a doctored photo of the king and sharing an infographic on Facebook about a growing corruption scandal, as prosecutions burgeon under draconian royal defamation laws.

The arrest, announced on Thursday, came as the US ambassador to Thailand faces a police investigation for royal defamation over a speech he made last month, in which he expressed concern over lengthy sentences handed to civilians for lese-majeste.

In the latest case Thanakorn Siripaiboon, 27, a worker in a car-parts factory, was arrested in Samut Prakan, near Bangkok, and charged with sedition, lese-majeste and computer crimes, said Col Burin Thongprapai, a legal officer for the junta.

“On 2 December, he clicked ‘like’ on a doctored photo of the King and shared it with 608 friends,” Burin said, adding that he had confessed to the charges and faced up to 32 years in jail.

The image reportedly portrayed the monarch in a negative light. Under Thai law anyone convicted of insulting the revered but ailing King Bhumibol Adulyadej, 88, or the queen, heir or regent can face up to 15 years in jail on each count. Prosecutions have soared since the army, which claims to be the ­champion of the monarchy, grabbed power last year, calling it a necessary move to curb endemic corruption among the kingdom’s civilian politicians and protect the royal family.

Record-breaking sentences have been handed down in recent months to transgressors, most of whom are regime critics but also include senior officials swept up in nebulous corruption investigations.

Thanakorn, who belonged to an opposition Red Shirt Facebook group, also shared an infographic about Rajabhakti Park, a multimillion-pound park built by the ­military under construction ­contracts allegedly ­riddled with kickbacks and inflated costs. “He admitted that he posted the infographic of Rajabhakti Park to incite members of the group, to oppose the military,” Burin said.
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RomanceRe: When A Guy Makes Love To You With A Condom by MRBrownJ: 2:51pm On Dec 11, 2015
suzzy16:
I'm nt talking about in dat aspect,nobody should ever be trusted,except u want to die untimely,those things of getting tested re still nt it,cos u may never knw if there is a side chick somewhere or d lady sleeping with other
Guys
i am truly sorry you feel that way, but let me help you:

MISCONCEPTION #1 if you cant trust anybody in your life then you will surely live a sad life filled with stress and worries.... and you might as well be single.

MISCONCEPTION #2 LIFE is about taking risks, and if you are not willing to TRUST and give your aLL to your partner (in due time) then you guys are simply wasting each others time.

MISCONCEPTION #3 with IFs, BUTs and MAYBEs, people like you who never give anyone a TRUE chance at love, will ultimately end up bitter and miserable people for life.
CelebritiesRe: Jim Iyke, We Don't Want To See Your Butt (photos +18) by MRBrownJ: 2:31pm On Dec 11, 2015
its called ACTING, and if you dont want to see such mature content, DONT WATCH THE BLOODY MOVIE.
RomanceRe: When A Guy Makes Love To You With A Condom by MRBrownJ: 2:28pm On Dec 11, 2015
suzzy16:
I'm telling u dear,u must protect if u dnt want to contract a deadly disease
by the time this r/ship is going places (aka making life plans together), trust is present AND you have both tested yourselves, then i see no reason why you should keep using condoms.... but maybe you can educate me on the matter?
RomanceRe: When A Guy Makes Love To You With A Condom by MRBrownJ: 11:57am On Dec 11, 2015
Vikky014:
lols. serious boyfriend u saidhuh see if u r nt ready to marry a girl yet and u hv her as a sex partner she will dump u anytime she sees anoda person with a bigger pocket.. two of my senior colleagues golddigging cheating liars dt hv serious boyfriends as u said while in sch will soon get married to their obodo oyibo hubbys clueless mumu benefactor nxt yr. u dnt hv any business being in a sexual rlationship wt a non virgin highly desperate woman if u r nt ready for marriage. dis is a hard truth tho
FIXED
RomanceRe: I Dont Think Helping A Lady Is A Crime..but This??? by MRBrownJ: 11:40am On Dec 11, 2015
mumuism level expert!
RomanceRe: When A Guy Makes Love To You With A Condom by MRBrownJ: 11:23am On Dec 11, 2015
Jolllyjoy:
smh@trusted g.f so you avnt heard of a situation were a guy has std even tho he never for once had indiscriminate sex abi?

