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coolsegun2002:
It’s a theoretical thing but with very compelling possibility....foreign male DNA has actually been found in women and can only be possible thru past sex, past abortion( which is technically the same with pat sex), a previous twin that seized to exist. https://www.deccanchronicle.com/amp/lifestyle/sex-and-relationship/270617/find-out-how-women-keep-dna-from-men-she-has-had-sex-with.html

it has also been proven in animal model research https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2014/10/141001090238.htm

...but I don’t think it can be totally proven in humans becos humans can naturally behave weird....


The one that’s possible is cases of women who had twins fathered by two different men as a result of having sex with different men a couple of days/weeks apart......

Tadeknkeepcalm:
Honest question.
Is the emboldened scientifically proven?

luminouz:


Really? Had no idea.

I'm sorry for my late reply nah anti sperm boat ban me i don't do anything,,,,,,, the thing pain me aswear,,,,,, I don't like this shit at all,,,,,,

Amen,,, your marriage go bring out good product,,,,,

Just pray and be sincere with each other,,,,,,,

Luckytechtv:
A Nigerian woman has made a passionate appeal to the Nigerian government to come to her rescue in Oman where she is being presently held in captivity.



Najeeb Rukoyat Kemi, 28, from Ikire town in Osun State left for Oman in November 2016, to search for greener pasture after being talked into the deal by a close friend.



However, upon arriving in the country her host seized her international passports and other vital documents then made her a housemaid.

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Narrating her ordeal during an exclusive telephone chat with the President of Journalists International Forum For Migration (JIFORM), Ajibola Abayomi, the woman said within the last four years she has been resold four times to different masters where she worked as a housemaid on monthly stipends that was never paid in most cases.



She claimed that she was traded off to her present master some months ago for 800 rials (N700, 000).



Her current master placed on a monthly salary of N70,000 per month, however, she says she has been subjected to serious sexual harassment.



"At the current house I am now working, the man wants to sleep with me but I have been refusing him so he told me to go back to the office that brought me to him. I am being starved of food and kept indoor without being allowed to go out.



"I can no longer cope with this job so please I want to go back home. Kindly assist me. I have an Ordinary National Diploma from Offa Polytechnic; there are better opportunities in Nigeria. I am tired, all the money I have been getting I used to send it home to assist my younger ones" Kemi lamented.



Reacting to the plight of the lady, the Director General of the National Agency for the Prohibition of Trafficking in Persons (NAPTIP), Julie Okah – Donli said she was deeply concerned and shared the pain and agony of the said victim through an interview granted by the agency’s Press Officer, Mr Adekoye Vincent.



He said: "In line with its determination to continue to respond to the plight of victims, the agency solicits for information that will enable it to work with international and local partners with a view to rescuing her and ensuring her safe return to Nigeria."



The JIFORM president said all the other vital information about the victim would be forwarded to NAPTIP for further action.



"We won’t be tired of doing this all the time. Recall that between July and September this year JIFORM was instrumental to the call for the rescue of 138 Nigerian ladies trafficked to Saudi Arabia and additional 435 women also trapped in Yemen, Oman, Lebanon and other Arab nations. We shall provide her details as well as other ladies to the NAPTIP and follow up on the rescue mission ditto for the prosecution of the trafficking agency involved" Ajibola pledged.

http://deltapointer.com/general-discussion/a-yoruba-lady-sold-four-times-in-oman-begs-nigerians-for-rescue/

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_N03iYKhutY


Lalasticlala

luminouz:
You'd be too fuqed up to do anything. Balls pain is the worst I've experienced... You will see stars,galaxies and the Big Bang combined

ZIINI:
If she strangle your balls
I bet you gon beat her to the point of death

Amazingboy1:
Aswear down my brother,,,,,


Them always think say nah everybody dey fight for marriage,,,,,,,

Aswear my mum and dad never fight each other phisicaly before ,,,,, ,,,,

And the marriage is still intact you go think say nah yesterday dem marry,,,,,

So where i go see the behavior of me beating up a girl,,,,?

