₦airaland Forum

alert01:
OMG. I've always been a doormat for girls with nothing to show for it. they friendzone me and eat my money anyhow. There was this neighbor of mine then. she was a student and she was very beautiful. She manipulated me , always caressing me with breast qnd the mumu me will start acting her biddings. I bought phone for her early last year. Renovated her room and she always eat from my foodstuffs. She barely suffer anything. what pained be is another guy was chopping her. feeding him with my food. Anytime I talk about it, she'll vex and the mumu me will still be begging her. she won't listen until I sent her money and she get the alert. The only perk I gained was touching her breast once. I can't cry

luminouz:
But you just did!!!

That makes you MÁD too!!!

luminouz:
Shūt dafuq up!!
We both know she wants him back and is why she is behaving like a sow in heat,not because she loves him but still wanna use him like before. Dont suggest anything to him biko. Let him keep his silence,sooner or later ,she go get the necessary sense and move on.
Amicably kee u dia

Youngjohnosas:
m surprised, I don't even know if she exists anymore, she has called me over 5 times today, she is now acting like a saint but local man is not doing again.

Youngjohnosas:
it's a misery, women r just too complex to understand.i dated my ex for 3 years and fell so much in love with her because she was so understanding and nice.i messed things up by becoming too nice to her.Each time we had a disagreement she would always play d victim even when it was obvious she was clearly at fault, sometimes she would boastfully say she doesn't know how to say sorry to a guy.

it started degenerating that most times she did something wrong and I yelled at her,she would block my lines for days that I had to resort to asking my friends and siblings to beg her on my behalf because I felt I was a nice guy.it got into her head and she started misbehaving badly and on some few occasions I broke up with her but I couldn't even stay for two hours without hearing her voice, so each time I felt she was using me and broke up she won't even bother to say sorry because she knew I couldn't stay without talking to her.

I stumbled on a post here on nairaland and a particular comment got hold of me,that the only way to earn a woman's respect is to make her feel worthless and undervalued.the following week she did something outrageous and didn't even bother to apologise she was waiting for me to do the needful by calling her,yeah I did call her but to inform her I wasn't interested in the relationship anymore, she laughed and said ok thank you.

that day I was restless and couldn't eat, the urge to call her was very high but I resisted it and held on for 7days, on the 7th she called and was like so u are this heartless,I posted that I was sick on my WhatsApp status and u didn't even bother to check on me ,I just laughed and she angrily ended d call thinking I was going to call her back but I didn't.

two days later she called again and was like are u like this now, I was just laughing and ever since she has been calling over and over again.the day I mistakenly called her number and quickly ended d call she called me back over 10 times pleading that she wasn't with her phone when I called.

last night she opened up and pleaded and pleaded that I should forgive her and I told her I wasn't interested anymore,at some point she would angrily end d call and later call back to start pleading, this morning her elder sister and brother called me trying to show concern although they didn't mention her name, Right now she has dropped a lot of messages on WhatsApp .I am really surprised although I am never going back to her again.thanks nairaland.

MOnkeyBabe:
I Don't know if you are a ChRiStian. And your OPinion may be BiaSed. Maybe being a Good Guy whose feelinGs have been huRt. But what if God Sent that GooD girl to the BaD Guy on PuRpOSe to change them.

SweetCunt97:
two extra mouth cos the woman na handicapped and hungry na.. She no fit support ba.

Righteousness89:
This was a Man that lived Selflessly!

I Pray He Made Peace with GOD and Accepted JESUS CHRIST one way or the other..

Such good hearts should not leave this World without JESUS..

Good deeds and Being Good are Wonderful but the Truth is that they don't give us Access to Heaven..

Beliving and Accepting JESUS CHRIST is the Only way to Escape Eternal Destruction..

John 14:6

Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.

KaideeGee:
You had beta have that baby oh
It is beta 2 be guilty of incest dan 2 be guilty of incest and child murder

Pegi23:
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He won't and you didn't either..this world is too small period. I pity u both

utenwuson:
Women who married as virgin shouldn't be shouting I was a virgin I was a virgin.... It's not only virginity that keeps the home, most people who marry as virgin don't date the man they married so they hardly understand him....

The day I off was the day one woman was disturbing her husband with I was a virgin before I married you bla bla bla... And the husband gave her a punchline.... Yes... You were a virgin before I met you simply because no sane man could indulge you, you even need to pay me by indulging you... I off....

Mrshape:
He is in SS3, they might change the age of university admission to 15 years in Nigeria because youths starts at 15 now in Nigeria,
So I don't see why a youth can not be admitted to the university

LtCZAR:
This was how close I could get to the scene, Our Prayers should be for the girls of Bethlehem Secondary School. The school was brought to ground by the explosion

daewoorazer:
U may not be pampered, but having a lot of ‘iya oko’ is a red flag for ladies......

A lady is a cancer to another .... that’s how women reason....even nowadays, ladies hardly keep female friends

mormoney85:
stop talking about something you don't know, not this kind of snake that produces the oil is (eke ogba) meaning anaconda

bukatyne:
For me, Capital No.

When we are building our house by God's grace, our room would be massive.

Some couples share a room and have another room where the wives put their stuff.

J111333:
It depends on the wife.
With wives like Ishilove and Pocochantas, I won't even live in the same village with them.

They like money too much and I keep all my money in a nylon bag tied to my waist, don't wanna die in my sleep biko.

James289:
It is good and at the same time it is not good, it depends on the relationship.
Nagging wife... Yes
Drunker husband..Yes
Bed wetting wife..Yes
Smoker husband..Yes
Cheating couple..Yes
They're just living together for the sake of their children not for love
But in relationship where there are love, respect, caring, cleanness, ...No.

Ivebeenbanned:
Shut you smelling mouth up. If leadership is necessary then let your wife lead. Don't mention me in this rubbish thread again. Idiat.

Ivebeenbanned:
Shut you smelling mouth up. If leadership is necessary then let your wife lead. Don't mention me in this rubbish thread again. Idiat.

frankony2001:
I took time to read your writeup and I appreciate the time you spent to do it. But there are some areas I could not agree with you. In some areas you encouraged the wife not to be submissive to the husband. When a wife does not respect or submit to the husband, there are bound to be problem in that marriage. I'm speaking from experience. I have been married for eighteen years now.

dinachi:
My dear, your mentality belongs to the 18th century!

Every Nigerian Girl who passed through secondary school in the late 90s are lesbians , go and ask.

professore:
Although that part that suggests courtship involves free sex does not support the godly aspect you introduced later. Apart from that, your write up was beautiful.