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Realuzoamaka:
Ladies in the house smash or pass

Realuzoamaka:
Ladies in the house smash or pass

raphretle:
SHE TEAR EYE PASS AM..
This statement often used by Nigerians could mean An Extremely Socially Exposed Person..
It also means Spoilt person and it also means A sexually Active Person.. Many centre on the Social Exposure "Tear Eye Status" most especially the Ladies...
It is often very difficult for a lady of high social Exposure to date someone of low exposure...
Guys in general could date any lady irrespective of her social exposure (the religious, Area girl and it's likes) though the nice/ guy with low social exposure ( often called JU ) dating a lady whose TEAR EYE STATUS is high comes with its own problems such as cheating ... That's why you hear the statement " She tear eye pass am" which means she is socially exposed than the guy... However the Tear Eyed ladies are often fun to be with compared to those with low social exposure...
The Question here is
Why is a Guy's TEAR EYE Status not that important for ladies...
What's your Preference?? Dating someone with high or low social exposure than you are...

raphretle:
SHE TEAR EYE PASS AM..
This statement often used by Nigerians could mean An Extremely Socially Exposed Person..
It also means Spoilt person and it also means A sexually Active Person.. Many centre on the Social Exposure "Tear Eye Status" most especially the Ladies...
It is often very difficult for a lady of high social Exposure to date someone of low exposure...
Guys in general could date any lady irrespective of her social exposure (the religious, Area girl and it's likes) though the nice/ guy with low social exposure ( often called JU ) dating a lady whose TEAR EYE STATUS is high comes with its own problems such as cheating ... That's why you hear the statement " She tear eye pass am" which means she is socially exposed than the guy... However the Tear Eyed ladies are often fun to be with compared to those with low social exposure...
The Question here is
Why is a Guy's TEAR EYE Status not that important for ladies...
What's your Preference?? Dating someone with high or low social exposure than you are...

bodaola:
I get your point

bodaola:
Yes

bodaola:
My girlfriend do chat on WhatsApp with other guyz whenever she's with me. Is it proper to give her a run over it or take a chill.

Even till the extent of video calls with them. On bed, in my house.

This happens all the time and I'm sick and tired of it.


Your Advise!

hotangel2:
Missing every NL member from when I was very active on Nairaland.

New names/faces are fun, but I am reminiscing on back when I used to come on NL like every hour! Mehn, Time don fly, Way back when I had the most number of posts on NL, lol, *sigh*, it is well.

Hello People.

calamitous:
Hey guys I need your help regarding this:

My girlfriend and i weren't on talking terms for a while, six months to be precise, but last week she started talking to me all of a sudden and we kinda shared one or two mutual feelings that led, to sex.

But while she was about to leave, I kind of saw some drugs in her bag, when I asked her the purpose of the drugs she replied that they were for infection.

Meanwhile she previously told me that same morning that she needed some money to threat virginal infection. But one occurent led to one another that made me to suspect her only purpose for showing up was to infect me with HIV or some other STDs.

I don't know what to do regarding this issue but I'm planning on dealing with her if i get to find out she infected me with any STD on purpose...

Need advice guys and girls.

Hisduchess:
You no even get shishi to chop sef(true storyyy)

SteveOfu:
I have trust issue,
I'm a jealous lover and I love foolishly.....
I mean,�I love with everything within me...

Please, how do I stop this, because it hurts me alot??

Eglobalma:
Since I was a kid everybody treats me literally the the way they treat wiz and davido. I never understood why. People complimented me for years, they would praise me for even shitying. I grew up with mad self esteem, I literally believed I was a perfect Male creature. Till today , anytime i turn left or right someone is just staring in lust till i wink or frown before they turn away. What people dont realise is that I'm a loner, loser, broke, no skill, no job, no money, impotent, psychopathic, bipolar, depressed, sucidal , no family or friend, no ambition useless creature. You see I have a very bigger than life look. My stature is very good, my face is appealing to them to stare at, but outside and when I talk my English is polished and I'm quite intelligent. But outside all that is a loser who just wished he was dead. Today I walked past a neighbor who kept praising me to his friends, telling me that i should gift him my sunglasses and then asked me how much it costs. I told him 1,000 naira but in reality I bought it for 400 naira. This guy almost got angry with me and kept saying I'm pretending that it's over 5k. When I was walking away I heard him hyping me to his friend, saying I'm such a boss and he admires me alot. I was just thinking to myself "does this guy know I'm actually sucidal" ? How could he since I look good without effort. The one gift that God cursed me with. He made me go through hell in my family and yet made me look like I'm a guy who goes to london weekly. Anyway, I know I will end up killing myself someday but for now this is me the loser guy who everyone admires.

