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Zzor:
where is the arrogance and entitlement mentality?

Vanzcharles:
It all depends. Either way, it could be a red flag of him being a stingy man or maybe he decides to test her.
The 1k would have been better if it wasn't given at all because it somehow look like she's a beggar. He could have kept his money to himself. If I were your friend, I would turn down the money. There are levels to this and what we've passed as humans. Next time, he being reasonable won't try such. He should keep the money to himself.

She just have to be patient with him, let's see maybe he wanted to test her tho.. Just saying, no offence. He might even send her a reasonable amount later, once he travels.

Zzor:
you understand my point but scared to admit it so as to avoid bashing,even a normal working class guy won't willingly drop that amount for a lady who can dash 10k out

Zzor:
Our fathers didn't expect our mothers to bring something to the table and it turned successful

dairykidd:
I no understand what he's paying for rn.. she's not even his babe or wife yet and he isn't paying for anything. Instead of giving her 1k i rather just drop her off or order uber to take her home than giving her money just for meeting her. What kind of shiit is that... Na show up fees

Zzor:
What kind of yeye test is that,my friend is not broke or hungry

Zzor:
Be fair for once in your judgement,it would have been better if he didn't give her anything,remember she didn't place any demand

Zzor:
This is about a friend of mine,she met this man on one of the social media platforms and they became so fond of each other,though the man has been pestering her for a relationship but my friend insisted on meeting him first before she makes any decision.So,they finally met two days ago and after several discussion and all that,he asked my friend to marry him and that he's ready to settle down as soon as possible if he gets a positive answer from my friend,but my friend insisted on giving her time to think about it,he went further to tell my friend to get back to him soon so he can start making the necessary preparations as he wish to settle down by December.Now this very rich man who has businesses all over the place and even outside the country gave my friend only 1k when he was leaving,can you imagine that? My friend is not hungry or broke but who does that? Is that not a sign of extreme stinginess? It would have been better if he didn't give her anything and it would have made it easier for my friend to make her decision.Is this not a huge red flag? Ladies and gentlemen what do you think?

Biggcake:
Hi Nairalanders.....

Join us as I take this beautiful Nairalander to the permanent site...

#ME2020.

Nov 26&28....

Mkpo Ama Change..

Darkerberry:
Azzziin, I love how dt Hanti Fati put dt inferiority complexed nigga in place.
Bleep boys all around forming bad guy, player my foot, broke all sensible bro codes making mouth.
Player tio ni game.

ZIINI:
I didn't say you'll die
Am talking about the engine that is doing the work
Too much of work will make it knock down

iLegendd:
The first challenge in my main post is void, so focus on the one below.

Options

A. Suicide
B. Deactivating my WhatsApp
C. Deactivating my Nairaland account (hard to do, but I'll try)
D. Information overload and trying to turn off everything SM till December 25th
E. Total detoxification from the Internet for a month or more (hard to do, but I'll try)
F. Total Isolation from humans till December
G. Marriage wahala — virgin

(Searching for a virgin since I'm a virgin too. It seems there is no single virgin like me in Nigeria — maybe, I should go to Ethiopia to look for a virgin wife)

All the above are true, except suicide, but they aren't in order of priority. Whoever can arranged them perfectly based on the way I prioritize the list in my head will get 5k card.

ZIINI:
Hmmmmm Mrscarter small small O cause
E get why
People are dieing these day's on top this thing
No go kill another persons son O

ZIINI:
You self no get chills,, four rounds a day haba you don turn am to food
Whose son are you aspiring to kill

ZIINI:
How this concerns us still baffles me

fati2001:
STUPID MODAFUCKER, YOU AIN'T WORTH TO BE TIED DOWN TO SOMEONE LIK ME, BECAUSE YOU ARE STUPID PUSSY ASS NIGGA.... YOU AIN'T GET TIME FOR USEFUL THINGS.... THAT'S WHY YOU WROTE ND POSTED UP THIS CRAPS..... MORE LIKE U SAID UR MOM ISA/WAS A BICTH RIGHT?

AS I SAID GO GET A WORTHY LIFE.

