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marieolae:
Incredible post. Lovely.

computerboy:
I can't keep ignoring ur bullets again before u kill a Nairalander (no offense)

kentozybee:
y are u like this, bring up urs and let's see Wat pple will say abt it, NEVER DO WELL

chibwike:
This is the best post have ever seen in romance section, since i joined NL..op God bless you.

Agybabe:
was it you I quoted? Are you an albino?

EroticAngelina:
are u insane? I'd be the biggest i diot if I love an ugly monster like u

Agybabe:
you should know what I mean hun

EroticAngelina:
are u insane? I'd be the biggest i diot if I love an ugly monster like u

EroticAngelina:
good

ENELDEE:
Get a pair of glasses, read the post again and then try saying something not stupid.

philismary:
Still dnt understand u dat is complaining,check ur spellings againg.

chibwike:
What type of human being are you

kentozybee:
A Letter To Single Men
Hey guys, how are you doing? How has life fared
with you lately?


The hustle and bustle of becoming a man ain't
an easy job, I must confess! But with God and
diligence in fulfilling purpose, we'll get there.


I write this letter to you to point out some things
which you ought to know before marriage or as
you continue in that relationship.


This letter is strictly for men, not boys or players.
First concerning how you treat ladies. I know
quite alright that ladies are emotional only few
are not. Please, don't take advantage of that and
inflict emotional pain on them.


If you know she's not going to be your wife,
there’s no point promising her heaven and earth
just to get her in bed.
If you think you're smart, your smartness cannot
prevent the nemesis or daring consequences that
would one day catch up with you.


It's better you avoid the consequences of an
action because of its few minutes pleasure than
to face its agony and regrets in the near future.
What are you doing about your life and future? I
know it's trendy to go clubbing and indulge in all
youthful exuberance. See, life doesn't go on a
stretch forever and every time wasted cannot be
recovered.


If at age 30 or close to it, you haven't define your
life or you're still depending on friends, family or
relatives, you need to work on yourself.


Where do you put God in your life? Consider God
in the time of your youth before it's too late.
Many of you who turned back on God will
someday run back to Him for help. If you cannot
dance to the devil's music, it's better you start
learning God's steps.
Hear this guys, love isn't sex! Don't tell a lady to
prove her love to you because you want to have a
'taste' of her. I know everyone is going haywire
with premarital sex but you can choose to
abstain.


Apart from it being sin against God, it will make
you vulnerable to STDs and some problems
'rubber' cannot prevent.
It doesn't matter if she calls you names if you
choose to abstain, or you become an object of
mockery amongst your friends, run for your dear
life.


Think about your future and life hereafter. Don't
give your strength to strange women, preserve it
for your wife.


Have you discovered your purpose in life? That
very reason why God has created you?
Jumping from one lady to another without
discovering your purpose on earth will make you
miserable and waste away in life.


Know your purpose in life and be on track to
attain it's fulfillment before you think of going
into a relationship. It's not difficult, it would
only prevent you from distraction.


Watch the company of friends you keep. Are they
contributing positively to your life or they are
emptying you of virtues and opportunities?
It's not a must you hang out with friends if you
do not benefit from them. You can stand alone
with God and make lasting impact than to keep
dozens of friends with no footprints in the sand
of time.


Man up guys! Build your financial, spiritual,
mental and emotional life. Only a crazy man
beats a woman even if she pushed you to the
wall. There is a button of patience to press to
control your anger.
Work on your mental development. Read good
books to acquire knowledge and skill. Get
intimate with God so that your wife wouldn't
become a victim of false prophets or you become
a spiritual babe in handling matters of life at the
homefront.


My guy, you're going to be a father someday.
Don't do the things you wouldn't be proud of
your son to emulate or would want anyone to do
to your daughter.


If you wouldn't want to leave a bad legacy for
your unborn children, don't tread the path now.
I'd have love to tell you more but I believe you
know the importance of life and time and I'm
constrained due to space.


Don't waste away chasing every Tom, Dick and
Harry for sex. Conserve your energies and
channel it into a more productive cause in life.
I hope the few wise ones would treasure this
letter, share it or send it to a friend.


Thank you for your anticipated response as you
make amends in areas where necessary.

intercom:
Good day fellow N/L members. Please kindly advice me on what to do here.

