Politics › Re: Hundreds Sleep On Maiduguri Streets For Fear Of Boko Haram by Mrflyguy: 2:08am On Feb 19, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Hundreds Sleep On Maiduguri Streets For Fear Of Boko Haram by Mrflyguy: 2:06am On Feb 19, 2020 |
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Travel › Re: UK Police Give List Of Nationals Who Are To Register With Them. Nigeria Excluded by Mrflyguy: 4:37pm On Feb 04, 2020 |
Optional09: bullshit Why bullshit . It shows that we are not a threat to the UK . I dont know why Donald Trump is painting us bad |
Crime › Re: Gunmen Attack Kwatas, Bokkos In Plateau, Kill Many (Graphic Photos) by Mrflyguy: 2:42pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
I dont know why federalism is so difficult to accept by the FG .
Let the south break away from the north and this issue will be a thing of the past |
Family › Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by Mrflyguy: 5:05pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
Queenellahrose: I’m writing with so much pain in my heart because my only child is giving me lots of trouble. She is 14. Ever since I had her, I cannot conceive again. My husband and I went trough lots of tests we are all okay and perfect so we had to accept that God wanted us to have one daughter for now and we are still believing God for more children. Where do I start we are Nigerian leaving outside of Nigeria (African country) for the past 8 years we also took along my husband niece who is now 17.
My daughter was a very nice and obedient child working hard at school and has always been making us proud but everything changed when she turned 11 years. She started getting in trouble at school, my husband and I are always called for meeting about her not working well and fighting with her classmates and she gets punished almost everyday. We as parents had heart to heart talk. She had made clear that she doesn’t like school and want us to enrolled her at music and dance school. She was only 12. Me and her dad were against it. we had convinced how important education and all we want is the best for her to finish school to have a better job and she can do her music and dance too later.
She was okay and we kept encouraging her and praying for her, things started to get a little bit better even school complained become less. Three week ago I usually leave the house at 6am for work, hubby leaves before me and the kids were still at home getting ready for school and around 11am I received a called from the police asking if I’m mrs o and chi mum I said yes I started panicking because I thought maybe she had an accident or something, the police officer asked me to come at the station.
I rushed there and what I heard broke my heart in pieces. He explained to me that my daughter and niece and other girls were caught at a hotel with boys smoking, drinking and having sex. Actually somebody called the police because they had noticed that under age children entered the hotel which is an offence so when the police came, they had arrested all of them and took them to the station requesting them to give parents details and that’s how they contacted me .
I was ashamed and couldn’t controlled my tears. I wept bitterly because when I thought my two girls are angel in fact they were doing the unthinkable. I bailed both of them and I just hated them I didn’t even talked to them to avoid beating them badly, but later when hubby came I didn’t hide anything from him. He was so angry that he flogged them mercilessly, I felt bad for them but they both deserved it. We took their phones away, tablets and TV in their room and they are banned from going outside apart from school and when they both get back from school they will eat and go and spend the rest of their day in their bedroom until nighttime.
My husband blamed me for everything saying it’s all my fault those girls are becoming bad. The truth is he is the one that has been spoiling them with expensive phones , tablets and designer clothings and pocket money. I was against him pampering them so much because I knew it will come to this but he has always told me he works hard for his children to have better things and now they had become bad, he has put all the blames on me forgetting that it’s all his faults.
We are not in talking terms for three weeks and he is not eating my foods anymore. The whole things just gives me headaches and sleepless night, it’s almost 3am I can’t sleep my head wants to explode with too much thinking. Monitoring of kids nowadays is very important. You guys leave the house as early as 6am and leave the 2 girls all alone to fend for themselves. When they come back from school none of you guys is home . They are young and naive so guys will take advantage of their freedom to do all kind of nonsense . Please spend time with your kids , withdraw them from their present school and enroll them in a school close to your place of work where you can drop them in the morning and pick them when you close for work . Above all , please pray to God to direct your family . |
Business › Re: I Released My House Document To My Cousin To Obtain Loan, How Can I Get It Back? by Mrflyguy: 7:34pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
chukwugoziegi: You released your house documents for someone to use it and borrow loan from the BANK! WOW! I honestly pity the guy and he did it out of good gesture . |
Education › Re: Sidi Osho: Professor & VC At ABUAD, Then Demoted To A Dr. At OOU. Then Sacked by Mrflyguy: 8:47am On Jan 23, 2020 |
Our educational system in Nigeria is questionable. Thisnmy be born out envy and jealousy of colleagues that now see her as their boss in OOU . If she wasn't a brilliant lady , she wouldn't have gotten to the post of a senior lecturer easily .