And the lesson i learnt from their marriage is dat,,,once you find the right partner you've achieved one of the greatest thing in life,,,,,,,,,


See i always pray for such marriage everyday,,,,


My mum really suffer with him when he gat nothing,,,,(it rare to see such woman nowadays),, that's why i always laugh at those stupid redpiller wey think say there's no real love,,,,,,,


There was a day when they woke up in d morning dat my father gat no money for pocket,,,,,,,, lol,, my mum start crying,,, nah garri dem drink dat morning,,,,,,

And God is so merciful and he rewarded the one that is truthful,,,,,

If you see how things be right know you go never think say this people ever suffer in there life,,,,,,

Though that sorrow time I'm young and I'm d only one that was born by dat time,,,,,, thing no easy dat time my brother,,,,,

Many things dey sup for life,,, some people don't just have knowledge,,,,,,,,,,

Amazingboy1:
Aswear to God i don't know her,,,,


Knowing somebody doesn't mean say i go protect her morever i i don't know her,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

You don dey vex,,,,


Calm down bro,,,,,,

The topic never talk about uploading someone's picture,,,,,,,,

So I'm still saying the truth,,,,

Anyway the bow and arrow dey yaa hand ,,,, do it the way you like,,,,,,,,


I don't support her quoting you first and cursing you,,,,, that's wrong,,,,,

But it didn't encourage you uploading her picture,,,,,,,

We are to respect each other ,,,,,,,

Though we don't know each other,, but in this life we're like water we can meet each other ,,,,,

It's nice chatting with you also,,,,,

Have a nice day man ✌️✊❤️

shantti:
how is it a shame, pls elaborate

mosdii:
May your days be long

Nicenancy:
Guys, can you ever hit your woman?
What will make u beat up a woman?

PUNAengineOIL:
You may be correct with your assumption, probability that you are wrong is less than 1/20.

When a girl start inserting cucumber in her puna, both the girl and the puna are finished. Cucumber is the major secret of those widened puna. By tge time the elasticity of her puna is completely destroyed, your girl will start inserting other stuffs like tubers of yams, beverage cans and e.t.c.

duduade:
Common seize the green cucumber and ruthlessly use your black cucumber on her..


She will never doubt your incapacity again

fati2001:
seriously?

cfours:
I suggest you just avoid naija parties and events all together. Stick to attending oyinbo parties and events. I mean, these are things you should have considered before getting married.

the saddest thing though is that for a white woman, once she has given birth to a half-black child, no white man wants her again so she has no choice whether she misses her white counterparts or not.no white man will marry her again.

fati2001:
.4 Inverted =V
when the base of the butt is less full than the top of the butt. the cause is when the line from your hips to your pelvis runs inward.

Mercisharelove:
Read this eyes opening mystery of Eve and Satan and the Slay Queens

Let us look at it objectively, the evil snake is a she. Not a male, not like the first created and then made weak, that means was put into a deeper sleep and then out of his side, his ribs was taken a rib and was used to form the woman..... The she couldn't have been able to steal, kill and destroy the relationship between the first man and truth, she, the snake had to use the flesh of his flesh and the bone of his bones which is also she, to steal, killed and destroyed the first man, Adam.

Genesis 3:9 And the LORD God called unto Adam, and said unto him, Where art thou? 3:10 And he said, I heard thy voice in the garden, and I was afraid, because I was naked; and I hid myself.

3:11 And he said, Who told thee that thou wast naked? Hast thou eaten of the tree, whereof I commanded thee that thou shouldest not eat? 3:12 And the man said, The woman whom thou gavest to be with me, she gave me of the tree, and I did eat.

Part two...

The world at present is ruled and control by a woman. She's called "The great whole, which did corrupt the earth. Read your Bible, she's mentioned with the 24 elders in heaven rejoicing over her judgement, being aware of her great corruption of the true image and the perfect likeness of God Almighty. You know what Satan, the snake did was to corrupt the original and sold weaknesses to the world to live by. For man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceed out of the mouth of the Lord God Almighty through his heirs. Praise God Almighty for ever and ever more. Amen

Revelation 19:1 And after these things I heard a great voice of much people in heaven, saying, Alleluia; Salvation, and glory, and honour, and power, unto the Lord our God:

19:2 For true and righteous are his judgments: for he hath judged the great LovePeddler which did corrupt the earth with her fornication, and hath avenged the blood of his servants at her hand. 19:3 And again they said, Alleluia And her smoke rose up for ever and ever.

In the gospel of Christ Jesus two women were also mentioned by the prophets and apostles of Christ Jesus, at one occasion the prophet was in high Spirit rejoicing for Jerusalem above, he said..

Isaiah 66:7 Before she travailed, she brought forth; before her pain came, she was delivered of a man child.

66:8 Who hath heard such a thing? who hath seen such things? Shall the earth be made to bring forth in one day? or shall a nation be born at once? for as soon as Zion travailed, she brought forth her children.

