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[quote author=BOSSkesh post=126599436]State of killers and fraudster
Cultists and kidnappers
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Who you expect to reply?

pendusky:
Just vote right next time

Was the last election a joke to you?

AMD?

Funny

Pepperdemisback:
Confused person! Her daughter is still bearing Gentry after the man has divorced her? Why not change the surname to Adeoti again?
How will a single lady defend 3-4 surnames without marriage? Women should think about these?
Congrats to them anyway.

But why are you angry?

Wahala dey oh

Ozommadu:
If you can't make example with yourself it simply means you're biased and dishonest.

You should call it a quit then.

Congratulations 🎉 man, you won.

Let's kill the argument

Ozommadu:
At the bolded, exactly, that's the fact on ground. We can't reject our nwa diala because the father denied the pregnancy or refused to pay dowry.

You refused to answer my question but went ahead to ask yours, I don't know what you take me for?

I told you I can't make an example with my daughter.

Now you just shot yourself on the leg.

I never said the man denied pregnancy or refused to take responsibility.

I said even if the baby daddy took full responsibility, will you people will still claim the child because he refused to marry the baby mama?

That's what I'm asking. That's the topic sir

AImiron:
That’s why we call him Penado and his fans Penadogs.
He will be remembered as the player who scored the most penalties in the history of the game and a ghost when his team faces a tough opponents 😂😂

Most of his goals were against weaker teams both country and club. Imagine e go jump reach sky after scoring against Al Kabiru FC, a team full of non professional players, team wey be say if Barcelona La Masia academy boys catch em dem flog em blue n black. Mediocrity. I wonder why e no see goals score against Morocco

Make una hail the scam lord of the desert 😂😂😂

Sometimes I don't want to comment, buy I had to respond to yours.

Both are great players. I like cr7 cos of hard work, I like Messi because of how gifted he is.

Are you telling you you're just going to look past Spain, France, Germany, Belgium, Netherlands, Russia and co?

Try value that your Nigerian man ohh. Because once him cross enter Yankee, otilo

Ozommadu:
Now, to your question, yes there're plenty igbo ladies who got pregnant out of wedlock and got denied. Some of the men who impregnated them later come back to marry them.

Some married someone else while leaving the child for their parents, some take the child to their new marriage.

Back to your brother, he's just lucky that the girls family is not well to do, if not you dare not try it.

Now answer my question, if you have a daughter who got pregnant and the guy refused to pay dowry buy want to collect your grandchild. What will you do??

So you mean various families of the single mothers took the child. Or the new husband she got married to.

Please stop capping

Back to your question, assuming your daughter got pregnant and the guy refused to pay her bride price, you will claim the child. Right?

Congratulations 🎉 until then. Just pray nothing of such happens to your daughter.

I refused to answer your question because I don't no wish such happens to my daughter. So, I don't want to use my daughter for such an example. I'm not in anyway condemning those that got pregnant out of wedlock.

You've confirmed it that the girls family can only activate such clause when the man in question is poor.

Mind you, it's my brother-in-law and he's Igbo. So he knows the tradition, so why wasn't he forced to marry the girl?

So the girl's family doesn't claim the child.

My colleague is an Igbo girl and her father never married her mother and she answers her father's name.

Like I said, it only works when the man is poor.

Abi Igbo men no dey impregnate other tribe and not marry them?

I hate discussing about tribe and religion because most people tends to see theirs as special and others must obey

That's how you're feeling and thinking now.

Mind you, if the man drag you to court, there's nothing you can do. You can't claim a man's child.
Home or abroad.

Except she no know who give am belle, then the baby can answer your surname.

Ozommadu:
I don't understand your last question sir

Let me ask you too, if your daughter got pregnant for a man who didn't pay any dowry. Will you allow the man take your grandchild from your daughter?? Even though he may be married to someone else??

You see its easy to critisize because she's igbo and she's not your daughter.

In igbo land, the only man that can lay claim to his children is he who has paid a dowry on his kids mother, no matter how rich you are you'll meet ndi nna ochie richer than you.

This particular tradition is very very serious here in Anambra state.

My last question is

Are you saying that there is no Igbo single baby mama out there that the man refused paying her bride price?

Mind you, I got married to an Anambra girl.

One of my brother in-law had a child before he got married to another girl. He is taking care of the child and the child goes to spend holiday with him. Now he's out of the country and the child goes to visit his parents. The child bears his surname!!!

He didn't pay nothing on her head neither did he do introduction.

I already asked him all theses things you're saying now.