Looking at this lady , she is still young . The same envy that will make a lecturer or professor not to give a brilliant chap all round As because they didn't get an A during their days in the university. |
Politics › Re: Dino Melaye Poses In His House (Photos) by Mrflyguy: 12:19pm On Jan 22, 2020 |
herzernIsHere: Black man with a black brain. He is not suppose to have a white brain before. He is a black man and sometime need to think |
Politics › Re: Boko Haram Kills Lawan Andimi, Kidnapped CAN Chairman In Adamawa by Mrflyguy: 12:29pm On Jan 21, 2020 |
Honestly , The solution to this menace is to your tent o Israel. How could you kill a nigeria because someone in Syria was killed .
The handiwork of our politicians have come to killed the innocent citizens .
Rest in peace |
Career › Re: I Commented 'What A Nice Picture' On My Boss' Photo And She Is Taking It Up by Mrflyguy: 10:45pm On Jan 20, 2020 |
Instead of you to mind your business you ... why cant just look and move ahead instead of commenting? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ex-President Mohammed Morsi Dies In Court In Egypt by Mrflyguy: 9:46pm On Jun 17, 2019 |
post=79420737: His days on earth is complete.
Alll the evil politicians and leaders that raped and looted our nation and brought us to the hardship we have gone through as a nation, The people that stole and stashed away the monies that would have developed our nation thousand of times more than the way we are...may they never end well in life. Miserable end awaits them all.....as long as you stole from the coffers of the government, (our national treasury) whatever political party you may be now, you can never escape this.
God bless Nigeria.
God bless you sir. Nigeria will be great again.
Amen. Amen and A BIG AMEN. Amen . So shall it be |
Celebrities › Re: Fans React To Hot Photos Of Actress, Sharon Francis Looking Like A Chinese Lady by Mrflyguy: 10:18pm On Dec 12, 2018 |
kelzek: OK
In other news: do you have a project that needs funds without interest or collateral, check my signature Funds without interest or collateral in this country ?This is too good to be true . |
Phones › Re: HTC Makes One Final Attempt At Survival By Releasing The HTC U12 Life. by Mrflyguy: 4:12pm On Sep 01, 2018 |
AwesomeDuru: 3600Mah battery? When will all these so called 'big' phone makers have sense? Hian... Most of these phone from the western world are not made for African . |
Science/Technology › Re: Man Goes To Repair His Fridge, When They Told Him The Price, See What He Did Nex by Mrflyguy: 4:18pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
Skylarking: And then the LG personnel will work on the TV, resold it and pocket the money. Na you lose. Same as the Twitter guy. it's even better he left it with them .he bought TV for 60k and he should repair it at 74k when you can buy a new one at 60k and still collect change . |
Christianity Etc › Re: RCCG Bans Long Beard At Weddings (Beard Gang Grooms And Groomsmen) by Mrflyguy: 9:18am On May 27, 2018 |
Earthbound: Even Jesus wore long beards. How did you know |
Family › Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Mrflyguy: 6:10am On May 25, 2018 |
All in the name of money. You disrespected yourself and your village. Go find a job and take charge of your house |
Celebrities › Re: E-Money Shows Off His Parlor In New Photos by Mrflyguy: 7:04pm On May 07, 2018 |
thorpido: Expensive furniture no doubt but something doesn't gel with the colour combinations in the sitting room. The tiles spoit it |
Food › Re: Man Buys Frozen Meat That Was Produced 15th Of March (Photo) by Mrflyguy: 7:55pm On Mar 07, 2018 |
Why do we condemn this country Nigeria easily. That thing was produced in Ghana and not Nigeria |
Politics › Re: Sing National Anthem In Yoruba Daily, Gov. Ambode Tells Lagos Principals, Teache by Mrflyguy: 7:50am On Mar 07, 2018 |
Gabbysky: You can speak your Yoruba all you like, but any teacher that teaches any of my children that useless language that we will never be interested in, will be sevchildren dealt with. I have already warned them. They should pass my threat to Ambode Mr oga, Take your children to your village. It is not by force they school in lagos |
Family › Re: Man Dumps His Blind Wife In Port Harcourt, Packs Out Of His Home With Housemaid by Mrflyguy: 10:08am On Feb 22, 2018 |
Rucheen: You're blind and still has feminist tendencies
Na only you get the child?
