The recognition they deserve? Why does one deserve recognition for having mounds of flesh made presentable by girdles,waist trimmers, brassieres and other forms of packing gears?
In the name of god,men have been slaughtered and will still be slaughtered .In the name of god, Nigerians throng to their worship places while these people loot us dry. In the name of god,they build worship centres for us while we pray for jobs. In the name of god we keep praying for a better country.Nigeria and Nigerians will perish in the name of god.
Izonedexter: Am in a situation where my Friend's girlfriend is into me and as a good friend I don't want to betray his trust,she's been giving me all sorts of choosing signals and body languages I need ur take on this.
Do you value your friendship? If your answer is in the affirmative,there's no point in risking a more valuable friendship to something with little or no value.Do not loose gold to saw dust. If you don't value the friendship then give the pussy what it wants.
You are scared of losing her because you raised her to the position of a judge in your heart and brain.
You are scared of tilting to the right because If you do, a heavy hammer will fall on your head.
You feel threatened because she holds the largest stocks.
You wouldn't have been in this mess if from the onset you proved to be independent and can do with/without any external body. The people that holds the knob of your life dictates your pulse rate; you don't have a say!
Abdulazeez99: The video of late Nollywood actor Rich Oganiru pleading for financial assistance from the public weeks before his death has emerged, Igbere TV reports.
The actor died on Tuesday, August 10 of kidney failure.
The Imo-born veteran who has featured in more than 200 films including Queen Of Aso Rock and Lacrima posted a video where he made an appeal for financial aid.
TheDarkGamer: Actually, I realized some things right now as I was thinking.
There are people here who do not think that women should be successful. Womens success= feminist. I don't share that belief.
Sure, things were a bit better in the era of patriarchy. But, that was an era that favored men because of their physical prowess and logical thinking. Nowadays, technology has made humans evolve. There is no need for men's strength because technology has covered that. Google and the internet has supplemented intelligence, so despite it being important it cannot be as impactful as it was in the past.
Having realized this, technology and the policies these days favor women (or both genders). Women will continue rising in all areas and we have to embrace that whether we support that or not. Sexuality is now exposed and in future, it will be worse. Women will be unashamed of gold-digging and who knows if it will be made a legal profession globally. It has started now. This means, women will keep rising based on merit and sexual favours. Men don't have that advantage.
Females, feminists and other men who do not support the redpill philosophy will ask this question. How do you want to train your daughters? How should your sisters amd mothers be addressed in society? Inasmuch as they ask such questions to guilt trip us and to shame, if we think deeply we cannot ignore the significance of the question.
We all want to our sons to be masculine and able to understand women and life. We want our daughters to be feminine too. But, when they grow older what happens? In a world where females are being led astray by different agendas, how would our daughters fare? They will want to study medicine, engineering, computer related courses, STEM related courses, Arts courses, etc. When they study, they are not pushovers and compete with the best of the best. They will want be successful too. What do we do?
Personally, I think that they should understand their gender roles in their strive for success and relevance.
This is ignored in significantly in a lot of redpill forums, and I understand because the red pill is fundamentally masculine. However, we should not ignore this.
What do you think?
You've stated some points up there,but I don't think *Google and the internet has supplemented intelligence* It has only given us so much information and even sometimes to overload.But we still need to process this information to grow our intelligence.
Infolenka: It's not about being unforgiving. It's about not giving a fuçk enough to care about how she's feeling. It's about being completely closed to the pain and suffering of another human being and just doing what you want or feel like doing. It's about easily moving on from a relationship without regrets because it meant nothing to you, regardless of the pain you might be causing the other person
Only a person who's brain works like this can implement trp principles. Last time I checked the dark triad was an essential component of trp. Well, this is how a dark triad person interacts with his environment.
This is the point I'm trying to make. Sociopaths are dark triad naturally and only them can implement TRP. The rest of you normal people should stop trying to be what you are not. You'll just end up experiencing cognitive dissonance, guilty conscience and struggling to maintain a persona that is at odds with your true nature.
Conscience is malleable,if you tell yourself a lie for long,you start believing your lie.
Infolenka: No offence, but I don't think it's possible for a normal guy to practice some of these TRP principles. Only a sociopath or psychopath can implement trp principles to the full.