66:9 Shall I bring to the birth, and not cause to bring forth? saith the LORD: shall I cause to bring forth, and shut the womb? saith thy God. 66:10 Rejoice ye with Jerusalem, and be glad with her, all ye that love her: rejoice for joy with her, all ye that mourn for her: 66:11 That ye may suck, and be satisfied with the breasts of her consolations; that ye may milk out, and be delighted with the abundance of her glory.

66:12 For thus saith the LORD, Behold, I will extend peace to her like a river, and the glory of the Gentiles like a flowing stream: then shall ye suck, ye shall be borne upon her sides, and be dandled upon her knees.

66:13 As one whom his mother comforteth, so will I comfort you; and ye shall be comforted in Jerusalem.

66:14 And when ye see this, your heart shall rejoice, and your bones shall flourish like an herb: and the hand of the LORD shall be known toward his servants, and his indignation toward his enemies.

66:15 For, behold, the LORD will come with fire, and with his chariots like a whirlwind, to render his anger with fury, and his rebuke with flames of fire.

66:16 For by fire and by his sword will the LORD plead with all flesh: and the slain of the LORD shall be many. Amen. Can you say Amen.

You do also find in the gospel, the elders speaking wisdom about two women Sarah and Hagah. Sarah means Spirit ruled human. And the scriptures instructed that it's only "As many as are led by the Holy Ghost are the children of God Almighty. The brought up one's.

Proverbs 4:3 For I was my father's son, tender and only beloved in the sight of my mother. 4:4 He taught me also, and said unto me, Let thine heart retain my words: keep my commandments, and live.

4:5 Get wisdom, get understanding: forget it not; neither decline from the words of my mouth.

4:6 Forsake her not, and she shall preserve thee: love her, and she shall keep thee.

4:7 Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.

4:8 Exalt her, and she shall promote thee: she shall bring thee to honour, when thou dost embrace her.

4:9 She shall give to thine head an ornament of grace: a crown of glory shall she deliver to thee.

4:10 Hear, O my son, and receive my sayings; and the years of thy life shall be many.

4:11 I have taught thee in the way of wisdom; I have led thee in right paths.

4:12 When thou goest, thy steps shall not be straitened; and when thou runnest, thou shalt not stumble. 4:13 Take fast hold of instruction; let her not go: keep her; for she is thy life.

And then you have Hagah; Human god is human. HGH and two A+'s, Christ Jesus instructed his disciples to be wise as the serpent, the snake, the deceiver. So that they wouldn't fall into deception, into the flesh, human god, weaknesses of sickness and pain's, and poverty and death, and the scriptures said death reigned from Adam to Moses.

The Law of sin and death couldn't hold the author of life back. It was impossible for him, who's the perfect expression of his glory and wisdom to see corruption and bow.

Galatians 4:21 Tell me, ye that desire to be under the law, do ye not hear the law? 4:22 For it is written, that Abraham had two sons, the one by a bondmaid, the other by a freewoman.

4:23 But he who was of the bondwoman was born after the flesh; but he of the freewoman was by promise.

4:24 Which things are an allegory: for these are the two covenants; the one from the mount Sinai, which gendereth to bondage, which is Agar.

4:25 For this Agar is mount Sinai in Arabia, and answereth to Jerusalem which now is, and is in bondage with her children.

4:26 But Jerusalem which is above is free, which is the mother of us all.

4:27 For it is written, Rejoice, thou barren that bearest not; break forth and cry, thou that travailest not: for the desolate hath many more children than she which hath an husband.

4:28 Now we, brethren, as Isaac was, are the children of promise.

4:29 But as then he that was born after the flesh persecuted him that was born after the Spirit, even so it is now.

4:30 Nevertheless what saith the scripture? Cast out the bondwoman and her son: for the son of the bondwoman shall not be heir with the son of the freewoman.

4:31 So then, brethren, we are not children of the bondwoman, but of the free.

Amen.

We hope you will be able to share with your friends and family and try and let folks know that they shouldn't be ruled by the fake woman, but by breasted God Almighty, by the Holy Ghost. For if you walk in the flesh you shall die. Eternal death, you can't make a mockery of the original. God Almighty can never be mocked. What you sow you will reap.

The image and the likeness of God Almighty is the goal for every man living and death. If you never had the hope of Christ in you, that you are wonderfully and fearfully created and made, what Joy is your fulfillment What are you living for

Don't be ruled by the snake, by weaknesses and lust of your flesh, seduction, crazy fashion, lustful, greedy, counterfeit display society.

