Silentgroper: Burnt meat? What! .. Hw do u enjoy dat? Is it not going to get crunchy .. Cheese? ... I might jxt try dat. i'd do an almost burnt toast anytime, anyday.
Not quite burnt meat but really well done. I can't eat pink meat. Nothing rare or medium rare.
Silentgroper: I get like that too. Bt mine isnt natural, i was brought up to hate it. Mom would be like ' let me hear u do chum chum with ur mouth there, o ti yoo niyen' lol.
Harrysid: I've been having this same ability for some time now. I get attracted to so many energies. My mood swings a lot. It's like I have multiple personalities. It's like I can tell how a person is feeling once he or she walks into the room. Yesterday, I told my colleague " I hope you're getting better" she was shocked & wondered how I knew she was Ill all night. My mood affects everyone around, for example if I'm with someone or in a group and I am happy everyone will be happy, when I'm not laughing everyone mood will change. This is draining because I try every time to smile even when I don't want to. Seriously I'm scared sometimes, one time my colleague was seated in a canteen eating and she was making sounds with her mouth, immediately I said in my head "Victoria please eat calmly & don't make sounds" immediately she stopped. Sometimes I feel I put thought into others heads.
The sound of ppl eating irritates me. I don't know why n it's weird but it annoys the hell out of me. Can even make me irritated. It's called misophonea.
fayded: So many things... Umm.. I'm a cute guy,like very cute and u know everyone knows Dt. buh I hate taking pics...so many times people wanna take pics with me and I just use my hands to cover my face. My babe Dey fight wella before we take pics. Dunno why but I just don't like pics. I've never taken a selfie..
I love bushy hair.. If not for my course and professional, I for Dey like wole Soyinka.
I have social anxiety. I hate talking to new people or addressing people. I hate it when I see my pics on people's status or sumfn. It just gets me scared.. Dunno why..
I always laugh at myself when I Bleep up.always do dt. Like I find it funny. People around me would always be like, dude u re crazy. Buh to me, I feel like, I just have to laugh cos it was stupid or sumfn. After laughing sha, I pick myself up.
I dunno why, buh there are things I can only do with my left hand and not right hand. Buh I'm right handed.
And last buh not least, I hate attention, I always sit at the back wherever I go,and try to hide myself buh one way or the other, people always always seem to notice me.
I hate my picture taken most times n I don't like being on video. It's weird but I hate it.
Haryoife: Okay mine is not like being a weirdo though Wheever I Go to a new place or somewhere I've never been to... Immediately I do something I have this feeling of I've done this thing in this exart place before...
Deja vu. I get it often. Theres jamais vu too. It's the opposite. -Feeling like it's Ur first time doing something when U know for a fact you have done it before for example.
StacyO: As humans,we've once in a while come in contact with strange things or possess some very special talents (spiritually),which are known to us alone.
Sometimes we do things that are out of the ordinary,even without being aware of it.
I for one think we all have strange abilities we exhibit sometimes,we just don't know or accept it.
Some can interpret dreams,see visions,allergic to certain types of food,powerful with mind reading and some are just extremely smart.
**MINE: 1) Whenever I think before sleeping,I won't be able to dream again that night (might be common). 2) Whenever I think about something bad happening to me,it always ends up happening to someone else. 3) Whenever I'm unhappy or sad,others around me tend to be unhappy as well and always try to find ways to make me happy (I liked this at some point but then,stealing the happiness of others was not a smart thing to do. What to do?? "I tried to always stay happy" ) 4) People think I'm a siren. Shoved that aside anyway but,it scares the crap out of me**
Now don't you think truly, we live in a realm of strange things that even we ourselves can testify to?
If you have any fears attached to them,you can equally share and trust me,it will be half solved.
What makes you a bit weird,different, awkward or special?