If you are capable of genuine love or empathy, it limits the sorts of things you can do to women. If you value things like friendship then you can't really push aside a girl who you've been with for months just because she doesn't do what you want. But a sociopath can easily do this because he doesn't care about anyone but himself. He sees people as objects or toys. He has no empathy and the feelings of others don't matter to him.
A sociopath can ghost a girl that loves and respects him just because she acted slightly inappropriately, even if she apologizes multiple times. Can you guys do this? A sociopath doesn't have capacity for love so he can't even get emotionally invested in a woman. She's just in his life for as long as he needs her. If he is done, he shoves her aside like she's nothing.
Most normal humans post their family pictures and friends on their social media. These things matter them. They remember birthdays and get joy from spending time with other humans. Sociopaths don't feel these emotions. They don't care about other humans. A sociopath can naturally and easily implement TRP principles, but for a normal person, it would at best be a struggle and at worst an effort in futility.
Humans can do and be anything if they have reasons to.Get a hold of Maccavelianism and you will realize the affairs of this world to be a game,in any game nobody has your own interest but theirs.
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heartofcity12: Don’t be like this simp. They’re the reason why females don’t respect men anymore. They’re the reasons why a lot of these females are so entitled now. Simps are the foundation of the problems, they breed low value women.
We should instead be giving him stupidity allowance every day.
I have a story I wanna share here, please I need advice.
There is one girl I've been friends with since when I was in secondary school, we eventually dated for 8months but we broke up after I got admitted.
During the time we broke up, we used to kiss and smooch.
But all of a sudden she stopped, and I later discovered that she went to date my friend after she broke up wit me.
And recently she got admitted into My University and we became closer again.
We do read together and all that.
The main issue now is:
She has 2 other guy that she smashed recently that she just met while me that I've been her friend for over 5 years.
I can't even touch her hand without her getting angry.
But I did something this night, I told her plainly that if she can't allow me to be touching her body and Ass, I don't want to be her friend anymore.
She agreed that I can be touching her other body but not her ASS.
Imagine moving from smooching and kissing a girl to not being able to touch her hand again.
What is the exact thing that I did to Bleep up, so I won't repeat it again?
Should I cut off the friend totally now?
Or what can I do to redeem my self esteem back from the girl?
Good morning. I think you should hang on to her,you might actually get a double promotion from only touching her to putting your D in. Don't also forget to be a shoulder she can pour her sorrows and tears on,be a good man to her and maybe just one of these days,she might just appreciate you with a gift of her wonderful down wet hole................................ *************** Regard all that I wrote up there at your own peril. You can't redeem your self esteem because it was never tied to her. Your self esteem is in you find it!! -- Put yourself first and cut off unprofitable and parasitic relationships. --Get into good physical shape and dress well for yourself. --Treat yourself like you will treat any other person you consider important,because you are so important to your self.
Lessonteacher: I was in a bank today, I was in the room where deposits are being made. When I arrived, the bankers were busy counting the huge cash that was being deposited by several individuals there, and it occurred to me I had a check transfer I needed to make, I now handed the banker the money I had in a nylon bag, and told him "let me go and do the transfer first, then I will come for the deposit" and he agreed, cos he knows my boss. I now went and did the transfer. when I came back, I stood in the middle of the room, I intentionally didn't want to sit down cos I'd been sitting down while I waited . It happened that there was a lady sitting right by my side, so she asked me to sit down. I couldn't hear her initially cos I had my earpiece fixed in my ears listening to the music, she asked me to come and sit down again. I was hesitant to oblige her cos I wanted to be on my own.i now sat down hesitantly. She now said I had to sit down cos I had a long wait to wait , that the money the bankers were counting was huge and besides that she would first be served. I now asked her if she came before me and she said yes, and I said ok,,,. I now jokingly asked her "is it a guarantee that you will be served before me even if you came before me". She said "yes". I asked " what if I bribed the banker" she said "I will report the banker", and I was like "what if I know the bank manager and give him money too ?" She now started saying "I will report this person,I will report that person, I will first be served" I didn't want to argue whether she would be served first,cos I wasn't so much in a hurry. Remember I left the money with the banker I was familiar with,. So when he'd done attending to the customers that with huge cash, he now started counting my cash, the fact being that my cash was in front of him already. Next, the lady I had exchanged words with earlier now got extremely anoid and started taking loud and louder to extent that almost everyone in the room got involved, some of them blamed me though they didn't grab the major situation that led to the argument, while the others were like "yes if you have money in Nigeria you have the power" Now the banks manager came down and asked the banker what was going on and the banker gave him the answer he gave him. The manager now stepped closer to me and told me to leave the room, that they had ethics, he didn't want to listen to my own view, almost immediately the banker now came and handed me the deposit slip confirming the transaction. I said "thank you" left the room immediately. He now came to my office around 5pm after they must have closed (I told him where our office was located) he asked if my boss was around and I said "no" I asked if it was because of the earlier incident that he came , he first said yes that they later queried him. Though he later said no, that he just wanted to see my boss that they were friends.he left after a few minutes of his arrival. After he left I started having feelings whether the incident that transpired between the woman and me earlier in the bank was causing problem. The point of this my write up is that I don't want troubles.should I go to the bank and tell them "I'm sorry for what I said And the way I reacted"? Advise me please
TheDarkGamer: I guess so, but that's not what I was going for. But it depends if you think "mild feminism" is bad. I think the problem is that what we are seeing nowadays is radical feminism on social media. It is far from the idealistic meaning.
