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Peacefullove:
the op is speaking from a married woman point of view. Can you now get the womans dillema?

Doesnt matter. If U love your partner n they're away then U control yourself

maasoap:
So, you didn't see the other partner being used by you? You are funny

Not necessarily. Ppl can lead U to believe they want more than just sex.

lexy2014:
Is this not corona period where everyone is putting on nose cover?

Lol yeah but if U killing yourself how U gonna worry bout catching corona virus

Litonai87:
You know a thread is full of idiots, when everybody talk about cows, where there are donkeys.

Ikr



Feel bad for the animals. That's sick

greatbuc:
Pure murder. The crime scene is very unrelated to suicide. The killers did a very poor job.
Pointers:
He was probably killed before his body was lifted to the noose.. See the folded part on his trouser indicating he was lifted.
No stool or block to have giving him the height he needed to hang himself. How did he climb up to the noose?? If you say the hole in the walls then he should have been facing backwards and his foot should also be dusty and bruised. Poor job by the criminals.. Let them check how much was left for him to complete the instalment money.. Some people fit kill person so the bike will be theirs even when the instalment money is almost completed.

I think U could be right.
Howd he get up there n his trouser leg does look like he could possibly have been lifted.
If he did kill himself I wonder why he was wearing the mask tho?

paulolee:
higest na 15k for all night n her tight nunu n mad skills worth every penny....least na 2 small indomie without egg take enta one bea for year1 bk then....was shocked when she said she would come spend nite bt i should promise to prepare 2 noodles for her...
na after the indomie n i start work naim i kno d meaning of "to whom much is given, much is expected" bcoz dt sex no worth even one indomie at all..

Lol

Ishilove:
Size really doesn't matter


https://www.thedodo.com/close-to-home/rabbit-couple-romeo-lilly

Awww

Peacefullove:
Sure. i know
Just that u women love attention, which can be a weakness, one Guy shower u with attention during those periods.... and anything can happen.

.lol not necessarily

lefulefu:
na so

I dnt mean going without with Ur husband/wife lol. If Ur away from them then abstaining n being faithful.

ufotty2001:
Keep on acting like a saint and be decieving people. No wonder you register a new moniker in nairaland here to clean up your past life... I have met people like you before...!!! I bet you! what you are saying is fake and misleading.. just to lieu the innocent guys in... If you are genuine, reply me with your old account.. nairaland.

This is my first time on nairaland.
Lol I'm not a saint. I'm just me. I'm loyal and why's that so hard to believe.
Not every person is the same.
I don't want to lure anybody in lol. I have someone already. Why would wat I said lure anybody in.
I don't know how your mind thinks.
Why U think I need to lie? But it doesn't matter U can believe wat U like cos I know the truth n that's what matters.
Maybe you've never met a girl who can control themselves before?
Maybe U can't control yourself? So U think everyone is the same.
I pity U there that U think the worst of ppl.

TkhGuy:
Things you should never do with your wife or girlfriend if you want to be feared and respected by her.

This is Most women attributes

Firstly, you have to be familiar with these terms and know the right timing & applications,

Opposite sex, means a reprocation of what you did to her in ironically,

If you treat her hash get tough with her, she gets soft and treat you carefully with caution, if you respects her she will disproportionately disrespect you, if you admires her she will find you unattractive. If you get hot with her, she will get cold with you........Check

If we met a very beautiful lady right now and you tell her that she is an angel from heaven, she will step on you without thinking about it, but if I tell the same lady that she is as ugly as vulture, or too ugly to be seeing with me, she will get angry but at last she will follow me.

The strong men are strict and strictness codes that commands attention and respect is what I will be coaching you guys today.



If you are sure you want to be constantly in charge of a woman who is your wife or girlfriend.