Mr man, nobody can convert your child while you're alive. Except the man just choose not to identify with that child.


The culture is actually a good thing, but not the way you're seeing it. So, kindly kill that notion saying because he didn't pay bride price, therefore the kids ain't his.

Believe me, it won't be relevant if the father identifies with the child.

Ozommadu:
Stop formulating stories...how can you live with pesin daughter for 23yrs and you're telling me the family no approve of the union? But they approved staying together for 23yrs?

Think am again, if you impregnate pesin whether you dent it or not, without dowry you can't claim the child in igbo culture...you can still claim them though but after you must have paid dowry fully on the woman's head.

Sir let's not argue about this. Are you telling me if by chance your woman is from the east and she gets pregnant out before marrying her and she puts to bed. Then along the line while preparing for marriage, you found out she's cheating. So you will go ahead and marry her just so you don't loose the child. Right?

If something hasn't happened to you, you won't understand.

That traditional law knows those it can hold bound. Just the way our constitution can't clamp some elite.

In order words, na poor man wey the girl family fit oppress go fall for that sh!t.

So, you're telling me no Igbo that's a baby mama out there that the baby daddy hasn't gone ahead to marry another.

Lol

Ozommadu:
But you wan turn pesin daughter to your baby making machines without even paying a dowry?

Restrict that rubbish to your region and culture

Lol

You just opened mouth waaaaaaaaaaa.

Did you do your research why they can't get married?

If you impregnate a lady and deny responsibility, you have no right to claim the kids.

So if your intentions was to marry her and along the line she cheat or maybe her family no gree approve una union. What will you do ? Leave your child for them based on say tradition talk so?

When you've been doing the needful for your kid.

Think about it

OyeofIkoTuN:
Stop sit at home..

Hahahahahaha..wailers

What side are you on ?

Ozommadu:
The lady is igbo, she still own her children...without marriage no child is yours. Its a simple stuff.

Lol


Tell this to the Rep. And senators members.

The Nigeria law have a construction. Igbo traditional rites can only work if the man is Igbo and choose not to go to court. Lol



I've been saying these things for a long time now. You can't force someone to marry your daughter because they had a child or children together. It won't work!!!

And you can't claim the child

Igbo culture is not the constitution of the federal republic of Nigeria. Know this and have peace

They should start reproducing offspring so as to get more uneducated voters.

SMH

Catholic church is deep.

Hamas and the people of Gaza fell for the trap.

This is so sad

Exactly what I've been saying.

Just like Hamas

Great move.

F**k NATO

Saviourplease:
Good evening house.

I am in a dilemma and I need advice on what to do.

A bit of background about myself: I am a 29 years only child from a very poor background. I work for an IT firm which i joined in 2019 as a graduate trainee.

My total income is around 490k (400k from main job, 90k from a writing side gig).

My challenge:
Recently, My host have told me to look for my accommodation and I have been searching for houses. Unfortunately, the places closer to my places of work is expensive.

I work in VI and the cheapest mini flat I have seen in close vicinity is 1.2M at Ajah.

I also have have a building project I am undertaking in the village that is at roofing stage and my parents have been pressuring me to settle down as the only child.

My dilemma is this, If i go for the house at Ajah, it will eat a bulk of my savings, thereby making it impossible for me to complete the building project or even start the process of settling down.

If I go for a cheaper but farer location, I will be spending more time in traffic.

Please, how do I manage this?

You host has really tried. They actually want you to take responsibility of your living expenses. This will put you in the pathway to becoming a family man.

Get a house in surulere because it's less expensive and close to the VI. You should save and complete your house. Let nobody rush you into marriage. Else, you will rush out

Don't let anyone rush you into marriage. Else, you will rush out.


Your host has tried
They want you to be a man.

Get a house in surulere. With time, get a small car for yourself for your mobility comfort.

Settling down should be last on your list.

If you have someone you're serious with, you can do a court wedding and proceed with your life. When money don plenty, you do wedding ceremony.

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Is this Nollywood?

If yes, where's the complete season? Because this episode too short

Quintopia:
If Aba “don’t make toothpick or pencil”, WHY DON’T YOU set up a small place in your yard and start producing them?

The people that make them in other countries, do they have two heads?

Savage not chilled enough. I didn't feel it.

You can try again.

By the way, I wasn't talking to you Mr spokesperson

TheFreshVanilla:
Those are Aba made.

Yet aba don't make toothpick or pencil ✏️

Dey play

This song is big nau..... phy phy

Always on point

judatech:
Keep the orders coming!
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How far with those that converted their gas ?;