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marvin902:
am not trying to discourage anybody ..
buh thats the awful truth..
in this country..
even where am working if you nor know person oyo is your case..

Lol. Hope you guys pay above 150 for a starter?

marvin902:
oga if you not get connection for this naija..
na only God go fit save you...
nevertheless still prefer vessels job to all this office jobs very boring

Its not true. I got a work without any connection and I have seen those with connection coming to the office and later sent back because they have nothing to offer.

Start doing something; improve yourself and see how opportunities will present themselves

bimpeecrown:
Thanks for the update, really informative, I am a graduate of Animal production and health, wouldn't mind any job for now ,kindly help.

He dropped some skills you need to acquire in 2017. Whether you graduated in Animal production and health, you need one or two of these and you are good to go. Before I was employed, I earn more than my country salary just developing content for different people on fiverr, earning 190k every month depending on how good the market was. I am not saying it for you to contact me on how to get started rather for you to visit the business section of this forum and see how others are hustling and earning money even more than people in the office.

Even as I write from the office, I still earn a bit more than my salary. Get these skills and see how your CV will develop

I went late. When I reached, the sermon was over, I bought bulletin and yet to read it. Lol

Truflame:
We can only receive the Power of the Holy Spirit, not the Holy Spirit Himself.

Bros, stop using philosophy to interpret the word of God. The Bible said you shall receive power after the Holy Spirit comes "on" you.
Or do you want us to go through documentaries?

joff2:
I give glory to God...

Eversince I started experiencing the Holy Spirit; I've noticed a lot of changes

1. I have more courage and confidence in myself
2. Thoughts of inferiority has been miltigated
3. I have receive knowledge and wisdom on life in general (how to go about thing etc)
4. I experience some supernatural events once in a while.

God is Good!
I hope for greater manifestation of the Holy Spirit!

I expected to see some of your sins you have stopped.

Thane:
But please,how soon is too soon? I plan at staying till Jan nxt yr.

January is just approximately 3 months. It's too small

Beey:
LOL, no am not looking.Funny.

Indeed Kenya is a beautiful country and the people whom you are representing are mature.
Your response is good.

When I saw your pictures, I know you are not Nigerian, it's audible to the deaf. The difference is there anyway.

As you relate on nairaland, please, don't contribute in the politics section.

Thane:
bros please i kneel down beg you, am seriously considering relocating to Abuja on wednesday ,although i have a roof which is a tiny one roomed shared by two of my friends, i dont have any job or connection at hand. The room is located at Life camp. Pls if you have any good paying job or hustle at all i can do for my bills in sch Kindly contact me 07032909591 or mail thanedominic@gmail.com Am a final yr Anatomy student of Unizik. Help pls

Bros, you don't need to relocate. You are still a student and that is what you should focus. No one will give you work seeing you will soon go back to school.

lomprico:
80k job in sokoto is equivalent to 200k job in abj or lag.
Unless u r relocating for safety reason, stay n continue.

You guys should stop hyping Abuja. There is nothing hard or expensive here except you want to live in Wuse 2

Nma27:
Abuja is very expensive o and Lagos is sooo choked up and polluted. The stress there will reduce ur life span. Better stay in sokoto until u get a better offer in Abuja.

Abuja is not expensive anything. I stay and work in Abuja and I settled down comfortably without any stress. Nothing is as costly as people think here.

Whether in sokoto or Abuja, you decide the kind of life you want. I will advise him to come to Abuja because if he can secure accommodation without getting work, then he will get a high paying job that he have in Sokoto

Mindfulness:
By the way, I would not inform her fiancé immediately. I would inform her that I have delicate material that I will use against her and tell her that I will leak it in due time so that she will torment herself. And then I would decide when and if I would leak it but I would take my time. Some enemies must die a slow death.

You are trying to blackmail her which can take her to the police. send your evidence to the boyfriend and tell him to warn his lover to leave your husband. if you ever confront her with details of what you have, you will lose at the end.

Marriage is like a wormhole. Once in, very hard to come out.

There is no formula that works all of marriage problem. As the society is changing, relationship is changing and ladies are changing too

lightblazingnow:
Sure

Because you need to pair with one person to make you two that Every part of your body came with except your pen.is.

Your eyes two, nose, ear, hands, etc but your dick came looking for a partner not partners

chinoxstock:
One of these three things would happen.


*TonyeBarcanista dumps ADPA declares support for APGA.

* Barcanista begs BIAFRAns. Declares support for IPOB.

*Tonye commits suicide. Suicide note reads "Nigeria don taya me".

lol

Congrats. Children are beautiful and a gift from God.

Raise him well, don't teach him tribalism and hatred against any tribe. Teach him to understand science and religion and not confuse or misunderstand the two.

Teach him to learn from people's experience. Teach him that the essence of life is to achieve purpose and help people.

Lastly, teach him to not to believe Nigerian politician but to live a life of purpose.

Once again, congrats and God's strength to your wife

1Sharon:
That is what I have talking about this whole time now

Would she be a baby mama if the guy loved her?

Point is some ladies don't need marriage. they just want the kid and that's all.
Marriage have several factors that affect it. Love is just one of the factors. Family background can also make you lose a long time relationship.

Marrying a single mom is on individual differences. For me, I can't

1Sharon:
Hardly happens.If he wanted to bring her back in, why did he let her go in the first place? You don't make a woman you love a single mum.