Do well by using the comment section and dropping your views below
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I get deja vu alot. I have nightmares sometimes for weeks at a time each night. I'm able to tell myself I'm dreaming n to wake up out of a nightmare. Sometimes I feel like I know something when there's no way I can know n it turns out to be true. Coincidence? I don't know but can happen often sometimes. I get misophonea. I get irritated by the sound of ppl eating. Sometimes feel unjustly angry by it. Certain repetitive noises do it aswell sometimes. I have a bad habit of standing for long periods wen I can sit. I talk to myself sometimes lol. I carry a lip balm everywhere I go n most the time it's in my hand n I twirl it between my thumb n the next two fingers fast over n over for sometime's upto half hour n stop a few mins n start again n half the time I dnt realise I'm doing it til my fingers get sore. I do this off n on all day n can even fall asleep with it in my hand. I've done this for around the last 12 months. I don't know why. Even the skin on the side of my thumb is peeling yet I still do it Lol I'm a weird person My dr says it's all related to anxiety
debbiebianca2: Bride after paying money for a full make up for her wedding and her husband wanted to kiss her but the wife's reaction is something else.
She said "Dont Spoil My Make Up oo"–The Bride Tells Groom On Wedding Day.
ChidimmaOnwuokw: The first thing to note is that Nigerian guys and google don't relate. simply put, Google is not the right place to search things of that nature...our cultures are way to different.
Depending on the scenario, they are different ways to make him notice you.
let's assume you are walking in the street and saw this fine specimen(guy)that you really want, here's what to do next:
* once you notice him, you must make sure he catches you starting at him. If he has, smile widely, like you actually know him. Glance away for 5 seconds and fix your eyes back at him. Once you get closer, walk slower and still maintain a gentle smile. When you're just few feet from each other, pretend to step on your toes. don't fall oo. just pretend to fall. The reason you're doing this is to trigger the "Hero instinct" in him.
He would want to catch you because of the brief eye interactions between you both earlier.
If you can't pull this off, Here's an alternative action.
* once you are both few feet away from each other, Approach him. Tell him he looks like someone you know. call out a random name just to keep the conversation going. At the end of it all, just ask him for his digits.
Evaluation: I have tried it out a lot of times and it actually works 98% of the time.
Tip: 1.The key to pull of stunts like this is confidence.
2. please observe his reactions to your little moments before carrying out the next steps. some guys are the descendants of pharaoh
3. Dress nicely. psychology suggests that guys are first attracted to what they see first
4. Try and guess his spec in girls to avoid being friend zoned. Shorter guys go for taller girls. A guy of bbn Ozo's nature cannot settle for a below average girl na.
Good luck. I'd love to hear testimonies. I have an entire ebook dedicated to solving scenarios like this.
Na I prefer to start up conversation. Be honest n straight forward. Try make him laugh n feel happy so he remembers you. Playing silly little games is for teenagers. Real life isn't full of hero's and Prince charmings. Be mature n relaxed n just try talking to the guy U like. Don't put on pressures on him or yourself.
illicit: very interesting guy but weird because I have never encountered such theory....
Yeah it's weird. If Ur looking for interesting stuff check out now you see tv on utube channel. They're Christian guys who discuss alot of unusual stuff. Look up their list of videos on their channel n you'll surely find something that interests you. They're great. N back everything they say with research or scripture. Is like a radio show.
illicit: At Ilorin I was acquainted with this dude who believed that the human race was descended from Lizards and he even had a strange tale and theory about it.
He would always debate with anyone who cares to listen, he was even writing a book about it.
He respects Lizards. He calls them ancestors.
He thinks that lizards should be worshipped, yet he doesn't believe in supernaturality.
I don't know if there are others like him but I just think that he has his own theory of creation and life....
Sincerely atimes he will be almost convincing but then no matter what you still end up confused.....
PS the guy was in everyway normal but quite weird....
What do you think
Watch David Icke on utube. He'll tell U all bout reptilian race. He even believes queen of England n her bloodline are reptilian.
dermmy: The husband has tried as a man yet the wife remains adamant which is why he has to inform her parents. Mothers are good in handling issues like this. When her mother starts talking senses into her she would have a rethink, words like
"Where did you get this from, i never starved your father of sex i was even the one spoiling him with sex. Do you want a strange woman to take over your home? Do you want another woman to raise your kids? Please pity me i don't want any of my children to have marital problems"
Words like these coming from a loving mother should have effect on her. Do you understand?
