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dinachi:
Nice ideas I must say! But all these will never work with the high rate of lesbians in Nigeria right now!

Where is your source of information from?

Netblyss:
Wow! Just wow! Just look at what you just typed.
Those women who won't sit down and take this "rubbish" where are they now?

I think you need to get off your high horse.

Marriage is a partnership quite all right but whether you like it or not someone must lead and that some one is the man.
Being led is not a bad thing and that is why we must always pray for a good and morally upright man.

In every association, there must be a leader else anarchy

Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you. you are wise among your mate

Ivebeenbanned:
Stop seeing marriage as a Boss-employee relationship but rather as two friends...PARTNERS that chose each other. Women don't need leadership, keep thinking like this your marriages will keep ending.

What do girls mean when they say "be a man" or "you're the man here" or something like that ?

No matter how u view it, where 2 or more are without something/one like a head or a figure of representatives is bound to end in chaos.

Do you even leadership? or the definition ?
does that take away friendship from any union?

Relax Lady.

otherway:
Hmmm! this your story gives me a sweet nostalgia.

Met my woman a day after her 19th birthday and I am 8years older having met her when I was 27 and guess what? I married her at 33 After 6years of courtship and 18years down the line we are still waxing stronger.

So you no get any reason to worry but just be mature enough to cope cos she was so naughty at the beginning but I coped.

naughty? in what aspect Sire - if you will permit me asking

this one is lost. forget it. old habits are hard to unlearn or break

EVILFOREST:
I learnt that there is a PASTOR that alters SEX of BABIES In DELTA..
Precisely, The MILITANT PASTOR in Delta State.
Why not patronize him and see what he will make out of it...?
Don't come back here crying he has turned your babies into ORANGUTANS...

Take the advice of Evil Forest at your own peril .

Nonsensetalk:
.... If trailer jam her nw...una go dey blame village pple...

why trailer go jam her... �

Money answerth all things!

The girl way sabi..
Pap is life..

she was advised to take the tweet down she refused. as it is now, The man has left her because of this tweet.

ozodigboo:
Lol.
You guys believe any fake story.
A naija woman who got married can never admit this rubbish.
She will take her secrets to the grave

lol, I laugh at your ignorance . she was advised to take the tweet down she refused. as it is now, The man has left her because of this tweet.

SyrusdeHansome:
Now him don mention 4mil u don start to Darling him. Poverty is worse than coronavirus.

lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol

Sermwell:
bro I followed this thread from page one and I must say your attitude towards your brother wasn't right at all!!!
I have a cousin who was seriously in need to the extend that he came to stay with me in school with his fiancé. I was a student and struggled so hard to take care of them for 2yrs. Almost everyone in my hostel asked me to send them away but I didn't. After about 2yrs of staying with me, he got a contract as a ship cleaner.
last year December after my call to bar, he called me and said he has something 'small' for me, and asked me to send my account details. Like a dream, this guy transferred 4million naira to my account(an amount I have never made in my entire life). I was dumbfounded!! I cried when he reminded me of the sacrifices I made when he and his fiancé were staying with me in school!

did you also read where he said that he had set the brother up different times?

Reading this was a pleasure.
I hope and wish for just half of your intellect and wisdom then, everything will fall in place.
You are an inspiration.

what happened to the children now?

Mariangeles:
One moment you're so sensible, the next moment you go just fall hand finish

When was he ever sensible ? check well.

nuelsam:
quite fascinating

Truly it's.

inspector1:
Bro all Nigeria University accept 2.2 for postgraduate study. Even unilag accept a friend with 2.67 for MPA.
Relax ur mind and prepare ur self for the program, your cpga is quite above nigeria University requirement for postgraduate study.

lies

People ask stupid questions most times.
Reject the job. It's not good for you. Wait till you get the one that pays 300k. Just wait.

it's a sad story.

The splitting of Mass communication has not take effect yet till next 5 year according to the new. You are just giving yourself headache.

airminem:
I start to cry profusely

lol lol lol lol

Which forgiveness is she begging for ?

She has made her choice to settle down with the other guy nah, Abi she want to marry both of una ?

If you are not ready to settle down, I suggest you let this girl go else. You will get hurt again when she leaves again - because she will.

Lekside442:
shes just 20

lol lol lol lol

I smell lack of communication between you and your wife from here!
fix it.

mikezuruki:
you made a whole lot of sense. Thanks.

I am particular about his parents giving their blessings. I have told him. We have been telling ourselves as friends the truth no matter the situation.

Going ahead without parents consent and blessings is wrong

It's a good thing that you told him your feelings about his parents not accepting and approving his marriage. He knows your stand already base on that.

You have justify yourself with that act and have made a case for yourself in the future about the situation of his marriage now.

Now, does that stop you from attending the ceremony and being there for your frien?

Are you the one blessing the marriage?
are you going as the parents representative or are you going as his friend?

I don't think his family decision about his marriage concerns you as his friend.

That your wife is using that tears and new attitude to manipulate you bro.
In fact, you should insist that she but that dress for the help and apologize to you : 1st, for not doing as you instructed even after giving her enough money for the instruction; 2nd, for accusing you of having an affair with the help girl! what maddnes!

MizzPhoney:
Do I sense a compatriot in this? Talk to me Bro.

compatriot lol.

There's nothing to be proud of here. but, 4 times is not too exaggerated not to have believed.

MizzPhoney:
First of all Bro I find it hard to believe you masturbate 4 times a day. I see all you need is a job that keeps you too busy and tired at the end to even think of having an orgasm. You need to limit the times you spend alone. Get a good habit, if you have so much time in ur hands, spend it with people, go to the field, learn to jog and above all, pray. As you walk, lay down, just always have a word of encouragement for yourself. Tell yourself you can do it. It is not going to be easy, but who needs easy? You're a man! control! Tell yourself that everyday! Be strong! You can do this

I laugh when you said you don't believe he did 4 times a day.

Lol lol.

Was this agreement imposed by you or she ? if by you, was it mutually agreed by both of you? if by she, then, I hate hypocrites!

Slimsly100:
Bruh, I had to use my 6th Sense. My sister dated her ex for 10 whole years and the wacki human being just woke up one morning with no excuse and dismissed the union with a wave of the hand. Despite mum's warnings she stood by the guy like a rock. She went through hell with him starting from when he was just a boy serving his master. He grew big started making money and that was it. I saw and watched my lively sister's life fall into pieces then, we all contributed to her recovery. As Good will have it, her very own husband came and she's bless with three lovely kids now.



Moral: I wasn't gonna wait for something similar to happen to me. It wasn't easy but I had to let go

You are wise truly! Learning from experience of others is the best lessons one can get. I'm glad your sister is well off now.

Good riddance to bad rubbish indeed. stay safe.