I feel feminism should focus on how females can improve on their femininity and support society and not try to be masculine or repress males which is what modern-day feminism is.
Feminism has its merits and demerits, like everything in life. For instance, those that want true patriarchy would have to force women not to work, not to go to brothels (which is partly to a man's advantage because they will want to pay for sex), abolish female education. Have you actually thought about that? Another example is that this society gives men an advantage because anybody can have sex but in a true patriarchal society, only worthy men and successful men will enjoy it. (Think of how marriages worked in the past. If you were useless and a "tramp", who would want to give their daughters to you. But now these hoes can give just about any man that sexual pleasure they desire).
What I don't support is females wanting to play in male sports teams because that is just plain lunacy, gynocentric laws, false rape case allegations, etc. True feminism does not support that and not all females out there support that.
Females should be feminine.
I guess Feminism is a case of paradoxical counter productivity,it's destroying the very women it claimed needed to be saved.
TheDarkGamer: Thank God for some of the recent posts beginning to surface here.
I have unplugged recently and have been trying to live a 'redpilled' life. Thankfully, I still have a long way to go because I'm just 16 but that's not relevant.
I've read almost all the major books,I'm from Rollo's Rationale Male to Sperm Wars by Robin Baker and even The Manipulated Man. I've made some mistakes in secondary school due to simping (maybe I'll talk about that in future) but I'm glad I've discovered the Redpill because now I see things differently and it's very beneficial to me.
One thing I noticed about most redpill threads and forums, especially Nigerian ones, is that when some people talk about women, they tend to take a misogynistic tone. I understand that we live in a fem-centric society and we have been socially conditioned unconsciously to behave in an un-masculine manner (simping) but we have to understand that we don't have to hate women because of that.
Women are still human beings and despite their nature and mannerisms they also have been affected by the societal state too. Handling them requires care and diplomacy because they are herd creatures and they are prepared to support each other despite the party at fault. In certain times in the past, men have been the gender with the most advantage and that favored us but now in this society, we are the disadvantaged ones. Now, I'm not going to suggest that I'm in support of this society we find ourselves in or are gradually finding ourselves in but my point is that to override this and try to create a favorable society for everyone, we need change.
When I read posts by people saying that they are traditionalists and patriarchs, I understand their point of view but personally, I don't believe that society can ever revert back to that phase in time because right now, everyone is exposed. In such times that some people talk about, the men were the pillars of society and everything revolved around them. Women believed (or were made to believe) that they were only useful in the kitchen, during sex or when they could contribute to a man's life. In other words, they were seen as inferior creatures and since the world then relied on the physicality and brute strength of men, the women were sidelined. They had to survive through their cunning and psychological prowess (Seduction comes into play, take Cleopatra for instance).
However, the world has changed vastly and now a man's success in life is not measured by strength but by intelligence which is an area that women can challenge men equally and even surpass some. Technology has leveled that plane for the genders. So, I don't think that patriarchy can truly be reincarnated, an exception may be in religious states and countries but with time, western influence will slowly corrupt their ideals. Women now KNOW that they can be a man's equal if they dedicate themselves to it (intellectually of course).
