₦airaland Forum

ElSudani:
Don't argue blindly, just follow the facts. It will make you feel better.

You're not smart.

Simple questions, you can't answer. But you're typing rubbish from your state and saying what's not.

ElSudani:
The original inhabitants of the FCT were relocated. So, who are these indigenes?

Where you relocate them to?

Do you live in Abuja? Have you been here?
What do you know about Abuja?

It's nice to do your best. God will always perfect everything

Nonywendy:
I have been dating this my girl friend since 2017. She made me fall and believe in love, she ticked all the qualities I desire in a woman. When I we started dating she was in her 200L, and everything was going on smoothly. Now this is where the issue lies,
When she went for service in another state, I started noticing some changes, wen she comes back home during holidays I used to go through her phone.(note: she has access to my phone and I too).
So one of those period I realised she is seeing another guy in the state where she is serving. I confronted her and she opened up to me and confessed. I forgave her.

Then after like 4months again, I later noticed she is also seeing another guy different from the initial one I noticed, she denied that but I had to do my deep investigation and got an evidence, she opened up again, at this point I broke up with her and moved on. After like one month she came back begging for forgiveness, It took me time to heal and I forgave her.

Then this last one that broke the camel's back, I noticed she traveled to the state where she did her youth service for something and all this while I thought she was staying with her sister, not knowing she was staying with the first guy she dated while serving whch she apologised. She stayed with her for three good weeks. How I realized was, I called her line one early morning arnd 3am and a guy picked the call asking me who I am. At first, I froze cos I haven't been in that kind of situation, I calmed down and explained everything to the guy, and the guy also told me she has been with her for the past three weeks and that's the girl friend too. I was shocked. I have broken up with her finally cos I don't think forgiving a cheating partner is worth it.
The first time she cheated, 90% of my friends advised me to dump her ass and move on but I had to forgive on the basis of nobody is perfect, but this third time is a no no.
Now she has been begging and asking for forgiveness that she has really learnt her lessons. At this point I'm just so mad that I don't want to forgive her.
Now the big problem is that I'm always seeing her in my dream, I have not really moved on cos it's not easy for me. I have loved her for solid 6 yrs plus.
Note: all the family members from my side and her side are fully aware of our relationship and have approved but they are not aware that I have broken up. If you are my shoes will you forgive her for this very last time or will her cheating continues?
Your advise and suggestions will be well appreciated. Thank you

First of all, what's your genotype? And what's hers ?

Medically, are you guys comparable?

First cheating might be considered a mistake.

Second might be seen as incident

Third is a deliberate act. That's who she is.

Just move and never look back. If you have s*x with her now, I get you she will get pregnant. So avoid her and move on

Truth be told, you can never love her same way again. Same with her.

GYBABA:
Are you paid to always be online in Nairaland & to comment on lots of topic? You don't do anything else? Yeah you're free to do as you like & it's not my business but do you gain something else apart from being informed?

How the hell did she do 26 days? And the account joined April this year.

Wooo

What's the benefit?

Wahala

Otulented:
Chai! Most women are evil.

This is not the fault of the woman. Did you read through?

The police is at fault here.

Goods alert

helinues:
Passport renewal outside Nigeria is not that stressful like renewing in Nigeria.

Why?

You sure so

Why do they return to Nigeria to renew?

Ask questions very well.

Some pay as high as 500+ dollars for express. And it still takes weeks. I'm talking few years ago

Wodu89:
The entire nation got changed. You can travel from Lagos to Kaduna or Abuja now without experiencing a single holdup. It has never ever been this way before now

What's your point?

dawnomike:
The life of a man... I hope he's innocent and gets freed soon. If not, he should leti enjoying in jail

I feel it's the wife that sends these girls so they have something to hold. Most sign prenup, so they set the men up

Etc

Whytelyon:
Na matter of time, Man way cheat with you, will cheat to be with another lady. Something way day inside blood , day inside blood.
Make she enjoy it while it lasts. We go hear the story in time to come.

Make he quietly find sponsorship job, or Leave to someplace else. No hard feelings, nothing bad in starting again.

You've said it all

Usefulsense:
I earn a little less than, N1.1m monthly net.
I am a qualified accountant.

But you see, working for a private company in Nigeria, not easy bro.

Apply for leave and travel. See how it is over there( it will surely be better than Nigeria)

Then send in your resignation letter and adapt.

Most women are toxic and ruthless.

The moment they have the opportunity, to deal with you, you're gone

Definitely assisted by an inside job

accordadoga26:
Hmmm.

To all TRULY patriotic Nigerians, please don't lose hope. Nigeria will be great again

How old were you when you started hearing "Nigeria will be great again"?

Then it wasn't as bad as this

MEGA4BILLION:
The woman want to hustle for a while. Papa should understand now

Seconded

Bukola94:
before u see 25k to 30k teaching job here, is like traveling from Lagos to Jos. Over 500 people go apply for 10slots of teaching job. Others private school pay 15k to 18k. U hardly see 10school that pay 40k

Hmmmm


Relocate


I know it's not easy

But please try

CFA don get value pass naira. My God!


Na to leave go neighbouring Africa country first. Then jakpa. My advice to those wey never jakpa

40k for two subjects?

The pay won't motivate you

They're mad

Let's assume it's their daughter, will they be happy?

Natural2Heal:
He is more than 26 years.

You don't know nothing.

He's still 26 till next birthday.

God forbid someone dies few weeks to his birthday, he will be 26

Nice

successmatters:
Wike will be feeling like a 10 foot man now, until they use him finish and dump him like his brother Rotimi. That one head has cooled down a little after they used him like a tool and dropped him like trash when his usefulness was outlived.

You don't know wicked wike

gammarays:
New Age ke
I don commot hand their
I used their 15000 mAh power bank which didn't hold charge.
The first lasted for more than 6 months
The second died under 5 months
The third couldn't charge a 5000 mAh phone ones right from the day I bought it.

Itel power bank is better as I'm managing it now till I get a Romoss beast.

My new age 33,000 mAh still strong and it's over a year now.

None of my oraimo lasted this long.

I still have some Bluetooth headphones that just stopped working. 4 of them

Ntwrk:
aje my oraimo 20,000 mAh powerbank disappointed me after few months. My new itel 10,000 mAh functions better than it.

Oraimo no get durability.

New age is far more better. No comparison self

Game on

Same circle of criminals

Who borrowed the money?

And what was it used for?

Okhuadams:
iru for inside jellof rice haba which kind negative cooking be that

I do eat it raw. It's very healthy