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Neofingerz:
I would try to make this brief as possible.
I met this lady in my church Tall, fair in complexion, beautiful and curvy.....she's single and never married with a 17 years old son.
we've never had a conversation we only say greetings and go our way... a very introvert and extremely shy lady, she hardly relate to people in church except greetings. We had a program in church one day and this caused us(memebers) to exchange numbers and fortunately I received her number then we started talking on whatsapp from normal greetings and checking ups to knowing each other more( mind you that's where I got to know she was never married and her age while I told her mine too). then few weeks after exchanging numbers we became good friend and fortunately she doesn't live far from me its like a stone throw. sometimes she cooks and package mine well with so many goodies then our friendship became closer not until she told me she has feelings for me and she doesn't know how or where it's coming from like she can't control it. I don't wanna talk much here I already made my points and now the question here is.....i don't know what to do!! I told her about my gf when we were knowing each other and she told me about her ex too who hurt her so deep but she doesn't seem to care about all that....i won't deny the fact that I like her too but I don't love her.
please nairalanders what should I do?
no insults no bashing biko
if you want to see her pic contact me @oliviahills00@gmail.con

Neofingerz:
I would try to make this brief as possible.
I met this lady in my church Tall, fair in complexion, beautiful and curvy.....she's single and never married with a 17 years old son.
we've never had a conversation we only say greetings and go our way... a very introvert and extremely shy lady, she hardly relate to people in church except greetings. We had a program in church one day and this caused us(memebers) to exchange numbers and fortunately I received her number then we started talking on whatsapp from normal greetings and checking ups to knowing each other more( mind you that's where I got to know she was never married and her age while I told her mine too). then few weeks after exchanging numbers we became good friend and fortunately she doesn't live far from me its like a stone throw. sometimes she cooks and package mine well with so many goodies then our friendship became closer not until she told me she has feelings for me and she doesn't know how or where it's coming from like she can't control it. I don't wanna talk much here I already made my points and now the question here is.....i don't know what to do!! I told her about my gf when we were knowing each other and she told me about her ex too who hurt her so deep but she doesn't seem to care about all that....i won't deny the fact that I like her too but I don't love her.
please nairalanders what should I do?
no insults no bashing biko
if you want to see her pic contact me @oliviahills00@gmail.con

Saff:
Nothing worse than burying your child. This is so heartbreaking. I hate anything associated with death.

Diamond294:
Just stumbled on this thread and I felt to comment. Not trying to sound righteous in all I'm going to say. Firstly, are you a true christian? If you're born again, you shouldn't yield to the tempting of the flesh but the things of the spirit Galatians 5:17. So, you have to truly give yourself to Christ. Secondly, ask for God's assistance, I have been there in the past and I kept deceiving myself thinking I can't do without sex cos I had high drive not until I finally decided to give every of my bad habits up and accept Christ. The urge keeps coming but I control it by reading my bible or asking myself some challenging questions like ' After this few minutes pleasure, what next' feeling guilty ,yeah? Don't I think I'd enjoy this better with my husband when they'd be no feeling of guilt? What if I die in d process, is this pleasure worth my soul? etc.Lastly, don't give audience to the pessimists who'd tell you how difficult it is to overcome sexual sins, there are people who don't involve themselves in sexual immoralities yet they haven't died, they don't have two heads, they are humans like you and I so if they can abstain, I can till I'm married. Discipline, prayers and after effect analyses are key. Shalom.

funmisticqueen:
A lot of nigerian men have been conditioned since birth to have a 'eat your cake and have it mentality' they say it is ok for a man to cheat but a woman must be faithful, she must be a virgin.

A man wants an independent woman but forgets that he/she who has the money, has the control. they don't know it is pure robbery when they say they want an independent woman but expect her to be submissive. They should stop being confused

He sees a woman he likes but she is way above his league, so he resorts to slut shaming her when he doesn't know zip about her and even if he was given the chance, to have sex for money, he wont think twice. Nigga don't judge, work on yourself cos you aren't perfect.

they say they want foreign women but have nothing to offer her but sex and the backward african mentality that he is the head while she must worship his lazy boots. foreign women are out of your league . You cant give them SECURITY. So they hardly look at you as nothing more than their employee or servant.

They complain about the nigerian girls that are finally ready to manage them cos they have no choice. What ungrateful lots.

A lot of them are sexually deficient. it is either their penis is small, or it is big and they don't know how to use it forgetting that sex is an art and a science. Majority of them battle with erectile dysfunction.