Vaiki:
It's clear and has become factual that ladies just can't resist a true player no matter how hard they guard against the signs. I once told a lady who was crying that she caught me with another lady and noticed I seemed to like the other lady more. I didn't beg! I just told her bluntly that our game was up since she had busted my cover simple. I let her be because I have become an endangered specie around her. I don't need no drama.
Now the thing is,women are so easy to manipulate yet impossible to control when your cover is blown.
No woman on Earth wether married,single, religious or frigid once the tactics of attention, praise, cohesion,flattery be applied on,would be able to resist your advances.
A true player possesses all these and most of all a disciplined mind that sticks to routine. Like once your cover is blown, never take her back no matter the pleading. A true player stays socially relevant always,so she is going to miss him and want him back because a true player is a game changer.
A true player never begs so he gets financially prepared to never leave himself with no option of begging. Personally I wouldn't date a lady who isn't on four, please don't ask me to drop you off.
A true player is a 24hour creeper,he never sleeps. Always on the move to beat female relationship traps.
A true player also doesn't ask or collect financial help from his target because he knows he already got his reward and is soon on the move. He only seeks to steal emotionally not financially.
Finally,a true player is handsome. Something has to be the catch at least. Tall,dark, handsome,mobile, prospective,clean dress sense. Oh my God!! if you see a true player on a Saturday evening prowl, unless you are a lesbian you must fall for it. So true players dress clean and totally well groomed.
So all those creeps claiming player status to beg and decieve women of money....shameful!

QueeenKKfire:
Well the fuckaholic of a girlfriend said that I'm not romantic. When she has bleeped me for one straight week non-stop, four rounds everyday. Where does she think I will get that kind of strength from?

Ora amu
Tufia

ouzo1:
Use screw driver tight am back na.

Gaggii:
My g.f pussy was so tight when we first met, but now it is so loose.

At times am not even so sure if my penis is still inside the vagina.

I have accused her severally that she was using a vagina tightner before. But she claimed she has never used it before.

I also observe that she doesn't like romance, she likes me to just penetrate immediately without romance.

Does this means she is a retired olosho or what.
I love her so much, and I don't want to break up on issues that can be fixed.

Please advice.

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]What does it mean when an older lady stares at a young girl’s face and then backs her at an event?[/color]

Rockyfancino:
This girl is like a NEPA switch. She's selfish and doesn't reason with ration. Can you imagine, you will be talking to someone and she will be happy, the next minute you call her, she's her mood has become low and it now looks as if you're forcing her.

I would call her for at least 30 mins trying to cheer her up and I will be met with disdain. If small thing should happen, her mood will just change, no joke can take it out.... The next day, she's still like that.

Sometimes, she'll reply me like I'm her worst enemy. To make it worse, she'll say she has nothing to say after I might have talked and talked.

It sounds like nothing, but this has been going on for a very long time, as if someone is forcing her in the relationship. To make it worse, she'll sometimes act like she's madly in love.

I keep telling her mood is like weather and she should please try and just reduce it. I later stopped calling her like before because, I don't know they what mood I'll meet if I called.

So many times, I'll talk to her for like one hour about the things she's doing that's bad. I keep telling her the same thing for a very long time now, thinking communication is key.

Something happened yesternight, she ended the call. I called her back trying to tease her back into the mood. For like 30 seconds, I was doing hello, hello, I almost thought it was the network when I was about hanging up she said she can hear me.... Okay, fine. She later then told me there's nothing to say again... Damn, she keeps saying this many times and it has started to make my head spark.

I was angry all through yesterday for personal reasons, but people can never know because I don't show it and I talk normally. Despite my state yesterday, I kept my cool after she said there's nothing to say and just told her good night but I was angry deep down.

I called her this morning (yesterday morning, it's 1:16AM currently), she didn't pick. But I didn't call a second time, because my head was just ringing 'I have nothing to say.' I don't want to be a fool again to call her and I'll be taking to empty space. So I lefty phone in my room and stayed in the sitting room all day and she already left 2 missed later.

I came back this night, called her severally and it was just doing busy. I messaged her online (luckily she was online) about the matter and immediately I tried again and it went through. Thinking now, it may be that she blocked me.

Anyways in short, she was mute at first again when she picked. Later the matter escalated and she was saying that I didn't call back. I was trying to explain why I didn't call but she was not listening... I later waited till she calmed down.

I was telling her I didn't call because I didn't want embarrassment whereby I'll be talking to her and she'll just be mute as if I'm talking to the wind. I told her I knew not calling her was wrong but she didn't listen, I told her this about 4 times.