Yeah if working it between them don't work then talking to the girls mother may help but yeah as a last resort. I wouldn't like my husband involving my mother in our Marriage but I'm not a difficult wife. In fact I strive to please my husband. Making him happy makes me happy. I try be the best wife I can n get my husband to love me the more. If U marry the person U love that's wat marraige is about. Building a beautiful happy life together n great sex life. Ion gotta get my husband to ask me cos I'm the one always seducing him
I don't understand some women. Unless U marry a man U don't love how can U not wanna build on that happiness n turn it into the perfect life, marraige n connection with the man U love
LagosInter: Indirectly defending the your fellow woman for her callous acts.
A man working hard to provide and be a good father is being treated badly and all you say is he should be a comdian to make her wife laugh and be going about trying to please her.
If she has any reason to deny him sex, she should say it, and shouldn't even wait for the husband to ask.
Haha. Na I'm not defending her. A woman shouldn't deny her husband. If she's not feeling well fair enuff but constant like this isn't good. Whatever it is yes she should be telling him. But I think there's nice ways if working it out. Going to her parents or taking things off her or cheating on her, a that will just cause resentment. It won't solve anything just intensify the situation. If U want a happy marriage U gotta have a happy wife n then she will make her husband happy. U don't want a resentful wife. I just think resorting to drastic or harsh measures should be a last resort.
dermmy: In the end after things have gone sour between the couple the wife's parents would still blame the husband for not telling them. You know naija parents now words like this would always come from them.
"And things like this were happening in your home and you couldn't inform us, if you had informed us we would have rein in after all she's still our daughter"
I would have adviced him to inform their pastor but the pastors we have these days can't be trusted.
Yeah I know. I just believe a marraige is between a man n his wife not their families n therefore they should work it out between them. I don't think it's right a wife denying her husband. I mean if she's not feeling well or something then fair enuff but constantly like that it's not a gud marraige. So I think he needs get her attracted to him.
tobechi74: What role do you play in her life? If financial, withdraw from it. Tell her you need money to service Ashewo. Come back late, tell her you are coming from a prostitute place
Flirt with girls in her presence,
Do not ask her for sex again.
If she dresses with some part of her body exposed, tell her she is too far or black etc. You do not find her attractive again.
Intentionally,buy a packet of condom and remove one and place it where she will see it
moneyshop: From people's experiences, most marriages do pass through this stage. After first child, there's always this rejection by the woman in MANY marriages.
I don't want you to see this little challenge as if you're passing through hell... No!
It's a phase that will soon pass. Whatever you do or plan doing, don't cheat on her. That will cause the main problem that you think you have now, and then it'll rain brim stones and fire. Be patient.
Don't follow the advice of any unmarried little kid that will come here to shout "SIMP," overlook them, they'll understand when it gets to their turn.
Keep treating your wife well, don't take the car away from her, don't punish her in any way, so long as it's only sex that is the issue, it'll soon pass.
Try and control your sexual urge, whatever you do at this trying time, will decide how peaceful your home will be. Be cool and handle everything in a matured way, she'll change by herself.
Hear me again bro, this too shall pass. It only needs patience.
some50686: Hi Everyone, i got married in 2018, We are both working class.. I am in my 34 while my wife is in her late 28. My wife has been denying me sex, we rarely have sex. sometimes we can go for over a month without sex. Whenever i ask for sex, she just complains she is tired and that is it. Sometimes i would plead and try yet she wont accept. What pains me the most is the way she react when i try to approach her. She would yell and begin to shout what nonsense is this, who is this now? To the point i only could initiate sex, sat morning and even with that she still refuses. Before we got married I sat her down and told her about this issue, that i hear about it from my married friends and dont want to experience such, she assured me and said our wont be like that but our is now worse. I am not sure we had sex more than 12 times the whole of last year.