They smell, they dont know that perfume deserves its chapter in anyone's success story but to cover up this insecurity they try to deflect the blame by female vagina smells, what were they expecting, airfreshener down there. even semen has its smell, but you dont see ladies crying foul on social media.

if i finish ranting you would wish to be born in another country but let me just leave it at this today
NOTE: If you quote me and your comment shows that you have the IQ of a goldfish, i will not bother you. i dont have time for lazy touts. happy democracy day in advance

Saff:
its not free

Mrbolt565:
It is the biggest sin ever. Infact, you can never prosper in life if you asslick a girl!! I've never done it in my entire life! Why on earth would u be liking all these nairaland girls pictures and they don't even like yours back. You'll see one ugly hoe on this nairaland with 1000likes(mostly liked by guys).WHY! It's pathetic! Boys are so dumb iswear and it's the truth!. That's why you see all these young girls disrecpecting you anyhow! Why would'nt dey? When you'll be following them like fly dey follow poo!! Asin how do you even feel when u asslick all these gurls? Don't you feel so stupid doing it? Pls wise up and stop it!


Im out!!

Saff:
its not free

Saff:
effff offff

HULSH:
All men you said?
Girls can never be my reason for clicking on Nairaland app. There are better places to meet them nawn.
Don't get it twisted bro, I love them alot, (as a matter of fact , I do think that, if there is anything better that God created for man than woman then He has kept that one for himself) just that I can't find myself behaving like a desperado to them to be noticed.

Saff:
effff offff

Ellabae:
Beautiful nd sweet looking cakes

jaksmillioniar:
guy not me I saw a blog here in headlines. were a girl rape a sleeping guy

jaksmillioniar:
I saw a blog abt a girl DAT rape a guy I feel the girl shd be arrested.DAT not were am going we were argued DAT is not possible DAT she rape him cos its not possible a guy blocus stand in sleep. some say yes some say no. wat do you thin

jaksmillioniar:
I saw a blog abt a girl DAT rape a guy I feel the girl shd be arrested.DAT not were am going we were argued DAT is not possible DAT she rape him cos its not possible a guy blocus stand in sleep. some say yes some say no. wat do you thin

Oyindidi:
How is that possible? Guys explain

barallanee:
my dear help me ask

kayus89:
You likely live in Peckham or Hackney the ghetto areas of London.And are here bragging and offering to give people money. Majority of Nigerians in London like you live hand to mouth.

kayus89:
I am in North America-broke nigga!.Work in an oil company.

Adesquare2:
Alright.. I am a woman though. .

kayus89:
Broke nigga-What do you do in London?Work as a cashier in Macdonalds?

Saff:
Really?
Why do you flirt with every girl on this site. I hate you

barallanee:
my dear help me ask

Hisduchess:
virgins don't do such

amstamon:
I just don't know what to do at the moment, I'm so emotionally down and confused.
a friend who's birthday was today, decided to host us at a bar close by. On getting there, I greeted everyone but noticed he was quiet and moody.
30 mins later, he asked that we should meet outside. next thing I heard was that I was sleeping with her girlfriend. I tried to prove my innocence but it all fell in deaf ears. with anger,I left without telling anyone.
An hour later, he called and was like "someone saw both of us(I and the girlfriend) coming out of my apartment".
I don't know how to prove my innocence and please I really need you guys input on this matter.
I don't know how to make him believe me.
I know my writing is bad, but that's not what matters for now.
Please I seriously need your advice guys.
I swear with my life and father's grave I cannot do such

amstamon:
I just don't know what to do at the moment, I'm so emotionally down and confused.
a friend who's birthday was today, decided to host us at a bar close by. On getting there, I greeted everyone but noticed he was quiet and moody.
30 mins later, he asked that we should meet outside. next thing I heard was that I was sleeping with her girlfriend. I tried to prove my innocence but it all fell in deaf ears. with anger,I left without telling anyone.
An hour later, he called and was like "someone saw both of us(I and the girlfriend) coming out of my apartment".
I don't know how to prove my innocence and please I really need you guys input on this matter.
I don't know how to make him believe me.
I know my writing is bad, but that's not what matters for now.
Please I seriously need your advice guys.
I swear with my life and father's grave I cannot do such

anaton:
You well at all?

mimimile93:
u keep asking people here abt their gender. I've seen u many times asked people if they are male or female. U asked me too. I was wondering why u are so much concerned abt people's gender on a faceless forum until u stated the men visit nairaland to chase female.

So ur agenda is to chase pvssy here? No wonder u keep asslickin them.

Fvck off my mentions u are a shame.

mimimile93:
'ALL MEN VISIT NAIRALAND TO CHASE FEMALE'

now this is the dumbst comment ever.

What happend to twitter and IG? Why will a sane man go to a faceless forum to chase pvssy.?

Mrcocck go to rehab