You are free. Can we get Amen from you

skales67:
It is not uncommon anymore seeing marriages and relationships falling apart out of so many reasons bordering from infidelity, domestic violence and other reasons.

Other reasons may stem from incompatibility, financial hardship, sexual weakness etc but about 80% of these breakups are from the first two reasons i stated earlier.

In the event of a breakup in relationship or marriage between two people, for the reason of domestic violence or infidelity, one person is seen as a perpetrator while the other is seen as the victim.

As you all know, in most cases of these events, the men are seen as the perpetrators while the women are seen as the victims. All over social media, we see ladies and women of all ages screaming blue murder about how they made sacrifices for the previous men they dated and how they ended up being dumped by these men.

Many of them who are single mothers from previous failed relationship(s) or failed marriage come online at any slightest opportunity to vent about how their ex got them pregnant and absconded or left her to raise their child alone.

While i would like to truthfully point out that there are indeed dead-beat dads all over the place who are irresponsible, my personal experience has also taught me to be wary and made me look in-depth at the scenarios that come to play while being with a fraction of the women who fall in this category which made be draw a solid conclusion based on my analysis before crucifying the men these women have either been with or are currently with. Oh yes...women who are single and even MARRIED...yes...i have dated them all and even opened a thread about some of my escapades with some of the married women i have had affairs with (see the thread here if you wish to be entertained or "disgusted" depending on your social and "moral standing" in the society)

Before you begin to throw charades at me, ask yourself inwardly if you are any better. We all have done things which society may not be give us accolades for but it takes guts to come out in the open and admit it like i am about to do so read on.

Like i said earlier, women seem to place themselves on the receiving end of most failed relationships and marriage as victims and the men seen as the villian but i have discovered that this is mostly false in it's entirety because most of the time, the man does not speak up.

Between 2014 till date apart from single ladies whom i have had something romantically with, i took a census which arrived at 8 married women and about 9 single mothers i was involved with.

All these women had something bad to say about their present or ex partners except just 1 among them. The only one case who never bad-mouthed her hubby as a matter of fact broke up with me as she said she was feeling pangs of guilt after making out with me and going home.

We were coursemates in the university back then and never talked to each other while in school but got reunited via our alumni Whatsapp group where i found her more appealing and radiant after having 4 kids. I approached her online via Facebook, we started chatting and before you could say "Jack Robinson", we kick-started a steamy amorous affair which but lasted for about 4 months.

While we were together "doing our thing" we never had any serious form of altercation or arguments or fights unlike the other ones who were slandering their partners or ex-partners as the case may be. We only ended it because she still had that love and respect for her husband even though she was caught up in the heat of the moment when i was making passes at her (trust me, i am very sweet-mouthed and artistic in seducing women)

I decided to really sit down and do an in-depth research and analysis and found out that these women's husbands and exes were really not the problem but the women themselves because they eventually displayed their crass attitude which their husbands and partners experienced to me!

The only case i made an exemption of apart from the "coursemate" was the very first married woman i dated. She is a mother of 3 but presently separated from him because of his negligence and the crude behavior from her in-laws which i later investigated and found out to be very true.

Of the other women, i investigated their husbands and found out that for some, they were either slandering the man or there was very little truth in their claims but mostly, the man was being who he was because of the negative and TOXIC character which they eventually displayed to me in due course!

This made me realize that the only and most effective way of finding out if what a married woman says about her husband is true is to DATE HER and in no distant time, her true characteristics will surface because like they say, "A leopard cannot shed its spots"

These women go all over social media groups, talkshows etc talking about how bad men treat them while they are the problems themselves.

Painfully the society takes whatever they say seriously and begin to berate the man because when they narrate "their ordeals", they go emotional and the man is seen as the devil because when he is narrating his own side (that is if he is even given the chance and opportunity to do so) he is barely emotional but says it with either a vent of bile or a straight face.

I will in due course recount my experiences with these women starting from the very first i dated till the last one which i broke up with few days ago.

My reason for creating this thread is to change the narrative that women are generally the victims of failed relationships while to me, it seems it is largely the other way round.

I am not a religious person but the BIBLE which Christians read says in Proverbs 14 that "A wise woman buildeth her home but the foolish woman pulls it down with her own hands"...if we should interpret that passage to my own understanding, it can be said that THE MAN IS THE HEAD OF THE HOUSE while the WOMAN IS THE ONE WHO RUNS THE HOME! This is akin to a captain who steers a ship but the wife is like the ship mate who organizes the crew...if the crew becomes disorderly, the captain can be disoriented and that can wreck the ship!

