chriskosherbal:
Let me share my little thought on this :. Now there is NO woman that don't like sex, however three things can make a woman dislike sex.

1. She is a virgin ...you can't simply like what you have not eaten, no matter how good a soup smells, you still have to taste it to determine if it's sweet or not.

2. Rape/ Bad sexual event of the past: This can make any woman dislike sex, cos it's just keep reminding her of what she is trying to forget .

3. Below Par performance from her spouse: This is one of the major cause why many married women rejects sexual calls from thier below par performance hubby, and get it outside, these below reasons can further butress the above

3(a) he is faced with constant quick ejaculation and weak erection ....popularly known as the indomie men.

3(b)lack a good understanding of sex as well as thier spouses core areas of sexual pleasure, these men even if they last in bed don't really know how to manipulate thier way ( in terms of skills & positioning) through the woman's virgina bringing about the desired orgasm that she seek.

Be that as it may, sticking to point 3, a woman should be able to communicate with her hubby if she is not getting it properly and tell him what to do per time before, during and after sexual intercourse.

However, op with statement like this coming from your wife..."Always giving excuses. At night, Am tired. In d morning, go work abeg others have left and making money and it here looking for who to ram." am sorry op I doubt if she loves you deeply.

Op do this ..

- ignore her for sometime, I mean avoid being too needy sexually, just pretend you don't need it anymore & put up a smiling face while doing it ...watch her reactions for sometime.

- op, for God sake can you allow her do the buying of those food items herself, it's like you are spoiling her, she sees herself as the price..she maybe feeling like queen of England ( of course she is Queen, no disrespect).

- Deliberately delay the upkeep money you give to her all the time, making up some excuses for it, and reduce the attention and hype you give to her.

- spoil yourself a little, change your fashion sense abit, wear sneakers, neat jeans, t-shirts, knickers with sneakers, get perfumes that smell well...just look more polished ...nice gold chains ..let her feel Jealousy that anoda woman might steal you outside .


If she does not respond to the above after a period of time ...then op am sorry She ain't love you.

Op If you get sense, follow this write up. Best I read on this topic. You deserve a gold medal for Thai especially the part of looking good and trending.

First to comment and dedicate it to Allen Onyema. #SayNoToHateSpeech

Hedonini:
Hope it's not true. Totally unnecessary and high handed on the part of the owner.

If i was the one, i will do more. You don't know how my nicca suffer build that house.

No one like you by Eben Lover of my soul Elijah Oyelade God of everything by Samsung ft Eben Happiness by Frank Edwards

Dom Dom wey my share？

YNWA

This one that is suppose to pray to God for mercies still dishing out terms & conditions.

Mama jam jam where is papa jam jam to confirm this story

daddytime:
Kill her..joking oo

I no even understand how and why una dey mumu for women matter aswear....women wey jabrata for town sotey e don become buy one get two free?

You were/are dating an unrepentant whoring bitch who'd never change. You'd be doomed if you wifed this bitch.

Her actions were premeditated without any recourse or remorse to your feelings.

She isn't sorry for cheating on you...she's mad at herself for getting caught and busted because she'd be losing all the goodies from your end with which she and her original boyfriend were flexing on.

You were just a spare tyre means to an end funding another man's pussy and paying him handsomely for fuckiing his own pussy indirectly.

To the pit latrine girl...her question would be " why didn't I carry my brother along in this work" she'd have a hard time forgiving herself but she has learnt a new lesson for her next victim. Her work for never tear and you for still dey for e-dating (whatever that means). Me I dey live for real world and deal with every issue as such.

For your mind you get babe for Nigeria...how a man who is awoke will buy a story of my cousin slept in my house so so and so time is mind boggling.

The other part wey make me laff come pee for body...na say na the number of times wey she Bleep una come dey argue about...whadaheck? This just gave me an idea to develop an app or meter that could tell how many dickks has gone in and out a pussyy same for a dickk...na you go be my first customer for this amazing product wey I wan invent...

Are there no women in your neck of the woods in the Abroad.

Me thinks only weak men who are looking for some cheap naive girls who they can impress and oppress with whatever opt for this kinda mail order bride arrangement.

Find woman around you wey dey see the same kevel wey your eye dey see marry am you and am go work well because you both know whats up...

Anywhere wey man dey fit make him life get sense na im be him Lagos or abroad o...

Na toilet full the streets pass these days I don tell una...
I hail una...

You must shine eye for today's world like my daughter here...

I just reregistered into nairaland to like your post. You said it all and it's as dope as this pix

DanielOc:
The Real CHANGE is Here......


People are wiser now....

When Buhari fails to win this forthcoming [2019] Election, no President, i repeat, no President will ever be graced with 2nd Tenure....

People got tired of Good man like Jonathan, he was voted out(6 yrs)..

Now people are tired of the Lifeless one, and about to be thrown out (4 yrs)...

After that, People would not have patience for, even, the 4 yrs anymore...

It'll be,

as soon as you Bleep-up,

IMPEACHMENT FOLLOWS.............