1. Never compliment her in any way, never say it or write it as text just overlook it like it's no damn thing.
2. Never argue with her, arguing with her makes you a weak man, a strong man will slap his wife or girlfriend if she over steps her boundery & she will render a solid apology..
3. Be a new guy or man to her Everytime she met with you, be unpredictable & full of surprise.
4. If she did something wrong, scold her hashly so she will feel terrible about it, else she will do it again.
5. Be strict with her, let her do the worry if she asked you why you are strict, yell at her.
6. If she jokingly insult you, hit her if you have to and yell & rebook her to never try it next time.
7. If she starts a conversation with anything other than greetings like good morning after or evening
Ignore her, or Rebook her and rain insult on her about how untrained and stupid she is.
8. Don't call or be first to start a conversation with her, that will show you needy if, she start, try giving her a short and brief reply.
9. If she ask you how did your work go today, reply fine.
10. Don't tell her secret that only her knows or making her feel special..rather make others feel special so she will get puzzled up why you hate her,
11. Don't give her your pin number or making her a signatory to your account and no joint account.
12. Don't tell her stories or listen to hers, if you have to, tell her stories that ends with her knowing her boundery..
13. Don't tell her where you are going and when you will be back, if she ask you, tell her you will be back.
14. Never drop her what's app message if she is not online, or better still don't chat with her on WhatsApp and never ask her who she is chatting with on what's app or any social media that she is so busy with, but if you find her getting on long chat that she doesn't give you attention, snatch the phone & smash it to pieces right before her.


Once you conquered your wife, every woman that sees you will trade with you with fear, carefullyness and respect..

She will submits, most of them like 98% will stick with you hoping you will change, or try to change you by any means possible, that's why a strong and powerfull man are rare and never empty,
Provide her matterial needs but hold Her emotional needs with your strictness.. she will not stop reporting you to her mother & other women,, some will want to put love spell in your food, but if you have become a don, aka Odogbu you don't need to eat any food cooked by her or use any restaurant she visits.. [/b]

Women don't leave a man who have money that cheats and bully them.
But if you can't take care of her materialistic needs if you beat her she will want to fight or leave.

No woman under this Earth that will not hands down for you, she will not get to monitor your movement, she will not even think about touching your smartphones not to mention asking you the unlock code, she will treat your guest with respect as much as your brothers mother and relatives, she will not even think about cheating on you cos you are too mysterious,


The man who faces the most disrespectfulnes is a married man, the person who disrespectf him the most is his wife. But that same wife of yours respects other men she sees outside, so what went wrong, is over familiarity..

The funny side is that she will be proud of you and constantly seeks to make you come down to her level if you are following this codes

I don't give a Bleep about anything any pussy sucker have to say about these, go & eat shit..! That's the best you can do.. and will continue eating your own shit if you ignore this code, you will become a house boy, she will turn you against your own self and against your relatives..she will have your millions while poverty and disease will kill you, she will use your money to rent a guy and bang in your bedroom..
Look at the picture I uploaded very well that will be your duty roaster fool..

Oh sounds to me you should marry a park statue. Someone not allowed to talk, ask questions, be nice to you, call U, chat with U, know Ur secrets. She'll even be as cold as u. You'll be fine...there's alot if statues in Nigeria..oya U go pick one

TkhGuy:
Things you should never do with your wife or girlfriend if you want to be feared and respected by her.

This is Most women attributes

Firstly, you have to be familiar with these terms and know the right timing & applications,

Opposite sex, means a reprocation of what you did to her in ironically,

If you treat her hash get tough with her, she gets soft and treat you carefully with caution, if you respects her she will disproportionately disrespect you, if you admires her she will find you unattractive. If you get hot with her, she will get cold with you........Check

If we met a very beautiful lady right now and you tell her that she is an angel from heaven, she will step on you without thinking about it, but if I tell the same lady that she is as ugly as vulture, or too ugly to be seeing with me, she will get angry but at last she will follow me.

The strong men are strict and strictness codes that commands attention and respect is what I will be coaching you guys today.



If you are sure you want to be constantly in charge of a woman who is your wife or girlfriend.