No guy that loves a woman will make her a mum instead of making her a wife

Maybe you have not heard of baby mama

1Sharon:
Bro I'm talking about young unmarried guys with kids approaching single young ladies. Yes I know about the baggage

Is it not the same thing ma'am. He is young and unmarried. Let's say he has a kid or two to himself. The mother of the kids is somewhere isn't it? You never can tell if he won't bring her back again.
Children are connections which you can't break.

1Sharon:
Bring their mother into the home, what do you mean?

It means that if you marry a man with kids (divorced in the present), the kids knows nothing of the problem but when they are grown, they wouldn't want to love you and hate their mother. They will try their best to bring back their mother provided she did not remarry.
Hence, in taking the decision, you must make sure that your requirements are explicitly states and accepted.

1Sharon:
No one ever talks about single fathers. Some of us have been approached by men with kids too you know

Its your call to make. It depends on what you want. There are single fathers too. But when taking the decision, remember that the children may one day bring their mother into the home. You must think about it.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
can be a second wife if he's divorced or the first wife is late.

Lol. Then the guys can be the husband if the father of the child is dead or does not want the child and the woman is legally divorced.

Funny anyway.
But it depends on what people want. Personally, I can't marry a single mother, but there are people who can do that and its their call to make. Some ladies can't marry a divorced man too. So it depends on our emotions.

This issue can't be reversed back to mean the same and equivalent.

If a freelancer suffered to get the money with stress and striving to get good review, why should such person exchange at a reduced price. It is just inhumane.

I have not been a victim, but my contact with the so called "trusted exchangers" made me to create this thread. You don't need to be a victim, you just need to be aware of them.

How to Exchange at a moderate exchange rate:

1. Visit this thread https://www.nairaland.com/3190496/currency-e-currency-market-deals, go to the last page, know the exchange rate
2. Contact your exchanger, by now, you should already know the rate
3. Show him/her the screenshot
4. Make your exchange


Getting value for your money remains my priority.
Don't allow anyone to sweet talk you or scare you with the naira rise.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
so you noticed.
The topic should be " can you marry a single parent? But they are her talking about women as if is a bad thing to have a child. Children are blessing from God

The bold sentence is an emotional trick though.


Can you be someone's second wife? If you can, then the men should be able to marry a single mother.

potipher7:
thunder scatter Buhari Insha'Allah amin
Thunder scatter Buhari Insha'Allah amin
Thunder scatter aisha masha Allah amin

Lol while it is funny, you need to understand that cyber war does not build any nation

The stubborn housefly follows the corpse to the grave.

Freelancers and youths going into online business suffer a lot to make money only to waste it at the "trusted exchangers".

How can people exchange lower than the official rate. Something must be done about it, and people must speak up against this

I created this before and someone moved it to a hidden section. If the mods are supporting this, then something is wrong.


This is something I have been keeping within me but decides to write it out today.

We all know that there are many Scammers here, but that's not the real story. The trusted exchangers, how are they dealing with freelancers. Those seemingly trusted exchangers are same if not worst than the Scammers.

I had some few funds to exchange, about $300, so I contacted one trusted exchangers who is leading one of those threads on how to identify Scammers. I was happy that I'm going to deal with nairaland real and trusted exchangers. So I got his number from his signature and sent him a message on whatsapp. I asked for his rate and I was disappointed when he told me that he exchanges at 305/$.


It was then I understood what is going on in this business section. The real ones take advantage of it to buy funds from freelancers are an ungodly exchange rate. I have dealt with many of them and they are just the same with few exceptions.

This is not a campaign for anyone just nairaland Tosinjay or thereabout gives good exchange rate and can be trusted. Egonne1 gives good rate too but not compared to the aforementioned.

All those ones you see shouting good rates are the real Scammers on nairaland. I write this without mentioning names of such heartless exchangers that people trust with their hard earned fiverr funds. I was shocked when he told me that he even exchange at 290/$, and to think he leads one of those threads that Mynd44 pinned on business section makes me wonder who our real enemy is.

Share your experience

The mods or anyone incharge of the business section should try to create an environment for a balanced system.

These trusted exchangers are abusing the system and its quite shameful.

Evaberry:
....

Many men have been in this situation and many more will be.


I won't advise anyone to terminate better opportunities because of a girl.

you need to have a serious conversation with your gf, she's 30 will she be able to wait for you bearing in mind this is going to be a long distance relationship.


The chances of her succumbing to pressures to get married are going to be high, can she bear it.

Everyone here is going to advise you to leave this girl and focus on hustling but only you know how much impact she has/had in your life. only you know the pains you will go through you without her

4 Years is no child's play, can you know a girl as much as you know your gf Now, and by the time you make it so many female are gonna be attracted to you only because of wealth

mehn op I feel for you. Just roll a joint, smoke and relax

The op is just wasting his time. There is no choice to be made. His priority now should not be the girl rather to get back to life. M.Sc outside is just 1 year. He can even work and study and upon graduation, he should have made enough to come back and marry and continue with Ph.D His elder brother knows he is no longer a boy.

So the bold paragraphs is irrelevant and does not come from as a result of a critical thinking. Sorry anyway but it's too shallow that I had to quote you

Evablizin:
Oh no Sister Kenny you're too much,nice questions

You are on every thread. Its good only if you do it on spare time.