If we should go with the narrative of the bible which say that the foolish woman pulls her house down with her own hands, then it is pertinent to say that so many of our women are really getting damn foolish these days because of so many broken homes we see and single mothers all over the place who lack decorum and display their brash attitude at any slightest given chance. (APOLOGIES TO THE FEW GOOD ONES WHO ARE THE REAL VICTIMS).

My fellow men, it is time for us to look inwardly...it is high time we begin to take the narratives of these slanderous women with a pinch of salt until we hear from the man's side or better still, try to get involved with the woman and no matter how hard you try to do things differently and better from "her husband or ex who she slandered" you will still get your own fair share of her venom!

A toxic woman will always be toxic even if she dates or marries JESUS CHRIST!

Will drop my harrowing encounters with some of these women whom i dated subsequently on this very thread so you all will learn from it!

Stay tuned!

KidDarkness:
But at least they need to give the guy some level of trust instead of marking their territory

KidDarkness:
I understand. It's difficult for most guys to come out straight and turn down other ladies for politeness sake. Instead of hurting their feelings he just plays along knowing nothing will ever happen with the other lady.

IamAngelica:
100% in support of this and i'm female..a high percentage of Nigerian women feel entitled to men to the extent that the man becomes their sole source of income which should not be so because as an individual, you owe yourself financial security and independence but most nigerian women prefer to be blood-sucking parasites instead of working for their money..i'm not saying he shouldn't buy you gifts but she should reciprocate (not boxers and singlets) and without these gifts she should be able to provide for herself, those gifts should be bonuses..girls that reason this way are seldom and will always be outnumbered..this in turn lead men to believe that every nigerian woman is like that too ;entitled, selfish, demanding and think that relationships are business deals..but dat one na talk for anoda day

FunnyDude:
Stop this complain. You're the man, go hustle and take care of your woman.That's the natural law of life.
If you don't want to take care of your woman, leave her alone and be single.

No one point a gun in your head that you must marry or be in a relationship.

santos123:
Only ignorant guys with nothing to offer don't knw the value of ladies.

pansophist:
No. People normally choose eatery because it looks nice enough, protects you both from the sun, dust, noise and rain that plagues Nigerian cities, and you can both just eat something. Nevertheless, going for a date can be in a park, or just taking a walk and sightseeing. Also if she likes you, she won't bother much about the first date location.

The need to be with you should be greater than the need to be impressed on the first date. Also, she should have been impressed by you before accepting your proposal for a date, so keep calm and play it cool.

KidDarkness:
Good idea, great innovation. Something like that is done because you can't tell the intentions of the other lady in this snatch and grab world we are in now

Supreme145:
So my girl went for a friends wedding yesterday, she was part of the bridal train. While we were chatting later in the evening I jokingly asked her how many guys asked for her number today, she said just one but she didn't give him because she doesn't like the guy I asked her why and she said the guy is short, we laughed over it and continued chatting
I asked her how hot the wedding was and she said it was OK that the reception took place in the church premises(she attends methodist), I said so no beer and she said yes just soft drinks, I told her I can't hold my reception inside church o cos there must be enough booze for ma guys. Naim babe say no o, say she no go fit allow alcohol in her wedding but I can take with my friends after the wedding and no playing of worldly songs too,wetin I go come dance naa? She said she will teach me how to dance to Christian songs.
Like play like play it was turning to an argument o,funny enough we are not even ready for any wedding cos we still have a year to go in school but I no come dey understand the way she come dey carry wedding matter on top head like gala, any small things na marriage talk, baby we will do this when we get married, if we get married I will do that, not like I don't want to marry her o but my bank account no dey tell me truth at the moment in fact I'm not even sure of any marriage in the next five years.
Naso babe take end relationship o,unto say as I insist say I must high beer and dance them davido and wizkid songs for my imaginary wedding. On a serious note I really love her, she's my longest serving girlfriend, I usually break up after dating for some months but I've been with her for 3years now and she's the best I've been with. She doesn't put me under any pressure, she was my saving grace during the lockdown while I was stuck in school but she's 24 and might not wait till I'm ready for marriage, I don't know if this is an opportunity for me to let her be.

KidDarkness:
Chai! Women! I'm certain the guy would only realize the reason after the kiss

tayewomi:
she don fall hand u ve know what she's made up pls if u later meet her jist us ooo,av tried my gf so many times but mehhhh na insults she use commot me,i too open another fb acct to chat her but babe passed my test good girls are still out there, Good luck

KidDarkness:
Was the French kiss necessary? Seems like you just wanted to mark your territory