surebona: Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful
There's nothing you can do except try take Ur mind of her by keeping busy/occupied. Only time can heal heartbreak I'm afraid
NwaEje: I just want to say my mind I'm tired of what is happening in this country Please give me your attention Yeah, please listen to me.
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Have you ever been treated like Trash in your own country? Or brutalised and massacred By the military who are supposed To defend the sovereignity of their nation And people within their territory. My dream's crushed My hope's robbed Oh God what did I do wrong To be born in this part of the world Full of evil abnormalities Lord cleanse me of this sorrow I don't know what tomorrow holds This is why the horror goes Deep into my mind, nothing counts Not even our votes Look into my eyes, you enemies in disguise I guess you think I'm crazy and lazy, don't you? I h*te you looters I must tell the whole world my story now! This is history please give me your attention now!
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I'm sorry mama I never meant to h*te Nigeria I just want a better future So today, I'm killing all my problems.
What do you mean? I meant..
I'm sorry naija I never meant to h*te you I just want a better future So today I'm killing all my problems
Openbusiness: With the way things already are now as per societal consciousness of morality, in the next say 20 years or so, I won't be surprised if sex in public becomes legal and things like pedophilia becomes legal outrightly or age of consent is reduced to maybe 14 or 15. I won't be surprised! Because it seems like humanity keeps heading towards total sexual deviant behavior.
Yeah it wouldn't surprise me. Look how much things have changed in the last twenty years already. It's sad
Openbusiness: from a man's perspective, they are quite very sexy and attractive, a huge turn on, BUT you're right about it not being very classy IF a woman be showing it off outdoors. She definitely will be getting a lot of attention, sexual attention. But that's exactly what some women want. I prefer it as an indoor thing around your partner, not outdoors for every Emeka, Abdullah and Damola.
Hahaha. Yeah isn't something they should be poking in people's faces up the street for every stranger to see. It's the world these days tho. I hate to see what level sexual promiscuity is at in public n accepted as normal in another ten, twenty or so years
Nah! Never been the one for unrequited love or care. If you are too cold towards me, you move from being a friend or someone close to just an acquaintance. Life's too short.
Hm, a different perspective. Thanks for it.
I think this lady isn't like you, though. When I used to send WhatsApp messages, she'd often read and not respond to messages that needed a response. One of those times, she responded at a later time (many hours later) and the response was uninspiring.
I'd just say others have confirmed my conclusion.
Oh ok. Sounds like Ur not high on her list of priorities. if she's reading n not replying then sounding uninspiring then yeah she don't sound too interested.
ThaThinka: Hey! I wish to ask mature people here whether a lady not calling means she doesn't care. I mean when the guy is the one that initiates practically all calls.
In my opinion, I'd say the lady just doesn't care. But I guess maybe I am wrong since I don't call as often as I see some men do or because we relate more on a "friend" basis for now?
Even if we're just friends, does it mean a lady should never initiate a call? I have some female friends and acquaintances that do call, so what's different here?
I'm tempted to assume maybe she's not that into the mister. No?
Not necessarily. Everyone is different. I never used to call my ex he always called me n didn't mean I didn't care at the time. I'm not much of a ph person. I prefer face to face or texting if anything
SimSify: Love is indeed a beautiful thing to those that believe.. Know what you want, believe in it and pray.. it is possible to have a good woman.
More than 8years ago I met this damsel and she said yes to date me. We were quite young, but we believed in each other and we both worked hard for what we wanted.
8 years after..we are still here..
Join us on 5th Dec as we solidify our union in the presence of God.. To a journey of forever..
Openbusiness: How she looks doesn't even interest me. I'm just surprised to see a "fake coochie" job exists. Before you know it, something like this will become another new normal and many women might start doing surgically enhanced camel toes and fattened coochies. Nawa oh!
Haha true. I myself find camel toes embaressing n not very classy
Shamelessman01: So on a beautiful noon yesterday I went out with my girlfriend for Brunch( Brunch is a combination of breakfast and lunch and it's usually taken in between 11 and 1). Then they gave the fried and jollof rice but I couldn't finish mine. So I asked for the "fuke fuke" takeaway( those disposable ones). Then I packed the food inside infront of the people at the eatery. That's how madam( my babe) became furious telling me I was embarrassing both of us. I ignored her and then we went home. So later in the evening she started complaining of hunger. Only for her to start asking for the food I packed, the food she was insulting me for. So guys if it's you will you give her?
Please I need your advise. We live in the same compound with this woman who has three children. There are 3 other families all living together with us. Since we moved into this compound, a year ago, I and my family have been living fine, mind our business.
This my neighbor is a full time house wife. The husband works in Port Harcourt, as an Oil worker, I am told. So, she stay at home and takes care of the children. Something happened last week. The children of this my neighbor got back from school and were all sitting outside.
I came in around 6pm and met them outside. I asked where their mother was and they didn’t know. So, I asked them to come into our house. I got their mother’s no from the eldest, a boy of like 8 years. I called and the mother said she was stuck in traffic.
I think of it this way. If it was me would I like someone to tell me my husband is cheating? Yes I would prefer to be told than to stay an oblivious fool.
sKeetz: I'm dating an older woman. The difference in our ages is just 2 years. She is everything a man can ever dream of.