If na him blind you for gree marry am?
Abi even if say you be Queen of England, you think say to marry blind easy? Oga take am easy. In Benin city here there is a couple that the husband is blind and they are happily married |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Photos From Florida High School Shooting That Killed 17 And Injured 50 More by Mrflyguy: 3:49pm On Feb 15, 2018 |
alexistaiwo: And some people be rushing to go overseas There's no Paradise on earth. Just endure wherever you find yourself. With 1 hour light everyday, bad roads, poor social amenities in this shithole. Abeg Nigeria is the real hell fire. |
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Investment › Re: We Need Contacts Of Distributors/suppliers Of UK Diapers by Mrflyguy: 9:06am On Jan 15, 2018 |
psamfo: Can anyone help with distributors /suppliers contacts for UK diapers? Pampers, asda little angels, toujour, mamia, boots? Please note that this is for distributors, not wholesalers. Thank you. Hi, Are you looking for distributor here in Nigeria or UK |
Business › Re: 7 Basic Steps To Improve Your Financial Condition In 2018 by Mrflyguy: 12:43pm On Jan 13, 2018 |
Preetiex: for inside 15,000 salary, u go enter motor,chop food,buy recharge card & other little tins,how u wan safe for dis buhari change hardship Even if its 2000 that you can save in a month from that your 15,000 . it is always good to have savings |
Politics › Re: IGP, Idris Apologises For Comment On Benue Killings by Mrflyguy: 7:32pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
SalamRushdie: He was only speaking the mind of his employer That was what he told his employer . failed to carry out thorough investigation before concluding |
Career › Re: Delayed Payment Of Gratuity: What Does The Law Say? by Mrflyguy: 8:54pm On Jan 07, 2018 |
I think you should visit the company in person first . if they refused to attend to you the meet a lawyer to write them . |
Nairaland General › Re: Corper Ebere Christian Dies In Accident Along Minna Road by Mrflyguy: 1:51pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
NaoSlay:
RIP, Nigerian roads are hell, death traps, I blame President buhari and the minister for this. My soul share grieve with the family of the deceased.
Nigerian roads are bad but we also have careless and reckless commercial drivers everywhere |
Family › Re: Nigerian Nanny Gets $121,000 Pay Check From Oppressive Nsobundu Couple by Mrflyguy: 1:47pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
DaddyFreeze: Well, of what use is the money to her when it's certain she wouldn't make good use of it at the end of the day.
Nigerian Court of law wouldn't make this mistake. Jailing those two idiots is enough but 44million? That's too much for her... Did you even read the news at all . abi you Don smoke gbana ni |
Family › Re: My Marriage Has Finally Ended by Mrflyguy: 10:31pm On Jan 05, 2018 |
SIaye: Guy come naija make i give you charm for free when you use go use tie your wife well she will never misbehave, she will forever love you. Nor be long story, if you need come get it, i know how it feels to be in love and your partner they misbehave that's why I want to help you if you need it. Don't mind this guy o . |
Politics › Re: Looters: Release Electronic Records Of Those Arrested - Falana Tells AGF by Mrflyguy: 11:49am On Dec 29, 2017 |
simonlee: It's like asking a mother to name all her children who are thieves in the market square.... it will not happen at all! As far as I'm concerned, all APC members are saints as at now, until 2019 when Atiku gets there! Who's with me?  Nobody is with you |
Politics › Re: Femi Falana Protesting Fuel Price Increase By Jonathan In 2012 (Throwback Pic) by Mrflyguy: 4:16pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
EMMAUGOH: Read your post again.... This time use ur sense to compare it with the topic.....
The question is why has all yorouba Elites gone to sleep? But where active during Gej tenure. The reason why they are silent is simple . most Yoruba elites are APC . during GEJ regime they were in the opposition party but now they are ashamed that this issue is happening again . |
Family › Re: Woman Who Suffered To Give Birth To A 4.2kg Baby Celebrated By Brother (Photos) by Mrflyguy: 10:02am On Nov 02, 2017 |
Keneking: Amazing...Igbos are doing very well So, Igbo's bear Obele ?. |