1. Never compliment her in any way, never say it or write it as text just overlook it like it's no damn thing.
2. Never argue with her, arguing with her makes you a weak man, a strong man will slap his wife or girlfriend if she over steps her boundery & she will render a solid apology..
3. Be a new guy or man to her Everytime she met with you, be unpredictable & full of surprise.
4. If she did something wrong, scold her hashly so she will feel terrible about it, else she will do it again.
5. Be strict with her, let her do the worry if she asked you why you are strict, yell at her.
6. If she jokingly insult you, hit her if you have to and yell & rebook her to never try it next time.
7. If she starts a conversation with anything other than greetings like good morning after or evening
Ignore her, or Rebook her and rain insult on her about how untrained and stupid she is.
8. Don't call or be first to start a conversation with her, that will show you needy if, she start, try giving her a short and brief reply.
9. If she ask you how did your work go today, reply fine.
10. Don't tell her secret that only her knows or making her feel special..rather make others feel special so she will get puzzled up why you hate her,
11. Don't give her your pin number or making her a signatory to your account and no joint account.
12. Don't tell her stories or listen to hers, if you have to, tell her stories that ends with her knowing her boundery..
13. Don't tell her where you are going and when you will be back, if she ask you, tell her you will be back.
14. Never drop her what's app message if she is not online, or better still don't chat with her on WhatsApp and never ask her who she is chatting with on what's app or any social media that she is so busy with, but if you find her getting on long chat that she doesn't give you attention, snatch the phone & smash it to pieces right before her.


Once you conquered your wife, every woman that sees you will trade with you with fear, carefullyness and respect..

She will submits, most of them like 98% will stick with you hoping you will change, or try to change you by any means possible, that's why a strong and powerfull man are rare and never empty,
Provide her matterial needs but hold Her emotional needs with your strictness.. she will not stop reporting you to her mother & other women,, some will want to put love spell in your food, but if you have become a don, aka Odogbu you don't need to eat any food cooked by her or use any restaurant she visits.. [/b]

Women don't leave a man who have money that cheats and bully them.
But if you can't take care of her materialistic needs if you beat her she will want to fight or leave.

No woman under this Earth that will not hands down for you, she will not get to monitor your movement, she will not even think about touching your smartphones not to mention asking you the unlock code, she will treat your guest with respect as much as your brothers mother and relatives, she will not even think about cheating on you cos you are too mysterious,


The man who faces the most disrespectfulnes is a married man, the person who disrespectf him the most is his wife. But that same wife of yours respects other men she sees outside, so what went wrong, is over familiarity..

The funny side is that she will be proud of you and constantly seeks to make you come down to her level if you are following this codes

I don't give a Bleep about anything any pussy sucker have to say about these, go & eat shit..! That's the best you can do.. and will continue eating your own shit if you ignore this code, you will become a house boy, she will turn you against your own self and against your relatives..she will have your millions while poverty and disease will kill you, she will use your money to rent a guy and bang in your bedroom..
Look at the picture I uploaded very well that will be your duty roaster fool..

That's not a marriage/relationship that's a dictatorship. U want your woman to love n respect you? Treat her fairly n show U love her. Dnt mean U gotta let her walk all over you. I like wen my man tells me wat to do n wen he lays down rules n stuff. Even wen he scolds me. Only cos he's reasonable n fair bout it. He's the man therefore he's in charge. But if he treated me like Ur post is about wat would I respect or love.
I dnt want a pussy man but I don't want a dictator or slave master.
U can be a man n show love n tenderness what will your woman love bout U otherwise.

Fox12:
I accidentally eavesdropped on him on the phone(Having intimate conversation) with an anonymous girl.
Should I tell my sister about it?

U sure it wasn't Ur sister tho?

dairykidd:
Yeah long, fat, black n strong one

Lol

larryking540:
if u occupy the lady with one or 2 tins back home sex will be the last tin she will think of all day , except she has some virus call a friend's

U mean like bad influences? Yeah sometimes ppl make choices the way their friends do.
I used to be easily influenced as a teen

HIbreed:
you're wrong, every humans are different.

N I'm not wrong. It's not hard.
U just gotta change Ur mindset n have good reasons n have willpower.
For sum it's hard for sum it's easy.
It's easy for me. I'm not the same person I was ten years ago n I see things differently n make wiser choices

HIbreed:
you're wrong, every humans are different.

I'm talking bout myself.
Yes everyone's different but everyone's capable of it too.

Peacefullove:
Be realistic , Even the holy book says Husband and wife should not leave each other , they will be tempted. U think u are wiser than God ?

Being tempted n acting on temptation are two different things. Not everyone gives into temptation.

Peacefullove:
Abstinence before Marriage and after marriage are not the same ... Dont compare , Before marriage, most who abstained havent tasted how if feels like, so it was easy. After Marriage , your body now craves for it.