She's very supportive. Doesn't bother me and let's me do my thing. She doesn't boss me or anything of sorts. She's also very independent, but the only thing that stresses me out is our age difference and it's quite obvious cause i even look quite younger than my age and she's quite matured both physically and mentally.
Are there any cons to marrying a lady that is older? Guys who are married to older ladies, are there any traits i should look out for ?
Ps: we've been dating for 4 years now, so its not like i just met her. So i know everything about her and she knows everything about me.
You're stressing over two years?! In other countries ppl marry many years apart. Once your an adult n so is the other person why is age a problem. As long as U can have children. Two years is nothing five years, nothing
How can a 45 years old man cry over relationship ??. Wahala no dey finish Sha..
Everyone feels pain U know Some ppl are stronger than others emotionally. There's nothing wrong with showing your feelings. U get hurt, U get thru it in Ur own way n move on
gasparpisciotta: I’m a woman of 45 with two sons aged 21 and 18. My husband is 46.
We were childhood sweethearts but for the past five years our marriage has been loveless.
My husband’s best friend has been there for me through good times and bad and he is god- father to my sons.
We’ve been on holiday together with his family, and we’ve always supported one another. He’s been that go-to person in a crisis.
I’ve noticed I felt on a high when he was around but I pushed those feelings aside.
This year the first lockdown made me realise just how unhappy I am in my marriage.
There’s no affection and definitely no sex.
I made a pact with myself that 2021 would see me sorting my life out and moving on now the boys have grown up.
My husband’s best friend called to see him three months ago but he’d taken our car for a service.
He came in for a cup of tea and I started grumbling about my husband.
He then admitted things weren’t good between him and his wife.
He said he’d always fancied me. We ended up kissing, but then my older son’s girlfriend walked in through the back door, she was 20. I asked her to not tell anyone and she agreed, but at my younger son’s 18th birthday barbecue a week later she told me she couldn’t live with the secret.
I begged her to keep quiet.
My husband, who had been drinking, picked a fight with me and we had a huge row.
I walked out and when I got back to the house, My son’s girlfriend had told everyone. My husband’s best friend has left his wife. I’ve moved in with my parents.
They don’t agree with what I’m doing and my sons disapprove, but I don’t want to lose this man
Not that I encourage cheating in anyway but Ur sons gf should of minded her business. Isn't her family to ruin. Plus I bet she keeps plenty of her own secrets. If anything I'd encourage you n your husband to try n reignite the spark Yous had all those years ago. Do romantic things, become more connected, spend time alone together n do it on the regular. If after U try everything in your power and the love still isn't there anymore, discuss it with your husband (U should discuss everything with him anyway n tell him why everything to led to this) I mean if you'd are childhood sweethearts surely Yous can be honest with one another n talk things over openly. And U should ask him how he feels about the way your marraige is these days and consider his feelings over what you n his best friend have done. (U should tell him why U did it and how U feel bout your marraige these days. Who knows maybe he thinks your happy n doesn't realise how U been feeling about your marraige. That's why communication is important) a And right now he'd be feeling betrayed. By you and his best friend. Always consider how Ur actions affect others around you before acting them out. But yeah I think you guys should discuss everything, the situation, the state of Ur marraige n see if U can get things happy between Yous again. If U can't do that then U can't live miserable either and try moving on in a way that gives both U and your husband peace of mind. If U try these things atleast you tried saving your marraige yeah?
U should also remember all the things U fell in love with your husband for to begin with n how that made you feel n really think bout wat Ur future would be like if you guys divorced. Subtract your attraction to his best friend from that scenario cos U don't know if he'll even be in your future. U should really consider all possible scenarios before taking action. Gud luck with it all
I'm from Sweden. I have a Nigerian boyfriend. We met online and chat alot and I love him. But he is in Nigeria and I'm in Sweden. And he lives with his parents and still goes to school. I so want to come and meet him but he don't have his own room and his parents would not like me he says.
I suggest U take things very slow n get to know him more first. People online aren't always who they say they are. N even some who are can still lie to you. He may be a great guy but seriously don't rush things ok.
Kobojunkie: The term "Practising Faith" is still misleading as it assumes that as far as faith is concerned, that even that not done in direct obedience to the commandments of God can apply, and that is not the case.
People today confuse a lot of things including the act of believing with Faith but they are not one and the same and of course one first has to believe in order to have faith.
emblem2d: I undrstnd wht you're driving at, but it seems like you're taking the wrong direction by labelling it as an incestuos relxnshp. Common, we all knw that incest exist btw siblings nd parent to children. Buh wht you're sprueing here is totally misleading.
emblem2d: Hey man! That's nt incest. Incase u dnt knw leh me tell, an incestuos relaxnsh is one btw d membr of a family with same parent or father to daughert nd mother to son. U hear me?? Relxnshp btw cousins are normal: be it sexual or whatever. U betr get it into ur skull.
It's not normal at all. What is wrong with you. Encouraging people to have incestous relationships. Siblings both have children then their children have sex?! U think the blood thins out in one generation? Cousins share the same grandparents. It's immoral and the genes in the DNA are so similar if they had kids together they will end up with illnesses or disfigured or something. It's illegal in alot of countries. N basically it's disgusting
Romance › Re: When Can You Start Giving A Girl You Just Met Money? by Mrscarter(f): 7:29am On Dec 05, 2020
Ur on a roll today lol
