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hfinest1:
My girlfriend dat we started dating about 6weeks ago just uploaded a pix of her and her ex and wrote on her status "I miss dis boo die" do u think it should bother me or maybe she still has feelings for him or is there something I'm not doing right... I'm being serious here o... cos I'm getting jealous tho I feel the jelousy isn't necessary

DrAify:
Now I see you are a funny dude I am sorry for the insults

Chynx:
If ever you saw the walls of any school; your English teacher should be shot!

Chynx:
If ever you saw the walls of any school; your English teacher should be shot!

BADNEAT:

UncleJudax:
Hahaha. I never said anything about being gay. You must have an impaired brain. Continue playing to the gallery. You have zero comprehension skill.

Demy2015:
Now this is not a thread to bash girls or anything i am just trying to understand somethings. I am new to Nairaland and have spent enough times reading the Romance section which is usually about sex. Now first question i will like to ask most guys or even girls is how many sexual partners for a girl is considered too much? For the sake of argument lets say she is 23.

I am asking because reading through most posts on here no guy wants to marry a girl who has been slept with by a number of guys already. I understand that cos i am also guilty of that. But at the same time we do not virgins. Furthermore girls will like to find out some good info, after u sleep with the first guy maybe in a relationship and you breakup, sleep with second guy and it does not work out, dont u think if you should take a break and be sure of the next guy?? Instead of constantly regretting.

I know people will say guys sleep around as well but without been sexist it is different. First of all as scientist, we are programmed to have sex for evolution. A guy can have sex with 20 girls within a 9 month period and get all of them pregnant while a woman can only be pregnant once. Also it is more difficult for guys to get laid so a guy that gets laid sees it as an ego boost while even the least attractive girl can get laid easily. This means you need to do more filtering.

I am asking this not to JUDGE at all. Just need a little bit of perspective cos this currently affects my relationship as i cannot get over gfs past. I love her and i appreciate the fact that she opened up to me but i just want to ask some detailed questions which i cannot without sounding like a bad person. She is been with 7 guys before me. That i feel is alot but then some say it isnt. I am all for a girl going with guys that treat them right and dated them but she didnt date all those guys. Even if they knew each other. Infact only 2 of them were proper relationships.

So pls advice needed and also no sacarstic comments abeg

wemmieslim:
Seriously?

Kelklein:
Ladies be honest...choose appropriately

UncleJudax:
So gay folk don't have sex? The level of IQ on this furum is very appalling.

Goovo:
Just wanna knw what it feels like uploadind pix on nairaland.nor mind me jare

missjenna:
A lot of people would testify that sex is indeed a crucial catalyst for relationship growth. Both in budding relationships, courtship and marriages
Its natures generous gift, which when opened releases pleasurable and ecstatic feelings, catapulting both participants to new realms of romance

But what of if this act of love making wasn't in existence in the first place.
Let forget about the past and bring this home to our current social setting.

Its an obvious fact that in our present social society,sex is a very critical factor in the formation and breakdown of most relationships
Women have left their lovers for others all in the name of sex. Most couples have ignored all negative behavioral traits exhibited by their partners just because of the rare sexual satisfaction they obtain when they indulge in intercourse.

So to my question again.
What if this precious element was erased form the table of "relationship"
What if their was nothing like "'sex''?
Would relationships still stand. Will couples still experience "love".
Would the rate of celibacy increase?
Would humans still decide to spend the rest of their lives with the opposite gender?

As for me, I think the famous titanic disaster
of that fateful April morning on the deep seas of cold Atlantic would be a mere fiasco, if compared to the rate at which most relationships and marriages would capsize

So Nairalanders, what do you think?
Would relationships and marriages still stand?
Would you still love and continue with your partners?

missjenna:
A lot of people would testify that sex is indeed a crucial catalyst for relationship growth. Both in budding relationships, courtship and marriages
Its natures generous gift, which when opened releases pleasurable and ecstatic feelings, catapulting both participants to new realms of romance

But what of if this act of love making wasn't in existence in the first place.
Let forget about the past and bring this home to our current social setting.