Eglobalma:
Since I was a kid everybody treats me literally the the way they treat wiz and davido. I never understood why. People complimented me for years, they would praise me for even shitying. I grew up with mad self esteem, I literally believed I was a perfect Male creature. Till today , anytime i turn left or right someone is just staring in lust till i wink or frown before they turn away. What people dont realise is that I'm a loner, loser, broke, no skill, no job, no money, impotent, psychopathic, bipolar, depressed, sucidal , no family or friend, no ambition useless creature. You see I have a very bigger than life look. My stature is very good, my face is appealing to them to stare at, but outside and when I talk my English is polished and I'm quite intelligent. But outside all that is a loser who just wished he was dead. Today I walked past a neighbor who kept praising me to his friends, telling me that i should gift him my sunglasses and then asked me how much it costs. I told him 1,000 naira but in reality I bought it for 400 naira. This guy almost got angry with me and kept saying I'm pretending that it's over 5k. When I was walking away I heard him hyping me to his friend, saying I'm such a boss and he admires me alot. I was just thinking to myself "does this guy know I'm actually sucidal" ? How could he since I look good without effort. The one gift that God cursed me with. He made me go through hell in my family and yet made me look like I'm a guy who goes to london weekly. Anyway, I know I will end up killing myself someday but for now this is me the loser guy who everyone admires.

binarymachine:
The love for the good and expensive life has driven most ladies into wanting everything luxury. They want to live in beautiful mansions in posh areas, they want to ride in nice cars, eat good food, use expensive gadgets, buy expensive dresses and wear expensive make ups and hairs etc. This pushes them to move towards persons who they feel can provide all these and sometimes hurting the ones who can’t. Hence the notion that ladies love money.

However there are ladies out there who do not really care about the financial security a man has to offer. This set of ladies are not limited only to the rich ones but even the broke ones. There are broke expossed girls who are not moved by life and all of its luxuries and flaunting it just to get them to notice you is a deal breaker for them. Yes! they exist. There are ladies who are looking for simplicity, honesty and love. All they want is someone who will show them love and care, shower them with attention and affection and stick with them no matter their flaws.

Everyone loves money and everybody needs money, however, not all ladies you come across are so impressed by cash and luxury. Even if they may desire it, not every lady makes it a deal breaker. Women also need love and affection, attention and quality time. Sometimes a simple compliment or gesture is all that is needed to kick things off. That lady you see around looking all sexy and serious, just say hi and let her know she looks beautiful, tell her the shoes are pretty, offer to get her a pack of pop corn and you might just be surprised how things will roll.

Purge that mentality of “all women love money” and all they want and care for is cash. You will be spending a lot of money on women and attracting the wrong ones. All men love money too, everybody does. We all want the good life and financial security, stop picking on the ladies.

Source: https://flipmemes.com/2019/10/16/not-all-women-want-money/

Kaybmal100:
Listen guys

For most women in their 30s
who are still single, Who aren’t in a relationship, Those who are still available, Doesn’t have a guy at the moment and they are above 30, These women are comsidered a red flag.

based on my personal experience with women,
speaking t0 friends, random questions on walkway facebook friends, and my own previous relationships, an overwelming number of them have serious RED FLAGS.

when you meet this 30 year old single women, who isnt in a commited relationship, what she'll tell you is that she has had alot of bad relationships, that she was attracted to the wrong guy or that bad boys just keep finding her.

thats not true guys. she choose these guys
and what shes afraid to tell you is that she loves sleeping with bad boys. she loves being a side piece.

She doesnt want to tell you that she rejected a lot of good quality men because if she does tell you this it will show how fullish she is.

women dont like looking into the mirror and reflecting on their lives. this is why they hop from relationship to relationship
guys to guys because they dont want to reflect on the things they had done wrong.

they are afraid to tell you they have done all sort of cock ridingswith differrent guys in their 20s.

what they will say is ....i have been with this guy for 5years, he cheated on me, i stayed with this other guy for 3years he did thesame without talking about her mess. they will try to sell you

she wunt tell you that shes looking for a meal ticket, shes looking for some fool, a guffy guy who will take a bait, she wunt tell you that shes still talking and sleeping with different guys.
she wunt tell tell you that you are her last resolt
that she is expiring she can feel it.

Cos if she tell you that it will deperistalize her
it will humble her.

listen guys a single woman in her 30s shes afraid to tell you all those stuffs cos it will show how horrible her life is and how horrible her decisions are.