The first time i sat her down, i asked her why she is doing all this to me, she complained i dont show her enough love, that she wants me to do more house chores, and also take her to eat outside and watch movies. I told her i will try. Although i knw am not the most romantic guy around, but i try the little ways I can, we sometimes go to see the movies. I do laundry on sat, help with ironing all the clothes she would wear during the week and cook a very few time. I ensured we got a maid so she wont be pressure by house chores. I also gave her my only car so she doesnt need to enter public transport, buy food from great eateries and even icecreams, almost every other week. But she has not changed, the last major fight we had was about 3months ago and it was about sex cause she denied me for no reason. Sex has always been the source of our quarrel. She was even telling me to go meet the maid since i am always so nice to the maid one time i tried to have sex. I really feel pained, like she is taking me for a ride because of my cool and easy going attitude. I have never raised my hand on my wife or even used abusive words. I even try to ask her how work is and gist with her to increase our bonding, yet all to no avail. I am someone who doesnt like going out to share and i believe the issue can only be fixed by the both of us, but this one is begining to drag for too long and from the look of things i am the one at the loosing end. I will go to my inlaws place and smile, nobody know how mean their daughter is to me, i too feel very ashamed raising the matter with my father inlaw. Last week i tried to initiate sex the same rejection, she is tired. I felt very frustrated and am now seriously considering cheating even though i am a Christian. Cheating is not right, cause it is expensive and emotionally draining, exposes one to STDs and it is against my Christian faith but what can i do? Sometime i have had to masturbate to suppress my sexual urge, but for how long can one continue to do this? I feel very ashamed coming to nairaland but what can i do. But dont get me wrong o, my wife has her good sides but this sex issue is really beginning to hurt and it does nt look like she would change anytime soon from the way she has been behaving.
Even if she doesnt find me attractive, should that be enough reason to continue to deny me sex after 3 months. Right now we are not speaking at the moment, cause i am mad with her. The next day after all she did, she come to greet me in the morning and acts like nothing happen. This is how she does and most time i always over look it, but the one from last week really hurt the most. I feel I have made a mistake marrying her. She also doesn't really care about my eating, most time she is only bothered about what our son and the maid will eat. I always have to go to the kitchen and look for what to eat, sometimes i get food outside. Even though i always drop food money. since we started quarrelling she has stopped cooking for me. Just very frustrated.
To the experienced married men in the house, what can i do the address this issue. I am considering collecting my car, not that it would be of any use to me , just to frustrate her
Coming from a woman's point if view...I think maybe U need make her fall in love with you over again. Try be more romantic n do things together like just U n her. Romantic things. Make her laugh often n make her want to be around U more. Women like men who make them laugh alot n they love being romanced. Some ppl marry n act like the romance was just a thing to get to the marraige stage but U gotta keep it up. She should be making effort too. Take her on a romantic dinner n talk things over openly n honesty. Find out her reasons for her denying you sex. Explain to her the kind of marraige you want n that U love her n want both of U to enjoy your marraige
Zzor: ok thanks alot but these Nigerian men have become leeches, they prey on hardworking women with the Intention of milking them dry and cunningly asking them to share bills, I hate that
Zzor: sometimes I feel you know me but hidding? am i right?
Lol how would I know U hun. What makes U say that? Am just trying to teach U to look for more in a man than money or what he can give you. If U pick a guy who's everything U want in a man sweet, kind, honest, faithful but broke n U inspire him, make him happy, encourage him to work hard aswell as U do Ur best, that man could become the man of your dreams. Also that man, if a good man, will love U n value you the more n never forget Ur the one who stood beside him. Too many girls these days place too much value on material things n money and I've had money n it doesn't buy you the most important things in life that eventually you'll crave for. Money doesn't make a man a good man. U just gotta find a decent guy. I know U need money in a place like nigeria here to survive but if U got a good man n make his life really happy n love him unconditionally he would be motivated to give U the best in life. Anyway just sum advice yeah. I don't know you. I only just came back to naija. I been abroad for a long time so I don't have a clue who U are. Just wanted to try let u see that there's good ways to find happiness n real love n loyalty hun
Zzor: Funny enough,the man already surprised my friend sha,a very big surprise,hes such a wonderful man after all
Lol hun just cos a man will give U or buy you things doesn't mean he's a good person. Bad ppl can have money too. She should get to know him first. It's possible a rich man can give you a miserable life and a broke man make you the happiest woman in de world. Or vice versa. Isn't bout the money
Romance › Re: Any Weird Thing About You?? by Mrscarter(f): 4:21pm On Nov 22, 2020