Its an obvious fact that in our present social society,sex is a very critical factor in the formation and breakdown of most relationships
Women have left their lovers for others all in the name of sex. Most couples have ignored all negative behavioral traits exhibited by their partners just because of the rare sexual satisfaction they obtain when they indulge in intercourse.

So to my question again.
What if this precious element was erased form the table of "relationship"
What if their was nothing like "'sex''?
Would relationships still stand. Will couples still experience "love".
Would the rate of celibacy increase?
Would humans still decide to spend the rest of their lives with the opposite gender?

As for me, I think the famous titanic disaster
of that fateful April morning on the deep seas of cold Atlantic would be a mere fiasco, if compared to the rate at which most relationships and marriages would capsize

So Nairalanders, what do you think?
Would relationships and marriages still stand?
Would you still love and continue with your partners?

Harmvirus:
Mtchewwwww

DrAify:
You are spewing bollocks.London with poverty stricken guys like you.28k pounds my foot!So swerve

DrAify:
IBO GUYS ARE THE BEST

DrAify:
You are spewing bollocks.London with poverty stricken guys like you.28k pounds my foot!So swerve

DrAify:
Better guys in USA...I don't need NL guys....Village boy

badassProdigy:
Eight months pregnant Model Sarah Stage had her baby shower this week, but you wouldn't have had an idea mere looking at her. Sarah has been documenting her pregnancy stages on her official Instagram page and now
she is 8 months pregnant and has few weeks to go...

link: www.trendyrammy.com/2015/03/unbelievable-see-photos-of-8-months.html?m=1

Babygal4eva:
nvm

tosyne2much:
Rokiatu is an elder sister to me

DrAify:
I guess you are joking

dorocent:
It has come to my notice and the general Nairaland forum that guys easily get carried away with some of the topics am going to list here.

Due to our different motives of becoming a Nairalander, guys still can't denied the facts that this topics do not attract them.

(1) 3 steps to get a lady without spending.

(2) How to know when your girlfriend is cheating on you.

(3) The quality of a good house wife (material).

(4) GEJ has fail the nation (mostly the APC supporters)

(5) GMB has a dead brain. (mostly the PDP supporters)

(6) What i did on my first date.


i just don't want to finish all... hereby i want you guys to please feel free and
ADD YOURS

ivyT:
Mr fellow,bae is just lyk babe,,so maintain ur lane nd call ur guy_dude or somfin'

Babygal4eva:
I'm so confused maybe it's not the same 3some I'm thinking that you are talking about, yeah that's the only explanation

Babygal4eva:
Which story did you read that had 3some in it?

Hottestdaniel:
The New Orleans Born Rapper was interviewed by one of Mtv staff in US, and was asked where he will taking on his next Tour and the Rapper Replied Nigeria. He said he loves Nigeria so much Though people Discriminates Nigeria and label it as a Bad country, he said he has take time to study Nigerians And their Artistes such as Dbanj,Wizkid,TerryG,Ice Prince AND 2Face he said they have prove to him that Nigeria is not As how its described. He Said That he has the love right fro the day he sang "A Milli" He said that he mentioned Nigeria Hair . And lyrics goes as Follows A Milli lyrics

Young Money
Ya Dig
Macoranna

A millionaire, I'm a young money millionaire
Tougher than Nigerian hair
My criteria compared to your career this isn't fair
I'm a venereal disease like menstrual, bleed
Through the pencil and leak on the sheet of the tablet
In my mind cause I don't write poo cause I ain't got time

SOURCE: http://hottestdaniel..com/2015/03/finally-lil-wayne-coming-to-nigeria.html

diddydiva:
sorry but ave found men on nairaland

shaizegotswag:
I met her through a friend but we haven't met in person we just started talking on phone so I need to know what and what to ask so the likeness can grow and always keep her talking help me out biko