I feel in love with a lady, since 3years and finally proposed to her this year. But before then, she has been in a relationship that crashed. and the reasons she gave me was that the guy was hard on her so she backed out immediately.
I proposed to her and she took like 4months to come to my proposal due to her relationship with other guy which i wasn’t aware of. I sensed that she welcomed me because she failed in her former relationship which is normal (Life must go on), We have bin having good talk on phone, She took me to her house, she has cooked we eat, she welcomed me, even give me a name, she has introduced me to her senior sister, we have even gone to tell our elders in the church and i was permitted to go for introduction with back up from the elders (Church rules).
One week for my going I went ill, test revealed Malaria which i am on treatment; my reason of coming here is to seek for your godly counsel. I was on my state of health that I and my wife to be was talking on phone, she told me to get well and eat because i could not eat, (no interest for food) if not she is going to lock the door against me if am tin or slim or looking like one who is on hunger strike. (i was surprise).
On Thursday day, 4th day to my introduction to her parents, we spoke again on phone, i was like am so tire and weak, even my clothes are dirty ( I never called her or wanted her to come to my place, also it is against the church order/rule). To my greatest surprise, she ask me how will I wash it, I responded, when am strong i will do it, she said hmmmm, better learn how to do it because she is not going to be washing my clothes. I was like are u serious? she said yes that she is telling me before hand. She said everybody in the house must wash his or her clothes, hmmm i was still surprise, I quickly asked, how about our kids who will be washing theirs? She quickly responded that when the kids come we will know what to do. Initially I thought she was kidding but the seriousness on her voice was so real. I became afraid.
She went to the extent of telling me to start saving money to buy washing machine from LG Company. That she will not be the washing machine, that don’t I have hand also?.
Secondly, I was also surprise that she has not informed her parents about my coming to her house for the introduction, which I kicked against and asked her if she was ready for me, and it was at that night of our call that she called the mum and tell her.
Friends, Pls I became afraid more about the washing of the clothe matter, this days, do wife's responsibilities exclude taking care of the husband proper.
What can I do now, should I still go ahead with the proposal, or she I postponed it or should I called off everything now that it is still early, am just confused, if my wife cannot wash my clothes then why is she my wife?

Help me pls with your good advice please.

booqee:
dumbest question in 2014

MisterLongman:
If to say your papa no share your mama own with you, malnutrition go be your middle name

cashcity:
Most times, specifications of phones are the major reasons why we spend big trying to acquire them. Imagin somebody spendin over 200k just to acquire iphone6. Specifications can still be used to describe they type of partner people like to be wit cos it reduces competition in d society as one man's food is another man's poison.Lets go there. My ideal wife specs are;
Age:20<$<25.
Skin colour:light.
Height:5ft8 <$<6ft.
Religion:christian,catholic.
Nose:pointed
Face: v-shape
Leg: straight/long
Hip: oval (nikki or kim k)
Academic:graduate (2.1 & above)
Nagging: nil
Cheating:nil
Kitchen activities: high
Bedroom activities:high
Character:excellent
Computer:literate
Salary:six figures
R/ship with others:minimal
fashion:sensitive/high class.
and finally.....
Tribe:igbo
State:anambra
LGA:awka south.
The above listed SPECs most not be compromised cos i wunt settle for less. Pals i hope am not askin toomuch?
Let the discussions continue.WHAT are the specs of ur dream or ideal LIFE PARTNER.

SeekHelp000:
I go flow for pidgin joor!
We started to dey relate 7months ago and since then she and her family don already chop my N200milion,now she wan leave me follow another guy,e fair?
Nah me buy im papa motor,buy im papa boxers,infact everything wey dem get for dis life nah my money dem take buy am.
Abeg make una help me,wetin i fit do make she no leave me follow another guy?
Make i go refuel my buggarti,charge my iphone6,repaint my duplex for VI and go eat for macdonald........keep your suggestions coming with your bank account number,cuz anybody wey comment for this thread go get N5m! Oh,the primeminister of u.k don dey call me for my iphone6......#waiting 4 ur comments

shockwave91:
Men have sole ownership. Even d bible says so

ENELDEE:
Men of today give more preference to the physical appearance of the ladies they fall in love with, and it's no new thing that the colour and glow of the skin can be a major attraction. Here, I would like to ask your preference. Which do you prefer? Dark or fair? As for me, I like dark-skinned ladies with smooth glowing skin. State your preference here.

ENELDEE:
Men of today give more preference to the physical appearance of the ladies they fall in love with, and it's no new thing that the colour and glow of the skin can be a major attraction. Here, I would likne to ask your preference. Which do you prefer? Dark or fair? As for me, I like dark-skinned ladies with smooth glowing skin. State your preference here.

01karma:
hahaha so carrying a woman's bag now make him a gay.?

01karma:
Mr co.rk are you really ok?? Why do i have that fillings that you are always on drugs?

01karma:
Helping a lady carry her bag and walking behind her. Should that be called romantic??

Some people would say there is nothing wrong with that,but for me, its a no no no no no no.

what your take?

ismokeweed:
So you are this poor in grammar use? "Who should to take control". Disgraceful.

EroticAngelina:
don't get me angry