Trust is too expensive to be traded.
are you saying that because people can catch std/diseases in many different ways, therefore we shouldnt trust our partners any longer?
sorry i have read what you wrote above a few times, and i am not quite following what you are saying here.

opribo:
So is it not degrading to the woman you don't trust to be sleeping with her.
of course not, its called being CAREFUL, and she will/should understand it. if she doesnt, then simply tell her:"as much as we BOTH want to do this, we need to ALWAYS take the right precautions. i hope you therefore understand the need to use condoms at this point in our r/ship"

sex with condom first and foremost takes away the real essence of love and corpulation which sex is meant to be
i dont know about you but in my world, sex is either A) meant to get closer/discover someone you desire or B) get sexual satisfaction/gratification..... and sadly (for you) both can be achieved with or without condom.

With condom sex becomes a alorified form of mastubation.
nonsense upon more nonsense. you either have never masturbated or never used a condom before.
Christianity EtcRe: COZA Pastor Biodun Gets Luxurious Porsche, Unveils It To Church Members (Photos) by MRBrownJ: 9:34pm On Dec 10, 2015
coolzeal:
Religion was invented when the first coon man met the first fool.
well said!!!!
RomanceRe: When A Guy Makes Love To You With A Condom by MRBrownJ: 9:31pm On Dec 10, 2015
Toks2008:
This will be a very controvercial one but as i always maintain...IT IS MY OPINION.

But before i go on,i would like to ask this simple question..Why do we use a condom?

While the answer to that can be too exhausting i believe that many guys will say they use condoms to prevent stds and pregnancy but after marriage they will not even think about using it on their wives but would prefer the lady to use other birth control methods.

This leaves me with one answer to why a man will use a condom on a lady and that is because he sees you as cheap,untrustworthy and a potential std carrier and ofcourse has no deep respect and affection for the lady.

So any lady that allows a man to use condom on her is sexually reckless and cheap...quote me
anywhere...condom is mainly for casual sex
with a casual lady you have no deep respect or affection for.

My candid opinion.
TRUST and a clean bill of heath is not handed freely to every strangers, so YES, until you can trust her and her status is revealed to you, there is NO WAY you should have unprotected sex with anyone.
RomanceRe: Can You Marry Or Have Sex With Someone Whos Organ Was Stolen For Ritual Purpose? by MRBrownJ: 8:46pm On Dec 10, 2015
PunkyVeer:
Ok woah, please back up for a minute, how are sexual organs "stolen"? Just curious
dont mind them.... there is pics and videos of women having sex with politicians/pastors etc but, in this day and age, not ONE single photo of this mambo jambo called sex disappearance. same thing with witches and wizards, not ONE single pics ever. this harry Potter BS is what make mad people do rituals of all kinds and IT GOT TO STOP
RomanceRe: How Many Guys Still Do This? by MRBrownJ: 8:41pm On Dec 10, 2015
unless her hands are tied up doing other "important" things, there is no reason under the moon for me to carry a woman's bag... especially if before leaving the house i tell her that she doesnt need all the crap in there, but she decides regardless to bring it. her bag, her problem.
RomanceRe: One Thing That Could Stop Your Partner From Cheating! by MRBrownJ: 8:14pm On Dec 10, 2015
schumastic:
hmmm....i respect them a lot more than you think does not mean i should blind myself from the truth mean while, i do things that make me happy and am in peace with myself and everyone around me but as for love naaa it doesn't exist so i don't care
bro,

MISCONCEPTION #1 you cant possibly have any respect for a woman that you cheat on.

MISCONCEPTION #2 how can some "imagination" (out of your low self esteem mind) be the truth?! did you catch anyone cheating for you to say that they do?!

MISCONCEPTION #3 thinking that you are happy while cheating on a woman you are dating, simply because all the biatches you dated in the past cheated on you. here is a clue: next time choose your women better, you are the problem here.

MISCONCEPTION #4 there will NEVER be peace in the life of a man who cant even trust his woman (you will simply die of stress), and you might as well be single, and just fukc biatches once in a while...... its cheaper and comes with less hassle/stress!

MISCONCEPTION #5 if there is no such thing as love then what are you seeking from this women?! if it is just sex then go meet ashawos; if it is companionship then you can just be friends..... so stop lying to yourself (and us)! just because you are tired of searching for love, and pissed off because you are not finding it, doesnt mean it doesnt exist. thats as stoopid as saying that "being rich" is a lie because you have tried all your life to be rich and never succeeded, duh!