REVOLUTION LOADING 98%:::::...

Abeg you for add jail after the impeachment straight up!
Nice piece

people are telling me I need to know someone to help me

post=69597040:
Enough of all these publicity stunt about this track please.

Lol...as in eh thing tire me. Yes the track make sense but it haff do. I prefer the one Diceey...keys to house

Hey folks let us try it one more time...
like for Ronaldo and share for Michael Jackson
Let's go there!!!

That is 42million naira as at then, if you convert it we talking about 10billion

Selebobo

kimbraa:
Oga, go and rest, and stop looking for who to turn into your cook.

Nne ayaf tell u finish...if u know, u know

Assurance Porsche Chioma is all we have been hearing and seeing since yesterday. Every guy that is truly in love(like me) will ascertain that it takes more than just sex to keep a man. Sister learn how to COOK too! This is a picture of some of the palatable dishes Chiom Chiom use in securing her life time insurance.

God of Miracle. U re bless my brother
[quote]


make the blessing fall on us

Mariangeles:
Men need money to feel powerful, confident and rest assured...with a lot of money they believe they can keep a woman, especially a very beautiful woman.
In this case, the man probably isn't rich and fears some rich guy might come and steal his wife away...insecurities!

Lol

Just her number, already saved her in my heart

BIGGMAMA:
Marriage never end so?

Yelz *in Falz voice*

Can anyone imagine how full this church service would have been if he had won?


Human beings are associated with success & thus it draws more crowd

I saw 4 children as she small so

Phyno onye egwu

Always with the dark shades

For months unending I have read every thread and Comments here in this forum because I couldn't acesss my account but thank God I got it back. Happy Sunday Everyone and I can boldly say...no single day goes by without me logging into this interface. Long live Nairaland

I took d pains to read all d comments posted on dis thread n I mst confess Seun abi Senu ur rili fuckin up big time!! I 1st visited dis site in on 18th march 2007 n since then no day passes by witout me visitin here n also introduced frnds n relatives here n all dat was cos of d funny comments bt since u nw wana ban then consider u losing plenty 'customers'.
And I will still ask...
How does dis affect d price of garri!!!

Psquare is realyy taking dis whole stunt far, dats rather too childish joor! Mr May D i see u yor

Oga cosmic or cosmos wey u na cos sleep don d catch me n I been wan see u b4 goin 2 bed,sha its like hold-up 4 mars or it took lagos-ibadan highway n d go-slow there na die. Cosmic stuff catcha lera cos it also applies african time*yawns*

Kingsleyinfo: @topic
I beg to differ with the content of your letter.
Firstly we men need to stop whining about women being materialistic,
We must understand that our culture and society has shaped the way we view issues.
In everyday relationships we see this same circle repeat itself.
Who amongst us guys would not prefer to hang out with a wealthy uncle, friend, or accomplished dude,
Who amongst us will not prefer to be friends with dangotes' son or be best friends with the presidents nephew,
Amongst us guys, isn't it true that the more successful a friend is the more attracted you are to them?
Who amongst us will be attracted to a guy who from a distance seems like he has nothing to offer us as a friend.
Let's face reality friendship and relationships of today are simply geared towards what one can get, while he can get it.
Very few relationships either male or female are targeted towards personality, rather its always about what I can get.
How many of us care about character when choosing friends, how often do we consider credibility, and integrity in making choices of relationships,
The truth is that when a relationship doesn't develop through the normal cycle, distrust, manipulations, and counter accusations become the other of the day.

When I was little I had friends who will only visit me when there was electricity... So we could play video games, others will come around because there was always free food, people become friends for different reasons.
So its the society we live in that has made girls to look like good diggers, because most times its all about the Benjamin.

The day I decided to choose my friends by their attitude, that was the day I started having great friends.
So please guys we should stop being pathetic about girls being materialistic, if we guys were any better then relationships would not be failing right left and center.....
Just because society doesn't judge us when we pick our friends by what they are rather than who they are doesn't mean the ladies have done something wrong
They re only learning to adapt to an ever changing environment albeit, in the wrong way.

Getting married isn't a yard stick to judge how wonderful a lady is,
Neither does being a good girl translates into being a good wife.
You and I as men are part of the problem,
We no longer see dignity in sticking to one partner, we run after any woman that holds our fancy just because, we have some extra cash to throw around, then we whine about materialistic women.....
The world is the way it is, our system have built women up to be dependent,
The solution lies in each of us
MEN.... Be real and appreciate who u have
WOMEN..... Be content with what u have and can afford. U don't need a man to be successful,
Marriage is meant for companionship, and untill u find that companion don't settle for anything less....

@op
Sorry if I veered off topic a bit,
But to solve any problem
One must firstly understand it....

All the best.

Jeezzz dis guy na woman born I so? Wat a wonderful epistle,am swayed! I wish I knew u in person,I 4 dash u my sister(s) make I mari cos UR HEAD DEY THERE SURELY!! Big ups bro n may ur wisdom continue 2 multiply

Wat of those of us wey neva marry yet nko?