My point then is that men should not hate women and see them as inferiors, but they should try to level the plane field and make women around them see them as superiors (I hope I'm understood here). True patriarchy cannot come back to the world and the sooner we appreciate that truth, the better we can seek to improve on the areas of life we can actually control. In the 48 laws of power, Robert Greene made a statement that reform/change is something to be done gradually and not with force. If you want to change the way things are, diplomacy and subtlety should be incorporated. When I read about posts and see WhatsApp messages about men forcing the redpill on their girlfriends, I actually smile because I understand Robert Greene.
Your girlfriend, sister or any girl/woman out there will not accept your redpill truths if you shove it down their necks or forced it upon them. On the other hand, if you talk to a female and try to engage her intellectually and make her see your point. Even if she doesn't like it, she will be forced to accept that it is true. And to be honest, why should they accept it? They have been in "bondage" and have recently seen the light so they will want to embrace that "light". Another thing I feel we should all learn is looking at things from both perspectives. Don't always see things your own way, but try to see how it affects others and why they will likely reject your stance.
Take a cue from feminism, it didn't force itself on men but it slowly seeped into the societal fabrics until we were forced to accept it. I don't believe we should hate women or treat them as inferiors but we should make them believe that we are superior and accept us rather than being forced to. I also feel that we should strive to make a society where there is an equal advantage for everyone, not one where men are confined by gynocentric laws and all that( This sounds weird because I don't believe in true equalism but.... I hope I'm understood, that's all). However, this is what I think and we are all entitled to our own thoughts.
Kellzzyy: I've been friends with a certain girl for for quite some time. I invited her over yesterday evening. I initiated sex, she refused. I then had to recourse to 'lamba', telling her all sorts of romantic rubbish and how I loved her more than any other thing in the world. I tried convincing here that I loved her and wasn't just looking for sex.
We were at it for over three hours before I regained my senses. By then she was already conforming to my lies and looked really receptive. She was looking for more assurances of love and commitment from my side and how I will always be there in her financial distress.
Anyways, like I said, I came back to my senses, I told her that I wasn't interested any longer and that she could go. I also told her that this marked the end of our friendship. Even though she hesitated and said use would think about it and give me a reply tomorrow, I told her not to bother anymore.
The truth is, I am at the moment not interested in being in a relationship of any kind with anybody. I was only telling her all that to make her compliant to my sexual advances.
In retrospect, I feel very foolish for spending such amount of time (three hours) on an unproductive venture and for basically begging her to be with me (even though I didn't mean it). The time would have also been better utilized my me in preparing for the pharmacognosy test I just finished writing this morning.
I have read time and time again from caveadullam and others here how it was foolish to prioritize women over your goals or place them on a pedestal. Also on how self respect, self control etc were very important for a man. I spent time yesterday telling her a lot of rubbish that I shouldn't have said. Even when I had a test to prepare for, my urge for sex trumped my seemingly RedPill nature.
I feel so sad, does it mean that all the stuff I've been reading here are not impacting on me? Why did they all fly through the window yesterday? I pray I do well in the test. That'll be my only recompense.
Realizing the "great" extent you went to get a taste of the coochie means great growth ,that is consciousness my brother. It's not easy reprogramming your mind from decades of blue pill conditioning. Take a chill pill then continue taking your redpill after.
It is a case of Us versus Them,though Nigeria may boil,herds men and bandits run around unhindered and unknown gunmen take down the lives of known and unknown people,"true believers" (members of a particular denomination) will come to no harm and will succeed and thrive because "the plans I have for you are for good,to give you an expected end". It's a case of "If you belong here,you are safe, if not you are doomed for destruction". The Lord miraculously always saves his own. Be the lord's own today.
Pricelessfina: Posted on July 4, 2019 annfinaPosted in Opinions So I was having a discussion with my friends yesterday evening. We were actually coming back from work and with the skimpy gown I was wearing; my cleavage was showing a little bit. Not that it was intentional though.
One of my friends was like, “Ann, must you always show off your boobs?” The question actually got me laughing out my ribs and I went all defensive. “No now, I didn’t know my boobs were showing”, I replied while trying to adjust my dress. “Abeg, allow her to show off her asset jaree”, one of them said and everyone rolled with laughter. She continued, “I swear, if I had breast eeh, I just pity guys. Seriously I pity them”. Okay, the girl in question is really skinny with a flat chest and a flat backside. Let’s just say she is like the letter “I”.