YOU are the problem here..... the day you start having the RIGHT mindset, is the day you will A) choose women under different criteria, B) finally value and respect your partner and C) have any remote chance on finding love.
RomanceRe: My Experience With A Gay Guy by MRBrownJ: 4:00pm On Dec 10, 2015
jayzon:
firstly told u he was broke aswel....
so what you are saying is that you knew you were going there to ashawo yourself for drinks?!

secondly i we treked for 30minutes just to waste it?.....
believe me, any STRAIGHT man would have gladly walk for the WHOLE NIGHT, rather than flirting with some gay dude who wants to fukc you

3rdly i dint even act...if i acted he wldnt need to confirm shit wld he?....dint act at all.
but you knew that this guy was gonna spend money on drinks because he wanted to fukc you.... and you went along with this charade. any straight man would have NEVER been able to sit down there, let alone have a conversation with the guy.

4...i said as i entad d toilet i saw d dude behind me.....y d Bleep wil i stay.......told u d guy was huge he cld smash my head on tile hv his way n bounce afta all d toilet was locked.. 6...same tin he was huge
even if the guy looks like King Kong, any straight guy would have fought that motherfukcer rather than have any contact whatsoever with that guy. yeah, that gay dude could have have beaten you but you would have kept your DIGNITY
RomanceRe: One Thing That Could Stop Your Partner From Cheating! by MRBrownJ: 3:45pm On Dec 10, 2015
schumastic:
if you don't cheat in this new generation then your still a learner cus u il get cheated grin grin
such negative mindset is the reason why A) you will never VALUE/RESPECT any woman in your life and B) you will never find happiness and peace (in love)
EducationRe: Text Message Earned A Nigerian Scholarship Up To PhD Level by MRBrownJ: 8:03pm On Dec 09, 2015
herkeym001:
N50,000. times 20 is equal to N1,000,000.
thats exactly what i was thinking, lol! how did they come up with that number?
RomanceRe: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by MRBrownJ: 12:53pm On Dec 09, 2015
ask4bk:
Your knowledge or research on the Bible is commendable. Keep on with that and something may touch you.
Now, having read these references, how many Christians have you seen kill non virgins, kill stubborn children, eat human flesh etc as stipulated by these biblical words you posted ?
Biko tell me, coz I go like watch that film too.
you see, this is why i always say that ALL christians are selfish hypocrites who pick and choose whatever fit their agenda, from that said bible.
you MUST take the bible for ALL its worth or nothing!!!!
i am giving you FACTS here (unless we dont read the same holy book). so i stand again and CONFIRM that the holy book, that christians base their whole existence upon, is an advocate for murder/rape/slavery etc

I doubt it's necessary to go all religious and explain those citations (all from the old testament) in reference with the new testament. Coz it'll be bla bla in your ears.
are the verse i quoted above not in today's version of the bible?!

I still want to point out that your only recourse right now is prove to me that I and everyone kills, therefore you killing and murdering babies is no wrong.
NOOOOO, dont get me wrong here, i have been saying all along that A) abortion cannot/shouldnt be viewed as murder because that is not a HUMAN BEING yet (no heartbeat, no breathing, no functioning brain), B) each and every mother should decide for themselves whether they CAN/WANT to have a baby, C) abortion is a safe procedure to help the ones who are not emotionally/physically/financially ready to have a child and D) even if it was a human being, we have been killing human beings out of self-defense/mercy/wars/punishments etc, and i see nothing wrong with such necessary evil.

Even if everyone is killing and murdering children, I and the little few of us remaining will continue to shine the light of human value so that these lives will be protected.
again, if someone has the emotional/physical/financial means to care for a child then they should have one (thats value), but FORCING someone to have a child when THEY do not want to (or cant possibly) have one, is where i fully disagree with you. where is the human value when having a child that you cant even feed/care for?! abortion is a safe procedure to make sure that we dont have unwanted children, that would surely end up at street corners all over 9ja begging for their next meal, or worse.