As she was later calm, I saw it as an opportunity to explain to her that what is good for the goose is good for the gander. I was telling her that I don't do 1/3 of what she does and I don't often turn things against her. In the beginning of the relationship, she used to be unhappy and complain a lot when the chance comes of how I don't listen or pay attention to her I'm summary.

Now, she's got attention and she acts so bad sometimes that I wonder if any man will actually stand that. She's done so many terrible things that I cannot even mention it here but I am a forgiving type.

So, this night will I was later telling her everything about herself again that is not good for us, I talked for over 1 hour and I actually thought maybe for the first time I was really getting to her. I was even happy that maybe she'll realize that she herself cannot stand what she does to me if it's done back to her in return. I also told her that I should have called her earlier in the day.

You won't believe this girl made me realize I was wasting my saliva and she just kept quiet on purpose, and that the only thing I was doing was turning the matter on her head, and that she was going to sleep. I couldn't believe my life at first, it really pained me deeply. She was even even telling me how I can keep on blabbing if I want. I told her to get out of my phone and I hung up. I didn't even know I could become so angry and hang up a phone on someone, it just happened spontaneously. Immediately, she blocked me on WhatsApp... She had even been saying it during the course of her ranting that she'll block me.

She used to say, she's stubborn and stuff. The funny thing is she'd say that's the way she is and I should accept her that way.

Like, she can't take what she's doing to me if it's served back to her. And how she doesn't even feel guilty of what she does is what baffles me.

Very selfish human being. Another annoying thing is her Motigbo and Ok when she's chatting. This girl will say anything she likes (not that she uses insultive words tho) and I'll just keep my cool and let it slide, I will even call her the next day.

Damn... I didn't know I can be this patient in my life. Although, I guess the reason I stayed this long in it is because she's a really good person who I believe if she can just eliminate that aspect of her, she'd be very okay.

BlackSheep10:
The moment she asked who I loved .most between her and my junior sister. She is emotionally blackmailing. me. Someone cannot try to be manipulating me at this age.

BigDawsNet:
She wants a spare Key To My Apartment ...

GOFRONT:
When I told her from the onset to stop housing and feeding that guy.....I told her it will end in Premium larger Tears.......She turned deaf ears.

DenreleDave:
U go fvck person with scabies abi

EmptyGarden:
Take am easy o, no fall break leg.

Sadiqali24:
Nonsense..... This is childish.
Who those that

BlackRexDeus:
The "tragic mulatto" is an archetypical mixed-race person (a "mulatto)who is assumed to be sad, or even suicidal, because they fail to completely fit in the "white world" or the "black world".


The Whitemen who created them denies them and declares them only partial or whole yet still less than. This creates a whole class of confused people who turn against their mother's people in favor of the father's White acceptance. They will do any heinous act to be acceptable as White to win the estranged father's approval including killing their mother's people. Thus is the bloodline of the Boule Blacks and Boule Hispanics.

Hugo55:
Sometimes when we are cheated on and heart broken, we want to stop thinking about the person yet we can't , our emotion is messed up because we gave him/her our heart, money, body and everything.

What is that song that heals your broken heart and bounces your emotion back to life in a faster way.


Let me start first :

Mine is Eamon: f*ck it I don't want you back.

I love that song, it heals me in no time, whenever am emotionally down. OK, what's yours....

MrTAnonymous:
Some years back, I use to listen to Blues whenever I was down, not necessarily because of heartbreak but mostly because I was depressed.

I don't listen to such songs anymore sha, I guess I have built myself a strong heart now I thank God for my life sha

Can't really remember all the songs but I will write those ones that I still remember.

James Blunt - Goodbye My Lover
R. Kelly - If I Could Turn The Hands Of Time
Enrique Inglesias - Hero
Enya - Wild Child
Enya - Only Time
Asa - Bibanke
Eamon - I Don't Want You Back
James Blunt - You Are Beautiful
Celine Dion - Titanic Soundtrack
Westlife - Coast To Coast
Eminem ft Dido - Stan
Spicegirls - Viva Forever
Rihanna - Diamond etc

These are the songs that I can remember at the moment, maybe I will add the rest when I remember.

Incase you don't know na me talk

Kaykay999:
Heart eater - xxxtentacion
Erase you - the kid laroi
Suicidal - ynw melly
Heartbreaker- lil keed
Lose you to Love me - Selena Gomez
Numb - xxxtentacion
Sasha Sloan songs