“Oh well, that’s why God didn’t bother giving you boobs now. He knows you will misuse the gift”, another girl chipped in and again we laughed.
When the laughter died down, I actually kept thinking about what the last girl said. I mean, God, the supreme being that knows the end from the beginning does not bless us with any gift if he knows we will end up being assholes. Sometimes I imagine that I was late on the last day of creation when God was busy giving out ass to every lady. Maybe we were on a queue and when it finally got to my turn, God paused and looked at me very well then shaked his head and told me to go.
I imagine him saying something like, “Dear creature, it’s not wise to give you this ass, you will misuse it” and I would have shrugged and walked away because well, I was obviously too innocent to understand the importance of having an ass.
But thinking about it now, if God made the mistake of giving me an ass, mehn, I pity guys because many hearts would be broken. I would have been so bitchy that I would have no friends. My motto would have been, “My ass, my everything”. Like, I would have been that stupid. If I had an ass, I mean the one that makes a lady have this hourglass shape, I can’t imagine myself sitting down in a place for long.
I would go for events dressed in my high waist jean and crop top. Heck, I can even go to church dressed like that and when anyone tries to give me that judgmental look, I’d simply tell them that I am only showcasing the handiwork of God. I mean the ass is real and it was singlehandedly given to me by God so why would you tell me to conceal it?
I know I can twerk real good, now imagine I had a good ass for it. I’d probably have a social media handle created for my ass and each morning I wake up, I’d make a video of myself twerking then post it on all the social media handles. In fact, I would be the second “Janemena”.
Sometimes when I see ladies that are fully endowed but still humble, I wonder how they do it. Well, las las, this our God is not stupid sha. He knows the beginning from the end. He knows us better than we know ourselves and he blesses us with gifts that he knows we can handle.
While I was in Law school, there was this guy asking one of my friends out. Dude was really cute with beards to die for. And because he know how cute he was, he kept parading the whole school asking different girls out.
Dude just liked feeling himself but the only problem he had was that he was really close to the ground. I remember one of my friends saying something like, “If this guy was tall eeh, he would have been a chronic playboy”. And that’s true. Perhaps that’s why God didn’t bother giving him a cool height because he knew this dude would actually end up misusing it.
Like I said, God blesses us with gifts that we can handle. For those of us still hustling, sometimes I think God deliberately allows us to hustle real hard not because he can’t bless us with the riches we crave for but because he knows we wouldn’t use it very well when it comes.
So, he let’s us hustle, let’s us climb the ladder of success slowly so that by the time we get to the top, we would have learnt how to appreciate the riches and success handed down to us.
If she reach out first,you may chose to respond or not but do not give out the "I have been waiting for you all my life"vibes.Just be polite but avoid being chitty chatty she might just have one favour to ask from you. If you know you can't play the game,do not respond.
Damn!! What women think we want are actually the things they need us to possess.This is a misthought in blue pilled earth,people project their wants to be what other people want. People do good thinking others will reciprocate same forgetting the fact that we want different things. May The Redpill guide us.
WolandPetrov: Some of the threads are quite useful. But some guys can't even find them a girlfriend, and in this case talking about children is too soon, I think. And if you are one of those guys, then I would suggest you to try online dating. Start with this hinge dating site review and you will be able to start dating today. I'm sure that you will get things right.
While reading Carlos Moore's Fela-This bitch of a life, I caught glimpses of how redpill Fela Kuti was. I just had to bring two quotes here. Hear his opinion on women: SHIT test111 "What I think about women in general is a subject which calls for a colloquium.Women? Mmmmmm! You see, before I used to be afraid of them. That’s how it started. After that, fear changed into understanding. What do I understand about women? First, that they like to be slept with. They like you to make them do things for you. They’re like Satan in that stupid book, the Bible: they like to test you, so that they can get away with something. If you let them get away with it once, you’re in trouble. But if you stop them from getting away with it, then they’ll stop."
The second opinion of his bordered on how he controls his wives. Hear him: " Do I find living with them difficult?Naaaaah. I love it.It's not difficult at all. It's difficult if you don't think of them or deal with them as women. Now, if you put them in the same frame as men,then it would be difficult.But I don't do that, man."
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