She wunt tell you that at that age her greatest fear in life is being alone. they hate it.
it sucks for a woman to go ome to a cold bed
but shes afraid to tell you that when shes with you. shes is hurting inside because no man want to comit to her cos of her attitude.
She wunt tell you how horrible her attitude is
but she act like shes a good person 2 to 3 months upfront time will tell .

ask yourself,
why she she still single?
not even commited to a serious relationship.

women in their 30s still single, not committed in any relationship has just failed in life.

listen girls

no man cares about your degree
or how successful you are, cos according to nature your job is to nuture, you are naturally made to receive love, be opened to receiving care and to be submissive. All these, feminist have destroyed.

but for men they are made to strive, break through barriers in life achieve.
you can argue with your religious books if you want to

that why a man can leave a high intellectual, successful woman for an house girl.
think about that.

So guys!
they are afraid to tell you the truth guys cos the truth will set them free but they dont want to be free

Freedom requires reflexion and she will never reflect in order not to be free so she hops from guy yo guy and hoping some fool like you will look at her.

they are aftraid to tell you that majority of them caused their breakups in their past relationships.
they instigated arguments with the their spouses
or their previouse long term partners.

they wunt tell you how sharp their mouth is.
trust me guys have talked to most of them,
tons of them, one on one conversation

they always have some time of Issues, whether its Dady issues, abandonment issues
boardline personality Disorder,Bipolo disorder.

Remember as women age, their sexual market value goes down but as men age their sexual market value goes up. It’s a fact

Also studies have shown that as women age they are likely to have healthier children

Comment below you experience dating women in their 30s

dominique:
Don't you guys get tired of these kind of topics?

Kaybmal100:
Listen guys

For most women in their 30s
who are still single, Who aren’t in a relationship, Those who are still available, Doesn’t have a guy at the moment and they are above 30, These women are comsidered a red flag.

based on my personal experience with women,
speaking t0 friends, random questions on walkway facebook friends, and my own previous relationships, an overwelming number of them have serious RED FLAGS.

when you meet this 30 year old single women, who isnt in a commited relationship, what she'll tell you is that she has had alot of bad relationships, that she was attracted to the wrong guy or that bad boys just keep finding her.

thats not true guys. she choose these guys
and what shes afraid to tell you is that she loves sleeping with bad boys. she loves being a side piece.

She doesnt want to tell you that she rejected a lot of good quality men because if she does tell you this it will show how fullish she is.

women dont like looking into the mirror and reflecting on their lives. this is why they hop from relationship to relationship
guys to guys because they dont want to reflect on the things they had done wrong.

they are afraid to tell you they have done all sort of cock ridingswith differrent guys in their 20s.

what they will say is ....i have been with this guy for 5years, he cheated on me, i stayed with this other guy for 3years he did thesame without talking about her mess. they will try to sell you

she wunt tell you that shes looking for a meal ticket, shes looking for some fool, a guffy guy who will take a bait, she wunt tell you that shes still talking and sleeping with different guys.
she wunt tell tell you that you are her last resolt
that she is expiring she can feel it.

Cos if she tell you that it will deperistalize her
it will humble her.

listen guys a single woman in her 30s shes afraid to tell you all those stuffs cos it will show how horrible her life is and how horrible her decisions are.

She wunt tell you that at that age her greatest fear in life is being alone. they hate it.
it sucks for a woman to go ome to a cold bed
but shes afraid to tell you that when shes with you. shes is hurting inside because no man want to comit to her cos of her attitude.
She wunt tell you how horrible her attitude is
but she act like shes a good person 2 to 3 months upfront time will tell .

ask yourself,
why she she still single?
not even commited to a serious relationship.

women in their 30s still single, not committed in any relationship has just failed in life.

listen girls

no man cares about your degree
or how successful you are, cos according to nature your job is to nuture, you are naturally made to receive love, be opened to receiving care and to be submissive. All these, feminist have destroyed.

but for men they are made to strive, break through barriers in life achieve.
you can argue with your religious books if you want to

that why a man can leave a high intellectual, successful woman for an house girl.
think about that.

So guys!
they are afraid to tell you the truth guys cos the truth will set them free but they dont want to be free

Freedom requires reflexion and she will never reflect in order not to be free so she hops from guy yo guy and hoping some fool like you will look at her.

they are aftraid to tell you that majority of them caused their breakups in their past relationships.
they instigated arguments with the their spouses
or their previouse long term partners.

they wunt tell you how sharp their mouth is.
trust me guys have talked to most of them,
tons of them, one on one conversation

they always have some time of Issues, whether its Dady issues, abandonment issues
boardline personality Disorder,Bipolo disorder.

Remember as women age, their sexual market value goes down but as men age their sexual market value goes up. It’s a fact

Also studies have shown that as women age they are likely to have healthier children

Comment below you experience dating women in their 30s

2SWT:
if your kinda London is what people talk about when they mention London then abeg Canada will contain me

abdulazeez1002:
You f*ucktard. Felix stems from Latin which means happy or lucky. It's a very popular name in Germany, Netherland, Czech Republic, Slovenia, Romania, France, Hungary, Portugal and Spain.

