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Flaubert Ajiero: If a guy doesn't understand those little CLUES women look for which usually aid their decision making process on which guy to date, then how on earth would he know what strings to pull? The truth is, women read much deeper into situations and communication than men.

hmm... am I really serious? Sure I am.

Take for example:

A man will meet a beautiful woman and fail to notice obvious clues like ring-on-left or right hand, dress color combination, chain smoking, mention of an abusive ex-boyfriend, and not having a job.

While women on the other hand, can be talking to a friendly, handsome man who appears to have his act together, and because his shoes don't match his belt think:

"Well, if he doesn't realize that belt and shoes should match, then he obviously doesn't understand fashion... and if he and I ever got into a relationship I'd always have to worry about him showing up like a fashion crime in front of my friends. I'll bet he doesn't take care of his house either. He's probably not aware of what's cool in general. He'd be way too much work."

Sound unreal?

Try this: Find the nearest attractive woman and read that last section above to her. You'll probably see a knowing smile... that will culminate into a fully belly-laugh.

What's my point?

Well the simple point is that women make all kinds of decisions based on very little details (and big details of course)

When you begin interacting with a woman, she will first and foremost be looking to find out if you GET IT. The part of her mind that looks for potential LOVERS to date wants to know if you're a man who understand what it takes to trigger emotional feelings inside her.

She wants to know if she's dealing with someone on her level. She wants to know if you're playing in her league. She wants to know if you're speaking her language.

She wants to know if you're comfortable in your own skin around her. She wants to know if you're an "insider" or an "outsider" so she can know how to treat you. She wants to know whether or not you're worth a psychological second glance.

And if you pass this test- if you can show in a hundred little ways that you GET IT, then you will be allowed further inside.

If on the other hand, you can show in a hundred little ways that YOU DON'T GET IT, then the door will slam shut... and the only clue you'll get that it happened is that cold feeling you get every time you try to make a conversation with her.

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Sanboy25:

World war III: You just want to forment trouble abi?

Sanboy25:

carefreewannabe: No but I'm sure you receive plenty of them

Truckpusher: I guess your last med isn't working ,now you need an overdose of sedative

Popowaa: Ur own wey e be like Teacher's broken chalk

Sanboy25: Lucky you

joeydozzy: I'm 6ft 0.15inch

She's to be at least 5ft 10"

SniperInADiaper: Unfortunately, you were

So, how tall are you?

SniperInADiaper: Wrong

Nomski0: You haff come again.