I didn't mention marriage.
I'm not a virgin but I can still control myself. But after I marry I won't have reasons to abstain from sex n yes I will want it all the time cos he's my husband n I will enjoy being with him. Controlling yourself from having sex(unmarried) isn't hard if U want to do so n have reasons.
Marriage is different no doubt

Ygrette:
Exactly. I've been without sex for 7 good years until I started dating again this year.

Yeah n guys just assume the worst bout it. If U sleep around Ur easy n if U don't your a liar or sum crap.
Not our fault some ppl dnt respect themselves n their bodies or that they don't learn control.
They act like it's so hard.
Not just guys but girls too.

GeneralPula:
Just say the Puna is getting wider... Hence the needed reason to abstain!

Lol quite the opposite. Why everyone gotta be so miserable just cos I know how to control myself n behave.

ufotty2001:
When you see a woman talk like this you will be shocked to know that she has over thousands of vibrators of different kind in her room... This kind of people are d worst to go into relationship with... They come here to look like a saint but I bet you they are not...

Never once in my life have I used a vibrator. n I think I'm the best type to go into a relationship with atleast U know I'm faithful n loyal n that everyone ain't Ben up in me lol.
I'm no Saint at all. Am just loyal n dnt think it's good to just sleep around n treat Ur body like a camping ground where tons of ppl can pitch their tent n sleep on whener they like.
Besides I love with my mum n brothers n their families atm so where will I have privacy for using a vibrator or hiding one

dairykidd:
It won't
There's one of the positions below..

Well he'd have to have a long one for that yeah lol

Respect55:
I was really rocked but I had to use my brain. There is more to life.

Yeah U deserve better than someone who is sly n decietful

Chino4NAUTH:
You passed through a normal hoeing phase most ladies pass through.. This one is just an afterthought which those currently hoeing now will also regret.. You enjoyed the fun and night stands while it lasted.. You only needed to settle down and now found out it wasn't needed having one night stand with random dudes when u can have a man all alone to yourself
Good you've found what suits u now

I only ever had a cpl one night stands but mostly my ex I was on n off with for many years he slept around cheated alot n I kept having him bk thinking I loved him n let him use me cos of it. I realised one day it wasn't love I felt it was just comfortable I'd know mostly just him n for so long n I wanted something real n better than that.
Wen U meet the right one U see things differently but even before that I was tired of settling for less than i really wanted.
Besides it isn't hard to control yourself especially wen U believe in your reasons for doing so

oyatz:
You are NOT wiser than God.

You are NOT more disciplined than God.

You are NOT more faithful than God.


When God created Adam and Eve, he put them in the same location- this is the order of nature.

However when humans try to be smarter than nature by doing the opposite, it often leads to problems.

This is akin to telling a Fish that it can survive for long and even thrive by living on the burning desert sand through more 'disciplined'

Lol sex is natural but so is having control of yourself.

Dubbuqueee:
U are not a real niggarr.,..

A real niggarr shouldn't be scared of death... because we all gonna die


A real niggarr should be scared of where he/she will b after death.

True

Connected1:
My Biggest Fear is my Weakness and it's my top secret.
I nor fit tell pesin.

U nor fit tell pesin

Ssumtry:
Death! should be very human greatest fear.

Na there's worse things than death.

Sameazy15:
As for me anything sha i fear unless it comes to lady matter

Ending up alone with no one to love me

Spiders/sharks
Being tortured

Losing a child/loved ones

The manner I die in(but not death itself)

Truvel:
Lol, In Ur Post, U Said She Has A Guy. Didn't U? Why Would U Want To Take A Risk Dat Would Cause Misunderstanding Btw U & Her Guy? Not Dat I Can't Tell U What To Do, I Can Tell U & U May Av It With Her Easily But D Consequency Above Is There.

Agreed. Op would U like some guy screw Ur woman? Surely U have better morals.i say find Ur own woman n stop fantasizing bout her. Coming into someone's relationship causing troubles will cause U stress in the end.

[quote author=LordviccoDaGuru post=94222058][/quote]Is her husband Ur friend?
If so then U know the rules.
I'ma chick n even I know the bro code