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FlirtyKaren:
When Deana Charles walked down the aisle with her Nigerian groom, Ben Mowah, she could not wait to spend the rest of her life with the man she loved. But just half-an-hour after the pair exchanged their vows, she discovered Ben had been texting another woman.

And Deana was left further humiliated when he admitted he had only married her for a visa.

Deana, 23, says:
“My whole world came crashing down when I found out my marriage was a fake. I loved Ben with all my heart. We’d made loads of plans for the future and he seemed
desperate to start a family.”

TheSunUK reports that sales assistant Deana, from Tiverton, Devon, met Ben, 25, on a dating site in 2010. She was instantly attracted to his looks and was hooked after he struck up a flirty conversation with her.

“I wasn’t serious about finding love, I’d only signed up for a bit of a laugh. As soon as I saw Ben’s picture, though, I was smitten. He had gorgeous brown eyes and a great body — just my type.
We started chatting and he explained he’d come to the UK from Nigeria to study for a business degree. I couldn’t imagine being so far away from my family and friends and I told him he was really brave.”

Ben was persistent online and was keen to meet up as soon as possible. Deana was nervous at first but, three months after they started talking, she agreed to travel to London to meet him for a day of sightseeing. She continued:

“It was the perfect first date. Ben took me to see Big Ben and we went to the National Maritime Museum in Greenwich. As soon as we shared our first kiss I could feel myself falling for him.
He asked me to stay for a few days and I said yes. It felt like I’d known him for ages.”

Days turned into weeks and, after a fleeting visit home to pick up some belongings, Deana agreed to move in with Ben in Catford, South East London.

“I was surprised when he asked me to move in with him so soon but I was also really excited. But my mum was really concerned that I was giving up everything for someone I’d only just met.
Some of my friends said the same. No one was completely sure of him. I just shrugged off their concerns because I was convinced he was the right man for me.”

In August 2011, six months after they first met in person, Ben popped the question.

“Ben asked me to marry him while we were having breakfast at home. It wasn’t very romantic. He didn’t even get down on one knee, but he did buy me an imitation diamond ring. I was shocked he wanted to marry me so soon but I was completely in love.”

Though she’d dreamt of a big, romantic wedding, Ben was determined to wed as soon as possible. So Deana agreed to a register office wedding in January 2012, with a low-key reception at a local Chinese restaurant.

“My family were concerned but they all turned out and supported me. When I walked down the aisle Ben told me I looked stunning. And I meant every word of my vows.”

After the ceremony, Deana urged Ben to call his family to tell them the good news.

“He was reluctant to get his phone out. He eventually agreed to call his mum but when I looked over his shoulder at the screen, a message flashed up from a girl. She’d texted Ben to tell him she loved and missed him. My legs turned to jelly as I remembered she was his ex-girlfriend in Nigeria.

I was in pieces but Ben begged me for another chance. He said he’d only text her because of last-minute nerves. I didn’t want to storm out of my wedding so, after lots of tears, I let it go.”

Deana tried to start a happy married life, but the text message always weighed down on her conscience.

“I wanted to wait a few years before getting pregnant as I was still worried about the message. But Ben was determined to be a dad. I thought it was his way of showing he was serious. We tried for a baby but we struggled to conceive.”

But 13 months into their marriage, Deana borrowed Ben’s laptop and her worst fears were confirmed.

“My heart stopped when I saw he’d been sending messages to a girl on a social network site and she had sent him explicit pictures. Ben told her he loved her and wanted a baby with her.

Minutes later I received a message from the girl — she felt so guilty, she’d messaged me to come clean.”

Devastated Deana confronted Ben.

“When he realised there was no way back, he told me he’d only married me for a visa. It explained why he’d been so keen to get me pregnant — the authorities would find it harder to deport him.”

Disgusted Deana packed her bags, returned to Devon the next day and filed for divorce. After two years, Ben finally agreed to it. Deana says:

“I felt relieved. Looking back, I realise how naive I was. Ben was due to finish his degree when he proposed, which meant his student visa would expire. He had to get me up the aisle as soon as possible.”

Deana, who has not spoken to Ben since their divorce and no longer knows where he lives, says:

“It took me a long time to trust another man but I have recently met someone and am trying to move on.”