For your info, this confused sheep here is a professional in human development. I've been to various African countries (precisely 8 ) and presently in Luanda Angola , and conscientizing people on the human life and it's value is up there in our work.
We've saved many infants in the womb and the life of the mothers as well in the process. Many women who abort get psychologically traumatised and we still accompany them to help them heal and we don't STONE THEM TO DEATH as ur biblical quotations suggest.
good for you, therefore may i suggest that A) you also focus on the pros of having an abortion, rather than thinking that the only way is to have that baby, regardless of the mothers circumstances, and B) you dont use any religious views to debate the issue of "murder" (as we can all agree that the Bible is in favour of it)

You just don't know what abortion causes for the woman, not mentioning the life of the baby killed.
there is a difference of opinion here, as i certainly do NOT think that something with no brain, no heartbeat and not breathing, can actually suffer in anyway whatsoever when aborted... as for the mother, better SHE suffers a little now and get back on her feet asap, rather than forcing her in having an unwanted baby, and then she AND that baby suffering for decades because she cant care/cope properly for that unwanted child AND herself.

This is my field. And that's why I take time to still follow you hoping that a little light of understanding and mercy may be found in your for the lives of unborn children.
my field is LIFE, and i will say that i am an expert in it. i certainly believe that people need to RESPECT life 1st and foremost. bringing a future human being that you cant care for, in this already overcrowded world (filled with suffering people), is not only crazy but a lack of respect for LIFE. look around you, cant you see that there are simply too many unwanted kids that end up being rejected, used and abused? why do you think it is so easy today for a ritualist to get children for sacrifices? why do you think pedos are now going to Africa? same problems in Asia/South America. open your eyes bro, you need to educate people rather than FORCING them to have unwanted kids!
RomanceRe: One Thing That Could Stop Your Partner From Cheating! by MRBrownJ: 6:27pm On Dec 08, 2015
donTbone:
And how many partners would wanna understand it wasnt cheating, but rape? huh
I guess you should know what am driving at now!
you can NEVER compare a crime with someone having sex out of their own will.... and whether the partner understand or not is irrelevant here.
CrimeRe: I Train My Kids With Drug Proceeds –suspect (pictured) by MRBrownJ: 5:39pm On Dec 08, 2015
thats such a stoopid article.... of course he is paying school fees with proceeds from drug smuggling, what do they think drug smugglers do with their money?!
RomanceRe: My 18-Year-Old Girlfriend Wants Abortion, Please Help by MRBrownJ: 4:04pm On Dec 08, 2015
ask4bk:
shocked shocked shocked
Bro killing is wrong and evil to me. And if it's not for you, omo, u need to be checked up oh.
And same mouth that called killing a necessary evil returns to say it's good. Wow! How does evil and good or any two opposites be one? U think this ur comment well so?
Lemme assume it's all a typographical error. You can't have meant what u said Bro.
again, YES killing is a necessary evil, and good in certain circumstances, like wars/death penalty for criminals etc.
look at this confused sheep... your bible tells you to kill on a daily, but you have no problem with that, but when i say the same thing for abortion (even though it aint murder), you act "holy"?! BWAAAAAAH!
is that not your bible that says:

MURDER/INFANTICIDE IS OK
- If a man have a stubborn and rebellious son, which will not obey the voice of his father, or the voice of his mother, and that, when they have chastened him, will not hearken unto them: Then shall his father and his mother lay hold on him, and bring him out unto the elders of his city, and unto the gate of his place; And they shall say unto the elders of his city, This our son is stubborn and rebellious, he will not obey our voice; he is a glutton, and a drunkard. And all the men of his city shall stone him with stones, that he die. Deuteronomy 21:18-21

CANNIBALISM IS OK
- If in spite of this you still do not listen to me but continue to be hostile toward me, then in my anger I will be hostile toward you, and I myself will punish you for your sins seven times over. You will eat the flesh of your sons and the flesh of your daughters. Leviticus 26:27-30

- I will make them eat the flesh of their sons and daughters, and they will eat one another’s flesh because their enemies will press the siege so hard against them to destroy them. Jeremiah 19:9

MURDER FOR BESTIALITY
- If a man has sex with an animal, he must be put to death, and the animal must be killed. Leviticus 20:15

STONING OF NON VIRGNS
- If, however, the charge is true and no proof of the young woman’s virginity can be found, 21 she shall be brought to the door of her father’s house and there the men of her town shall stone her to death. She has done an outrageous thing in Israel by being promiscuous while still in her father’s house. You must purge the evil from among you. Deuteronomy 22: 20-21

CURSE YOUR PARENTS, YOU DIE
- anyone who curses their father or mother is to be put to death. Because they have cursed their father or mother, their blood will be on their own head. Leviticus 20:9

OK TO THROW KIDS ONTO WALLS
- Happy is the one who seizes your infants and dashes them against the rocks. Psalm 137:9

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