People like you are stuck in the mud till the high tide overcome you.

Weallneedhelp:
Good day FAM.

So i met this Lady around November Last year. My Company and hers did a business transaction. We started talking and became just friends. We didn't see face to face we only communicated via social media. She is 28 and i am 32

During one of my Guys Child dedication around May this year we met at my Guy's church. They worship in the same church together. So we talked and decided to hang out that Sunday. We saw a movie and we started developing affections for each other.

To cut the log story short. We started dating around July this year. Every now and then she brings up a topic about Marriage, then i thought it was romantic and all. Then it became very frequent and serious.

She will send me wedding pictures from IG and all.. She also sends pictures of asoebi, nice Venues, food etc about wedding.

I really Love this Woman, she is Beautiful, Hardworking and Earns good salary. I also earn good money too.

I talked to her about it and nothing changed instead it got worse, She has been requesting i see her Parents, i asked her to calm down lets take it slow. Nothing changed. Every little conversation we she has a way of bringing in marriage.

She asked me to be her date to one of her friends wedding, i agreed. We got there and she introduced me to her Parents, siblings and friends as her Fiance i just played along and was smiling through out the occasion. Deep down i was mad.. The Friend in question is actually her Cousin, She didn't tell me her parents were attending and also i cant remember engaging her.

Her Mom Siblings have been calling to check up on me, this actually very weird. During her Moms birthday she called me aside to ask how far with the wedding and also requested i start up the marriage stuffs things this December.

I had a straight talk with her that i am not ready for marriage mentally even financially she said we'll split the expenses. I tried explaining they marriage is a big deal and we should take our time it all end in quarrels then crying and all.

I asked my Guy about her and he said she actually joined the church about a year ago and she doesn't know much about her besides her being committed in church activities.

Truth be told. I actually love this Lady, she shows me so much Love and seems like an ideal Woman. I am really scared,

Its really stressing me out. We've not been talking for like a week now. Truth i actually miss her.

Please How do i go about this. Please i am really confused. Please pardon the typo error.
I need as many advice as possible. MOD help push this to a larger audience.

Weallneedhelp:
Good day FAM.

So i met this Lady around November Last year. My Company and hers did a business transaction. We started talking and became just friends. We didn't see face to face we only communicated via social media. She is 28 and i am 32

During one of my Guys Child dedication around May this year we met at my Guy's church. They worship in the same church together. So we talked and decided to hang out that Sunday. We saw a movie and we started developing affections for each other.

To cut the log story short. We started dating around July this year. Every now and then she brings up a topic about Marriage, then i thought it was romantic and all. Then it became very frequent and serious.

She will send me wedding pictures from IG and all.. She also sends pictures of asoebi, nice Venues, food etc about wedding.

I really Love this Woman, she is Beautiful, Hardworking and Earns good salary. I also earn good money too.

I talked to her about it and nothing changed instead it got worse, She has been requesting i see her Parents, i asked her to calm down lets take it slow. Nothing changed. Every little conversation we she has a way of bringing in marriage.

She asked me to be her date to one of her friends wedding, i agreed. We got there and she introduced me to her Parents, siblings and friends as her Fiance i just played along and was smiling through out the occasion. Deep down i was mad.. The Friend in question is actually her Cousin, She didn't tell me her parents were attending and also i cant remember engaging her.

Her Mom Siblings have been calling to check up on me, this actually very weird. During her Moms birthday she called me aside to ask how far with the wedding and also requested i start up the marriage stuffs things this December.

I had a straight talk with her that i am not ready for marriage mentally even financially she said we'll split the expenses. I tried explaining they marriage is a big deal and we should take our time it all end in quarrels then crying and all.

I asked my Guy about her and he said she actually joined the church about a year ago and she doesn't know much about her besides her being committed in church activities.

Truth be told. I actually love this Lady, she shows me so much Love and seems like an ideal Woman. I am really scared,

Its really stressing me out. We've not been talking for like a week now. Truth i actually miss her.

Please How do i go about this. Please i am really confused. Please pardon the typo error.
I need as many advice as possible. MOD help push this to a larger audience.

2SWT:
he said disbe"leaf" can't even spell properly set

SteveOfu:
When a relation is coming to an end mention the signs
Why did you step on my shadow?
Do you want to kill my spirit ?
You're too much in a hurry.

SteveOfu:
When a relation is coming to an end mention the signs
Why did you step on my shadow?
Do you want to kill my spirit ?
You're too much in a hurry.

MissGhosted:
Who go gree Bleep this dog shit.

2SWT:
I blame whoever pitied you and gave you sex

2SWT:
I blame whoever pitied you and gave you sex

MissGhosted:
Who go gree Bleep this dog shit.