Ben says:

“My mate used to send me dirty pictures of girls he was seeing. I knew my wife would get jealous if she saw them on my phone so I got rid of them or sent them to my email. She must have checked my email that day and then found the pictures.”

http://www.lailasblog.com/2015/05/my-nigerian-lover-proposed-after-6.html

Importguru:
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The formal student of Kwara State Polytechnic who joined the industry in 2008, has lots of movies to her credit, both the English and Yoruba genre.
In a new interview with Vanguard, the Kwara state born actress who is based Malaysia talked about her acting career, her soon-to-be released movie, ‘Eko’, and how her body feature has helped in getting her roles. Read excerpts below:

What are you currently working on?

My movie ‘Eko’ which literally means ‘Lesson’. The film is an eye-opener for people who believe that without travelling abroad they cannot make it in this life. The film is planned to educate them that it’s not until you travel abroad before you make it, just focus on what you’re doing and you can make it anywhere.

Which has been your biggest movie so far?

It’s a movie called Ere; a Yoruba movie. There’s another one called Omo Malaysia. In fact , there are many of them I can’t remember right now

How has the journey in Nollywood been?

Stressful, I will say. For one, there is the issue of location logistics. At times they may lodge you in a hotel without adequate facilities. And because this is a profession you love, you have to manage whatever is thrown at you. Even feeding, at times on location, becomes a problem because adequate provisions are not made. It has not been easy, at all, but we have to stick to it because it is a profession we love.

My Boobs Have Helped My Acting Career - Bridget Amos

What has been your biggest challenge so far?

You know Jide Kosoko? There was a time I was supposed to play a role alongside him but he brought someone else instead. He said he wanted the person to play the role in my place. I felt very bad. Along the line he changed his mind and asked me to take the role but I had been so heartbroken that I couldn’t pick myself up again. I eventually lost the role.

How do you get into character when you see scripts?

Since you love it and you enjoy doing it, it’s very easy. If you love acting, once you’re given a role it would be easy for you to act it out.

Who is your biggest inspiration in acting?

Ayo Adesanya

Can you do something sexy in a movie?

Yes, I can be very sexy and very romantic.

Can you flaunt your boobs, stuff like that?

It’s part of acting so I can do it. I can play any role. Once you’re an actor, you should be able to play any role

Have your boobs ever helped you in getting a role?

Yes, they have. In one English movie, though the movie is not yet out, they wanted someone that has big boobs and can flaunt it, so they called me. I was called by Laitan Sugar and it was because of my boobs they called me for that job. I played the role of a bad character in the movie


http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/05/my-boobs-have-helped-my-career-bridget-amos/



Photo credit: Naij.com

elantraceey:
I can sense that someone is just bored.

tipsieoladj:
See this first class mugu sayin they have money and berra cars than we here in naija. see guy you have confirmed the fact that you are an omo ale jati jati.. you had better get your head right.. which cars do you drive there that peeps in naija cant afford.. jst mention 1 and which moni you dey spend? You just think because pounds is higher than naira so you have money? Ogbeni you are in d demented universe.. biko come back..

ireneony:
black Londoners are very stingy

Cutest001:
See question

jashar:

I feel elated and special when a fine home-based guy toasts me. There's this rush of power I get anytime it happens.


But what do you expect, I'm dark skinned.

MzzTega:
Londoners,do they have two heads?

Would they guarantee me heaven?
Why Overhype?


Looking not at the present but at the future.
Being a Londoner doesn't mean their future is brighter than ours.

naija1stpikin:

She needs to travel abroad. Even if it's Togo

naija1stpikin:
I doubt. Never seen her picture. But she's too 'agberoish'

ggrin:
I said 2015bugatti veron £20m cash


Any qualms with that

ggrin:
damn!

ggrin:
fucck off!

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naija1stpikin:
with her Nokia C2

naija1stpikin:
She must have sneaked phone to her boarding school

ggrin:

naija1stpikin:
Go sleep. It's way past your bed time

ggrin:
yh biatch!
Ama MMM!!!!


Spendin money like m postin bill!!!

Dang!

ggrin:
biatch!!!!
M making some cool cash here selling my product on NL

U want some orijin? Weed? Cocaine? Codine

Name it biatch, ama drug dealer8)